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If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! |
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! "
I guess not, It would seem that some have firm feelings on gender etc, which is absolutely fair, I love just going with the flow and if that happens to involve a cock as well, then even better  |
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! "
Nope. I stop because I am just not interested.
Been told there is no such thing as straight after 6 pints of lager but again I disagree. Sober or d*unk I’m simply not interested in other guys. |
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We know lots,of drag queens on birmingham and trust us when we say No man is 100% straight lol They say they are, but nope lol |
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Tried it when younger & it’s definitely not for me. |
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That’s the bi playful and not bi.. |
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Yet there’s straight in your profile and not at least bi curious |
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That’s fair, at least you tried ???? |
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No there are straight men, and women too. |
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On here? Lol .. even in a group when it gets hot and heavy? |
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"On here? Lol .. even in a group when it gets hot and heavy? "
Yes even in a group.
No idea why this is hard to believe? |
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Not hard to believe, just a conversation! Everyone has their own thing! No issue here! ?? |
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Why are straight people, mostly men, the only ones who ever have to justify themselves on here?
If I say I'm straight it means I'm straight but yet people like to mock and say "ye right".
If a woman says she is straight do people really see it as a challenge to prove to her that she is wrong? |
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"Why are straight people, mostly men, the only ones who ever have to justify themselves on here?
If I say I'm straight it means I'm straight but yet people like to mock and say "ye right".
If a woman says she is straight do people really see it as a challenge to prove to her that she is wrong? "
Even after we explain it too many bi/gay guys think we are simply in denial. In the closet. Too repressed to own up to the truth about our sexual desires for another bloke.
Laughable if it wasn’t so irritating. |
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! "
I don't believe so, no
I also hate bi-playful as a term
A bloke chonking on another blokes cock is bi-sexual, playful or not
I just think bi-playful isn't a helpful term, it's a bit of a cop out term for those that can't or won't admit to being bi-sexual
Internalised homophobia runs strong on this site (and often about themselves) |
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By *ee69Man 23 weeks ago
glasgow |
Nah , a have never got the bi thing |
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I think bi-playful can be a term but only if it's being mildly playful before it crosses into bi-curious or bisexual. I'm straight and I've kissed a couple of guys on a night out... Not because I found them sexually attractive, more for a laugh and some light hearted fun and my partner enjoyed watching  I think that's bi-playful |
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! "
But they are not though are they? |
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They’re not. Really they’re not. A lot of people are straight. Or gay. |
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For us, bi-playful is.. what ever happens at the time is fine. You just wouldn’t have a realTionship with opposite sex |
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"They’re not. Really they’re not. A lot of people are straight. Or gay. "
^^ this. 100% |
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"For us, bi-playful is.. what ever happens at the time is fine. You just wouldn’t have a realTionship with opposite sex "
You don't have to be in a relationship (or want one) with a member of the same sex to be bi-sexual
You don't even need to be attracted to members of the same sex - you might just be turned in by having sex with them
If there's a MMF situation and the blokes touch cocks or something similarly benign, it's an occupational hazard
If one of the blokes slips the other guys cock in his mouth, it is a bi-sexual act - as it is for the other guy if he lets him carry on sucking
It really is that black & white
Believing otherwise, to me, is just kidding yourself - again probably linked to the internalised homophobia entrenched in us
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I will add the disclaimer, if two guys get it on, decide it isn't for them and put it down to experience, whilst at one point they were bi-curious, then engaged in a bi-sexual act, I think they can carry the straight mantle with them going forward |
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As I've got older I've realised that a lot (and I mean a LOT) of people are actually bi.
But, there's still quite an amount of genuinely straight people out there.
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Isn't that just another term for
"fab straight" |
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By *sirapMan 23 weeks ago
Manchester |
I certainly never thought about it when I was younger, now I’m a bit older, I’d say I am and have had some bi experiences. The more the merrier! |
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To the men who like other men can speak for themselves. Dont care if you're gay or bi as long as your happy but I dont and never will like men in a sexual manner |
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No, there's no surely about it. I'm not bi or playful or any other phrase.
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! "
Could not be further from the truth, there are 100% straight men like myself, and one of the most irritating thing is people who cannot take no for a answer or try it on after boundaries are agreed. It does nothing to help improve mens reputation on here.
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! "
I find it a bit strange that people believe this.
There's lots of men and women who are absolutely 100% straight. My husband being one of them. |
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We are just talking about consent right?
Agree,play, check continue etc.
I’ve never played with anyone who didn’t make it really clear that they were enthusiastic in their consent. |
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Each to their own boundaries respected but if it feels good why not? I suppose most on here are back in the day mindset just saying |
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By *aulnextMan 23 weeks ago
Hoar Cross Staffordshire |
Yes don’t put it on my profile but love cock fun |
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By *andb69Couple 22 weeks ago
leeds |
It's the idiots that claim everyone is a bit bi and therefore feel it's ok to try it on with a guy who wants to play straight that ruin for the bi guys that are willing to respect boundaries.
Some of us are completely straight and are mentally and physically turned off when another guy makes a play for their cock. |
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Sadly no, appreciate I’m missing out but have no interest in women and am sexually repulsed by them. |
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The best kind of party is when we play and bi content is there. It doesn’t matter what happens when we play, so long as it’s fun and pleasurable. Staying true to your convictions isn’t a crime. Do what you believe is right. |
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I consider myself straight, but my last mf meet I ended up cleaning his wife’s juices off his cock  |
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By *mmaleiaWoman 22 weeks ago
East Northamptonshire |
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If a woman says she is straight do people really see it as a challenge to prove to her that she is wrong? "
Oh yes they do try |
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! "
Not everyone but not all admit to it especially guys.
