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Increasing the number of couples who might say yes to a meet.
Then they hope once they are there with their cock out the wife won't be able to resist their magnificent member to the point she'll ignore her husband cock and sexuality |
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"It’s so annoying when single guys say they’re bi but their profile says straight. Then they say they don’t want people to know. Yeah, move on. Haha. "
I don't mind to much
As long as when they message they say
And to what level
But guy messaged
I said profile says straight
He said am bi
Ok so what do you like and dislike so we see if we are ok
What would I have to do
Or I'm a little bi
I have touched
Or I receive only but don't do anything back
Or yes all in no limits
Well actually I have never been with a guy and it's not for me |
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"Any bi gents we meet must suck cock before even seeing her naked. "
100% we have had 4 'straight ' guys message us this morning when questioned about this are miraculously bi but when told they wouldn't get near Mrs until they had or been sucked by Mr block us or dissappear off the fab universe is unreal |
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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago
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"What if you’re somewhere between straight and bi? I’d say I’m more partially orally bi, as in happy for a guy to suck me but not so sure the other way…"
You need to be honest about it so that a couple/ person can decide if you are right for them.
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"Any bi gents we meet must suck cock before even seeing her naked.
100% we have had 4 'straight ' guys message us this morning when questioned about this are miraculously bi but when told they wouldn't get near Mrs until they had or been sucked by Mr block us or dissappear off the fab universe is unreal "
lol chancers are funny  |
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"Any bi gents we meet must suck cock before even seeing her naked.
100% we have had 4 'straight ' guys message us this morning when questioned about this are miraculously bi but when told they wouldn't get near Mrs until they had or been sucked by Mr block us or dissappear off the fab universe is unreal
lol chancers are funny "
Absolutely they are x |
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"I have also found some guys are bi until they have had a wank and then suddenly they are straight again it's very annoying on the sister site to this when looking for guys "
Ahhh the male post nut clarity |
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"I've met straight couples and when I've got there, they've said hubby is bi but they keep that part private.
So it does work both ways.
Male play first will always sort out the fakers. "
This is definitely a thing with couples - hiding male bi predilections (the wife always declares openly bi in the profile). I’m fine with it though - it’s always a great time with completely uninhibited play.
The Straight males attending club Bi nights really kills the vibe though.
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"Possibly open to the idea of it, but unsure of their boundaries, how ‘how bi’ they’re interested in going? "
They’re going to want to pound your crinkly little star until you cry, it’s not worth it mate |
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"Just as bad couples who are ‘straight’ then, following a bit of chat, declare he’d like to try with a man or first meet will be with him only…"
Have you not been on this site for long?
^That’s a single guy with a fake couples profile
“Yeah, first meet will be with just me” LoL! |
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I think a big part of the issue is that the options Bisexual or Bi curious are a bit glib.
I really enjoy orally bi play with couples but I'm not attracted to men or wish to meet them alone.
So I'm not Bisexual, not curious (I know what I do and don't like), but orally-bi or hetero flexible aren't options. |
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We've found lots of straight guys (fab-straight) are more bi than the bi guys. Sure there are lots of guys pretending to be anything other than what they are — couples, straight, single, clean, STI free, etc.
I find that labels can be a hang up for some people. Bi is a spectrum not an all or nothing. Only like giving oral, thats bi. Only like receiving oral, thats bi too. Only like seeing him fuck your beautiful wife, eeeh the Jurys out. You decide what is right for you. Forget the label if that helps. |
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"We stipulate that they will be fucked/pegged by us both before any contact with Ms. Soon sees off the time wasters.  "
I'd love that but most bi couples in my experience want a top guy to fuck them both |
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See I say bi curious as I’ve never done anything with a guy. But I never got the lying about it. Especially since if stuff does start happened. How do they expect just going no is gonna work for them
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By *oxy jWoman 4 weeks ago
somerset |
we meet bi guys we wont meet bi oral only must be bi tops thats how we sort bi guys for us / hubs totally not interested in bi oral only would rather just seek a st8 guy ...but saying that they lie about that one too lol cant win unless you get your selection process correct |
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The Straight males attending club Bi nights really kills the vibe though.
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Absolutely this. Bi nights should be pretty much anything goes but the straight (frigid) guys totally ruin it.
