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By *icplshrops OP   Couple 24 weeks ago

Rock

Good afternoon all. Firstly, our profile ages are actually our ages, not a 'fab age'. Are we too old? We have success with single men, but couples and single ladies is proving pretty tough. It's even more bizarre that msbicpl - who has her own profile - _qua vitae - for meeting ladies and couples and is (by my reckoning) pretty fit and in good shape is also not getting much interest. We have verifications and we think we have some half decent pictures. We aren't ageist at all and happy to meet people of all age ranges, so what's up? Or are people consumed by the football and just preoccupied right now!

Mr Bicpl.

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By *asterMeliodasMan 24 weeks ago

Newmill


"Good afternoon all. Firstly, our profile ages are actually our ages, not a 'fab age'. Are we too old? We have success with single men, but couples and single ladies is proving pretty tough. It's even more bizarre that msbicpl - who has her own profile - _qua vitae - for meeting ladies and couples and is (by my reckoning) pretty fit and in good shape is also not getting much interest. We have verifications and we think we have some half decent pictures. We aren't ageist at all and happy to meet people of all age ranges, so what's up? Or are people consumed by the football and just preoccupied right now!

Mr Bicpl."

I wouldn't say any age is "too old" to be here, tbh. You're guaranteed to have more success with single men because they make up the majority of the membership, obviously. Women and couples are definitely more discerning about who they meet, but I don't often see profiles with an upper age that would exclude the 60s.

It could be there people are just busy/preoccupied, maybe you're just not their cup of tea for other reasons. Hard to offer any general answer to that, I'm afraid, but in answer to your initial question, I don't think you are.

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By *addle12121212Man 24 weeks ago

s74


"Good afternoon all. Firstly, our profile ages are actually our ages, not a 'fab age'. Are we too old? We have success with single men, but couples and single ladies is proving pretty tough. It's even more bizarre that msbicpl - who has her own profile - _qua vitae - for meeting ladies and couples and is (by my reckoning) pretty fit and in good shape is also not getting much interest. We have verifications and we think we have some half decent pictures. We aren't ageist at all and happy to meet people of all age ranges, so what's up? Or are people consumed by the football and just preoccupied right now!

Mr Bicpl."

No

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By *tuvyMan 24 weeks ago

bedford

Not at all your a very sexy bi couple

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By *erry bull1Man 24 weeks ago

doncaster

I don’t your too old plus don’t consider my self old

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By *avexxMan 24 weeks ago

cheshire

i hope not

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By *heeky paulMan 24 weeks ago

South

Only know when I've done a 1to1 with J to see if see passes her M.O.T.

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By *cottishdoggerMan 24 weeks ago

central

Never to old to have fun

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By *ackandsashaCouple 24 weeks ago

West Dublin

Sasha used to be much more agist than me. She does have a thing for guys in their 20s. Probably an ego boost for her. Then we met a lovely couple in PDI in April 2024, he was 60. I knew straight away he would be her type. Fit, bald and a nice guy. So she went back to his apt and fucked him one night with me and his wife ( mutual no attraction ) having a beer.

So now the d.o.b. doesn't matter too much at all.

P.s. .......sexy pics guys x

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By *icplshrops OP   Couple 24 weeks ago

Rock

Thanks all! Feeling more chipper already!

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By *ansexualPandaMan 24 weeks ago

Near You

Definitely not too old!

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By *aomilatteCouple 24 weeks ago

Midlands


"Good afternoon all. Firstly, our profile ages are actually our ages, not a 'fab age'. Are we too old? We have success with single men, but couples and single ladies is proving pretty tough. It's even more bizarre that msbicpl - who has her own profile - _qua vitae - for meeting ladies and couples and is (by my reckoning) pretty fit and in good shape is also not getting much interest. We have verifications and we think we have some half decent pictures. We aren't ageist at all and happy to meet people of all age ranges, so what's up? Or are people consumed by the football and just preoccupied right now!

Mr Bicpl."

No you're not to old. You're not the only one's who don't get much interest, we and many others don't get many messages either. If you go to a club age means less than on here, attractive older couples become "attractive couples".

