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Its funny how u go on fabs met some nice people have fun and then bang u find u match of no Hassle as lot of men not open to party's so on
Never get why it takes so long to find but of course I have again now
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By *opinovMan 5 weeks ago
Point Nemo, Cumbria |
I had a really lovely fwb I met here, but I haven't seen her since 2015. I miss her and the fun we used to have - jeez, we used to make eachother cum a lot. I'd love to enjoy that sort of thing again, but there doesn't seem to be many fun people near me. |
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I would love to find a female fwb or a naughty couple to build up a naughty relationship with. So if anyone out there is looking for a fwb, I'm fun, well mannered and respectful. It would be amazing to share fantasies and roleplay scenarios with other fun and filthy fabbers who are looking for some NSA naughty and filthy fwb relationships. So please don't be shy (I'm certainly not lol)come and say hello and let's have some fun together xx |
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By *IXEN200Woman 5 weeks ago
newcastle upon tyne |
I'd love a FWB but it's hard to find the right fit, and someone who appreciates it's more than just sex, a connection is what builds up trust and being able to satisfy each other learning to enjoy their bodies in ways you can't with a one off nsa type of thing |
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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago
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"I never actually thought it would be so hard to find a FWB, but now I do"
A good few people WANT to go for it, but never really follow up.
It's quite frustrating... Sexual fantasy often never seems to cross over to something physical.
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By *oxy jWoman 4 weeks ago
somerset |
i have 2 fwb one ive know 30 years one 25 years meet them both weekly sometime several days a week they are both frieds of me and hubs.. we are currently see a 3rd guy too that seems like it could turn into a fwb...
the trouble is so many people misused the fwb tag too many are looking for more and thats not fwb that wanting a relationship fwb is about fun nothing else |
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I met mine at a social event. Apparently she asked my partner if they would have any problems with them asking me for sex.
We see them social a couple of times a month (the friends bit) and they come round for sex with me once or twice a month (the benefits bit lol). |
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It’s hard to find a Good friend with benifits because most people aren’t reliable trustworthy and it takes time to build that trust!
If you find people who reply to messages in detail and seem friendly and kind keep them close and explore yourself with them when the time suits! Happy to chat x |
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"I'm lucky enough to have a fwb not locally though. Would be nice to have another that's closer."
This is me. I have a very special friend with whom I enjoy the most glorious experiences, but we live at opposite ends of the country. I’d love to find a sensual lady here in Scotland. |
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Have had 2 fwb in the past.
One was from school and both knew neither wanted relationship. It just wouldn’t work, but was a great fwb for a few years.
Other from a now defunct site. But she relocated and a 45minute drive each way for a fwb meet eventually was too much. Some regrets on that in hindsight but live and learn.
This site an achievement for a male or just me is an email is read!
Rarely with an email back, and extreme rare scenario it ends with a meet so fwb is unlikely.
Enjoy |
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Because they are conditioned that it's dating... Verses simply enjoying the opposite sex with no strings attached....
And some women have never been treated right sexually unless they were dating so I don't put the blame only on men..women need to be clear on what the like and want..Vs saying things to be perceived a way.
Some people just don't know better |
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"My longest fwb was 20+ years....now we are just friends x"
Same one is 24 years and going and a few to the 15+ years and going shortest is 2years and going..
Wives kids and grandkids in between but we are still friends w benefits |
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Both had fwb for a few years but Mrs pretty much stopped and now is up for it if the right guy comes along, I had 2 fwb and the Mrs at one point, but one moved away the othe wasn't well and stopped through I'll health.
I would definitely enjoy having a fwb again and hope the Mrs finds her one around the same time as it really seems to super charge our own sex life, high points are usually the reclaim sex as we tell one another all the details.  |
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Some lovely statuses
People do and yes can take a long time but end of the day we all and hopefully get beautiful naughty times thanks so much for your wow and truly amazing words keep them coming beautiful fab swing community   |
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My neighbour recognised me a while ago from here by my tattoo. We've been fwb for a month or so. Actually longer but now he's going to Australia so I wish I hadn't had him cause I stay with 1 man and now. How do you look again???? XxDxx |
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Reading the comments I am very lucky. I met a lady on here who has a husband who isn’t interested we meet once or twice a month, we never chat on the phone but occasionally text when an opportunity arises.
There must be many ladies out there in the same position. A desire, but no one to fulfil it |
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"My neighbour recognised me a while ago from here by my tattoo. We've been fwb for a month or so. Actually longer but now he's going to Australia so I wish I hadn't had him cause I stay with 1 man and now. How do you look again???? XxDxx"
Just keep looking on fabs and if u have a social with a man u can tell if they open minded or not but I always look in a man eyes and if they on they phone that's disrespect and definitely not worth your time
But the up side u found someone and u have good memories |
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By *MattyMan 4 weeks ago
Naked coffee house near you - Wiltshire - Swindon |
Good things take time and effort to find and work with, that said am still looking and trying.....a real connection that wants the same is tres difficile to find  |
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I have had two fwb one met off here and one of a dating site. Both stopped when they started wanting more than fwb. It’s a hard line as it’s great to get to know each other and know what they like and dislike so you can push boundaries but when it becomes regular and commuted it’s more of a relationship. |
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We're lucky to have another couple as fwb, we socialise as well as the fun and the friendship is so important to us.
