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What puts you off a profile?
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We all will no doubt view several profiles a day. There's lots we'll like the look of but curious to know what puts you off?
Zero pictures?
Condescending tone and demand you jump through hoops just to hope you may get a message back?
Too many verifications or not enough?
Discuss!
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Bad photo’s (too much genitalia, too many close up's, mess in the background, anything on the toilet)
“fill in later” (why not try filling it in now? Might be helpful to get you somewhere
“looking for exceptional”, who describes themselves that way, plus generally asked by people who are punching if they did…..
The fab warning (Sydney, photos, privacy etc- as much use as a wet through cardboard box)
Anyone who says “you’s”
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"Bad photo’s (too much genitalia, too many close up's, mess in the background, anything on the toilet)
“fill in later” (why not try filling it in now? Might be helpful to get you somewhere
“looking for exceptional”, who describes themselves that way, plus generally asked by people who are punching if they did…..
The fab warning (Sydney, photos, privacy etc- as much use as a wet through cardboard box)
Anyone who says “you’s”
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Ha ha yes all of this, described perfectly. |
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No pictures, no profile text, nothing to connect with.
Dick pics as profile pictures or taking up more than 60% of the gallery.
"Looking for like minded" with absolutely no indication of what their mind is like.
Professional. Discreet. Discrete. Up for anything. No limits. Anyone calling themselves an Alpha or Daddy.
Lack of effort. Lack of personality. |
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Hoops in a serious way. Some of them, however, are quite comic and you can tell the writer is just fed up, which I like.
Any pics that say 'fab for this/that'
Words like 'exceptional' wind me up as well. If someone describes themselves as that, how can you take them seriously |
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Nailing a good profile is quite difficult and looking at the comments, I get the dick pic ones, but that’s what I went with, if people are intrigued enough then I have full length and face pics in mine.
Personally I get out off by a lack of effort, if their profile lacks character then it’s likely they do as well ! So I like a profile that gives away just a little personality. Enough to intrigue me to write. |
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By *oxy jWoman 23 weeks ago
somerset |
lots but im not going to list them because to me they are part of my filter ...
people need to do there profile that show who they are and what the want just be you so others can make a honest decision ....
profile advice should be banned  that will stir a few goody goody's |
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Profiles that say ‘I read your profile and I align with everything you say’ and they have no profile pic, no or hardly any pics or mostly dick pics and a basic bio 🤦🏻♂️
Crude/rude or one line messages.
Discrete - I will always think they have a partner - always.
Any profile with bull/VWE/hung in
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By *WANDTGCouple 23 weeks ago
Borough of Greenwich |
Anyone who has " we are a professional couple " on their profile.
Also any woman who says they are " sapiosexual " , yeah right.
So Albert Einstein or Steven Hawkings gets first dibs over Brad Pitt or George Clooney !!! |
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" curious to know what puts you off?
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Racism, including fetishisation.
Blank/one liner profile text.
Nowt but zoomed in genital and/or action shots.
Negging.
Sydney university/publically traded entity nonsense.
Big long list of requirements.
Big long list of things they hate about this site.
Think that'll do for now ..... |
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By *HUSH-Man 23 weeks ago
London |
Lack of a bio - I can’t be arsed to message you if you don’t say anything about yourself.
Rants - save it for the forums
Arrogance - Sure, you might be good looking but you’re not gods gift to humanity. No one is.
Verifications - I don’t care how many you have but I don’t need to know that you’ve been air tight all weekend and taken multiple loads from guys while your hubby (who doesn’t know you’re on this site) is away.
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Tons of pictures that contain 90% of the different people they're fucking and maybe 5-10% of themselves, especially when there are clearly loads of bareback pictures with different partners and their profile says "safe sex".
No information on profile.
Gaping arseholes or vaginas, spunk dribble pictures or nothing but dick pics. |
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By *ucka39Man 23 weeks ago
Newcastle |
Disclaimer, limited bio Will fill in later which later missed the last train
No photos but requested photos otherwise message doesn't get a response 🙄
Using photos taken from the web, it's creepy behaviour 🤔 |
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By *yreGuy99Man 23 weeks ago
Somewhere in Moria |
The only things that really bother me are.
Anyone demanding payment to have a conversation with them. Like they deserve it.
And the majority of men not knowing the definition of the word straight.
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By *oxesMan 23 weeks ago
Southend, Essex |
"We all will no doubt view several profiles a day. There's lots we'll like the look of but curious to know what puts you off?
Zero pictures?
Condescending tone and demand you jump through hoops just to hope you may get a message back?
Too many verifications or not enough?
Discuss!
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One sentance profiles. |
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Might need to redo our profile 
We'll avoid new profiles, ones where mobile GPS says they are 1200 miles away when they should be 30 (yes I know holidays) no profile pics, lack of bio, messy dirty looking photos and bad spelling and grammar (even though we just as guilty) |
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"Blank profiles
Profiles that only contain dick pics.
Couple profiles which only show the female half...."
Or couples profile with just the M pics!
Makes you wonder!
Feel.free to pick my profile apart! |
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"Blank profiles
Profiles that only contain dick pics.