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By *aturefunswTV/TS 24 weeks ago

bristol

You look incredible and no doubt have a wealth of life experience x

I would say I’m strict on my age range x but that’s down to bad experiences from that age range x

But keep on going x your profile is amazing x

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman 24 weeks ago

Wherever

I don’t think you’re too old but truth be told, I have personally noticed a big plunge of interest on here since I reached the age of 51 so there is definitely a cut off point.

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By *ark n kimCouple 24 weeks ago

Durham

Our age are our real age too,and not fab age.we are to old for some.but equally some people on here are to old for us.

That's the good thing about the site there is someone for everyone.

We have a very young outlook on life and don't think we look our age.but that is subjective to who is looking at you.

Mind you I do tend to groan a bit when getting up from a seated position thes days.mark.

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By *inkerbell_and_dadbodCouple 24 weeks ago

London

Not too old at all, but with one of us being 55, we seem be ageing out of a lot of people's age ranges

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By *litpleaserMan 24 weeks ago

Oldham


"Good afternoon all. Firstly, our profile ages are actually our ages, not a 'fab age'. Are we too old? We have success with single men, but couples and single ladies is proving pretty tough. It's even more bizarre that msbicpl - who has her own profile - _qua vitae - for meeting ladies and couples and is (by my reckoning) pretty fit and in good shape is also not getting much interest. We have verifications and we think we have some half decent pictures. We aren't ageist at all and happy to meet people of all age ranges, so what's up? Or are people consumed by the football and just preoccupied right now!

Mr Bicpl."

Neither of you are too old to enjoy life and all it has to offer, carry on doing what you are doing and sod the doubters

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By *ohnsayshi2016Man 24 weeks ago

Bedfordshire

Hi

Not too old at all

Age is just a number, it's how old you feel

Its just other people's perception

Carry on having fun when you can and for as long as you can

Jx

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By *rsKOTCTWoman 24 weeks ago

Leeds

On fab finding attraction is difficult especially 3/4 way attraction.

It's not just you/her it's difficult on here, I personally find the organised socials easier to meet people, face to face is so much better - I didn't look where you guys where but quest Leeds does a bi monthly ladies only night which maybe good for her or somewhere close if that's not.

Online interaction can be tricky to gauge.

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By *herrybakewellCouple 24 weeks ago

Staffordshire

There's lots of people for all age categories on here.

We went to a club in Derby lastnight and I'd say a majority of people there were in your age group.

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By *icplshrops OP   Couple 24 weeks ago

Rock


"There's lots of people for all age categories on here.

We went to a club in Derby lastnight and I'd say a majority of people there were in your age group. "

That's encouraging, thank you!

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By *icplshrops OP   Couple 24 weeks ago

Rock


"On fab finding attraction is difficult especially 3/4 way attraction.

It's not just you/her it's difficult on here, I personally find the organised socials easier to meet people, face to face is so much better - I didn't look where you guys where but quest Leeds does a bi monthly ladies only night which maybe good for her or somewhere close if that's not.

Online interaction can be tricky to gauge."

Thank you for the advice, it's appreciated

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By * and G CoupleCouple 24 weeks ago

London

Another couple here with our real ages, rather than Fab ages, stated on our profile.

We are a bit older than you and not interested in meeting peole very much yonger than we are, so no, you are not too old.

However, like you, we get lots of messages from single males but find it very much more difficult to find couples and single women.

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By *ice_couple2012Couple 24 weeks ago

Leicester

You're definitely not too old. Like you OP, our fab ages = actual ages and we haven't noticed this being a problem for the way we like to play. As someone else said, going to clubs goes a long way towards removing the age effect because nobody seems to bother about it in the same way as here on Fab

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By *heeky paulMan 24 weeks ago

South

Offering a FREE full M.O.T to any Lady who's worried about if she fit enough to play.

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By *icecouple561Couple 24 weeks ago
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East Sussex

You're not too old as such but you're too old for many on fab. It's a fact if life that the older you get the fewer people are interested in you sexually.