We'd love to find another couple to have the same with but it's hard finding the right connection between 4 people |
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It is quite sad reading all these posts.
For a site set up for finding just that, it is surprising that is difficult for people to form connection beyond the sex and short of a relationship.
It’s always been easy to have fwbs. Just that a busy life on my part means it often fizzles out, so my fault. But I have never said no to more than sex with fwbs. Life is short so why restrict interactions with people you find attractive and interesting. |
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"I had a FWB many years ago, was fun while it lasted but that was pre Fab days. Working from home makes having a FWB harder for me now days for some reason "
I would have imagined it would be easier as no travel to and from work time. And being able to accomodate/have day meets. |
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Fuck buddies - yes.
Friends - not really. Very thin line between those two and I don’t want any kind of commitment. I like you and consider you as friend material if we fuck anyway but I don’t have the need to be constantly in touch or do other things together. If it happens organically however - happy days. |
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"I had a FWB many years ago, was fun while it lasted but that was pre Fab days. Working from home makes having a FWB harder for me now days for some reason
I would have imagined it would be easier as no travel to and from work time. And being able to accomodate/have day meets."
A lot harder I think post Covid it’s an expectation to be logged in all the time. Easier to have daytime meets when I have meetings in town etc |
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I'm married. That puts plenty of women of being a regular FWB with me. At least on Fab. My wife on the other hand has no problem with it. She encourages it.
I still have FWBs though but nothing super regular. Just freinds from the club (who know my wife and our thing) who I fool around with now and again.
Ive dated as well (but when I did it was just who I was dating and my wife).
So I guess I've been luckier than most here (though nothing lasted).
Not against trying again though.
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"Think some men forget the friend bit and just want the benefits! "
Agree with that. I hear stories and its why some females struggle to trust anyone. A lot forget what swinging is or use to be like. For me, laugh, chats, drinks and food with good fun. Unrushed fun together. Now its a quick bang and bye. |
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"I have had two fwb one met off here and one of a dating site. Both stopped when they started wanting more than fwb. It’s a hard line as it’s great to get to know each other and know what they like and dislike so you can push boundaries but when it becomes regular and commuted it’s more of a relationship. "
Yes that's the secret got to keep the two separate but it's fun while it lasts |
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"It is quite sad reading all these posts.
For a site set up for finding just that, it is surprising that is difficult for people to form connection beyond the sex and short of a relationship.
It’s always been easy to have fwbs. Just that a busy life on my part means it often fizzles out, so my fault. But I have never said no to more than sex with fwbs. Life is short so why restrict interactions with people you find attractive and interesting."
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"It is quite sad reading all these posts.
For a site set up for finding just that, it is surprising that is difficult for people to form connection beyond the sex and short of a relationship.
It’s always been easy to have fwbs. Just that a busy life on my part means it often fizzles out, so my fault. But I have never said no to more than sex with fwbs. Life is short so why restrict interactions with people you find attractive and interesting."
Yes so ture but it's swing life and people do have busy life's but when two get together and know each other's body's it's more of a utopia feeling |
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By *end1Man 4 weeks ago
southend on sea |
"It is quite sad reading all these posts.
For a site set up for finding just that, it is surprising that is difficult for people to form connection beyond the sex and short of a relationship.
It’s always been easy to have fwbs. Just that a busy life on my part means it often fizzles out, so my fault. But I have never said no to more than sex with fwbs. Life is short so why restrict interactions with people you find attractive and interesting.
Yes so ture but it's swing life and people do have busy life's but when two get together and know each other's body's it's more of a utopia feeling "
whilst a one off meet is fun having a fwb allows you both to explore more as you both get to know what turns each other on. And maybe explore more than what you may with a one off meet! And not just the sex good conversations food drinks etc. But theirs always that risk of one of you developing feelings which can then damage the friendship and the fab dynamic. |
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"Its funny how u go on fabs met some nice people have fun and then bang u find u match of no Hassle as lot of men not open to party's so on
Never get why it takes so long to find but of course I have again now
Love to hear some stories."
Well my last profile had a FWB and she was on here and yeah we partied as a couple was great but we both came off had a break and I came back and she didn’t gutted 😞 but would be nice to find another fingers crossed 🤞 |
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Ive been looking for a female FWB since forever. Seems to be like looking for a needle in a haystack) 
Inkeds happy for it to happen. Hes like it will be someone to keep you entertained through the day...be it socially or naughty
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By *dc1Man 4 weeks ago
essex and all over the south |
Ive had 2 fwb in the past. Both long term. Last one was 5 years but now no more. They always think they have the right to tell you what to do. And then it spoils it. Nope never again. |
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"We had a single gent for a year and want that again. Built up a lot of trust together and pushed boundaries between the three of us. Lincolnshire is a very big county, if it wasn't I'd volunteer myself x
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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago
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Honestly with my sex drive a FWB who matches my interests and humor and is EITHER discreet or open is good for me.
One-time stuff is fun and all, but playing a good few times is much more interesting.
A lot of people tend to 'dissapear' when they realise someone wants to actually meet. It's... strange.
Cold feet or 'personal play' material perhaps. |
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