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What's the best swinging advice you have given or received? Let's share the wisdom.
The one I give out very often is: "No-one owes you their time. Don't assume because you initiated that you will get anything back." |
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"What's the best swinging advice you have given or received? Let's share the wisdom.
The one I give out very often is: "No-one owes you their time. Don't assume because you initiated that you will get anything back.""
That's one I tend to give as well: that you aren't owed anything by anyone here, particularly to a message that's technically unsolicited, and you need to have the fortitude to accept that not getting a response is equivalent to a "thanks, but no thanks". |
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""Come with hope, not expectation". What I say to single men on their first visit to a club."
Havnt been to one yet but honeslty when I do, I'm just gonna go with the flow and enjoy a nice drink or too.
Anything happens cool if not no sweat.
Making a friend or 2 is good enough for me  |
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""Come with hope, not expectation". What I say to single men on their first visit to a club."
An amazing one. My first visit to a club was as a +1 to a couple. I spent the whole time enjoying the views and trading stories of sex adventures. I went home satisfied and with a lot of sex positive open minded friends. |
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""Come with hope, not expectation". What I say to single men on their first visit to a club.
An amazing one. My first visit to a club was as a +1 to a couple. I spent the whole time enjoying the views and trading stories of sex adventures. I went home satisfied and with a lot of sex positive open minded friends."
I'm looking for that, I have friends but not ones that would understand what my brains thinking about right now. |
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""Come with hope, not expectation". What I say to single men on their first visit to a club.
An amazing one. My first visit to a club was as a +1 to a couple. I spent the whole time enjoying the views and trading stories of sex adventures. I went home satisfied and with a lot of sex positive open minded friends.
I'm looking for that, I have friends but not ones that would understand what my brains thinking about right now."
Plenty of people on here who 99% of the time just want to walk sex and share ideas. Hubby is one of them. His head is often in the gutter lol |
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The only advice we've ever received was at Chameleons club, it was "you don't want to stand there at 10pm as there'll be a queue for the buffet". Sure enough come 10pm there was indeed a big queue! Apparently they don't do the buffet now  |
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"The only advice we've ever received was at Chameleons club, it was "you don't want to stand there at 10pm as there'll be a queue for the buffet". Sure enough come 10pm there was indeed a big queue! Apparently they don't do the buffet now "
Lol... we always used to sit in the bar area, close to the pole and know exactly what you mean... made us smile |
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Over the years we have met so may people that have shared some horror stories re meets (also some very funny ones)..
The advice we always give anyone that asks;
If starting out as a couple - discuss and set your boundaries before getting into any situation - and stick to them.
Dont be afraid to say no, or to stop play / walk away from a situation if feeling uncomfortable
Communicate - not just with each other (if a couple) but with others as well - no one is a mind reader
And lastly (for now) - enjoy yourself - this lifestyle is meant to be fun and for many of us an escapism with like minded individuals from the crap of daily life / work etc...
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Don't be afraid to say no or walk away from a situation.
Don't take rejection to heart. You're not going to be everyone's cup of tea.
Don't take one for the team. As a couple of it isn't for both of you don't do it. |
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