Just concentrate on the people who are

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By *ilva69Man 24 weeks ago

stockport


"Good afternoon all. Firstly, our profile ages are actually our ages, not a 'fab age'. Are we too old? We have success with single men, but couples and single ladies is proving pretty tough. It's even more bizarre that msbicpl - who has her own profile - _qua vitae - for meeting ladies and couples and is (by my reckoning) pretty fit and in good shape is also not getting much interest. We have verifications and we think we have some half decent pictures. We aren't ageist at all and happy to meet people of all age ranges, so what's up? Or are people consumed by the football and just preoccupied right now!

Mr Bicpl."

you’re definitely not too old and if you still enjoy having sex with other people that’s great and may it continue

I intend to carry on as long as I enjoy sex

Barry

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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago

Not at all, never too old!

Many couples on here like the idea. But when it comes to meeting and a reality the fantasy ends! (Just from own experience)

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple 24 weeks ago

Camberley

Definitely not too old but from a FAB perspective it seems 50 is the upper limit for many so once you pass that opportunities become more limited.

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By *icky and MandyCouple 24 weeks ago

Bournemouth

Mmmmm……….Lovely profile and photos……X

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By *hunky GentMan 24 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Definitely not.

The blue underwear and blue stockings are an extra pull for me.

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By *issmorganWoman 24 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

You're not too old no, but the lack of recent pics of the male would put me off.

There's only a couple of him & the latest one is 5 years ago.

So maybe you could add some more recent pics of him and some of you together.

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By *MFC PartiesWoman 24 weeks ago

Here, There & Everywhere


"Good afternoon all. Firstly, our profile ages are actually our ages, not a 'fab age'. Are we too old? We have success with single men, but couples and single ladies is proving pretty tough. It's even more bizarre that msbicpl - who has her own profile - _qua vitae - for meeting ladies and couples and is (by my reckoning) pretty fit and in good shape is also not getting much interest. We have verifications and we think we have some half decent pictures. We aren't ageist at all and happy to meet people of all age ranges, so what's up? Or are people consumed by the football and just preoccupied right now!

Mr Bicpl."

I can assure you, that if you ever joined us at a BMFC Party, you would certainly get plenty of attention

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By *poolGuyMan 24 weeks ago

Liverpool

I've passed some people's age range by a few years.

But found there's always someone around my age and have had lots of fun.

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By *ikilovesCCouple 24 weeks ago

village life, closest main town inverness

Not too old at all, and looking fab

Would agree with what nicecouple said above about nights out in clubs

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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago


"Good afternoon all. Firstly, our profile ages are actually our ages, not a 'fab age'. Are we too old? We have success with single men, but couples and single ladies is proving pretty tough. It's even more bizarre that msbicpl - who has her own profile - _qua vitae - for meeting ladies and couples and is (by my reckoning) pretty fit and in good shape is also not getting much interest. We have verifications and we think we have some half decent pictures. We aren't ageist at all and happy to meet people of all age ranges, so what's up? Or are people consumed by the football and just preoccupied right now!

Mr Bicpl."

Probably

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By *orth London Bi GuyMan 24 weeks ago

North East London

Not at all. It's all about attitude.

I only started playing with people last year!! Never too old..

R

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple 24 weeks ago

in Lancashire


"Good afternoon all. Firstly, our profile ages are actually our ages, not a 'fab age'. Are we too old? We have success with single men, but couples and single ladies is proving pretty tough. It's even more bizarre that msbicpl - who has her own profile - _qua vitae - for meeting ladies and couples and is (by my reckoning) pretty fit and in good shape is also not getting much interest. We have verifications and we think we have some half decent pictures. We aren't ageist at all and happy to meet people of all age ranges, so what's up? Or are people consumed by the football and just preoccupied right now!

Mr Bicpl."

No you certainly aren't..

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By *ustamanMan 24 weeks ago

weymouth

Well if you're too old I've got no chance, being an older bald single fella with a niche body type . You're not to old for me

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By *as0046Man 24 weeks ago

stourbridge

You are never too old

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By *avexxMan 24 weeks ago

cheshire

are we as hell as like to old

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By *orthmanMan 24 weeks ago

Kendal

I feel I am. Unfortunately nobody else wants to check by feeling me.