Maybe they should have to suck a cock at the door before being allowed in?  |
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So I've been with quite a few t-girls and I've been lucky enough to have a fantastic meet with a bi couple were they both sucked my cock before he lay underneath her as I fucked her doggy,I kept pulling out and fucking his mouth then he guided me back into her pussy, after id cum he cleaned my cock and then her pussy
But i have no intention of sucking a cock,I'm not ruling out maybe wanking a cock but sucking a cock just isn't for me
So does that mean I'm not bi,bi curious or am a just pretending |
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"Any bi gents we meet must suck cock before even seeing her naked.
This is the easiest way to flush out the fakes.
Veris also help."
Must start doing this, so difficult to know how bi guys are or fakers. |
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By *f8u39Man 1 week ago
Manchester |
Here's my take. It's hard enough as it is for us guys to find a couple. If your profile says straight, they want bi. If your profile says bi, they want straight. It's a no win situation which I have come across time and time again.
If I met a.bi couple I would be more than happy to demonstrate before touching the wife. |
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Asking guys to kiss the male as well as suck , sorts the wheat from the chaff
If any females want to see their hubbty penetrate and ejaculate into another fella who may be on all fours with his tongue feverishly going down on her, then I am more than happy to undertake a full battery of bi guy tests - kiss him? blow him? rim him? bring it on |
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"Do you think it’s inexperienced guys that are curious/ think they’re het exible but actuallly aren’t when it comes down to it/ chicken out of the fantasy? Or just straight guys lying?"
All of the above...
The thing is, our time is limited so we like to know that everything will click, so to speak...we often find a no pressure social sorts that out beforehand because we can be clear about what we're looking for and also hear what they're seeking but a lot of 'single' guys can't manage that...while everyone has to start somewhere, we are looking for someone who knows what they're doing or at least is clear about what they want. It gets a bit tedious to always have to take the lead.
Since getting back on the horse together, we've found couples at bi nights at clubs is the way ahead for us...last one at VA was really good fun and we met some awesome people  |
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By *bxanfCouple 1 week ago
Bilston / Dudley / Anor Londo |
If we are meeting a bi guy we make it clear that J will be watching and using toys while myself and the guy go at it. We also make it clear that if they are not willing to reciprocate oral on me before/after I give it to them, the meet will end.
Keeps it clear up front and shock 90% leave you on read |
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"Here's my take. It's hard enough as it is for us guys to find a couple. If your profile says straight, they want bi. If your profile says bi, they want straight. It's a no win situation which I have come across time and time again.
If I met a.bi couple I would be more than happy to demonstrate before touching the wife."
But your profile says straight so we wouldn't even get off the starting blocks... |
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Not sure if this has been mentioned already but there still appears in some cases to be a huge stigma associated to bi men.
Bi woman or bi curious seems far more acceptable than a bi man and many profiles state no bi men whereas I’ve not seen one saying no bi woman.
So I am sure, and sadly so in the 21st century, that men still feel a need to hide that. Are they being true to themselves or are they hoping they will find a better chance of a meet with a single female?
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Many guys believe admitting they’re bi reduces the chance of a meet..
I’m bi and proud..
But bi males and bi male couples are still discriminated against on here..
I’m friends with and regularly chat to fully bi couples and they tell me about some of the disgusting messages they get..
But it seems cool to be a bi female, when most are pretending just to please hubby or gain attention..
They wouldn’t dream of dating another girl or have one on one private meet with another girl ..
Site full of double standards.. |
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Bi and proud here, we only meet openly bi people as that's what we want.
