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By *evertree OP Couple 14 weeks ago
north west,Lancashire |
We fully understand and respect people views and choice of whom they wish to meet but how would people distinguish in a club or for example an orgy room who smokes? We find it strange that some people are judgemental against smokers yet indulge in such activities as bareback owo cim and anal yet frown at smokers as though its unhygienic.
As social smokers we dont have brown teeth,dont smell like old ashtrays,100% hygienic and regular tested...what are peoples views ? |
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By *8on33Man 14 weeks ago
winfrith |
"We fully understand and respect people views and choice of whom they wish to meet but how would people distinguish in a club or for example an orgy room who smokes? We find it strange that some people are judgemental against smokers yet indulge in such activities as bareback owo cim and anal yet frown at smokers as though its unhygienic.
As social smokers we dont have brown teeth,dont smell like old ashtrays,100% hygienic and regular tested...what are peoples views ?"
It doesn't bother me as long as it's not noticeable but unfortunately sometimes it is . |
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I can smell it a mile off in a room full of people and will actively avoid them, it sinks into clothing, hair and a smokers breath isnt pleasant. As someone that's an addict to smelling amazing it's not a smell I can tolerate in close proximity and just like attraction, its a personal preference that some mind and some dont. |
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"We fully understand and respect people views and choice of whom they wish to meet but how would people distinguish in a club or for example an orgy room who smokes? We find it strange that some people are judgemental against smokers yet indulge in such activities as bareback owo cim and anal yet frown at smokers as though its unhygienic.
As social smokers we dont have brown teeth,dont smell like old ashtrays,100% hygienic and regular tested...what are peoples views ?"
If people choose to smoke, use substances or bareback that's uo to them, but they're not for me.
All smokers smell and taste unpleasant to me... and it's a turn off. |
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Even as a smoker I get it - we smell to those they don't smoke, other smokers wouldn't notice.
People's preferences are valid.
I have found so many "none smokers" seem to suddenly smoke when at socials. |
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"We fully understand and respect people views and choice of whom they wish to meet but how would people distinguish in a club or for example an orgy room who smokes? We find it strange that some people are judgemental against smokers yet indulge in such activities as bareback owo cim and anal yet frown at smokers as though its unhygienic.
As social smokers we dont have brown teeth,dont smell like old ashtrays,100% hygienic and regular tested...what are peoples views ?"
You can't compare smoking to sexual preferences. Granted you may not choose to meet people you know bareback but you'll also meet people who bareback but you don't know that they do. This is completely different from smoking. People choose to avoid smokers because they don't like the smell. Even if people don't advertise they smoke, it is easily detected in close quarters. |
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Respect and if not for you move on.
People that judge and pick out on those that don't fit their own preferences need to realise everyone is different.
If you're offended by someone, I'd say work it out in your head, get into your own happy space and move on.
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By *evertree OP Couple 14 weeks ago
north west,Lancashire |
"We fully understand and respect people views and choice of whom they wish to meet but how would people distinguish in a club or for example an orgy room who smokes? We find it strange that some people are judgemental against smokers yet indulge in such activities as bareback owo cim and anal yet frown at smokers as though its unhygienic.
As social smokers we dont have brown teeth,dont smell like old ashtrays,100% hygienic and regular tested...what are peoples views ?
You can't compare smoking to sexual preferences. Granted you may not choose to meet people you know bareback but you'll also meet people who bareback but you don't know that they do. This is completely different from smoking. People choose to avoid smokers because they don't like the smell. Even if people don't advertise they smoke, it is easily detected in close quarters."
Just find it odd that some people would rim a strangers arsehole yet not kiss a smoker? |
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It’s the smell! Smokers who think they don’t smell of smoke are deluding themselves.
I have good friends who smoke, I’m not against it but there’s no way I could kiss them or stand too close for very long. |
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"So you can taste smoke out the arse can ya... their maybe alot of bullshitters on this site but didn't realise they could blow smoke out their own arse ..LOL "
Just move on OP
They don't want to meet you. Think of it as a filter- we're all entitled to our own preferences.
Comparing it to rimming etc is just not right is it really.
Just accept some people don't like the smell and taste of smokers - not a big deal is it really and certainly not worth getting your knickers in a twist over  |
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"So you can taste smoke out the arse can ya... their maybe alot of bullshitters on this site but didn't realise they could blow smoke out their own arse ..LOL "
You've listed rimming as an interest yourselves.