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By *exyNixCouple 24 weeks ago

Preston

If you are then we are, and we don't want to be. Nothing wrong with growing old disgracefully xx

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By *lutty_FetgeekWoman 24 weeks ago

Wallasey

Not too old for me

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By * F 2018Couple 24 weeks ago

shropshire


"Good afternoon all. Firstly, our profile ages are actually our ages, not a 'fab age'. Are we too old? We have success with single men, but couples and single ladies is proving pretty tough. It's even more bizarre that msbicpl - who has her own profile - _qua vitae - for meeting ladies and couples and is (by my reckoning) pretty fit and in good shape is also not getting much interest. We have verifications and we think we have some half decent pictures. We aren't ageist at all and happy to meet people of all age ranges, so what's up? Or are people consumed by the football and just preoccupied right now!

Mr Bicpl.

No you're not to old. You're not the only one's who don't get much interest, we and many others don't get many messages either. If you go to a club age means less than on here, attractive older couples become "attractive couples"."

Yes age doesn't matter in a club if you get on with each other etc but here we're the same as you not alot of messages etc

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By *uggiedMan 24 weeks ago

Birmingham

Not at all enjoy yourself

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By *icplshrops OP   Couple 24 weeks ago

Rock


"You're not too old no, but the lack of recent pics of the male would put me off.

There's only a couple of him & the latest one is 5 years ago.

So maybe you could add some more recent pics of him and some of you together. "

Fair point! One added and we will post more soon.

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By *oalie66Man 24 weeks ago

Chesterfield

I'm 65 and I don't consider myself to old.

You are both in great shape and age is but a number,have fun.

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By *espectfulSilverFoxMan 24 weeks ago

sunbury


"Good afternoon all. Firstly, our profile ages are actually our ages, not a 'fab age'. Are we too old? We have success with single men, but couples and single ladies is proving pretty tough. It's even more bizarre that msbicpl - who has her own profile - _qua vitae - for meeting ladies and couples and is (by my reckoning) pretty fit and in good shape is also not getting much interest. We have verifications and we think we have some half decent pictures. We aren't ageist at all and happy to meet people of all age ranges, so what's up? Or are people consumed by the football and just preoccupied right now!

Mr Bicpl."

God no....never too old

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By *xydadbodMan 24 weeks ago

Milton keynes

Nah, never too old really.. besides, as they say.. how old you are is relevant, and that age is just a number.. to be fair, I'm more attracted to older women to be fair.. probably because from my experience, they have that aura of knowing what they want from the start and just enjoying the moment. I pick someone older than younger any day to be fair

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By *r K and Mrs LCouple 24 weeks ago

Leicester


"Good afternoon all. Firstly, our profile ages are actually our ages, not a 'fab age'. Are we too old? We have success with single men, but couples and single ladies is proving pretty tough. It's even more bizarre that msbicpl - who has her own profile - _qua vitae - for meeting ladies and couples and is (by my reckoning) pretty fit and in good shape is also not getting much interest. We have verifications and we think we have some half decent pictures. We aren't ageist at all and happy to meet people of all age ranges, so what's up? Or are people consumed by the football and just preoccupied right now!

Mr Bicpl."

your only as old as the man or woman you feel..

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By *exy_HornyCouple 24 weeks ago

Leigh


"Good afternoon all. Firstly, our profile ages are actually our ages, not a 'fab age'. Are we too old? We have success with single men, but couples and single ladies is proving pretty tough. It's even more bizarre that msbicpl - who has her own profile - _qua vitae - for meeting ladies and couples and is (by my reckoning) pretty fit and in good shape is also not getting much interest. We have verifications and we think we have some half decent pictures. We aren't ageist at all and happy to meet people of all age ranges, so what's up? Or are people consumed by the football and just preoccupied right now!

Mr Bicpl."

Certainly not too old.

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By *odg123Man 24 weeks ago

southampton

Definitely not too old x

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By *iss DevilWoman 24 weeks ago

Bedford

If you're only trying to connect with people on Fab, you are going to struggle no matter how old or fit you are.

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan 24 weeks ago

Norwich

How about forming an over 60s group?