Although hetroromantic I'm a proud cock sucker and prefer to be open about it so I can more easily meet bi couples when by myself and bi guys when with my kink partner. |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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No disagree Mick is 100% straight not even anal with sher |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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Totally agree with you on that one  |
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Love bi men and couples x
Message me x |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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I'm straight. I'd stop proceedings. |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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I have no interest in fucking or sucking a guy but in the heat of the moment to give a helping hand to guide him in then yes I would and would appreciate the help the other way around |
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I don’t fancy men but absolutely love the look and feel of a cock in my hand and mouth. Telling my wife was the best decision I made ever |
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Nope, some people are straight - this is the type of statement that puts straight couples off meetings bi couples. |
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"Each to their own boundaries respected but if it feels good why not? I suppose most on here are back in the day mindset just saying "
Being straight isn't back in the day.. It's just being straight. |
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"Each to their own boundaries respected but if it feels good why not? I suppose most on here are back in the day mindset just saying
Being straight isn't back in the day.. It's just being straight. "
According to the ONS from the 2021 census 89.4% of the population are straight. Of course people can lie but not 89% of people. On this site, and others like it there's likely to be a higher percentage of non straight in varying degrees but it doesn't follow that everyone is a little bit bi. |
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"Each to their own boundaries respected but if it feels good why not? I suppose most on here are back in the day mindset just saying
Being straight isn't back in the day.. It's just being straight.
According to the ONS from the 2021 census 89.4% of the population are straight. Of course people can lie but not 89% of people. On this site, and others like it there's likely to be a higher percentage of non straight in varying degrees but it doesn't follow that everyone is a little bit bi."
That's a lot of people for the bi mafia to convert. |
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"Nope, some people are straight - this is the type of statement that puts straight couples off meetings bi couples."
A good point |
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"Each to their own boundaries respected but if it feels good why not? I suppose most on here are back in the day mindset just saying
Being straight isn't back in the day.. It's just being straight.
According to the ONS from the 2021 census 89.4% of the population are straight. Of course people can lie but not 89% of people. On this site, and others like it there's likely to be a higher percentage of non straight in varying degrees but it doesn't follow that everyone is a little bit bi."
Where do they get this figure from though. Sure as hell they didn't ask 100% of the male population. |
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As long as you dont touch anyone who says no and are all consenting adults it doesnt matter at all so why worry about whether someone is bi or straight.
I think trying to ‘convert’ someone is absolutely wrong or accidentally on purpose touching them. If someone is bi they will discover it themselves in their own time.
Just enjoy being you and respect others wishes please. |
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I think people are way too focussed on labelling each other and there seems to be all kinds of rules (on here at least) around the fact that a man can’t ever experiment ever otherwise he’s bi or gay.
But if a woman gets with women regularly for her husband, she’s still straight. If a gay man tries it with a woman, he’s still gay.
The whole thing makes no sense.
I’ve realised it’s best to stop labelling people and let others enjoy themselves without judgment |
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"They’re not. Really they’re not. A lot of people are straight. Or gay.
^^ this. 100%"
Ditto this..
I find the whole assumption that not all men or women are straight to be pretty disrespectful ..
It smacks of arrogance for the individual person and I say this as a bi (at times) bloke ..
How we can expect those who prejudice LGBTQ to respect and accept others when some in this society who are LGBTQ don't afford the same to those who are straight..? |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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Het exible is the term I believe, or at least that’s how Feeld puts it. It’s all a spectrum and some people are rigidly static on it whilst others are open to movement for a multitude of reasons. Just highlights the need for a clear conversation before engaging in activities, don’t want to overstep boundaries in the heat of the moment. |
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"Each to their own boundaries respected but if it feels good why not? I suppose most on here are back in the day mindset just saying
Being straight isn't back in the day.. It's just being straight.
According to the ONS from the 2021 census 89.4% of the population are straight. Of course people can lie but not 89% of people. On this site, and others like it there's likely to be a higher percentage of non straight in varying degrees but it doesn't follow that everyone is a little bit bi.
Where do they get this figure from though. Sure as hell they didn't ask 100% of the male population. "
I’m sure 89% of people didn’t lie - but maybe 50% did? There’s no way of knowing.
Though to contradict myself - I did see a study that analysed pr0n sites and it seemed to match the results in that survey. 90% watch straight porn, 10% watching other…. Though it did have a caveat that nearly every user who had watched straight porn has also watched same-sex porn at some point |
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"They’re not. Really they’re not. A lot of people are straight. Or gay.
^^ this. 100%
Ditto this..
I find the whole assumption that not all men or women are straight to be pretty disrespectful ..
It smacks of arrogance for the individual person and I say this as a bi (at times) bloke ..
How we can expect those who prejudice LGBTQ to respect and accept others when some in this society who are LGBTQ don't afford the same to those who are straight..?"
Halle-fuckin-lujah!
Common sense and understanding at last |
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier!
Not everyone but not all admit to it especially guys.
Although hetroromantic I'm a proud cock sucker and prefer to be open about it so I can more easily meet bi couples when by myself and bi guys when with my kink partner."
I am exactly the same as above. I have also met Str8 couples. In the middle of the mfm a few hubbys have just gone down on me out of the blue. So I think many more men are curious then let on. |
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The last group play we were involved (3M and 3F), 5 were Bi and Mr WW the only straight one.
I had no interest, thoughts, feelings in the guys and just moved on the bed when they started soft play with each other. I was left with the 3 F, seems like a good deal to me 
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By *ustBoWoman 22 weeks ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"Why are straight people, mostly men, the only ones who ever have to justify themselves on here?