The number of times we get guys who'll "let Mr suck his cock" is unreal. Just no idea of the way an all in mmf / mmff works in the slightest, and TBH totally disrespects us as a couple IMO, just to try and get their leg over with the Mrs, who actually has no interest in 1 on 1 |
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"So I've been with quite a few t-girls and I've been lucky enough to have a fantastic meet with a bi couple were they both sucked my cock before he lay underneath her as I fucked her doggy,I kept pulling out and fucking his mouth then he guided me back into her pussy, after id cum he cleaned my cock and then her pussy
But i have no intention of sucking a cock,I'm not ruling out maybe wanking a cock but sucking a cock just isn't for me
So does that mean I'm not bi,bi curious or am a just pretending "
No, it tells us why you are Bi yourself |
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"Why do men message
You make it clear bi males
You chat like, dislike
Anything they want to try
Then you find out it's bs
Go message a couple who do not want bi males"
I really struggle to believe there are straight guys pretending bi to get to a pussy. I asked few of my gay friends if in hypothetical situation where they fancy a guy cock a lot and in order to get to suck it they need to lick his wife pussy. Guess what? 100% said no way they’ll go down on a woman to get to a cock they like. |
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Found this happening a lot when I was on here with my old fuck buddy. We only wanted bi guys and you’d either get guys lying about being bi or potentially worse, you’d get guys saying “I’m not bi but you can suck my cock”
Used to really wind me up. |
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"We stipulate that they will be fucked/pegged by us both before any contact with Ms. Soon sees off the time wasters. "
Keep seeing "test" like this on this thread. Where are you couples these sounds like a dream fantasy |
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"Why do men message
You make it clear bi males
You chat like, dislike
Anything they want to try
Then you find out it's bs
Go message a couple who do not want bi males
I really struggle to believe there are straight guys pretending bi to get to a pussy. I asked few of my gay friends if in hypothetical situation where they fancy a guy cock a lot and in order to get to suck it they need to lick his wife pussy. Guess what? 100% said no way they’ll go down on a woman to get to a cock they like. "
This is the issue. They say they will to get the meet and then refuse or expect to just get out of it in the play. |
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"Why do men message
You make it clear bi males
You chat like, dislike
Anything they want to try
Then you find out it's bs
Go message a couple who do not want bi males"
I consider myself bi, although tend to change my profile depending on whether I'm looking to meet men or women as my mood changes daily lol |
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I was never bi or close to it before . The lifestyle has opened my horizons and I now prefer meets with couples in a bi scenario. Even enjoy sucking cock now which I would never have even thought about before. Only works with a female in the room though. Not into meeting men alone. Do enjoy naughty daytime chats and wanks about it though. |
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Like most things a few spoil it for the rest of us…
I flip between straight or bi curious on profile and my profile text explains why if people read it…
Bi curious, as want to explore but shy nervous to just do it with anyone and 0 experience. So technically straight but not bi either…
Frustration is some couples won’t meet as they only seek straight guys and rightly so some couples won’t meet as they want someone experienced.
Fact of life - life isn’t fair, but it’s sunny  |
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I consider myself bi. Have tried many things, and realised I am only attracted to guys sexualy. I have no interest in meeting a guy 121, and state as much. I am NOT open to being persuaded! I know what I like, and that includes when I want to play with (another) cock! |
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"Any bi gents we meet must suck cock before even seeing her naked.
We are the same men starting before I join in x"
What naked woman ? I’m enjoying myself here lady.
Actually agree, would love to see the face of the straight guy suddenly with a cock thrust out in front of him. |
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On the flip side of this we have encountered bi females where they are definitely more into my husband then me, couples to looking for a bull
To service the wife with his big cock apparently bi fems
I might add that could be the main attraction
9”+ and girthy
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When playing in a couple, we've experienced straight men claiming to be bi but who aren't. Straight men who wanted no interaction with me, but was happy to suck him and be sucked back.
Bi women who are only doing it because it gets him off.
Pillow princesses who are happy to receive but not reciprocate.
Straight women who have had no problem with me playing with them orally and strap-on fucking them.
Also had women seeking FF who after much chat, suddenly have a male they want to be somehow involved.
Women who turn out not to be women
Couples who are just single guys.
Just be bloody honest FFS. |
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"I think they can tell just how much fun bi people are. More intimate,
More erotic, and more exciting than anything else I have ever enjoyed."
Couldn't agree more bi threshold m threesomes just feel so much more relaxed and passionate |
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By *oxy jWoman 1 week ago
somerset |
if we meet via our couples account and wanting a bi guy then he must be fully bi ie fucks sucks and kiss we only meet fully bi guys not fab bi guys who think a little suck here n there is enough so fake thankfully there are some very very hot fully bi guys on here |
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By *MandMMCouple 1 week ago
Welwyn garden city |
"It's interesting how excited some people get about dictating how other people must declare their sexuality and behave whilst declaring how open and tolerant they are"
This is not about people declaring their sexuality. It's about people being honest, and not lying to get sex. |
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Our profile states quite clearly bi play is sought. So we get loads of messages from straight men who want the wife but might be persuaded to be slightly bi if somehow we can convince them well enough during the meeting
Time wasters loads of them |
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I've been completely honest about my sexuality,as I've said further up the thread,I'm bi curious been with a few TVs and had a fantastic meet with a
bi couple,I'm not interested in sucking a cock I may possibly play/wank a cock
I've had my cock sucked plenty of times by TVs and the guy from the bi couple
So does that mean I'm not going to have any meets with bi couples because I won't suck cock? Possibly but not all bi couples are after that,as I've said I have had a fantastic meet with a
bi couple and from the start we all knew exactly what the situation was and everyone was perfectly fine with it
So not all bi or bi curious guys have to suck a cock to prove their bi in my opinion
As I've said I'll probably not get many if any meets with bi couples but that's fine |
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We are genuinely bi and found it soooo hard to find another genuinely bi couple.