Couple profiles which only show the female half....
Or couples profile with just the M pics!
Makes you wonder!
Feel.free to pick my profile apart!"
2 many dick pics for me and action pics with a female. Always wonder on a singles account if consent has been given for the pics to be shown. |
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Lots:
- no effort in their text: either one vague sentence or the good old "ask me".
- just having cock pictures
- action shots (usually bare!) Which shows more of the female than the guy
- messy backgrounds
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"Blank profiles
Profiles that only contain dick pics.
Couple profiles which only show the female half....
Or couples profile with just the M pics!
Makes you wonder!
Feel.free to pick my profile apart!
2 many dick pics for me and action pics with a female. Always wonder on a singles account if consent has been given for the pics to be shown."
Fair comments!
I guess the same goes for couples who show pics playing with others... we'll never know!
In my case yes consent has been given... hence me showing them.
As for the number of cock pics.. I could reduce them !
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"Blank profiles
Profiles that only contain dick pics.
Couple profiles which only show the female half....
Or couples profile with just the M pics!
Makes you wonder!
Feel.free to pick my profile apart!
2 many dick pics for me and action pics with a female. Always wonder on a singles account if consent has been given for the pics to be shown.
Fair comments!
I guess the same goes for couples who show pics playing with others... we'll never know!
In my case yes consent has been given... hence me showing them.
As for the number of cock pics.. I could reduce them !
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Let's be honest, no-one is going to admit to not having consent. |
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"Blank profiles
Profiles that only contain dick pics.
Couple profiles which only show the female half....
Or couples profile with just the M pics!
Makes you wonder!
Feel.free to pick my profile apart!
2 many dick pics for me and action pics with a female. Always wonder on a singles account if consent has been given for the pics to be shown.
Fair comments!
I guess the same goes for couples who show pics playing with others... we'll never know!
In my case yes consent has been given... hence me showing them.
As for the number of cock pics.. I could reduce them !
Let's be honest, no-one is going to admit to not having consent."
That's true!
Loved your pics before you hid them 
Thanks for the feedback BTW! Very much appreciated 🙏 |
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There's some good tips here that I have picked up. I really struggle to write a profile that is positive. I think partly it stems from growing up with a low opinion of myself.
I say this hesitantly, but absolutely happy for *constructive* critiques. |
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“Club meets only”…..
Profile pics with mostly black guys in….
Any profile which demands a face pic with your first message….
Shouty, negative profile text, with the likes of “You must do this, you must do that, I don’t do this, I don’t do that” etc…… |
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No photos at all with a demanding "you muat send a face pic before I even consider responding" type message.
Or, "I don't have a type" and the veris show an extremely common theme which chunky bucko here does not fall into haha |
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One line or negative bio's are not very enticing.
Poor selection of pics, so you don't really good idea of who you are trying to connect with.
I'm not overly fussed if they don't have veri's, everyone needs to start somewhere right?
I'll give anyone the time if day if they float my boat.😊
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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"We all will no doubt view several profiles a day. There's lots we'll like the look of but curious to know what puts you off?
Zero pictures?
Too many verifications or not enough?
Discuss!
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Condescending tone and demand you jump through hoops just to hope you may get a message back?
This!
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No public pics and one line of text ie ask or fill in later
Profiles that are full of cock or action shots.
Anyone cheating on a partner.
Constant updates like balls need emptying or horny who is sucking etc.
Having a meet request up everyday.
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Couldn't care less about a person's profile. I gave up approaching people on fab ages ago because its all moot.
My wife and I do most of our thing through clubs and socials. Learned a long time ago you can meet the most amazing of people who have barely anything of intrest on their fab profiles just as we met some people who where not what their profiles made out...or not even the people in the profile at all.
Best advice i can give is...nothing beats real world interactions.
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The list can go on and on really can't it but I would say black profile not being verified for over 12 months pics of you bits everywhere can not accommodate can not travel verifications are webcam  |
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"No pics & veris. Without either it's tough to get past"
The irony there being that it's impossible to get veris if everyone discounts those without.
I get your point, but everyone has to start somewhere, and there are jus as many time-wasting/terrible people on here as there are those without. |
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"No pics & veris. Without either it's tough to get past
The irony there being that it's impossible to get veris if everyone discounts those without.
I get your point, but everyone has to start somewhere, and there are jus as many time-wasting/terrible people on here as there are those without."
I used to think that but there are big socials and clubs where men can get verifications from. |
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I always look for a flag for photo verified, profile photos and veris ideally. Love a torso shot, always nice to see a face once messaging starts and do really live cock pics…. I mean that’s what I wanna suck and fuck do let’s see the goods! Love a bit of imagination and always looking for young with stamina and a bit more than just naughty. Humour but not a comedian! |
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"Bad photo’s (too much genitalia, too many close up's, mess in the background, anything on the toilet)
“fill in later” (why not try filling it in now? Might be helpful to get you somewhere
“looking for exceptional”, who describes themselves that way, plus generally asked by people who are punching if they did…..
The fab warning (Sydney, photos, privacy etc- as much use as a wet through cardboard box)
Anyone who says “you’s”
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Exactly this ☝️ |
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