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By *avexxMan 24 weeks ago

cheshire

i think we are to old

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By *xfordjohnMan 24 weeks ago

Oxford


"Good afternoon all. Firstly, our profile ages are actually our ages, not a 'fab age'. Are we too old? We have success with single men, but couples and single ladies is proving pretty tough. It's even more bizarre that msbicpl - who has her own profile - _qua vitae - for meeting ladies and couples and is (by my reckoning) pretty fit and in good shape is also not getting much interest. We have verifications and we think we have some half decent pictures. We aren't ageist at all and happy to meet people of all age ranges, so what's up? Or are people consumed by the football and just preoccupied right now!

Mr Bicpl."

You're not too old at all (but I'm a year over your age limit) but it is very noticeable that a lot of people think 65 or 70 is the end of one's sex life, which couldn't be further from the truth. I'vbe had more and better sex over the last few years than since I was in my 30's.

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man 24 weeks ago

Stourbridge

As a mature man, (63) no you are not. However here it would seem many aren’t interested. That said, it’s all about personal preference so we just keep doing our thing.

Enjoy life!

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By *indy777Couple 24 weeks ago

Hampshire

If you are then we are so certainly hope not! X

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By *ovelifecoupleCouple 24 weeks ago

North Yorks

Measure your age by fabbed pictures and winks rather than years

I’m sure you’ll have many

xxxx

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By *ertrandRussellMan 24 weeks ago

Frome

You shouldn't be too old, but I've found many on Fab have age restrictions that rule me out. Everyone's entitled to their preferences, but I suspect by using an age range people are trying to ensure more "fit" and "shapely" people contact them. It's less likely to be filtering on the basis of mind and character, but it's all about the body. It's a very crude method of filtering however. What gets me is if you investigate a bit, look at the profiles of people they have met, I soon see body types that are far more "decrepit" than mine at the age of 59. So to my mind, they've sort of shot themselves in the foot by their use of an age range. For instance, I know for certain that I'm far fitter, virile and masculine than many men in their 40s It's quit frustrating when you can't contact someone but you think they'd actually quite like you or you'd like to ask them a non-hook up question or respond to theirs, but you can't. But I suppose it is what it is!

Now everyone go and look at my profile so I can feel like I'm getting some sort of attention!

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By *icecouple561Couple 24 weeks ago
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East Sussex


"You shouldn't be too old, but I've found many on Fab have age restrictions that rule me out. Everyone's entitled to their preferences, but I suspect by using an age range people are trying to ensure more "fit" and "shapely" people contact them. It's less likely to be filtering on the basis of mind and character, but it's all about the body. It's a very crude method of filtering however. What gets me is if you investigate a bit, look at the profiles of people they have met, I soon see body types that are far more "decrepit" than mine at the age of 59. So to my mind, they've sort of shot themselves in the foot by their use of an age range. For instance, I know for certain that I'm far fitter, virile and masculine than many men in their 40s It's quit frustrating when you can't contact someone but you think they'd actually quite like you or you'd like to ask them a non-hook up question or respond to theirs, but you can't. But I suppose it is what it is!

Now everyone go and look at my profile so I can feel like I'm getting some sort of attention! "

I don't find it frustrating at all. I know for sure that most men would prefer a 40 something woman to me and when I was younger I would have chosen younger men.

None of us are entitled to attention from other people regardless of how fit we are in comparison to those they're choosing to interact with.

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By *icecouple561Couple 24 weeks ago
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East Sussex

Oh and P.S. I looked at your profile

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By *ark n kimCouple 24 weeks ago

Durham

Guy of 28 just messaged us,when we said no thanks.we all of a sudden became to old.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple 24 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

Firstly no your not too old, many of us are older and still get attention, you may be missing out on some couples attention though, as you say you are "friends with benefits" many couples prefer to meet actual couples and as you say your "inundated with messages" so I find it odd that amongst all those messages there are not some that want to meet you. Just my thoughts on it and no doubt I will get slated for these comments

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By *ungle VIP 1Man 24 weeks ago

colchester

Age is just a number and people that go by a person's age don't deserve your attention or time.

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By *ertrandRussellMan 24 weeks ago

Frome


"Oh and P.S. I looked at your profile "

Thank you!

