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how to get a girl into swinging?
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over a year ago
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We've met lots of couples at clubs where the females feels forced into doing it to keep their partner happy.
Madness - it should be a 2-way agreed partnership. Not 1 sided emotional blackmail.
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"We've met lots of couples at clubs where the females feels forced into doing it to keep their partner happy.
Madness - it should be a 2-way agreed partnership. Not 1 sided emotional blackmail.
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We've met couples socially where it's clear that one or the other (not always the woman)isn't happy about the situation. Needless to say we don't take things any further no one wants to be party to coercion or have sex with an unwilling partner.
Which is why OP you need to discuss swinging with whoever it is you'd like to join you and if their answer is no leave it there. |
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over a year ago
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ask her about her fantasys and see if any of them could lead her in that direction see where you both end up, but just enjoy what u both have gently pushing boundrys, be open minded and accept where it may lead? |
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over a year ago
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Completely agree with the posters above who have met people with reluctant partners. I made that mistake once and never again!!! OP please approach the lady in question with tact and respect her answer. Your use of the word 'get' is concerning. Tread carefully and good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As others have said, talk to her. But accept that for many people, this lifestyle is not something they would be interested in so while she may be receptive she may be horrified.
And I'd echo all the other comments that there is little worse than a couple where one party is only involved to keep the other happy. They are usually easy to spot and it will never end well. |
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over a year ago
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It's not something you can 'get' someone into. For us when we started seeing eachother we spoke about our sexual experiences and interests and it was clear we both had a kinky streak! It was something we had both always wanted to try and things developed from there. |
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If you want "get" her into swinging you could try the old " Here love does this rag smell like chloroform to you?" That may end you up in prison....
Or you could try talking to her, it took a couple of years talking about it before we were ready to try. We're glad we waited until we were both ready, now we love it.
Push her to hard/soon and you'll put her off for life...
Finally with swinging the woman is in charge. If you can't accept that you shouldn't be swinging!!! |
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"We've met lots of couples at clubs where the females feels forced into doing it to keep their partner happy.
Madness - it should be a 2-way agreed partnership. Not 1 sided emotional blackmail.
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