We get many messages from single straight guys saying they are Bi but when this is unpicked they don't like to touch or be touched by a man.
It's very frustrating, I'd love nothing more than to see my my partner get lost in a genuine bi man.... any on this thread cab message us x |
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I am bi and it's on profile. Have met men and women 1-2-1 and MM couples. I always make it clear whatmy interests are and what I like/dislike finding it useful before meeting. Maybe because I don't give a guy oral is the issue for many MF bi couples but then that's my preference. |
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"I've been completely honest about my sexuality,as I've said further up the thread,I'm bi curious been with a few TVs and had a fantastic meet with a
bi couple,I'm not interested in sucking a cock I may possibly play/wank a cock
I've had my cock sucked plenty of times by TVs and the guy from the bi couple
So does that mean I'm not going to have any meets with bi couples because I won't suck cock? Possibly but not all bi couples are after that,as I've said I have had a fantastic meet with a
bi couple and from the start we all knew exactly what the situation was and everyone was perfectly fine with it
So not all bi or bi curious guys have to suck a cock to prove their bi in my opinion
As I've said I'll probably not get many if any meets with bi couples but that's fine "
I don’t suck cock - don’t mind me being sucked
Ask me to fuck ur husband no probs. I always do a social and can show videos of me with face showing my bi side that works for me |
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The problem is that people are too loose with the definition of bisexual. Is a man bi if he is only willing to receive oral from a guy but not give it? If so, then he isn't really pretending by calling himself bisexual. He's just not into the same bi stuff as you. |
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"The problem is that people are too loose with the definition of bisexual. Is a man bi if he is only willing to receive oral from a guy but not give it? If so, then he isn't really pretending by calling himself bisexual. He's just not into the same bi stuff as you."
Also, there isn't much of a difference between a man giving oral to a guy and a woman giving oral to a guy. So you aren't missing out on much if a "straight" single guy refuses to give the man oral instead of the woman in the couple.
Of course, things like gay anal sex can only be performed between two men. But as far as I am aware that isn't at the top of the priority list for meets for bi couples. |
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"The problem is that people are too loose with the definition of bisexual. Is a man bi if he is only willing to receive oral from a guy but not give it? If so, then he isn't really pretending by calling himself bisexual. He's just not into the same bi stuff as you."
It’s a good point actually as I’m not able to have anal sex, so does that mean I’m not fully bi.  |
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"I've been completely honest about my sexuality,as I've said further up the thread,I'm bi curious been with a few TVs and had a fantastic meet with a
bi couple,I'm not interested in sucking a cock I may possibly play/wank a cock
I've had my cock sucked plenty of times by TVs and the guy from the bi couple
So does that mean I'm not going to have any meets with bi couples because I won't suck cock? Possibly but not all bi couples are after that,as I've said I have had a fantastic meet with a
bi couple and from the start we all knew exactly what the situation was and everyone was perfectly fine with it
So not all bi or bi curious guys have to suck a cock to prove their bi in my opinion
As I've said I'll probably not get many if any meets with bi couples but that's fine
I don’t suck cock - don’t mind me being sucked
Ask me to fuck ur husband no probs. I always do a social and can show videos of me with face showing my bi side that works for me "
Exactly the same for me, glad I'm not the only one |
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"We prefer fully bi because when we have a meet, we want everything to be fluid and we can all fully play with each other. Just flows much nicer."