Don't get me wrong, not trying to be entitled and completely support others' right to their preferences. I'm very much a libertarian. But I still wonder if people loosened up a bit on their age ranges they might reap a benefit. Then again, that's coming from a single male's perspective where the mailbox is typically a ghost town.

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By *qua vitaeWoman 24 weeks ago

Shropshire/Midlands

Hi, Mrs Bicpl posting from single profile.

Thanks for all your kind replies. Much appreciated with some great ideas and encouragement.

I’m on the case with getting MrBicpl to add onto our couple’s profile, some more recent pics of himself. We did think of visiting some clubs again would be beneficial. We have a club/party social in a few weeks, which I’m looking forward to.

I gathered that we probably don’t fit into some people’s age ranges now and that’s ok.

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By *icecouple561Couple 24 weeks ago
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East Sussex


"Oh and P.S. I looked at your profile

Thank you!

Don't get me wrong, not trying to be entitled and completely support others' right to their preferences. I'm very much a libertarian. But I still wonder if people loosened up a bit on their age ranges they might reap a benefit. Then again, that's coming from a single male's perspective where the mailbox is typically a ghost town. "

I understand.

we're not prepared to loosen up on our age range. It's set as it is for very good reasons that we've learned through experience suit us.

If this was Fabsocials we'd have 18-99 because we enjoy talking to people of all ages.

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By *avin77Man 24 weeks ago

camberley


"Good afternoon all. Firstly, our profile ages are actually our ages, not a 'fab age'. Are we too old? We have success with single men, but couples and single ladies is proving pretty tough. It's even more bizarre that msbicpl - who has her own profile - _qua vitae - for meeting ladies and couples and is (by my reckoning) pretty fit and in good shape is also not getting much interest. We have verifications and we think we have some half decent pictures. We aren't ageist at all and happy to meet people of all age ranges, so what's up? Or are people consumed by the football and just preoccupied right now!

Mr Bicpl."

Not to old for me x

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By *ak4uMan 24 weeks ago

chelmsford

I think your verifications answer your question.....

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By *icplshrops OP   Couple 24 weeks ago

Rock


"Only know when I've done a 1to1 with J to see if see passes her M.O.T."

...but over 40 years, no MOT or tax...but maintenance can be high

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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago


"Good afternoon all. Firstly, our profile ages are actually our ages, not a 'fab age'. Are we too old? We have success with single men, but couples and single ladies is proving pretty tough. It's even more bizarre that msbicpl - who has her own profile - _qua vitae - for meeting ladies and couples and is (by my reckoning) pretty fit and in good shape is also not getting much interest. We have verifications and we think we have some half decent pictures. We aren't ageist at all and happy to meet people of all age ranges, so what's up? Or are people consumed by the football and just preoccupied right now!

Mr Bicpl."

no you are in my opinion the perfect age

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By *icplshrops OP   Couple 24 weeks ago

Rock


"Firstly no your not too old, many of us are older and still get attention, you may be missing out on some couples attention though, as you say you are "friends with benefits" many couples prefer to meet actual couples and as you say your "inundated with messages" so I find it odd that amongst all those messages there are not some that want to meet you. Just my thoughts on it and no doubt I will get slated for these comments "

Hi, no problem at all! Inundated with messages refer to those (99%) from single guys - suppose we could block them but don't like to be rude and we do try to reply to everyone.

S and J

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By *lex46TV/TS 24 weeks ago

Near Wells

Never too old, I’m between your two ages and I plan on going for a few more years yet.

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By *oxy jWoman 24 weeks ago

taunton somerset

no no no your never too old your only as old as you feel ...

p;enty of older couples plenty who lie about age too but your still never to old ,,

at one of our more local clubs a few years ago there was a lady who was in her mid 80s fit as a fiddle and riding cock as if it was her last time she was a regular who never had problems finding guys for fun .... theres a nearly 80 yrs old gent on here who we know in person who still regularly gets fun in clubs and online (yes he lies about his age but if you cant see that then you deffo need specsavers) hes still very very active we've known him for years not in a play way just a alway talk to way his stories of him and his wifes past are amazing .... so no your not too old nobody is too old you only stop when you want to stop ... when YOU want to stop

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By *arkus1812Man 24 weeks ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

Seemingly I am too old

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By *enshun4Man 24 weeks ago

Wigan

I too am in the "too old" bracket unfortunately how fab is these days

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By *lltheboostCouple 24 weeks ago

Shefford

Surely if you people are approaching other people of the same age you can’t be “too old”?