If I say I'm straight it means I'm straight but yet people like to mock and say "ye right".
If a woman says she is straight do people really see it as a challenge to prove to her that she is wrong? "
Yes they do. I have had several people on here telling me to be with a woman and that I won't know I don't like or dislike it until I try. The fact that I don't find women sexually attractive is ignored completely by them.
I'm straight I'm not bi or bi curious and it's feck all to do with being homophobic or not open minded. It's my sexuality.
It's who I am and I'm not going to pretend to be anything else to keep narrow minded individuals happy.Because that is how I see anyone who decides they get to tell or presume about others what their sexual preferences should be.
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"Each to their own boundaries respected but if it feels good why not? I suppose most on here are back in the day mindset just saying
Being straight isn't back in the day.. It's just being straight.
According to the ONS from the 2021 census 89.4% of the population are straight. Of course people can lie but not 89% of people. On this site, and others like it there's likely to be a higher percentage of non straight in varying degrees but it doesn't follow that everyone is a little bit bi.
Where do they get this figure from though. Sure as hell they didn't ask 100% of the male population. "
Have a look on the ons website. I'm sure it will tell you how their stats are gathered. |
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"They’re not. Really they’re not. A lot of people are straight. Or gay.
^^ this. 100%
Ditto this..
I find the whole assumption that not all men or women are straight to be pretty disrespectful ..
It smacks of arrogance for the individual person and I say this as a bi (at times) bloke ..
How we can expect those who prejudice LGBTQ to respect and accept others when some in this society who are LGBTQ don't afford the same to those who are straight..?"
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"Why are straight people, mostly men, the only ones who ever have to justify themselves on here?
If I say I'm straight it means I'm straight but yet people like to mock and say "ye right".
If a woman says she is straight do people really see it as a challenge to prove to her that she is wrong? "
Yes they do. It's the reason we no longer meet couples with a bi woman. Even if she does say 'happy to play straight '. We've had too many experiences where they just assume I'll change my mind. |
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I'm not bi but tease..I'm not interested in women sexually. But I find women sexier. If I watch ff porn I'm doing so because I can imagine how it feels if I was the receiving woman. I don't want it done because I'd never return the favour ever so I'd never be bi. I think sex is mutual and if I'm not willing to please I don't expect pleasure to be given. |
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"They’re not. Really they’re not. A lot of people are straight. Or gay.
^^ this. 100%
Ditto this..
I find the whole assumption that not all men or women are straight to be pretty disrespectful ..
It smacks of arrogance for the individual person and I say this as a bi (at times) bloke ..
How we can expect those who prejudice LGBTQ to respect and accept others when some in this society who are LGBTQ don't afford the same to those who are straight..?"
100% this. |
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Nope, my partner is definitely not bi, or even bi playful. We were at a bi night at one of our local clubs recently, and we ended up in a small orgy, with another woman, two TVs and 2 bi guys. One of the TVs tried to wank my partner to which he firmly but respectfully declined, saying that it's not him who's bi but me. He was absolutely fine with witnessing the bi male play but not interested in joining. Even though he is aware bi men are a turn on for me, and if he decided to try, I'd be fully supportive.
So no, OP, not everyone is bi. |
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I've had opening messages from couples telling me I'm too old and too straight for this site and I would never have any success here but if I agreed to play bi they would consider adding me to their to-do list.
When I challenged them on how successful this approach was they said I was an idiot because I was the first to ever turn them down and it was my loss.
In the forums I've been told numerous times that I'm afraid of my true sexuality and that I needed to stop being so closed minded and start exploring more.
I often wonder if I was to contact any of those profiles making demands or telling them how wrong they were in their preferences how long it would take them to start a thread here whinging about guys not respecting boundaries?
You will respect me when I say I am straight or you will get an equally ignorant or ridiculous response. |
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"Each to their own boundaries respected but if it feels good why not? I suppose most on here are back in the day mindset just saying
Being straight isn't back in the day.. It's just being straight.
According to the ONS from the 2021 census 89.4% of the population are straight. Of course people can lie but not 89% of people. On this site, and others like it there's likely to be a higher percentage of non straight in varying degrees but it doesn't follow that everyone is a little bit bi.
Where do they get this figure from though. Sure as hell they didn't ask 100% of the male population.
Have a look on the ons website. I'm sure it will tell you how their stats are gathered. "
Yep...its from the 2021 census but think it was an optional question but it'll be as close as you can get. Think you are fined if you don't complete the census so the return rate is very high. |
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One of my least favourite sayings is
'women are like spaghetti, straight until wet'.
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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Always go for it.... everyone is bi if the couple are sexy enough.
Sarah xx |
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By *bagainMan 22 weeks ago
aberdeen |
Turned bisexual after my divorce. Best decision I made |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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hahahaha brilliant.. I've not heard that one before.
Sarah xx |
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"Always go for it.... everyone is bi if the couple are sexy enough.
Sarah xx"
No! They aren't |
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"hahahaha brilliant.. I've not heard that one before.
Sarah xx"
The spaghetti one?
If you use 'reply+quote' under the post you're replying to we know who you're answering |
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! "
It's all mathematical. Statistically you'll have the
Completely bi
Very bi
Somewhat bi
Bi curious
Single sexed (straight/gay)
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"Always go for it.... everyone is bi if the couple are sexy enough.
Sarah xx"
Really? 
You'd ignore someone's sexual orientation and boundaries if you thought they were sexy enough?
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier!
Nope. I stop because I am just not interested.