Well it was a very wye opening experience when I tried. And it was really relaxed and fluid, things went a lot further than I had expected. |
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"What if you’re somewhere between straight and bi? I’d say I’m more partially orally bi, as in happy for a guy to suck me but not so sure the other way…"
You just say exactly that early on in messaging. It's fine to have your preference and limits. Open and honest communication is best. |
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"I've been completely honest about my sexuality,as I've said further up the thread,I'm bi curious been with a few TVs and had a fantastic meet with a
bi couple,I'm not interested in sucking a cock I may possibly play/wank a cock
I've had my cock sucked plenty of times by TVs and the guy from the bi couple
So does that mean I'm not going to have any meets with bi couples because I won't suck cock? Possibly but not all bi couples are after that,as I've said I have had a fantastic meet with a
bi couple and from the start we all knew exactly what the situation was and everyone was perfectly fine with it
So not all bi or bi curious guys have to suck a cock to prove their bi in my opinion
As I've said I'll probably not get many if any meets with bi couples but that's fine
I don’t suck cock - don’t mind me being sucked
Ask me to fuck ur husband no probs. I always do a social and can show videos of me with face showing my bi side that works for me
Exactly the same for me, glad I'm not the only one "
As long as you are clear that's no problem. Recieving Oral and topping for MM is fine and say my limit is I don't give oral to males. That's perfectly valid. |
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"It's interesting how excited some people get about dictating how other people must declare their sexuality and behave whilst declaring how open and tolerant they are
This is not about people declaring their sexuality. It's about people being honest, and not lying to get sex. "
No it's not. Check the title of the thread. |
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By *oxy jWoman 1 week ago
somerset |
people can be whom ever they want to be but stop lying or trying to fool others if your bi but wont suck cock then make sure your open about it so others can make a real decision rather than waste someones time ...
its always been clear that there is a group of not so bi guys who use it to get near the woman thats always been the case but lets be honest they are very easy to spot or catch out ... i think if your bisexual then you should say that your top/bottom /vers ... suck/dont suck .... kiss dont kiss so ...theres also such a thing as being bi but only meet femboys/cd/tv/trans again just a different side .... no one is saying your type of bi is wrong what they are sayting is be truthful because not everyone is looking for your type of bi ..
same with everything on this scene be open be honest dont try to deceive |
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"Just as bad couples who are ‘straight’ then, following a bit of chat, declare he’d like to try with a man or first meet will be with him only…
Have you not been on this site for long?
^That’s a single guy with a fake couples profile
“Yeah, first meet will be with just me” LoL!"
"first meet will be with just me". First meet, only meet, then blocked. See also, 'oh, she didn't feel well at the last minute, but I just happen to be here with lube...' and, of course, 'you wouldn't know her, she goes to another school'. |
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what you have to remember there are many dick heads around and here is no different,
we have had the message willing to give it a go, so many guys think there the bee and end all to it all, and so blinkered and up there own arse's, this is why we meet up for a drink first , you can workout the pricks, this is why we look for long term fun and games with lots of naughty rumpy pumpy |
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there are many 'straight' guys who are - or have potential to call themselves bi to some degree. Prob as many as there are women who dabble.
The problem is many won't be honest about it and still say 'straight' which makes them appear untrustworthy and struck off many bi couples list
The other type which is way more visible but I actually think is in much smaller numbers are the straights who are straight but pretebd to be bi to get off with the female.
They are scum obviously, but why are the previous lot scared to say they are bi? It's usually because :
1. Don't want to out themselves to offline friends who may see it
2. Couples/Women who continue to discrimninate against bi guys, even if their 'bi-ness' is irrelevant to the meet.
My advice is to add a second profile for your bi self, perhaps a bit more locked down thab your straight (bs) self but would enable you to get the contacts you want, have better meets and build credibility.
Secondly, treat the 'no bi men' as the bigoted diosaurs they are. You didn't miss a great chance to fuck sone hot girl....you actually dodged a bullet and don't have to keep perpetuating some lie to someone who is't worth the effort and can instead find a way more grounded, kinky, modern and probably intelligent hot girl who will be great sex PLUS they will be down with the other stuff you'd like to try.....
it will snowball quickly and everyone is happy. Even the bigot who unknown to themselves, have been fucking bi guys all thge time....
Plus as an openly bi guy (well as far as sex meets go, I'mj more trad romantically) and as part of openly bi couples, I've never heard any nasty comments or received any abuse. I've read abuse in forums and stuff but not personally. So the stigma in the first place is largely imagined - it's just that people act on it and all these probs arise |
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"there are many 'straight' guys who are - or have potential to call themselves bi to some degree. Prob as many as there are women who dabble.