Are you going to be testing the smokey tasting arseholes against the non smokey ones  |
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By *evertree OP Couple 14 weeks ago
north west,Lancashire |
"So you can taste smoke out the arse can ya... their maybe alot of bullshitters on this site but didn't realise they could blow smoke out their own arse ..LOL
Just move on OP
They don't want to meet you. Think of it as a filter- we're all entitled to our own preferences.
Comparing it to rimming etc is just not right is it really.
Just accept some people don't like the smell and taste of smokers - not a big deal is it really and certainly not worth getting your knickers in a twist over "
point taken just gonna sit back and read all our messages from those that will meet smokers with a fag and a brew lol |
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"So you can taste smoke out the arse can ya... their maybe alot of bullshitters on this site but didn't realise they could blow smoke out their own arse ..LOL
Just move on OP
They don't want to meet you. Think of it as a filter- we're all entitled to our own preferences.
Comparing it to rimming etc is just not right is it really.
Just accept some people don't like the smell and taste of smokers - not a big deal is it really and certainly not worth getting your knickers in a twist over point taken just gonna sit back and read all our messages from those that will meet smokers with a fag and a brew lol"
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"We fully understand and respect people views and choice of whom they wish to meet but how would people distinguish in a club or for example an orgy room who smokes? We find it strange that some people are judgemental against smokers yet indulge in such activities as bareback owo cim and anal yet frown at smokers as though its unhygienic.
As social smokers we dont have brown teeth,dont smell like old ashtrays,100% hygienic and regular tested...what are peoples views ?
You can't compare smoking to sexual preferences. Granted you may not choose to meet people you know bareback but you'll also meet people who bareback but you don't know that they do. This is completely different from smoking. People choose to avoid smokers because they don't like the smell. Even if people don't advertise they smoke, it is easily detected in close quarters.
Just find it odd that some people would rim a strangers arsehole yet not kiss a smoker?"
I really don't understand why you're so upset that people don't want to meet smokers.
We all have preferences. Just concentrate on those that might want to meet you. |
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You need to accept it and move on, OP. Or stop smoking if people not wanting to meet smokers bothers you that much?
People have their reasons for this preference, and believe me, I can tell if someone is a smoker! It seeps through everything despite great hygiene practices. |
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We will not meet smokers. As non smokers we don't like the smell and even if people havent smoked recently i think they under estimate how long the smell lingers as they get used to it.
The whole thing is about choices isn't it, just like some people wouldnt meet an 18 year old or an 88 year old, or a beard, or tattoos.
If something is not for you, its hardly going to enhance your sexual experience, so people passing on what they dont like is just part and parcel. |
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Hi guys just to throw it out there, both my wife and I are currently trying to quite smoking but until we do we feel it’s best be honest and leave it on our profile, however in the course of trying to quit we now vape, what none smokers views on vaping..?x |
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"Hi guys just to throw it out there, both my wife and I are currently trying to quite smoking but until we do we feel it’s best be honest and leave it on our profile, however in the course of trying to quit we now vape, what none smokers views on vaping..?x"
We vape too and have found most people really open to this.
However we don't blow out huge vape clouds.
It's on our profile we vape so if people are against it then they don't message and we respect their preferences
S xxx |
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By *oxesMan 14 weeks ago
Southend, Essex |
"You can taste it when you kiss them /give them oral and it's not a good taste.
Sorry op but I've noped out of playing with smokers in clubs before because you absolutely can smell /taste it "
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When I was a child I grew up in a house full of heavy smokers (1970s), although I never smoked myself. From the 1990s I lived in a smoke free house, and at a similar time smoking was generally banned from work. Then, perhaps in the 2,000s my wife (also a non smoker) stayed at her (heavy smoker) sister's for a week, when she came back, I could not believe the smell of tobacco that just seemed to emanate from her hair, it was disgusting, seriously separate bedroom, why don't you go and have it all chopped off bad. I think it took about 2 weeks for the smell to disappear! |
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"We fully understand and respect people views and choice of whom they wish to meet but how would people distinguish in a club or for example an orgy room who smokes? We find it strange that some people are judgemental against smokers yet indulge in such activities as bareback owo cim and anal yet frown at smokers as though its unhygienic.
As social smokers we dont have brown teeth,dont smell like old ashtrays,100% hygienic and regular tested...what are peoples views ?
