I haven’t been very active here because as soon as I find someone I like they just want to meet immediately whereas I’d like to get to know someone and chat and flirt a bit first. Charlie is encouraging me to explore a bit alone but I don’t seem to be able to find the right person who will make an effort and have some fun before arranging a meet.
Am I asking for too much or is this the wrong site for what I want?
Lizzie x |
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By *WANDTGCouple 34 weeks ago
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Sometimes the chat drys up after a few days , as for a face pic, I think that's a deal breaker for some people. What's the point of putting time and effort into a conversation only to find that the person isn't to your liking . |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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I think you’re asking for precisely what you want. All my best meets have been after quite extensive flirtations on here and when we eventually meet it has made the whole process so much more relaxing and enjoyable. Much better from my perspective to actually meet someone you like rather than meet n go! But maybe that’s just me?
Good luck anyway, I bet you’re lovely to flirt with.
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"I haven’t been very active here because as soon as I find someone I like they just want to meet immediately whereas I’d like to get to know someone and chat and flirt a bit first. Charlie is encouraging me to explore a bit alone but I don’t seem to be able to find the right person who will make an effort and have some fun before arranging a meet.
Am I asking for too much or is this the wrong site for what I want?
Lizzie x"
You're not asking a lot at all, I think for some the disconnect is what they're after but not everyone's after the same thing, but the important thing is about what you're comfortable with, if someone can't respect you wanting to have a chat first you can't expect them to respect you on a meet is my honest take |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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Nothing wrong with wanting to get to know someone before doing something very personal and intimate!
If you need/want to build up a mental connection and rapport over messages and coffee/drinks to feel comfortable, stick to that.
The only thing mentioned above that I do agree on, is after a good dialogue is established, sharing a face picture (fully clothed)is important, it just saves wasting time if there is no attraction. |
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There are a lot of guys on here who seem to think everyone can drop everything as they happen to have the afternoon “off” from their significant other. Not they they actually say that, just sometimes the “I’m staying at a hotel in your area tonight” or “I’m only free this afternoon” are a bit of a giveaway.
Not that we are looking for guys but have had messages that say stuff along those line |
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We’re a (very) long distance couple so chatting is a bit part of our relationship.
We’ve had some very successful long term chats with other couples where we really get to understand each other’s desires, and that’s made our eventual meets so much more fulfilling and exciting.
Having that connection means you can really lose yourself in the pleasure
K&D
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I definitely prefer to chat and build a bit of connection first but it can be tough as some people lose interest or assume you’re not that interested if you don’t try and arrange a meet. Finding the balance can be the toughest part about fab I’ve found.
It’s possible but it’s harder to find on here unfortunately. Keep the hope and happy fabbing!  |
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