Been told there is no such thing as straight after 6 pints of lager but again I disagree. Sober or d*unk I’m simply not interested in other guys."
This. |
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I’m gay.
Never been interested or aroused by women in the slightest.
Do I believe a lot more people are bisexual or have bi-leanings than they let on… absolutely.
Do I believe there’s no such thing as 100% straight or 100% gay, no. |
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Years ago we met this “straight “ guy in a club. In the middle of this enjoyable mmf the guy rolled over and suddenly wrapped his lips around my cock.
My wife noticed the look of absolute shock and horror on my face and collapsed into hysterical giggles.
Our “straight” stormed off in a huff. Got dressed and fled from the club.
It’s a fact. Some of us are irredeemably straight. In any circumstances.
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"Why are straight people, mostly men, the only ones who ever have to justify themselves on here?
If I say I'm straight it means I'm straight but yet people like to mock and say "ye right".
If a woman says she is straight do people really see it as a challenge to prove to her that she is wrong? "
I guess "No means, No." Doesn't apply to straight men. |
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"Always go for it.... everyone is bi if the couple are sexy enough.
Sarah xx"
Do you mean like all scousers will nick your car wheels, all black people use drugs and are yardies etc ?
That sort of logic.. |
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"Always go for it.... everyone is bi if the couple are sexy enough.
Sarah xx
Do you mean like all scousers will nick your car wheels, all black people use drugs and are yardies etc ?
That sort of logic.."
I'd go with that all Scouse guys think they are funny  |
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By *glyBettyTV/TS 22 weeks ago
About 3 feet away from the fence |
On this website? I believe around 85% percent of men on here have bi-sexual tendencies to some degree, even if they think they don't.
In the wider population? No absolutely not.
This site in particular attracts a certain type of "straight" man |
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We are both completely bisexual |
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I am bi nothing better than a cock in u and fucking pussy |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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No I don’t think so, I’m bisexual and have actively chosen to play with hubby with other women
If he was bisexual he would have come out by now and added cock to the playlist |
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"Always go for it.... everyone is bi if the couple are sexy enough.
Sarah xx
Do you mean like all scousers will nick your car wheels, all black people use drugs and are yardies etc ?
That sort of logic..
I'd go with that all Scouse guys think they are funny "
Some of us are
In our own heads that is.. |
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Nope, not bi or curious at all here. |
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By *glyBettyTV/TS 22 weeks ago
About 3 feet away from the fence |
Guys, if you don't want attention from gay men, a good idea would be to try not to put so many arse pics on your profile |
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"Always go for it.... everyone is bi if the couple are sexy enough.
Sarah xx"
Wrong, I would never be with a woman no matter how hot she is.
As others have said, this is what can put straight people off meeting bi couple's, when they assume we don't know our own minds and will change it.
I have absolutely no issue with anyone being bi/gay/pan etc, but I do have a problem with those who will still try for bi play when I've made it clear I'm straight. |
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I mean, I wish it were true - I see some really hot couples on here and I dream of kneeling alongside the woman, but that wouldn't happen even if I was Tom Hardy/Tom Holland/Tom Selleck (delete as appropriate). |
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It's interesting that some folks seem to completely bypass consent for this.
I mean don't get me wrong for some folks it's good to experiment and open me chapters but some are old enough and wise enough to know what they do and don't like and wish for and that choice should be as respected as any other. |
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I speak to anyone, doesn’t mean I want to fuck them or be fucked by them.
It means I’m polite, courteous and friendly.
Be who you want to be. Allow me to be who I am.
The arrogance of some is astounding |
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If in the moment I'm not enjoying something I stop, just like I'd expect anyone else to do. Maybe I'm misreading this, but it feels like it's veering uncomfortably close to sexuality being a choice.
Typically I have an issue with labels, they often restrict and force people to stay in the confines of their box. However, labels and stereotypes do have their place.
Ultimately am I going to do something that I feel I'm going to regret? If yes stop, if no carry on. |
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"If in the moment I'm not enjoying something I stop, just like I'd expect anyone else to do. Maybe I'm misreading this, but it feels like it's veering uncomfortably close to sexuality being a choice.
Typically I have an issue with labels, they often restrict and force people to stay in the confines of their box. However, labels and stereotypes do have their place.
Ultimately am I going to do something that I feel I'm going to regret? If yes stop, if no carry on."
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"If in the moment I'm not enjoying something I stop, just like I'd expect anyone else to do. Maybe I'm misreading this, but it feels like it's veering uncomfortably close to sexuality being a choice.
Typically I have an issue with labels, they often restrict and force people to stay in the confines of their box. However, labels and stereotypes do have their place.
Ultimately am I going to do something that I feel I'm going to regret? If yes stop, if no carry on.
Well said! "
I don't care about labels, people need to grow up. We're all adults. If you're going to let a lable stop what you want to do or be, then that's you're own problem. People need to get over their own personal insecurities. |
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"If in the moment I'm not enjoying something I stop, just like I'd expect anyone else to do. Maybe I'm misreading this, but it feels like it's veering uncomfortably close to sexuality being a choice.
Typically I have an issue with labels, they often restrict and force people to stay in the confines of their box. However, labels and stereotypes do have their place.
Ultimately am I going to do something that I feel I'm going to regret? If yes stop, if no carry on.
Well said!
I don't care about labels, people need to grow up. We're all adults. If you're going to let a lable stop what you want to do or be, then that's you're own problem. People need to get over their own personal insecurities."