You can't compare smoking to sexual preferences. Granted you may not choose to meet people you know bareback but you'll also meet people who bareback but you don't know that they do. This is completely different from smoking. People choose to avoid smokers because they don't like the smell. Even if people don't advertise they smoke, it is easily detected in close quarters.
Just find it odd that some people would rim a strangers arsehole yet not kiss a smoker?"
One must taste better than the other then? |
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When we both smoked we felt the same here.
Now that we are ex-smokers, take our word for it you will smell like an old ashtray and non-smokers will be able to smell it from a mile away.
Must be plenty smokers on here to keep you happy ...  |
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"Even as a smoker I get it - we smell to those they don't smoke, other smokers wouldn't notice.
People's preferences are valid.
I have found so many "none smokers" seem to suddenly smoke when at socials."
I couldn’t of said it better… u can, avert the smell and taste.. I do agree when it’s punient, it stinks.. but as long as u make an effort u can remove the whiff .. then sound.. but I also get how ppl hate it .. but some of those are just obsessive anti smokers .. I don’t like ppl who smell of digestive biscuits … |
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By *andAukCouple 14 weeks ago
leeds |
My sinuses are really affected by smoke. I can smell it for days on and off.
It so bad that, if someone is quite a distance away even outside smoking, it starts to flare up.
I'm pretty sure that my days of hanging out in smokey clubs and pubs has damaged them somehow. |
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Smokers smell and taste really bad.
I once thought fuck it, and met a smoker from here. Whilst fucking, all I could think about was the smell... So much so I went soft and had to make some BS excuse... Literally THE biggest turn off!!
So that's why I won't meet smokers. Because It makes my dick soft. |
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I've only ever been with one smoker and it was enough to put me off permanently. When I kiss someone I want to enjoy it, not get it over and done with as quick as possible because it's like licking an ashtray |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"I've only ever been with one smoker and it was enough to put me off permanently. When I kiss someone I want to enjoy it, not get it over and done with as quick as possible because it's like licking an ashtray "
My thoughts exactly. Its a no from me as well. |
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I am kinda with the OP here
I completely agree the yellow teeth. Smokehouse smell is a complete turn off and I also rush a kiss if the person tastes like a nightclub smoking area
But for people who smoke socially or don’t smoke tobacco. What are peoples views. Is it the moment you see the lighter your done?
Just curious. Don’t smoke cigarettes ever and only occasionally the other thing |
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"So you can taste smoke out the arse can ya... their maybe alot of bullshitters on this site but didn't realise they could blow smoke out their own arse ..LOL "
Just face it, you smoke you stink and people don't wanna kiss stinky smoke mouth, have smelly smoke fingers all over them, spunk tastes worse too, it's not difficult to understand!
Mrs.
And yes I smoke! |
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I don’t meet smokers.
But like I don’t meet cheaters, you can only ask the question and act on what you see.
I won’t purposely meet these people, but in a club if i didn’t notice, fair enough. I usually notice, but I’m sure there will be people I’ve played with in clubs who smoke and I’ll never know. But not worth the risk of me not enjoying it if I can plan for it.
I don’t meet people who vape either. Stinks and annoying habit IMO…. I’m sure I have plenty, not judging just don’t like it. |
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By *essTTWoman 13 weeks ago
Birmingham |
"We fully understand and respect people views and choice of whom they wish to meet but how would people distinguish in a club or for example an orgy room who smokes? We find it strange that some people are judgemental against smokers yet indulge in such activities as bareback owo cim and anal yet frown at smokers as though its unhygienic.
As social smokers we dont have brown teeth,dont smell like old ashtrays,100% hygienic and regular tested...what are peoples views ?"
The 2 things arent connected
If people want to meet smokers they don't have to, they're allowed their preferences |
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"Spunk tastes worse when the person smokes.
Can't say I have noticed the difference when enjoying oral with women smokers but my knowledge is limited. "
I've only had 3 women squirt for me and two were non smokers and one was a smoker. When the smoker squirted it tasted rank. The other two it tasted slightly sweet and was quite pleasant. |
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Trouble is on a couple account much like ours, one smokes, one doesn’t, but says we’re smokers because there is no option. Well actually one vapes doesn’t actually smoke, but put smoker down for the Vapor because what’s smoking and what’s not?? |
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"We fully understand and respect people views and choice of whom they wish to meet but how would people distinguish in a club or for example an orgy room who smokes? We find it strange that some people are judgemental against smokers yet indulge in such activities as bareback owo cim and anal yet frown at smokers as though its unhygienic.
