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over a year ago
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The mess,
The men that 'can get any woman to squirt'
The thought that 'if you can I want you too' because its fun for him, but me?
Personally Im not interested in it, and those profiles that show an interest in it, usually get me declining.
The best thing I ever learnt was to switch it off  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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Stained mattresses if not advised
Messy playrooms in clubs if they don't clear up after themselves
The pedestal some are placed on or place themselves on if they can.
I don't think it is anything special to be honest, I don't mind it and it is always good to see people enjoy themselves.... just not on my furniture |
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Seen as I tend to cum when I squirt (I know a lot of people I have spoken to say you can't normally cum and squirt at the same time) not only is it wobbly leg syndrome trying to stand but also intense cum headaches...
Liara. Xx
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By (user no longer on site)
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I agree with View.
I don't squirt or gush. I dislike men thinking that all women should or want to and thereby try and start roughly fingering to make them do it. Its producing an army of men who are losing sex skills I would say.
I don't accommodate but I cringe at the thought of going into someones home and doing this over their furniture.
Again the club playroom thing. I sat on the corner of a bed once at Chams and got the lace on the bottom of my babydoll wet because someone had just put on a show and had squirted everywhere. Strangely the morning after when I went to put my washing on, that babydoll smelt of urine. Clean up after yourselves in clubs.
The attitude on here that all women who don't squirt secretly want to.
The misconception that squirting is orgasm.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"what are the downsides to squirting you guys have come across?"
It's messy, the last Woman I made squirt, came so much we had to change the bedding & turn the mattress over before continuing.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The mess!! Have more waterproof sheets than most old people's homes!! Lol
slight tangent but same question..at what point do you put the waterproof sheet ON the bed..."
When I know I'm meeting before he arrives! Won't play in the living room anymore either! Lol x |
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"The mess,
The men that 'can get any woman to squirt'
The thought that 'if you can I want you too' because its fun for him, but me?
Personally Im not interested in it, and those profiles that show an interest in it, usually get me declining.
The best thing I ever learnt was to switch it off "
Switching off, especially with a guy who says he can make any woman gush |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"what are the downsides to squirting you guys have come across?"
All the men who are utterly obsessed with it and won't believe me when I say I don't so get very short shrift when they're hammering away down there in order to prove me wrong...boring, painful and ultimately futile...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I agree with View.
I don't squirt or gush. I dislike men thinking that all women should or want to and thereby try and start roughly fingering to make them do it. Its producing an army of men who are losing sex skills I would say.
I don't accommodate but I cringe at the thought of going into someones home and doing this over their furniture.
Again the club playroom thing. I sat on the corner of a bed once at Chams and got the lace on the bottom of my babydoll wet because someone had just put on a show and had squirted everywhere. Strangely the morning after when I went to put my washing on, that babydoll smelt of urine. Clean up after yourselves in clubs.
The attitude on here that all women who don't squirt secretly want to.
The misconception that squirting is orgasm.
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"what are the downsides to squirting you guys have come across?
All the men who are utterly obsessed with it and won't believe me when I say I don't so get very short shrift when they're hammering away down there in order to prove me wrong...boring, painful and ultimately futile...
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Yep! Supposedly all they want is your pleasure......on their terms.
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"The mess,
The men that 'can get any woman to squirt'
The thought that 'if you can I want you too' because its fun for him, but me?
Personally Im not interested in it, and those profiles that show an interest in it, usually get me declining.
The best thing I ever learnt was to switch it off "
I never have! And glad i dont, always hear so much about it. Why is it such a good thing???  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I agree with View.
I don't squirt or gush. I dislike men thinking that all women should or want to and thereby try and start roughly fingering to make them do it. Its producing an army of men who are losing sex skills I would say.
I don't accommodate but I cringe at the thought of going into someones home and doing this over their furniture.
Again the club playroom thing. I sat on the corner of a bed once at Chams and got the lace on the bottom of my babydoll wet because someone had just put on a show and had squirted everywhere. Strangely the morning after when I went to put my washing on, that babydoll smelt of urine. Clean up after yourselves in clubs.
The attitude on here that all women who don't squirt secretly want to.
The misconception that squirting is orgasm. "
Some women do. Some don't. Wouldn't life be boring if everyone did the same??
I used to have a FWB who LOVED to be fisted to 3 inches above my wrist. Had orgasm after orgasm. But not once did she squirt or gush. Did I enjoy it any less because of that? Course not.
Recreational Sex is like anything else, over time. There are fads and fashions which come and go. Squirting is just the de rigeur 'thing' at the moment. Couple of years time, it'll be something else... just enjoy it all... Is all good! |
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"The mess,
The men that 'can get any woman to squirt'
The thought that 'if you can I want you too' because its fun for him, but me?
Personally Im not interested in it, and those profiles that show an interest in it, usually get me declining.
The best thing I ever learnt was to switch it off
I never have! And glad i dont, always hear so much about it. Why is it such a good thing??? "
I never have either I'm so missing out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I wish I didn't, it's only something that started happening recently when I got myself some glass toys, I flippin hate it, I wish I knew how to switch it back off again, but I can't control it.
So for me the downside, is doing it in the first place and the mess lol |
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"The mess,
The men that 'can get any woman to squirt'
The thought that 'if you can I want you too' because its fun for him, but me?
Personally Im not interested in it, and those profiles that show an interest in it, usually get me declining.
The best thing I ever learnt was to switch it off
I never have! And glad i dont, always hear so much about it. Why is it such a good thing???
I never have either I'm so missing out "
Are you? I've never been fisted something else that the enjoyment police seem to think we should all be trying out and loving, buy far from feeling I'm missing out I feel quite glad that I don't need to accommodate some guy up to his elbow who isn't my gynaecologist.
