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Do chubby men get over looked
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By *oxy jWoman 12 weeks ago
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men of all types get over looked kust because of the sheer number of men to how few couples n women there are especially when you think half the couples and womens profiles are fake run by single guys add in those on here who dont play too that does not leave many real people for the ridiculous amount of men to meet add in attraction and preference its quickly becomes almost impossible for most men |
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"Do chubby ladies get overlooked?
Are all guys looking for a 6ft slim blonde - no.
Same applies to men.
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I agree, certain women will get more attention than others but please, let's not pretend that if you have breasts and a vagina it matters not how attractive you are you will get more attention than the most attractive man. |
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"I'm on the chunky side but I still get meets. It must be my great smile and winning personality  "
This is the right approach looks and appearance are everything. Your confidence and conversation skills correct demeanour play just a big part. |
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"Do chubby ladies get overlooked?
Are all guys looking for a 6ft slim blonde - no.
Same applies to men.
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Women have an advantage on here. They have a vagina so it counteracts alot of of usual preferences with some guys . |
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"men of all types get over looked kust because of the sheer number of men to how few couples n women there are especially when you think half the couples and womens profiles are fake run by single guys add in those on here who dont play too that does not leave many real people for the ridiculous amount of men to meet add in attraction and preference its quickly becomes almost impossible for most men"
Nail on the head  |
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I am on the larger side but I am not putting my lack of success down to that only. Take a cross section of 100 profiles on this site. My rough guess is that 90 of these are single men, 5 are couples (some of which may be a single male pretending to be a couple), the remaining 5 being women. These wimen will be overwhelmed with messages and won’t physically have the time to read them all. I saw this when my wife had a profile on another site.
I believe that not being able to accommodate is probably a bigger minus point for me than my appearance. Even if my wife and I had a couples profile, we have kids at home, so this would not change. Unfortunately, anyone with a lot of choice at their disposal is always going to choose a nice comfortable and private bed rather than the back of a car. |
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"I am on the larger side but I am not putting my lack of success down to that only. Take a cross section of 100 profiles on this site. My rough guess is that 90 of these are single men, 5 are couples (some of which may be a single male pretending to be a couple), the remaining 5 being women. These wimen will be overwhelmed with messages and won’t physically have the time to read them all. I saw this when my wife had a profile on another site.
I believe that not being able to accommodate is probably a bigger minus point for me than my appearance. Even if my wife and I had a couples profile, we have kids at home, so this would not change. Unfortunately, anyone with a lot of choice at their disposal is always going to choose a nice comfortable and private bed rather than the back of a car."
Exactly this.. fully single no kids and I'm not interested in being someone's sneak, secret, or afterthought. |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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As a chubby guy I sometimes think so but then I find a woman or couple that are interested and I just forget about others that may have overlooked me I find it better not to dwell on those who aren’t interested in me |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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How do we know we're being overlooked because we're chubby and not for some other reason.
I think I'm overlooked simply because I'm not the kind of guy they like the look of |
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"How do we know we're being overlooked because we're chubby and not for some other reason.
I think I'm overlooked simply because I'm not the kind of guy they like the look of "
Not judging as requested, but I would seriously consider making your profile pic private. Imagine the carnage that would ensue if your wife finds out you are looking for sex on a swingers site and are bi ( which may come as another surprise to her). Her sister, best mate, work colleague etc may be here too and feel obliged to tell her. Sounds like a sure fire way to halve your assets. |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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"How do we know we're being overlooked because we're chubby and not for some other reason.
I think I'm overlooked simply because I'm not the kind of guy they like the look of Not judging as requested, but I would seriously consider making your profile pic private. Imagine the carnage that would ensue if your wife finds out you are looking for sex on a swingers site and are bi ( which may come as another surprise to her). Her sister, best mate, work colleague etc may be here too and feel obliged to tell her. Sounds like a sure fire way to halve your assets. "
Looks like he took your advice. |
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I think I get overlooked by women for 5 reasons
1. My (lack of) height (can't change that)
2. My age (can't change that either)
3. I openly state that I am bi
4. My build
5. The fact I am hairy
Throw into the mix that I don't do overnighters, I rarely accom, I'm not into chatting for months on end before a social, I won't blow smoke... and, yeah, my chances of meeting a woman (outside of a club) are slim to non-existent
So, my build may be an issue to some, but it isn't the main inhibitor for many |
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I’m a chubby guy and I don’t think that has anything to do with it, however we all have our preferences so no one can be criticised for that. It is purely a numbers game. It’s all about standing out from the crowd which will never happen in here.
Which is why clubs and parties are the best option. You get to meet new people and show other characteristics you have which you just simply can’t in here.
It’s your journey and it’s all down to you what you make of it xxx |
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"I think I get overlooked by women for 5 reasons
1. My (lack of) height (can't change that)
2. My age (can't change that either)
3. I openly state that I am bi
4. My build
5. The fact I am hairy
Throw into the mix that I don't do overnighters, I rarely accom, I'm not into chatting for months on end before a social, I won't blow smoke... and, yeah, my chances of meeting a woman (outside of a club) are slim to non-existent
So, my build may be an issue to some, but it isn't the main inhibitor for many"
I agree that it is quite often other reasons rather than carrying a bit of timber-I think for me it’s more the reason that I can only very rarely accommodate and that as I very openly state, I am married (wife knows I am on this site) and that we play separately. Basically if there were two profiles-mine and another-almost identical-but the other guy was unattended and could accommodate, then guess who will always come out on too? Given a huge choice-it would be a comfortable bed with zero risk of drama. So you are certainly right about other reasons being more likely than appearance alone. I could lie and say I am single but I won’t do that. |
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