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This is something I've come across a few times on here so I thought I would ask you lot.
As a bi man, when you are involved with another man, whatever the format, are you willing to also kiss another man? |
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"Personally I don’t mind passionately kissing men or women in the heat of the moment but I appreciate this isn’t for everyone and I always respect that. "
I've never understood the aversion to kissing same sex... If you're gonna be inside them/have them inside you and perform oral on each other, how is kissing any different? |
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"Personally I don’t mind passionately kissing men or women in the heat of the moment but I appreciate this isn’t for everyone and I always respect that.
I've never understood the aversion to kissing same sex... If you're gonna be inside them/have them inside you and perform oral on each other, how is kissing any different?"
That’s my opinion too and I think the same, however if people aren’t into that then that’s fine too as it’s the little things like that, that could ruin what could and should be a perfectly good meet. Everyone’s different aren’t they. |
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"This is a complex one, I wouldn't kiss a guy nor 9/10 ride a guy unless they presented very feminine. Guys give better head is why I consider myself bi lol"
Well, we know what we like being done lol |
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By *ister_EMan 40 weeks ago
Hayling Island |
It's the hardest taboo for me to get over. I've only kissed a couple of guys. And it was always during MMF 3sums with plenty of verbal encouragement from their wives.
However under those specifi circumstances I find it to be unbelievably erotic and arousing.  |
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"This is a complex one, I wouldn't kiss a guy nor 9/10 ride a guy unless they presented very feminine. Guys give better head is why I consider myself bi lol"
So you just bi for the best dick suckers? But don't fuck or kiss? |
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By *eorallMan 40 weeks ago
Southampton |
"This is something I've come across a few times on here so I thought I would ask you lot.
As a bi man, when you are involved with another man, whatever the format, are you willing to also kiss another man?"
I can only do blowjob |
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This is a strange one for me
I don't meet guys on their own, only meet Bi couples and do not kiss hubby.
However I do meet TS/TVs and do kiss them
I'm not attracted to guys in anyway.
To me it's the dynamic in a couples meet really sexy having a Bi 3sum |
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"This is something I've come across a few times on here so I thought I would ask you lot.
As a bi man, when you are involved with another man, whatever the format, are you willing to also kiss another man?"
Yes, for me it always makes the fun hotter,but not a must  |
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By *ddfellowMan 40 weeks ago
Newferry, wirral |
I have kissed 2 men , ussualy I dont find I want to kiss them, I'm here for the cocks not to snog, there are not that many guys I look at and thing yes il snog him, just not atracted to them that way, but sexualy yes. |
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By *afkaMan 40 weeks ago
Nottingham (ish) |
Must say I'm surprised by how many guys that have replied saying they're not into kissing.
As far as I'm concerned, sex just isn't sexy without kissing.
If you don't find someone hot enough to kiss, why on earth are you sticking your dick in them?
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By *aked_magicMan 40 weeks ago
the gutter looking at the stars (S.Australia) |
"This is something I've come across a few times on here so I thought I would ask you lot.
As a bi man, when you are involved with another man, whatever the format, are you willing to also kiss another man?"
YES - not kissing i s a bit of a deal breaker for me, i love it |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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Honestly kissing is almost a deal breaker. He'd have to be very hot for me to put up with not making out during a meet. However, I don't suck lads off. I've done it out of obligation, but never enjoyed it. Happily rim a lad, but I'm not really interested in the other side |
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By *W72Man 36 weeks ago
Sheffield |
I’d received and given oral and anal before I kissed.
Bizarre thought process but it was the last hurdle, and the one I’d wanted least (or not even thought about).
Wasn’t as traumatic as I though when it happened and following meets just went with the flow!! |
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"Not kissing during a session like that strikes me as a bit strange. It's an integral part "
One of my favourite things is meeting a couple for a bi threesum and she sits watching me and her man kissing, getting turned on from the moans we make while kissing and exploring the others body with our hands. Always fun seeing how long she can last watching us before giving up and needing to join in, whether she can only last a few minutes or if she is able to hold out until she has seen both men perform oral on each other and having sex together. When a woman is looking on as I am having sex with her partner and kissing each other, effectively forgetting that she is even there, it makes things so much more enjoyable |
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By *algraMan 34 weeks ago
Colchester |
Sex without kissing ls like eating a pot of yogurt without liking the foil top .. you miss out on so much of the sensuality, lust and sensations of sex ... so yes I do love kissing with both sexes |
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For me it never starts with kissing, it depends entirely on the moment.
Most of the time its just about mutual cock fun, however that pans out.
But very occasionally, usually when everything else feels right, kissing happens too.
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By *unchalMan 34 weeks ago
Dartford |
"This is something I've come across a few times on here so I thought I would ask you lot.
As a bi man, when you are involved with another man, whatever the format, are you willing to also kiss another man?"
Always! |
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I'm not attracted to men, but attracted to penis.
Therefore I don't like kissing.
I enjoy the reaction and responses from my actions, and sucking whilst enjoying their wife only seems fair at least  |
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"This is something I've come across a few times on here so I thought I would ask you lot.
