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Bareback fun, stay fantasy or make it happen ?
In all honesty if both parties are trusted / clean and willing, is it still frowned upon to go bare with other people? Ultimately to reach much thought about fantasies like creampie, sloppy seconds play
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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Complete random got to be a no when you take the time to think about it and the possible problems you could get from it with not knowing if they have something they could pass to you…
If it’s someone you’ve been speaking with and got to know, both willing to be tested and prove clean then why not!? Nothing better in my opinion to see the cum oozing out after |
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Seen so many of these and always wonder why the safe sex thing is so hyped up about. Yes there are many risks but unless you are using condoms for everything with random people, even for oral, you are still in danger of getting many if not all the STI's.
The Ex and I never really talked about safe sex with others but never once saw her with a guy using a condom. The only thing either of us got over the 37 years of doing this was Chlamydia. I know and sure it was more luck than anything else. We started just before the Aids pandemic started, continued through it all and right up to when we divorced. Started in Africa where I think STI's were more abundant. |
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By *uckurcumMan 13 weeks ago
County Durham .Bishop Auckland |
Has to be with on randoms ..if you see someone a few times and the trust is there then it's an option to consider bareback ...
Like to think we are all adults and make the decision that's right ... |
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This is one of those subjects that require a lot of careful thinking, consideration, and nuance.
Bareback is a lot of fun, and getting filled with cum, or filling someone else with your cum, can be a very strong fantasy/fetish.
But the consequences can be too much for some people, and so is pushed even further into the realms of a kinky fetish.
Personally I love getting my ass and mouth filled with cum. And I'm tested often enough that I would never endanger anyone else. Last tests were all negative.
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"Bareback fun, stay fantasy or make it happen ?
In all honesty if both parties are trusted / clean and willing, is it still frowned upon to go bare with other people? Ultimately to reach much thought about fantasies like creampie, sloppy seconds play
What are your thoughts "
So long as all parties are clean, then I love making a mess. Can't beat the feeling of being begged to cum inside them |
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We play bareback but what we find amusing is how often we see posts condemning vigorously the behaviour. Then the very same people write to us asking for a bb meet.
That’s happened more than once.
It’s best to assume that everyone on fab has had bareback sex at some point in spite of their denials.
Then go with what you are comfortable with. |
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"We play bareback but what we find amusing is how often we see posts condemning vigorously the behaviour. Then the very same people write to us asking for a bb meet.
That’s happened more than once.
It’s best to assume that everyone on fab has had bareback sex at some point in spite of their denials.
Then go with what you are comfortable with."
Shame I’m too old for you haha |
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"It’s up to all parties involved nothing to do with anyone else."
Yes. Correct.
We are open about playing bare but in the face of so much abuse many others prefer to hide the fact.
Surely it would be better for all if the abuse is stopped then more honesty would be the norm?
Allowing those (for and against) to be able to judge prospective meets better. |
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"We play bareback but what we find amusing is how often we see posts condemning vigorously the behaviour. Then the very same people write to us asking for a bb meet.
That’s happened more than once.
It’s best to assume that everyone on fab has had bareback sex at some point in spite of their denials.
Then go with what you are comfortable with."
I've had the same then when question it..I get it's for public appearances don't wanna air to the world we/I do it..only with guys I/we want |
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By *orny PTMan 12 weeks ago
Peterborough |
"I've had a vasectomy so I'd love to find a woman or couples to play bare with
Yeah, because people who play bare have pregnancy as their number one concern!
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Don't forget the AIDS crisis of the 1980s, pregnancy wasn't a problem to gay men. |
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The best when between safe friends. "
Personally, I feel that "friends" complicate things and ultimately result in less safe sex. This is because you are more reluctant to ask awkward questions. If that person has a few "safe trusted" friends, they are just living in denial.
The only way to play bare sensibly is to test very regularly and take prep, both male and female.