I'm not sure that anyone has shown any insecurities, in fact just the opposite, it's people saying they know their own minds and preferences. Labels are useful when saying to someone what you are comfortable with rather than going into a long drawn out conversation when one word will do. |
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"If in the moment I'm not enjoying something I stop, just like I'd expect anyone else to do. Maybe I'm misreading this, but it feels like it's veering uncomfortably close to sexuality being a choice.
Typically I have an issue with labels, they often restrict and force people to stay in the confines of their box. However, labels and stereotypes do have their place.
Ultimately am I going to do something that I feel I'm going to regret? If yes stop, if no carry on.
Well said!
I don't care about labels, people need to grow up. We're all adults. If you're going to let a lable stop what you want to do or be, then that's you're own problem. People need to get over their own personal insecurities."
The label straight seems to challenging some people. |
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I often wonder if this "everyone is bi" mindset is an attempt to offset some sort of misplaced guilt?
Even in today's enlighten times, for guys, there is still a certain stigma attached to "not being straight". There's no reason why that SHOULD be the case, but it's definitely still a thing... I work in Education, and still in 2014, the worst insults that the boys at school can hurl at each other is "gay". It is sad that this is the case! but I wonder if by claiming "everyone is a bit bi" then it releases that silly societally imposed guilt.
Personally I have no doubt that I am 100% straight, I have no attraction at all to blokes or penises. I also have no problem with embracing the things that do excite me... if I was interested in penises, I would be embracing them
I am just happy for people to be what THEY want, and that totally includes being straight... there's no need for any stigma about it whatever we choose.
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! "
No, definitely there are pure gay and pure straight people of both genders. Even more there is another controversial point that bi don’t exist and are just greedy straight or gay who can’t accept that. None of these statements are true! |
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Both 100% straight here. Not even the slightest bit bi or even bi curious.
In hubby's words "
I would rather tea-bag a bear trap, than have another man intentionally touch my dick."
No offence to those that do lean that way, it just doesn't float our boat at all.
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! "
Maybe it's not gender specific for me? But I've not met a girl that has given my the same fanny flatters as some men have...but maybe I will some day |
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"They’re not. Really they’re not. A lot of people are straight. Or gay.
^^ this. 100%
Ditto this..
I find the whole assumption that not all men or women are straight to be pretty disrespectful ..
It smacks of arrogance for the individual person and I say this as a bi (at times) bloke ..
How we can expect those who prejudice LGBTQ to respect and accept others when some in this society who are LGBTQ don't afford the same to those who are straight..?"
Totally agree |
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"Always go for it.... everyone is bi if the couple are sexy enough.
Sarah xx"
No, they’re not |
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Why do we need to double check the label of people's profiles when you just need to chat or to meet with them to know their preferences or limits. Thereafter, respecting their choices, without pushing anyone in situations that they are feeling uncomfortable with? |
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By *4bimMan 22 weeks ago
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interesting points of view |
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Actually I got a question and I dont care if it offends folks, to the men who are married but sleep with men behind their wifes back, why do you do it? Why not be truthful to yourself to who you are thats my question to y'all? |
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"Actually I got a question and I dont care if it offends folks, to the men who are married but sleep with men behind their wifes back, why do you do it? Why not be truthful to yourself to who you are thats my question to y'all?"
Surely it's not themselves they're deceiving? |
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"Actually I got a question and I dont care if it offends folks, to the men who are married but sleep with men behind their wifes back, why do you do it? Why not be truthful to yourself to who you are thats my question to y'all?"
I don't see that much of a difference from married men who sleep with women behind their wives' backs. |
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Nope. I'm completely straight. |
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"Actually I got a question and I dont care if it offends folks, to the men who are married but sleep with men behind their wifes back, why do you do it? Why not be truthful to yourself to who you are thats my question to y'all?
Surely it's not themselves they're deceiving? "
Your right they deceive everyone |
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"Actually I got a question and I dont care if it offends folks, to the men who are married but sleep with men behind their wifes back, why do you do it? Why not be truthful to yourself to who you are thats my question to y'all?
I don't see that much of a difference from married men who sleep with women behind their wives' backs. "
Oh it is different if you're a married man claiming to be straight why you sleeping with men behind your wifes back? If you want to with men thats kool be with a man but why deceive your wife and to then put her at a health risk? To me thats selfish and I dont a fuck if anyone has a problem with what Im saying its rassclart true |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! "
Also known as "fab straight" |
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"Actually I got a question and I dont care if it offends folks, to the men who are married but sleep with men behind their wifes back, why do you do it? Why not be truthful to yourself to who you are thats my question to y'all?
I don't see that much of a difference from married men who sleep with women behind their wives' backs. Oh it is different if you're a married man claiming to be straight why you sleeping with men behind your wifes back? If you want to with men thats kool be with a man but why deceive your wife and to then put her at a health risk? To me thats selfish and I dont a fuck if anyone has a problem with what Im saying its rassclart true"
It's a health risk if you fuck around without protection regardless of gender etc. There seems to be another issue here than is being transcribed
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No Im asking why men who are married to women sleep with men behind their backs but claim their straight which clearly the're not simple question really which requires a simple answer |
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Oh we’re getting the popcorn ready, this looks to be heating up nicely. |
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By *WB85Man 22 weeks ago
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I'm that old fashioned kind if straight that's only attracted to women. Not into men or tv / ts. |
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"Actually I got a question and I dont care if it offends folks, to the men who are married but sleep with men behind their wifes back, why do you do it? Why not be truthful to yourself to who you are thats my question to y'all?
Surely it's not themselves they're deceiving? Your right they deceive everyone"
Or maybe just the wife... I'm not sure that anyone else's opinion is relevant.