As a bi man, when you are involved with another man, whatever the format, are you willing to also kiss another man?"
Yep, every time |
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I’m attracted to girls, with no attraction to men at all, and certainly no interest in kissing a man. But I am very much turned on by cock, love the thought of wanking and sucking other guys. Go figure. |
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By *unchalMan 34 weeks ago
Dartford |
"This is a complex one, I wouldn't kiss a guy nor 9/10 ride a guy unless they presented very feminine. Guys give better head is why I consider myself bi lol"
Very manly of you. Doesn’t sound that complex. |
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By *unchalMan 34 weeks ago
Dartford |
"I'm bi and enjoy kissing men as well as women
Don't see any issues as both stimulate me sexually "
It didn’t occur to me until I went on these sites that men did not kiss each other. Seems an essential element of sex and intimacy. |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"I’m attracted to girls, with no attraction to men at all, and certainly no interest in kissing a man. But I am very much turned on by cock, love the thought of wanking and sucking other guys. Go figure. "
This is something I can totally relate to! Have done and will kiss in heat of moment but isn't a huge turn on but wanking and sucking cock is a massive turn on |
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It’s all about the moment, and maybe chatting about what people are open to first.
In my experience, it’s an amazingly sexy thing to do when playing with a couple. The ladies always seem to find it a huge turn on  |
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"Sexuality is such a spectrum, I think I’m bi but I have absolutely no interest in kissing, fucking or being fucked with dudes but power to those who are. "
That sounds like you're not bi, to be honest.
I have kissed men and enjoyed it. I'm sure I'll do so again. I've also kissed both men and women where it wasn't so enjoyable. But a good kiss, regardless of the gender, is one of the hottest things anyone can partake in. |
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I haven't done, but in the moment and feeling hot and horny yeah I more than likely would. Especially if it's just some fun where there's no relationship or feelings, sex is sex and kissing is part of that, no need to put yourself in a box gay, bi, bi curious or straight. Just do what you feel is good in the moment! That's my opinion anyway. |
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"Sexuality is such a spectrum, I think I’m bi but I have absolutely no interest in kissing, fucking or being fucked with dudes but power to those who are.
That sounds like you're not bi, to be honest.
I have kissed men and enjoyed it. I'm sure I'll do so again. I've also kissed both men and women where it wasn't so enjoyable. But a good kiss, regardless of the gender, is one of the hottest things anyone can partake in."
Totally agree, kissing for me can be better than the actual sex. |
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"This is something I've come across a few times on here so I thought I would ask you lot.
As a bi man, when you are involved with another man, whatever the format, are you willing to also kiss another man?"
Im happy for the kissing but the missus says she probably find it off putting because I'm "too manly" for it.
Also me, I'm a bottom beard |
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"Personally I don’t mind passionately kissing men or women in the heat of the moment but I appreciate this isn’t for everyone and I always respect that.
I've never understood the aversion to kissing same sex... If you're gonna be inside them/have them inside you and perform oral on each other, how is kissing any different?"
You make an interesting point. I used to tag team with another trans woman and she finds the mouth very intimate, so won't kiss/blow unless she's attracted to him.
While for me, to be impregnated is more intimate, so I'll kiss and blow him and she'll do the fucking... |
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"Sexuality is such a spectrum, I think I’m bi but I have absolutely no interest in kissing, fucking or being fucked with dudes but power to those who are.
That sounds like you're not bi, to be honest.
I have kissed men and enjoyed it. I'm sure I'll do so again. I've also kissed both men and women where it wasn't so enjoyable. But a good kiss, regardless of the gender, is one of the hottest things anyone can partake in."
I appreciate the engagement but I can’t be straight if I like cock and cum. I’m not attracted to men, I’m attracted to dicks. So some form of the bi spectrum is the best way to describe my sexuality.
I throughly enjoy kissing women. The concept of kissing a dude is genuinely repulsive. Unfortunately everything isn’t black and white. |
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By *unchalMan 34 weeks ago
Dartford |
"Sexuality is such a spectrum, I think I’m bi but I have absolutely no interest in kissing, fucking or being fucked with dudes but power to those who are.
That sounds like you're not bi, to be honest.
I have kissed men and enjoyed it. I'm sure I'll do so again. I've also kissed both men and women where it wasn't so enjoyable. But a good kiss, regardless of the gender, is one of the hottest things anyone can partake in.
Totally agree, kissing for me can be better than the actual sex. "
But kissing is the sex. |
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By *unchalMan 34 weeks ago
Dartford |
"100% not for me, not attracted to men in the slightest it's just about oral/wanking as part of a threesum for me"
I don’t understand these comments. Not attracted to men but want to suck and wank them. This makes no sense. |
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"100% not for me, not attracted to men in the slightest it's just about oral/wanking as part of a threesum for me
I don’t understand these comments. Not attracted to men but want to suck and wank them. This makes no sense. "
Of course it does. They only like the cock part. Not the man himself. |
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Personally I don't kiss guys, I has happened occasionally during the heat of the moment, which was nice, but generally I won't.
