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Hopefully I’m in the right place to ask this but how small is too small? Cock wise obviously. Or is there no minimum? Asking for open mindedness and honesty. I have no public cock pics but anyone with the time and honesty I’m happy to privately DM, let me know whose game below. Thanks |
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"Anything less than 7 inches. "
No offense but you're a straight guy what perspective have you got on the size of a cock?
It is not as simple as just a mater of size it is also what you do with it that count a perfectly rock hard 5 inch cock can give as much pleasure as a bigger one if used properly. The sensations and how they feel inside are different.
however it does need to be big enough for me to feel it though
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By *vaRose43Woman 21 weeks ago
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If it looks like a tic tac on a space hopper 😉
Seriously though, one of the best nights I’ve ever had was with a guy who was decidedly under the U.K. average. He knew exactly what he was doing and I have very fond memories of that time |
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"Hopefully I’m in the right place to ask this but how small is too small? Cock wise obviously. Or is there no minimum? Asking for open mindedness and honesty. I have no public cock pics but anyone with the time and honesty I’m happy to privately DM, let me know whose game below. Thanks "
You're gonna get a bunch of differing answers depending on who you ask. Some people literally don't care as long as fun is had, right up to size queens who won't even look at anyone under 10 inches. Everyone has their own idea of what the minimum is, and I doubt you'd find a consensus on which you could base a solid conclusion. |
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I used to worry about the size of my cock, it won’t win prizes that’s for sure, as I grow a bit older though, I see attraction more important, even if it’s raw passion, if it feels right and is right, physical attributes tent to take a back seat for me. |
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By *oxy jWoman 21 weeks ago
somerset |
variety is the spice of life but there is a cut off point for me so i say average and above so 5 inches and up anything below that would not be for me ..
and before the wizard sleave jokes sorry to disappoint but shes tight n dandy
the thing is a lot of people join this lifestyle for things they want or to try so people tend to be more picky in what they seek but everyone is different alot of women really dont care and are happy with a fumble so are not ... guys youve got what youve got seek those who are looking for you ....
also bare in mind what alot of people say is not what the do they just want to come across kind but in reality its these women sometimes seeking bigger |
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"Hopefully I’m in the right place to ask this but how small is too small? Cock wise obviously. Or is there no minimum? Asking for open mindedness and honesty. I have no public cock pics but anyone with the time and honesty I’m happy to privately DM, let me know whose game below. Thanks "
I've found that the minimum size is when they laugh at me and promptly run away 🤣 |
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I personally prefer a 7 or above.
I like both the G spot and the A spot to be thoroughly stimulated and I find smaller than 7 just doesn't quite do that for me, I struggle to cum without it.
However, the average is like 5-5.5 so I think the majority would probably be quite happy with that |
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"As long as it gets rock hard and provides plenty of cum I'm not fussed, however nice and thick and about 8/9 inches and I'm not going to complain.
But a rock hard repeater is a must."
Rock hard repeater is like my middle name  . But not the 8 or 9 inches - I'm somewhere above average but not near that.
What I really came in here to ask, though, is: is it not really hard to find men that big? I had a look at the size charts and you're already down at only 5% of men at 16cm (6 and a bit inches). 7 inches is under 1% and I couldn't even read the probability for 8 or 9 inches.
The average is 5.2 inches, just for info to complete this post. |
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"As long as it gets rock hard and provides plenty of cum I'm not fussed, however nice and thick and about 8/9 inches and I'm not going to complain.
But a rock hard repeater is a must.
Rock hard repeater is like my middle name . But not the 8 or 9 inches - I'm somewhere above average but not near that.
What I really came in here to ask, though, is: is it not really hard to find men that big? I had a look at the size charts and you're already down at only 5% of men at 16cm (6 and a bit inches). 7 inches is under 1% and I couldn't even read the probability for 8 or 9 inches.
The average is 5.2 inches, just for info to complete this post."
Hardness is far more important than size. |
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"Hardness is far more important than size."
Thanks for getting back.
My thought since then is that maybe the guys who are worried that they are too small can take solace in the fact that they probably are closer to average than a look around fab would suggest.
And also that quite a few ladies, like yourself, hove posted to say that size isn't the only thing to consider.
Get practising lads - make yourself the better lover |
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"As long as it gets rock hard and provides plenty of cum I'm not fussed, however nice and thick and about 8/9 inches and I'm not going to complain.
But a rock hard repeater is a must.
Rock hard repeater is like my middle name . But not the 8 or 9 inches - I'm somewhere above average but not near that.
What I really came in here to ask, though, is: is it not really hard to find men that big? I had a look at the size charts and you're already down at only 5% of men at 16cm (6 and a bit inches). 7 inches is under 1% and I couldn't even read the probability for 8 or 9 inches.
The average is 5.2 inches, just for info to complete this post.
Hardness is far more important than size."
My cock is so hard it's just asked me outside for a fight. |
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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"As long as it gets rock hard and provides plenty of cum I'm not fussed, however nice and thick and about 8/9 inches and I'm not going to complain.
But a rock hard repeater is a must."
How much is plenty of cum? |
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"As long as it gets rock hard and provides plenty of cum I'm not fussed, however nice and thick and about 8/9 inches and I'm not going to complain.
But a rock hard repeater is a must.
How much is plenty of cum?"
More than a thimbles worth. But no more than a tablespoon. |
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"As long as it gets rock hard and provides plenty of cum I'm not fussed, however nice and thick and about 8/9 inches and I'm not going to complain.
But a rock hard repeater is a must."
So rock hard, heavy cummer, longer and thicker than average and repeater, got it. Other than that, there are basically no barriers to entry, so OP has nothing to worry about  |
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By *ony MannMan 21 weeks ago
Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura |
"Don’t be worrying about the size of your cock as if it’s anything like mine it will grow in size as you get older.
In the late 80’s my cock was the size of a mars bar…..now it’s way way bigger. "
That is good news, I'll look forward to a king-size.
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"Well I'm feel I couraged by some of the comments on this post 
As someone who's average size, then lovely comment on this post gives me hope . For your information I'm 6.5" "
Seeing as how I already looked up the size charts and everything...
6.5 inches is well above average. The largest 5% of men are about 6.3 inches or above, so you're well within that range. Maybe within the largest 3-4%?
Hopefully that helps put you at ease. |
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I think a lot of us read Adrian Mole diaries as a kid and he was obsessed with measuring from memory flaccid and erect. Think that’s where a lot of people think 6”-6.5” is standard.
I was surprised to find out it was below 5.5” in UK and that UK has below average size compared to rest of the world. |
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By *andb13Couple 21 weeks ago
Bradford |
"Hopefully I’m in the right place to ask this but how small is too small? Cock wise obviously. Or is there no minimum? Asking for open mindedness and honesty. I have no public cock pics but anyone with the time and honesty I’m happy to privately DM, let me know whose game below. Thanks "
From.what I heard if you measure yours then you will have the answer of what is too small lol |
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I'd say it's not always about length, a girthy 5 inch can be a lot more satisfying than 9 inch thin, personally. However it does also depend on foreplay too, it's not just about the whack it in and bang away!
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Can I turn this around slightly and ask about the things that men *can* change about themselves?
How important are things like stamina? Skill and experience? Imagination and adventurousness?
Cards on the table: I'm hoping that the answer will be that they are important. And maybe that will motivate a wave of self improvement, rather than fatalism. |
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