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"I've had a vasectomy so I'd love to find a woman or couples to play bare with
Yeah, because people who play bare have pregnancy as their number one concern!
Don't forget the AIDS crisis of the 1980s, pregnancy wasn't a problem to gay men."
Maybe my sarcasm was lost! Absolutely! |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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"I've had a vasectomy so I'd love to find a woman or couples to play bare with
Yeah, because people who play bare have pregnancy as their number one concern!
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Obviously tested regularly, want I meant was someone regularly |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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Bareback is always the ultimate preference for us but unless there are guarantees for exclusivity and regularly testing between play partners (which let’s face it is gonna be quite rare in this lifestyle) it’s best not to take any chances |
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It can be challenging to find trustworthy friends who prioritize safety while still having a great time. However, ensuring everyone's well-being, especially in social settings like clubs, makes the idea of going without protection more of a fantasy than a reality. It's amazing to see the cum dripping from her pussy and her hubby cleaning up. It's amazing to watch her husband skillfully cleaning up our mess and stimulating her clit, creating even more delightful wetness while he's caged.
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"Seen so many of these and always wonder why the safe sex thing is so hyped up about. Yes there are many risks but unless you are using condoms for everything with random people, even for oral, you are still in danger of getting many if not all the STI's.
The Ex and I never really talked about safe sex with others but never once saw her with a guy using a condom. The only thing either of us got over the 37 years of doing this was Chlamydia. I know and sure it was more luck than anything else. We started just before the Aids pandemic started, continued through it all and right up to when we divorced. Started in Africa where I think STI's were more abundant." |
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"The majority of those who contact me wish for us to go bare but say the opposite on their profile "
Likewise - if I see that they have 'safe sex' listed on their profile I usually point out that I only play bare...
....9 times out of 10, the response is that's what they actually want - including those who don't just have 'safe sex' included in their 'Interests', but even specifically mention it in their profile text... |
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"Bareback fun, stay fantasy or make it happen ?
In all honesty if both parties are trusted / clean and willing, is it still frowned upon to go bare with other people? Ultimately to reach much thought about fantasies like creampie, sloppy seconds play love sloppy seconds . Having other guys cum on my dick feels amazing
What are your thoughts "
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There are currently only two people I play barrier-free with: my wife and my FWB.
Using condoms with everyone else is a baseline requirement. I'd only be open to negotiation on that with someone who gets tested regularly and who I'd been meeting with for a while. |
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Unless a regular and exclusive partner, no chance of bareback .
Testing and clean tests still come with risks .
No test is 100% guaranteed.
Besides, even if clean of Sti, there are still individual bacterial flora that may affect you . Anyone who fucks more than one other should use protection, imo. |
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"Bb with other couples is good with us ,to be honest most couples we've chatted to go bareback when asked x"
We find the same.
And seeing how little sex the vast majority of single/married guys on fab actually get id say it's safer than most! |
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"Bb with other couples is good with us ,to be honest most couples we've chatted to go bareback when asked x
We find the same.
And seeing how little sex the vast majority of single/married guys on fab actually get id say it's safer than most!"
Zing!! |
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"Bareback fun, stay fantasy or make it happen ?
In all honesty if both parties are trusted / clean and willing, is it still frowned upon to go bare with other people? Ultimately to reach much thought about fantasies like creampie, sloppy seconds play
What are your thoughts "
Absolutely love it!!!
Most natural way to enjoy sex!!!
...with friends of course!
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By *ayo45Man 7 weeks ago
Derby |
"We play bareback but what we find amusing is how often we see posts condemning vigorously the behaviour. Then the very same people write to us asking for a bb meet.
That’s happened more than once.
It’s best to assume that everyone on fab has had bareback sex at some point in spite of their denials.
Then go with what you are comfortable with."
What a grounded, honest and realistic post. Such a pity clubs and fab haven't kept up with medical advances over the last 35 years...... |
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By *uysforhotwivesCouple (MM) 4 weeks ago
north west, Yorkshire, and midlands |
"We play bareback but what we find amusing is how often we see posts condemning vigorously the behaviour. Then the very same people write to us asking for a bb meet.