I'm not really sure why, I find guys attractive and everything else is great, I just seem to have a block when it comes to kissing. |
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I used to be 100% no. Was happy to touch and play with a guy, but always thought kissing was a step above that.
Then objectively felt that it was a bit of an odd barrier to have. We were happy to kiss in a couples meet, so why would it be different with a guy.
Last couple of times have gone with it, and surprise surprise, my world didn't absolutely crumble! Haha
I get that some guys will still be no, but for us, it feel more natural to do so |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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I enjoy Intamacy and kissing is definitely a big part of that.
I love going with the flow and living in the moment which usually means kissing both male and females in a bi mmf |
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"This is something I've come across a few times on here so I thought I would ask you lot.
As a bi man, when you are involved with another man, whatever the format, are you willing to also kiss another man?"
Nope but the same goes for women too. Kissing is for a relationship, not for people I meet causally. |
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I feel a bit bad for saying it but I rarely feel the urge to kiss a guy. Does nothing for me except when it a three way kiss with a women.
That said I did once spend all night kissing a TV at a TV admirers party. |
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By *eyeYCouple 33 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
"Oddly I'm not actually into guys. Don't find them attractive.
Love sucking cock and being fucked by them though.
Same for me!"
We don't think that is odd at all. D has no attraction to guy's. He'll acknowledge Gosling and Reynolds are good looking as a few we've met, but he's my hot and horny deviant who's open to pretty much anything if he thinks either of us will get mental or physical pleasure from it..  |
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By *um2020Man 33 weeks ago
Lampeter |
In answer to OP's question... Yes.
Kissing is a part of the passion which is part of amazing sex. I enjoy a 3 way kiss with the wife with men and women.
However, I do respect if other men don't want to for whatever reason. |
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By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago
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"In answer to OP's question... Yes.
Kissing is a part of the passion which is part of amazing sex. I enjoy a 3 way kiss with the wife with men and women.
However, I do respect if other men don't want to for whatever reason. "
Agreed  |
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I don't kiss men full stop and I don't really like kissing women as I'm uncomfortable with it. It sounds odd that I'd happily lick a pussy or suck a cock all day long but kissing no. Maybe kissing is more intimate and I've always had a problem with that. Stems from my childhood having no love shown to me from my parents I reckon |
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By *aiducMan 24 weeks ago
Chelmsford |
I'm always up for kissing and may not meet with someone if they refuse to kiss. For me it's part of the sexual act, not something reserved solely for partners or people I'm in a relationship with. |
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By *rmrs95Couple 24 weeks ago
Chester |
Kissing is an absolute must for us but if we play with straight couples or singles then we respect if they only kiss opposite sex 
That said if they don't kiss opposite sex either then we not interested as kissing is a big part of intamicy xx |
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"Kissing is an absolute must for us but if we play with straight couples or singles then we respect if they only kiss opposite sex
That said if they don't kiss opposite sex either then we not interested as kissing is a big part of intamicy xx"
100% agree |
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"I’m attracted to girls, with no attraction to men at all, and certainly no interest in kissing a man. But I am very much turned on by cock, love the thought of wanking and sucking other guys. Go figure.
This is something I can totally relate to! Have done and will kiss in heat of moment but isn't a huge turn on but wanking and sucking cock is a massive turn on"
l think that sounds like me.the big turn on is him to cum in my mouth then maybe kiss if he wants to taste his own cum |
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"It's the hardest taboo for me to get over. I've only kissed a couple of guys. And it was always during MMF 3sums with plenty of verbal encouragement from their wives.
However under those specifi circumstances I find it to be unbelievably erotic and arousing. "
This is when I'm at my most passionate with guys, kissing licking and sucking as she encourages me x |
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"This is something I've come across a few times on here so I thought I would ask you lot.
As a bi man, when you are involved with another man, whatever the format, are you willing to also kiss another man?"
Yes. |
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"This is something I've come across a few times on here so I thought I would ask you lot.
As a bi man, when you are involved with another man, whatever the format, are you willing to also kiss another man?"
Yes |
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"This is something I've come across a few times on here so I thought I would ask you lot.
As a bi man, when you are involved with another man, whatever the format, are you willing to also kiss another man?"
Love kissing |
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"My experiences previously have been without. However, I feel they'd be much more natural with.
I'm open to it, but the guys I've met haven't been. "
I just checked out your profile and there is absolutely zero doubt that you are both my sort of people. I did attempt to send you both a message only to find that you have restricted single men from sending you messages.
If the two of you happen to find yourself wanting to find a single full play bi male to join you where he has the ability to accommodate in a fully private setting where everyone can fully let themselves go and neither of you feel 40 miles is too great of a distance to travel for a meet, I've got my fingers crossed that you decide to drop me a message.
Added bonus, I can also assist with helping you experience kissing another man for the first time... I do love a good, long, deep, passionate kiss whether it's with a woman or a man while we are having sex |
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