Why does anyone think that everyone's personal life is public property? |
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"I'm that old fashioned kind if straight that's only attracted to women. Not into men or tv / ts. "
Thank you, at least you get it
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I never use to eat peppers, didn't like them at all. Now however I do.
I may stop liking them again in the future.
People are fluid, always in flux.
Asking me to define myself by a preference I had in the early 90s is about as productive as basing your identity on your preferred type of vegetable. |
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You can be gay and never once have had sex with a partner. It’s about same sex attraction, actually finding your own sex attractive. So you can easily be 100% gay or straight, no attraction no interest.
Bisexuality is a little more complex though, but as above it’s not the sexual act that makes you bi, it’s the attraction.
If you want to define an act to being gay or straight even that can be complex. Anal sex is often seen as something mainly indulged by gay men. Due to that if a man indulges in pegging for some people this would be a gay act, making that man gay or bisexual. Obviously that’s completely wrong it’s just a way of finding new pleasure, something heterosexual couples both can enjoy.
I have always believed if you’re attracted to your own sex, then you are closer to being bi or gay, than just occasionally playing with your sexuality.
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"I never use to eat peppers, didn't like them at all. Now however I do.
I may stop liking them again in the future.
People are fluid, always in flux.
Asking me to define myself by a preference I had in the early 90s is about as productive as basing your identity on your preferred type of vegetable."
Peppers are a fruit dude... be honest yo yourself |
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"I never use to eat peppers, didn't like them at all. Now however I do.
I may stop liking them again in the future.
People are fluid, always in flux.
Asking me to define myself by a preference I had in the early 90s is about as productive as basing your identity on your preferred type of vegetable."
I'm no expert but dietary preference might be a different ball game to sexual orientation? We are constantly told that people are "born that way", if that's true, not sure favouring a capsicum because your tastes have changed is the same as favouring a bit of cock? |
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"I never use to eat peppers, didn't like them at all. Now however I do.
I may stop liking them again in the future.
People are fluid, always in flux.
Asking me to define myself by a preference I had in the early 90s is about as productive as basing your identity on your preferred type of vegetable.
I'm no expert but dietary preference might be a different ball game to sexual orientation? We are constantly told that people are "born that way", if that's true, not sure favouring a capsicum because your tastes have changed is the same as favouring a bit of cock? "
My point is, that many people lock themselves into a mindset but often that can change back and forth across a lifetime.
Often this can happen a bit early on.
I know quite a few people who came out as gay only to notice they felt bi later in life. People like Bowie came out as bi and retracted it later and said he was straight and a load of us thought we were straight until we met the right individual.
The genitalia often are irrelevant.
I know with age this certainly feels more true from my own life's experience |
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"No Im asking why men who are married to women sleep with men behind their backs but claim their straight which clearly the're not simple question really which requires a simple answer"
Sure, but then you're adding unnecessary baggage onto the question. |
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"I never use to eat peppers, didn't like them at all. Now however I do.
I may stop liking them again in the future.
People are fluid, always in flux.
Asking me to define myself by a preference I had in the early 90s is about as productive as basing your identity on your preferred type of vegetable.
I'm no expert but dietary preference might be a different ball game to sexual orientation? We are constantly told that people are "born that way", if that's true, not sure favouring a capsicum because your tastes have changed is the same as favouring a bit of cock?
My point is, that many people lock themselves into a mindset but often that can change back and forth across a lifetime.
Often this can happen a bit early on.
I know quite a few people who came out as gay only to notice they felt bi later in life. People like Bowie came out as bi and retracted it later and said he was straight and a load of us thought we were straight until we met the right individual.
The genitalia often are irrelevant.
I know with age this certainly feels more true from my own life's experience "
Interesting argument. So orientation can change through evolution, environment, behavioural factors not just from birth? |
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"If in the moment I'm not enjoying something I stop, just like I'd expect anyone else to do. Maybe I'm misreading this, but it feels like it's veering uncomfortably close to sexuality being a choice.
Typically I have an issue with labels, they often restrict and force people to stay in the confines of their box. However, labels and stereotypes do have their place.
Ultimately am I going to do something that I feel I'm going to regret? If yes stop, if no carry on.
Well said!
I don't care about labels, people need to grow up. We're all adults. If you're going to let a lable stop what you want to do or be, then that's you're own problem. People need to get over their own personal insecurities."
And this just about sums up the entitlement/arrogance/ ingonrance of some people. A label is a discription of you as a person, by trying to get rid of labels its basically the mindset that i can have anyone i want and no one should challenge me.
Imagine going into a supermarket and all the food was in the same packaging how would we find what we want?
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"I never use to eat peppers, didn't like them at all. Now however I do.
I may stop liking them again in the future.
People are fluid, always in flux.
Asking me to define myself by a preference I had in the early 90s is about as productive as basing your identity on your preferred type of vegetable.
I'm no expert but dietary preference might be a different ball game to sexual orientation? We are constantly told that people are "born that way", if that's true, not sure favouring a capsicum because your tastes have changed is the same as favouring a bit of cock?
My point is, that many people lock themselves into a mindset but often that can change back and forth across a lifetime.
Often this can happen a bit early on.
I know quite a few people who came out as gay only to notice they felt bi later in life. People like Bowie came out as bi and retracted it later and said he was straight and a load of us thought we were straight until we met the right individual.
The genitalia often are irrelevant.
I know with age this certainly feels more true from my own life's experience
Interesting argument. So orientation can change through evolution, environment, behavioural factors not just from birth? "
Yours did - over time I assume you don't find the same age bracket attractive as you once did, or constantly over your life time. What about your kinks?