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By *avexxMan 24 weeks ago

cheshire

your as old as you feel thats my opinion,, can somebody help me out of this bloody chair

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By *arkus1812Man 24 weeks ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

I recently messaged a 65 yr old woman on here whose profile stated the she would meet people aged from 18 to 99, she replied that I was much too old for her.

I replied that perhaps she should alter her profile to suit what age she was looking for, she blocked me.

Sadly this is not the first time this has happened to me.

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By *avexxMan 24 weeks ago

cheshire


"I recently messaged a 65 yr old woman on here whose profile stated the she would meet people aged from 18 to 99, she replied that I was much too old for her.

I replied that perhaps she should alter her profile to suit what age she was looking for, she blocked me.

Sadly this is not the first time this has happened to me. "

,,,your right she should change it i wouldnt worry about getting blocked

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By *en_Dover79Man 24 weeks ago

Oswaldtwistle

in your 80s or 90s then maybe yes but you are a long way from being too old..

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By *icplshrops OP   Couple 24 weeks ago

Rock

Thank you all for your words of encouragement, it really has helped. We are going to up our club game and also do some new pictures!

Bicplshrops x

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By *lecom1Couple 24 weeks ago

Stornoway

You're still kiddies to us

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By *elboy1957Man 24 weeks ago

Weston-super-Mare


"You're still kiddies to us"
But looking good

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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago

You are not too old if you still enjoy yourselves go for it we still do

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By *hoenix CoupleCouple 24 weeks ago

Northallerton

We ask the shame question. Physically it can be difficult to do the stuff we did yesterday year, but as long as the head is still willing then there is lots of stuff we can still do tomorrow.

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By *CExeCouple 24 weeks ago

Lincoln/Exeter

Definitely not too old. 70 is the oldest we've played with lol.

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By *eterinpantiesukMan 24 weeks ago

southam

you have a brilliant figure and your bottom is o smooth and inviting few guys could resist enjoying you as hubby waits submissively in that harsh cage

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By *enni400Man 24 weeks ago

bradford

No way are you too old, there's no age limit on having fun so just enjoy yourselves

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By *andG2024Couple 24 weeks ago

Hurley


"No way are you too old, there's no age limit on having fun so just enjoy yourselves "

Not at all if you are we are however I do struggle at times with a condition even more difficult now as wife as very high sex drive at present

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By *hipdaleCouple 24 weeks ago

Greenhithe

Not at all we only play with people 50+ x

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By *avenvalCouple 24 weeks ago

Leicester

We gave up trying to arrange meetings on the site we how simply go to clubs to find fun.

We are going to Swingathon 24 tomorrow we will post an update when we return regarding how many younger people are willing to play with 68 year olds.

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By *moothshaftMan 24 weeks ago

Coventry

I'm afraid it's a fact of fablife, that as we creep into the 50's and 60's it does get quieter.

It's even more so for me because of my circumstances, but I do still enjoy the people I chat to and the banter.

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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago


"I don’t think you’re too old but truth be told, I have personally noticed a big plunge of interest on here since I reached the age of 51 so there is definitely a cut off point."

But your cutoff point is 39 according to your profile so might skew things a bit

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By *et and WillingCouple 24 weeks ago

Nuneaton

Dont be daft of course youre not too old. We are about the same sort of age and dont consider ourselves too old one bit.

Have fun xx

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By *onLicksMan 24 weeks ago

Worthing

Is your fab age the same as your gym fitness age? Mine would be half that (a quarter if we take my maturity age) ??

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By *hilliplisa790Couple 24 weeks ago

Paignton

Nope I wouldn’t say you were to old and judging by your pictures I really don’t understand why you are not connecting with others. Have you tried going to clubs

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By *ickingfunMan 24 weeks ago

Doncaster


"Good afternoon all. Firstly, our profile ages are actually our ages, not a 'fab age'. Are we too old? We have success with single men, but couples and single ladies is proving pretty tough. It's even more bizarre that msbicpl - who has her own profile - _qua vitae - for meeting ladies and couples and is (by my reckoning) pretty fit and in good shape is also not getting much interest. We have verifications and we think we have some half decent pictures. We aren't ageist at all and happy to meet people of all age ranges, so what's up? Or are people consumed by the football and just preoccupied right now!