The problem is many won't be honest about it and still say 'straight' which makes them appear untrustworthy and struck off many bi couples list
The other type which is way more visible but I actually think is in much smaller numbers are the straights who are straight but pretebd to be bi to get off with the female.
They are scum obviously, but why are the previous lot scared to say they are bi? It's usually because :
1. Don't want to out themselves to offline friends who may see it
2. Couples/Women who continue to discrimninate against bi guys, even if their 'bi-ness' is irrelevant to the meet.
My advice is to add a second profile for your bi self, perhaps a bit more locked down thab your straight (bs) self but would enable you to get the contacts you want, have better meets and build credibility.
Secondly, treat the 'no bi men' as the bigoted diosaurs they are. You didn't miss a great chance to fuck sone hot girl....you actually dodged a bullet and don't have to keep perpetuating some lie to someone who is't worth the effort and can instead find a way more grounded, kinky, modern and probably intelligent hot girl who will be great sex PLUS they will be down with the other stuff you'd like to try.....
it will snowball quickly and everyone is happy. Even the bigot who unknown to themselves, have been fucking bi guys all thge time....
Plus as an openly bi guy (well as far as sex meets go, I'mj more trad romantically) and as part of openly bi couples, I've never heard any nasty comments or received any abuse. I've read abuse in forums and stuff but not personally. So the stigma in the first place is largely imagined - it's just that people act on it and all these probs arise"
"it will snowball quickly and everyone is happy". Nicely worded! |
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By *oxy jWoman 1 week ago
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"there are many 'straight' guys who are - or have potential to call themselves bi to some degree. Prob as many as there are women who dabble.
The problem is many won't be honest about it and still say 'straight' which makes them appear untrustworthy and struck off many bi couples list
The other type which is way more visible but I actually think is in much smaller numbers are the straights who are straight but pretebd to be bi to get off with the female.
They are scum obviously, but why are the previous lot scared to say they are bi? It's usually because :
1. Don't want to out themselves to offline friends who may see it
2. Couples/Women who continue to discrimninate against bi guys, even if their 'bi-ness' is irrelevant to the meet.
My advice is to add a second profile for your bi self, perhaps a bit more locked down thab your straight (bs) self but would enable you to get the contacts you want, have better meets and build credibility.
Secondly, treat the 'no bi men' as the bigoted diosaurs they are. You didn't miss a great chance to fuck sone hot girl....you actually dodged a bullet and don't have to keep perpetuating some lie to someone who is't worth the effort and can instead find a way more grounded, kinky, modern and probably intelligent hot girl who will be great sex PLUS they will be down with the other stuff you'd like to try.....
it will snowball quickly and everyone is happy. Even the bigot who unknown to themselves, have been fucking bi guys all thge time....
Plus as an openly bi guy (well as far as sex meets go, I'mj more trad romantically) and as part of openly bi couples, I've never heard any nasty comments or received any abuse. I've read abuse in forums and stuff but not personally. So the stigma in the first place is largely imagined - it's just that people act on it and all these probs arise"
so if you dont want to meet bi your a bigot ??? sorry but thats just wrong everyone has aq choice and if one does not want to meet bi then thats there choice to be respected tho we all know in truth if you swing then 100% youve met bi but that says more about those who lie than those who say no to bi men..
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By *ister_EMan 1 week ago
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Got to love Fabs! Str8 people pretending to be bi and bi people pretending to be str8... 
Just say what you like on your profile and have done! If str8 couples don't want to meet me because I ocasionaly have sex with guys then it's their choice!
Equally I'm not going to jump through hoops to 'prove' my bisexuality before meeting a couple.
I'm happy to only play with the hubby while the wife watches if that's their kink, but I don't do the whole "meet with him alone first " thing. Just to prove that I'm Bi |
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By *oxy jWoman 1 week ago
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another thing lets be clear about swinger bi and real life bi are two compleatly different things .... not to tar all with the same brush but swinging bi tends to be erm whats the word ''tame'' sometimes very ''fake'' as a fully bi woman all my sexual life t find real bi / lesbian ladys do it for me so much i dont look for bi fems online ... hubs is very much the same bi all his sexual life finds bi/gay guys away from the scene more real ...
as said not all but enough to stop looking online im here for guys onlys even with them i finde most away from online i get fed up with lies people not being who they say they are using pic 10/20 years old lie after lie just to get in your knickers find it all abit sad |
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"Simple....the guy has to suck my Husbands' cock and play with him before he even gets to touch me! I can tell a fake guy by the way he sucks cock!