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Straight guys - when your wank, does your cock feel nice in your hand? Does it feel gay wanking a cock until it comes?
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White I love playing with mf couples....one of my favourite things actually ....I have never had any desire to touch or be touched sexually by a guy. No matter how turned on I am I can never imagine wanting sexual contact with the guy or guys. A lot of gay or bi people on here don't seem to be able to grasp that. |
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"Straight guys - when your wank, does your cock feel nice in your hand? Does it feel gay wanking a cock until it comes?
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Does gay not mean being attracted to another person of the same sex ? So if I wank myself that's not another person.....bit of a strange argument I think. |
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Wow! Straight erasure at it's finest. If this was any other way round, it would be homophobic. It attitudes like this that give anyone who is Bi or Pan even, a bad name. It make it look like we can't control ourselves and think everyone is ripe for the taking in certain situations.
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! "
I’m bi playful in the sense I’ll have group fun with other women that includes men, I’ll kiss cos guys like it, and they can touch me.
But i wouldn’t ever touch women or be interested in meeting 1:1 or dating them.
Each to their own I guess! |
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"Straight guys - when your wank, does your cock feel nice in your hand? Does it feel gay wanking a cock until it comes?
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Mate, get a grip..
Celibate people have genitals too, does that mean they're also bi curious in your opinion?
Medical staff in the course of their duties touch genitals, it doesn't mean they are sexually attracted to the person.. |
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A lot of girls we meet say they are bi but most are just into kissing and stroking. Lx |
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"Sadly no, appreciate I’m missing out but have no interest in women and am sexually repulsed by them. "
Fair point |
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"No Im asking why men who are married to women sleep with men behind their backs but claim their straight which clearly the're not simple question really which requires a simple answer
Sure, but then you're adding unnecessary baggage onto the question."
I have to Im afraid because I feel people are avoiding honest discussions for the the sake of avoiding accountibility. Now just slighty coming off topic here I know someone who was with a guy and he cheated on her with another man. Obviously cheating is bad regardless who does it but with this scenario was a particular one because this guy according to her was quite or appeared homophobic so for him to be sleeping with men behind her back Im sure some of you with a heart can imagine the psychological and traumatisation she went through when finding out. In fact it was bad that she ended up harming herself. I just think when certain men who do that dont know what affect or harm they may cause simply because they're not being about themselves |
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just discussed this with the wife.....when asked if she would go down on another woman, she was no as she only found men sexually attractive.
For me, I have wanked with mates in my 20's, making each other cum many times.
I've sucked one off too, just to see what it was like, never being flexible enough to suck myself off lol.
I love the taste of cum, and love to cum kiss my wife, enjoy her wanking me off into my mouth and also wank myself off into my mouth.
I've watched my wife fuck an ex colleague in front of me and licked her her clean after, and also licked her juices off his cock.
It just seems right at the time...and thats it....label or not. |
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! "
Some people aren’t Bi… i have absolutely no interest in sexual contact with another man. Just the way im wired |
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"No Im asking why men who are married to women sleep with men behind their backs but claim their straight which clearly the're not simple question really which requires a simple answer
Sure, but then you're adding unnecessary baggage onto the question. I have to Im afraid because I feel people are avoiding honest discussions for the the sake of avoiding accountibility. Now just slighty coming off topic here I know someone who was with a guy and he cheated on her with another man. Obviously cheating is bad regardless who does it but with this scenario was a particular one because this guy according to her was quite or appeared homophobic so for him to be sleeping with men behind her back Im sure some of you with a heart can imagine the psychological and traumatisation she went through when finding out. In fact it was bad that she ended up harming herself. I just think when certain men who do that dont know what affect or harm they may cause simply because they're not being about themselves "
Men lie. Women lie. This is just called being human , many humans are secretive in their own ways / beliefs / stigma , they don’t think about damage / collateral as such until after . Being deceitful/ secretive is themselves for millions of people , it’s their personality .
Cheating is cheating , the woman was pissed as she got a double whammy of him cheating and him also being bisexual so she felt lied to on two
Fronts and had time wasted .
If someone cheated on me it then the act of cheating is the disrespect and would result in termination of relationship immediately, not the person they cheated with affecting my view on it .
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"No Im asking why men who are married to women sleep with men behind their backs but claim their straight which clearly the're not simple question really which requires a simple answer
Sure, but then you're adding unnecessary baggage onto the question. I have to Im afraid because I feel people are avoiding honest discussions for the the sake of avoiding accountibility. Now just slighty coming off topic here I know someone who was with a guy and he cheated on her with another man. Obviously cheating is bad regardless who does it but with this scenario was a particular one because this guy according to her was quite or appeared homophobic so for him to be sleeping with men behind her back Im sure some of you with a heart can imagine the psychological and traumatisation she went through when finding out. In fact it was bad that she ended up harming herself. I just think when certain men who do that dont know what affect or harm they may cause simply because they're not being about themselves "
But they are being themselves. It may not be the way you want them to be but far too many people spend far too much time wishing other people would be different than "themselves". |
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! "
I have always been bu curious, love a woman to play with and love a nice big ripe juicy pair ???? |
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I tried and I can definitely tell you I’m not bi even if some people try to convince me otherwise.