As social smokers we dont have brown teeth,dont smell like old ashtrays,100% hygienic and regular tested...what are peoples views ?"
I can guarantee you, you will smell like smokers even if you don't think or believe you do. The smell of fags clings to people. |
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We are both currently smokers but gave up for 10yrs and can honestly say we could smell and taste a smoker immediately, We now tend to avoid meeting none smokers just to avoid uncomfortable situations. |
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As an ex smoker I can smell it a mile off. Doesn’t matter how you try to disguise the smell nothing will work.
I would not play with a smoker simply because the smell on the breath, on their fingers and in the hair. It’s embarrassing to think I used to smell the same |
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"We fully understand and respect people views and choice of whom they wish to meet but how would people distinguish in a club or for example an orgy room who smokes? We find it strange that some people are judgemental against smokers yet indulge in such activities as bareback owo cim and anal yet frown at smokers as though its unhygienic.
As social smokers we dont have brown teeth,dont smell like old ashtrays,100% hygienic and regular tested...what are peoples views ?"
Hate to break it to you guys,no matter how fresh you think you are, to non smokers we can always smell it club or not!
Sorry |
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So, prior to smoking ban, a couple or single you wanted to meet happened to be in a pub that night that were non-smokers, would that mean you wouldn’t go with them because they smelt of smoke although they were non-smokers |
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The smell/taste of smoke is extremely obvious, and often quite repulsive, to non-smokers, and they'll pick up on it no matter if you took a 3 hours bath in bleach.
And there might be other, just as valid, reasons for a non-smoker to filter (forgive the pun) out smokers.
Maybe they quit and don't want to fall into the habit. Maybe their recently passed nan was a smoker and the reminder is painful. Maybe they have ethical reasons related to big tobacco companies. Or whatever (btw these aren't -my- reasons but examples I've come across in the past).
It's just another preference, and as such is just as valid as most other preferences: I understand it can be frustrating, but try not to take it personally.
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"You can taste it when you kiss them /give them oral and it's not a good taste.
Sorry op but I've noped out of playing with smokers in clubs before because you absolutely can smell /taste it "
Could not agree more. It stands out a mile... |
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"So, prior to smoking ban, a couple or single you wanted to meet happened to be in a pub that night that were non-smokers, would that mean you wouldn’t go with them because they smelt of smoke although they were non-smokers"
If someone smells of smoke, I won't go with them. I don't care if they've travelled back in time to go to a pre smoking ban pub. I'm not going to meet with someone who smells of smoke, no matter how insane the premise posed. |
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"C is a smoker and also doesn’t understand this rule. We both agree that mouth to mouth kissing is for us alone and very expensive aftershave definitely removes any smell on his body. "
I can 100% guarantee you that it doesn't... |
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"So, prior to smoking ban, a couple or single you wanted to meet happened to be in a pub that night that were non-smokers, would that mean you wouldn’t go with them because they smelt of smoke although they were non-smokers"
Random ! |
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"We fully understand and respect people views and choice of whom they wish to meet but how would people distinguish in a club or for example an orgy room who smokes? We find it strange that some people are judgemental against smokers yet indulge in such activities as bareback owo cim and anal yet frown at smokers as though its unhygienic.
As social smokers we dont have brown teeth,dont smell like old ashtrays,100% hygienic and regular tested...what are peoples views ?"
It's a preference, like everything in life! We don't meet or play with bi male couples, that's our preference and you'd no way of knowing in an orgy room, so we don't openly play in orgy rooms because of this, but with smoking you can actually taste it in their breath, and smell it on people as most go out for a smoke in clubs. |
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"You can taste it when you kiss them /give them oral and it's not a good taste.
Sorry op but I've noped out of playing with smokers in clubs before because you absolutely can smell /taste it "
Same here. Also I don't think smokers are dirty, I just can't stand the smell  |
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If a couple that smoke are on a meet with a couple that don’t how does this affect the dynamic of the meet?
You’re all getting to know each other but 2 people are darting in and out for a fag every few minutes!! |
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I can smell the tiniest scent of smoke. I strongly dislike the smell.
I've had to leave meets in the past as they lied about smoking. If you smoke and don't think you smell you are delusional.
It isn't for me I'm afraid. |
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