Mrs R"
Sounds a bit like an assessment centre. You must suck cock, and if it’s not good enough, no thanks |
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"Simple....the guy has to suck my Husbands' cock and play with him before he even gets to touch me! I can tell a fake guy by the way he sucks cock!
Mrs R"
What if he says your husband must suck his cock first? |
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By *luefire2Couple 1 week ago
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"Simple....the guy has to suck my Husbands' cock and play with him before he even gets to touch me! I can tell a fake guy by the way he sucks cock!
Mrs R
What if he says your husband must suck his cock first? "
Then that's what will happen, my Husband is 100% genuinely bi...not sure what your point is? |
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"Simple....the guy has to suck my Husbands' cock and play with him before he even gets to touch me! I can tell a fake guy by the way he sucks cock!
Mrs R
What if he says your husband must suck his cock first?
Then that's what will happen, my Husband is 100% genuinely bi...not sure what your point is?"
Your statement of he has to suck your husband's cock but didn't mention reciprocal.
A bisexual is defined as
"A person who is sexually or romantically attracted to both men and women, or to more than one sex or gender."
Not what sexual activities that person does or does not do.
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By *luefire2Couple 1 week ago
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"Simple....the guy has to suck my Husbands' cock and play with him before he even gets to touch me! I can tell a fake guy by the way he sucks cock!
Mrs R
What if he says your husband must suck his cock first?
Then that's what will happen, my Husband is 100% genuinely bi...not sure what your point is?
Your statement of he has to suck your husband's cock but didn't mention reciprocal.
A bisexual is defined as
"A person who is sexually or romantically attracted to both men and women, or to more than one sex or gender."
Not what sexual activities that person does or does not do.
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So,take a look at our profile, my Husband is actually attracted to both sexes.....jeez...all I did was pass my opinion on filtering out the fakes! Go start an argument with someone else #bemorekind |
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"Simple....the guy has to suck my Husbands' cock and play with him before he even gets to touch me! I can tell a fake guy by the way he sucks cock!
Mrs R
What if he says your husband must suck his cock first?
Then that's what will happen, my Husband is 100% genuinely bi...not sure what your point is?
Your statement of he has to suck your husband's cock but didn't mention reciprocal.
A bisexual is defined as
"A person who is sexually or romantically attracted to both men and women, or to more than one sex or gender."
Not what sexual activities that person does or does not do.
So,take a look at our profile, my Husband is actually attracted to both sexes.....jeez...all I did was pass my opinion on filtering out the fakes! Go start an argument with someone else #bemorekind"
We play bi
But feel the same lots of guys just want to get to the mrs so we actually like this way of ing out straight guys |
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"Why do men message
You make it clear bi males
You chat like, dislike
Anything they want to try
Then you find out it's bs
Go message a couple who do not want bi males"
it's the men who pretend to be straight that is the issue ..thier profile says straight then they have verifications from men and tvs ..they are ruining this site |
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Sorry to hear of these problems. I am always clear saying what I like or not. Not into anything heavy but Bi top mmf for me is very nice with attention from two and also returning the favour. Why waste peoples time with a load of nonsense. Yes it’s happened to me as well and sadly lots of others. Really don’t understand what they get out of it. Please do say if you are one of them and why do if you brave enough |
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"Any bi gents we meet must suck cock before even seeing her naked. Sounds a fair test "
And this is the absolute truth...
I love watching men having fun together... So when looking for a third, my "bi-test" is to say he's got to put in the passion with him, and if I'm sufficiently turned on, then I'll join in... So many stop responding at this point....
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"Why do men message
You make it clear bi males
You chat like, dislike
Anything they want to try
Then you find out it's bs
Go message a couple who do not want bi males"
I've no idea shy bi couples don't either meet with just the men first or meet and the wife just watches and is out of bounds.
Surely that sorts out the fakes? |
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"Bi doesn't equal sucking a dick though maybe he wants to be the pitcher and have his dick sucked by a man and is attracted to doing the same with a woman.."
That really is not fully bi.
Lots of men are happy to get a bj off anyone at all. |
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