Mr Bicpl."

To coin a phrase" you as old as you feel and when you stop feeling your too old".

Your looking good to me, have fun.

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By *lik and PaulCouple 24 weeks ago

cahoots

You're slightly younger than us OP and we do ok although this is primarily from going to clubs.

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By *avenvalCouple 23 weeks ago

Leicester


"We gave up trying to arrange meetings on the site we how simply go to clubs to find fun.

We are going to Swingathon 24 tomorrow we will post an update when we return regarding how many younger people are willing to play with 68 year olds."

We are not too loud by a long way, that is if you think Val playing with four men and five women and Dave playing with two women and one guy at Swingathon 24 is anything to go by

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By *ark n kimCouple 23 weeks ago

Durham


"You shouldn't be too old, but I've found many on Fab have age restrictions that rule me out. Everyone's entitled to their preferences, but I suspect by using an age range people are trying to ensure more "fit" and "shapely" people contact them. It's less likely to be filtering on the basis of mind and character, but it's all about the body. It's a very crude method of filtering however. What gets me is if you investigate a bit, look at the profiles of people they have met, I soon see body types that are far more "decrepit" than mine at the age of 59. So to my mind, they've sort of shot themselves in the foot by their use of an age range. For instance, I know for certain that I'm far fitter, virile and masculine than many men in their 40s It's quit frustrating when you can't contact someone but you think they'd actually quite like you or you'd like to ask them a non-hook up question or respond to theirs, but you can't. But I suppose it is what it is!

Now everyone go and look at my profile so I can feel like I'm getting some sort of attention! "

But at the same time you have a upper age limit.

Oh and yes for a man of your age you have a good body,you will definitely put a lot of younger guys to shame.

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By *uffhandymanMan 23 weeks ago

selby/peterborough

Nobody is ever too old!

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By *eakfitMan 23 weeks ago

Mayfield


"Good afternoon all. Firstly, our profile ages are actually our ages, not a 'fab age'. Are we too old? We have success with single men, but couples and single ladies is proving pretty tough. It's even more bizarre that msbicpl - who has her own profile - _qua vitae - for meeting ladies and couples and is (by my reckoning) pretty fit and in good shape is also not getting much interest. We have verifications and we think we have some half decent pictures. We aren't ageist at all and happy to meet people of all age ranges, so what's up? Or are people consumed by the football and just preoccupied right now!

Mr Bicpl."

I don’t think you are too old, you are both in good shape and I agree with a lot of the comments. I would say though it may be better to take off some of the pics that are 10 years old now 😊…… I also seem to get more attention from single males!!!!

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By *WANDTGCouple 23 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

Like a few have mentioned, you've been on here for around 10 years ( going by the pictures) so surely you've seen it all and done it all in that time, I can only ask , " too old for what ?"

If you haven't done it yet then I don't think it was on your fucket list !

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By *WANDTGCouple 23 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich


"Nobody is ever too old! "

I think Captain Tom was !?!?!

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By *oxy jWoman 23 weeks ago

taunton somerset

i think the biggest section of swinging couples on the scene are over 50 age wise alot of swingers do even think of swinging until there later years ..

no one is to old for sex if you still want it then go for it if others think your to old then thats their problem not yours ...

guys moaning they are to old well your not the problem you have is the same all age groups of men have and thats lots of competition its still a select /reject scene no matter what age and still based on sexual attraction so age is not your problem someone wanting to meet you is ... as per normal

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By *uvBugsCouple 23 weeks ago

CAMBS

I hope we are not too old. We meet anybody that attracts us. Yes 50+ are far more relaxed and horny. We just enjoy the environment. We chat to many couples or TVs and makes. If the attraction is there. Please tell US we aren't too old LOL XXX

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By *avexxMan 23 weeks ago

cheshire

are we heck to old

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