That’s happened more than once.
It’s best to assume that everyone on fab has had bareback sex at some point in spite of their denials.
Then go with what you are comfortable with."
Absolutely this. Always had a preference for playing bare, so long as all are comfortable with the decisions being taken |
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"Bareback fun, stay fantasy or make it happen ?
In all honesty if both parties are trusted / clean and willing, is it still frowned upon to go bare with other people? Ultimately to reach much thought about fantasies like creampie, sloppy seconds play
What are your thoughts "
It’s actually more popular than many admit… The most important thing is to keep regular testing and restrict it to a select few who are also regular testers. |
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"We play bareback but what we find amusing is how often we see posts condemning vigorously the behaviour. Then the very same people write to us asking for a bb meet.
That’s happened more than once.
It’s best to assume that everyone on fab has had bareback sex at some point in spite of their denials.
Then go with what you are comfortable with."
Agree wholeheartedly |
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By *bcplCouple 6 days ago
Aberdeenshire |
Hoping this comes naturally (pun intended) when we find Mr Regular.
The reclaim from her solo meets just now are incredible but I think that indescribable feeling of cum in her from another guy is going to be an insane feeling
Lots of precautions to be taken and wouldn’t be with just anyone but I’m looking forward to the day it happens
Mr |
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When me and ex wife wanted to try this we found a guy we both trusted and it was on our terms we got him to do a sexual health test and was all clear so we decided to try bareback fun.
I wanted to be a cuck I wanted to watch the wife take a cock bigger than me and I wanted her to enjoy it and tell me as she is getting fucked.
All I wanted is for her to enjoy it and all I wanted is to feel another man’s cum in my wife’s pussy as I fucked her after. |
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I don't think there is any comparison, feeling your naked hard cock slipping into a warm wet pussy, against one covered in silicon. Feeling you shooting your cum into that pussy then withdrawing your cock covered in it, seeing it seeping out between her lips. |
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I was in a long term relationship with a MF couple.. we'd play together, go on dates together and even go on holiday together. When they decided that they were going to try for a baby we parted our ways.. but they then reached out to me around 6 months later with a proposal. The M sperm count was very low and the F felt that time was against them and was stressing them out which was having an impact on them both.. It was agreed that I'd make love to the F with no protection and help get get her pregnant. A month later they got a positive result. The feeling of knowing that my potent cum would be flooding the F fertile womb was insane! We carried on fucking throughout the pregnancy too. Closer to date, we separated our ways and never made contact again. |
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"Bareback fun, stay fantasy or make it happen ?
In all honesty if both parties are trusted / clean and willing, is it still frowned upon to go bare with other people? Ultimately to reach much thought about fantasies like creampie, sloppy seconds play
What are your thoughts "
Clean, safe, happy and willing, is all it takes |
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"Nothing better than load after load being dumped inside you!"
And from a guys perspective, it's absolutely fucking horny as hell fucking fresh pussy full of cum!
Quick GBs are best, one after the other, filling you, no messing around - next! |
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"Nothing better than load after load being dumped inside you!
And from a guys perspective, it's absolutely fucking horny as hell fucking fresh pussy full of cum!
Quick GBs are best, one after the other, filling you, no messing around - next! "
Agree. Best feeling there is. |
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"If it’s something you both want to do and are both safe it good fun l like doing bareback the feeling of a pussy on your bare cock is a nice feeling "
Well we’ve never heard this comment before LOL, seriously though who likes wearing condoms?
Surely everybody agrees bare is the best & most comfortable, but that’s not the argument for what we consider to be Russian Roulette. |
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Finding reliable friends who value safety while enjoying themselves can be tough. Yet, when it comes to social environments like clubs, prioritising everyone's well-being turns the thought of going without protection into more of a dream than a practical option. |
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