My preference is cock or two, maybe three if I’m feeling adventurous. |
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! "
I am not phobic about it but simply not interested at all. I does nothing for me. However, considering the number of men who are bi on here, it almost looks like it is compulsory.  |
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"No Im asking why men who are married to women sleep with men behind their backs but claim their straight which clearly the're not simple question really which requires a simple answer
Sure, but then you're adding unnecessary baggage onto the question. I have to Im afraid because I feel people are avoiding honest discussions for the the sake of avoiding accountibility. Now just slighty coming off topic here I know someone who was with a guy and he cheated on her with another man. Obviously cheating is bad regardless who does it but with this scenario was a particular one because this guy according to her was quite or appeared homophobic so for him to be sleeping with men behind her back Im sure some of you with a heart can imagine the psychological and traumatisation she went through when finding out. In fact it was bad that she ended up harming herself. I just think when certain men who do that dont know what affect or harm they may cause simply because they're not being about themselves
But they are being themselves. It may not be the way you want them to be but far too many people spend far too much time wishing other people would be different than "themselves". "
I disagree, when a guy tells you his straight but sleep with men how is that being themselves? Like I said people can be who they are without judgement if they're honest about it however I will judge you when you lie about it |
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I’m not interested in other men it just doesn’t turn me on. I have had tons of group sex in my time so it’s not like I haven’t seen other guys in sexual positions.
There is just something about the thought of a guy that is unappealing. I’ve had the chance to go with trans women a number of times. Some who had top surgery and others that had the whole thing. Again it just doesn’t do it for me.
I have no problem with anyone else being bi or gay but it is a bit annoying for people to make the assumption that because they like something then I should too. |
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"Straight guys - when your wank, does your cock feel nice in your hand? Does it feel gay wanking a cock until it comes?
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Although this was just a tongue in cheek comment not meant to be taken serious, so far I've had a few guys reply privately saying they've often thought that it was a bit gay to do it.
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100%
Sex is... Sex!  |
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By *j1981Man 22 weeks ago
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! "
Rule nothing out... go with the flow
Pm sent |
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"If In the moment do you go for it or stop it? I think everyone is Bi playful! The more the merrier! "
Definitely for me and in a 3way I sucked a cock, and I would probably do again |
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Well there are a lot more bi guys out there than they would care to admit. |
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"I do not find men attractive "
Neither do I, it's more about the sex rather than attraction. |
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"Well there are a lot more bi guys out there than they would care to admit."
Yeah! I don't know why guys say I would never ect, at the end of the day it's just sex not necessarily a life choice. |
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"I've had opening messages from couples telling me I'm too old and too straight for this site and I would never have any success here but if I agreed to play bi they would consider adding me to their to-do list.
When I challenged them on how successful this approach was they said I was an idiot because I was the first to ever turn them down and it was my loss.
In the forums I've been told numerous times that I'm afraid of my true sexuality and that I needed to stop being so closed minded and start exploring more.
I often wonder if I was to contact any of those profiles making demands or telling them how wrong they were in their preferences how long it would take them to start a thread here whinging about guys not respecting boundaries?
You will respect me when I say I am straight or you will get an equally ignorant or ridiculous response."
Exactly this!!! And I've had multiple men and myself and None of the hats were bi or gay they simply weren't interested in the other males around except to hold my hair back hold my legs open hold the camera etc! |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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"On here? Lol .. even in a group when it gets hot and heavy?
Yes even in a group.
No idea why this is hard to believe?"
does seem to be hard to believe on here, we have had straight couples where the female has been wanting ff play, and worst so far a female part of a couple in a club with no conversation or anything trying to "touch up" my lady. now weve played with bi blokes before that have respected boundaries, with no issues, but weve experienced alot of people that cant accept straight people with no interest in the same sex on here. |
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Fun is fun…. I’m not shy any more… |
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"Fun is fun…. I’m not shy any more… "
Oh do tell |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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"Why are straight people, mostly men, the only ones who ever have to justify themselves on here?
If I say I'm straight it means I'm straight but yet people like to mock and say "ye right".
If a woman says she is straight do people really see it as a challenge to prove to her that she is wrong? "
It's because most men lie on here. Alot of couples and women won't play with bi men, so alot og guys put straight instead.
Straight men playing with tvs too. (Nope, your bi) |
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I guess it's a curve rather than a straight line, but I'm quite far over to the 'straight' part of the graph. MFM threesomes are my favourite, so there's usually some male contact which doesn't bother me, but it's not something I look for. |
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My Mr is bisexual
I'm gently bi curious
I've had more issues with women trying to feel me up that I have no attraction to than we've had issue with men.
It seems to be just assumed women are bi curious or bi sexual and if they are that any women is an instant turn on and it's acceptable to 'play'
Even though I may be slightly bi curious I still have to be attracted to the woman
S xxx |
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My new partner is most definitely straight. She has zero interest in women. Simple. |
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By *rmrs95Couple 22 weeks ago
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"As long as you dont touch anyone who says no and are all consenting adults it doesnt matter at all so why worry about whether someone is bi or straight.
I think trying to ‘convert’ someone is absolutely wrong or accidentally on purpose touching them. If someone is bi they will discover it themselves in their own time.
Just enjoy being you and respect others wishes please. "
Absolutely x |
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"The best kind of party is when we play and bi content is there. It doesn’t matter what happens when we play, so long as it’s fun and pleasurable. Staying true to your convictions isn’t a crime. Do what you believe is right. "
totally agree. Each to their own. As a bi man I am happy to play straight or bi. I will always respect people's boundaries. It's all about consent and having fun.
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100 percent agree. Can quiet comfortable doing mmf but he touches her and looks at her and what he's doing. I know this might sound a bit straight and to point but I'm 100 percent straight. It's definitely not ME... |
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Sorry lets call a ace of spade a spade if you you're gay you basically only like anyone in the same sex, bi you're attracted to both sexes and straight you're attracted to the opposite sex end off |
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