All power to those that enjoy these things but all power too to those that manage to enjoy sex without them. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I don't like the mess, although towels can help there. I also don't like the fact that, once a guy knows about it, he roughly rams his fingers in me til I do it again. It can be exhausting to constantly squirt and I've gone home with sore tummy muscles more than once.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The mess,
The men that 'can get any woman to squirt'
The thought that 'if you can I want you too' because its fun for him, but me?
Personally Im not interested in it, and those profiles that show an interest in it, usually get me declining.
The best thing I ever learnt was to switch it off
I never have! And glad i dont, always hear so much about it. Why is it such a good thing???
I never have either I'm so missing out
Are you? I've never been fisted something else that the enjoyment police seem to think we should all be trying out and loving, buy far from feeling I'm missing out I feel quite glad that I don't need to accommodate some guy up to his elbow who isn't my gynaecologist.
All power to those that enjoy these things but all power too to those that manage to enjoy sex without them."
Never been fisted either and neither do I want to either thought terrifies me. Pain isn't for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The mess,
The men that 'can get any woman to squirt'
The thought that 'if you can I want you too' because its fun for him, but me?
Personally Im not interested in it, and those profiles that show an interest in it, usually get me declining.
The best thing I ever learnt was to switch it off "
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"I don't like the mess, although towels can help there. I also don't like the fact that, once a guy knows about it, he roughly rams his fingers in me til I do it again. It can be exhausting to constantly squirt and I've gone home with sore tummy muscles more than once.
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Why do you let him if you don't want him to do it? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't like the mess, although towels can help there. I also don't like the fact that, once a guy knows about it, he roughly rams his fingers in me til I do it again. It can be exhausting to constantly squirt and I've gone home with sore tummy muscles more than once.
Why do you let him if you don't want him to do it?"
Sorry, wrote that badly. Its most guys who do it, and they don't do it for long after I've told them to knock it off! I just find it wearing that nearly every guy does it, especially as they are more likely to make me want to wee than squirt.  |
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"I don't like the mess, although towels can help there. I also don't like the fact that, once a guy knows about it, he roughly rams his fingers in me til I do it again. It can be exhausting to constantly squirt and I've gone home with sore tummy muscles more than once.
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TOWELS?????!?..I have my tongue ffs lol |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't like the mess, although towels can help there. I also don't like the fact that, once a guy knows about it, he roughly rams his fingers in me til I do it again. It can be exhausting to constantly squirt and I've gone home with sore tummy muscles more than once.
TOWELS?????!?..I have my tongue ffs lol"
LOL I'll bear that in mind. |
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Why do you let him if you don't want him to do it?
Sorry, wrote that badly. Its most guys who do it, and they don't do it for long after I've told them to knock it off! I just find it wearing that nearly every guy does it, especially as they are more likely to make me want to wee than squirt. "
I understand. I also now realise why I have had to ask a couple if guys to be more gentle recently.
Gentlemen, before you go at it like a bull at a gate do ask if the lady is interested in this phenomenon. |
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Why do you let him if you don't want him to do it?
Sorry, wrote that badly. Its most guys who do it, and they don't do it for long after I've told them to knock it off! I just find it wearing that nearly every guy does it, especially as they are more likely to make me want to wee than squirt.
I understand. I also now realise why I have had to ask a couple if guys to be more gentle recently.
Gentlemen, before you go at it like a bull at a gate do ask if the lady is interested in this phenomenon."
can u add ladies to that? lol..just being realistic..had several ppl tell me they thought they were getting OTT fingering from females lol |
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Gentlemen, before you go at it like a bull at a gate do ask if the lady is interested in this phenomenon.
can u add ladies to that? lol..just being realistic..had several ppl tell me they thought they were getting OTT fingering from females lol"
Of course! I should have included women as well. |
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Gentlemen, before you go at it like a bull at a gate do ask if the lady is interested in this phenomenon.
can u add ladies to that? lol..just being realistic..had several ppl tell me they thought they were getting OTT fingering from females lol
Of course! I should have included women as well. "
especially if they have long or fake fingernails lol |
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Gentlemen, before you go at it like a bull at a gate do ask if the lady is interested in this phenomenon.
can u add ladies to that? lol..just being realistic..had several ppl tell me they thought they were getting OTT fingering from females lol
Of course! I should have included women as well.
especially if they have long or fake fingernails lol"
Noone with those fake fingernails is coming anywhere near my bits!  |
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"I don't like the mess, although towels can help there. I also don't like the fact that, once a guy knows about it, he roughly rams his fingers in me til I do it again. It can be exhausting to constantly squirt and I've gone home with sore tummy muscles more than once.
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yep, sore tummy muscles...feels like a workout without the benefits of a flatter tum |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Gentlemen, before you go at it like a bull at a gate do ask if the lady is interested in this phenomenon.
can u add ladies to that? lol..just being realistic..had several ppl tell me they thought they were getting OTT fingering from females lol
Of course! I should have included women as well.
especially if they have long or fake fingernails lol
Noone with those fake fingernails is coming anywhere near my bits! "
Edwinascissorhands and I wanted a meet... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Gentlemen, before you go at it like a bull at a gate do ask if the lady is interested in this phenomenon.
can u add ladies to that? lol..just being realistic..had several ppl tell me they thought they were getting OTT fingering from females lol
Of course! I should have included women as well.
especially if they have long or fake fingernails lol
Noone with those fake fingernails is coming anywhere near my bits!
Edwinascissorhands and I wanted a meet... "
Lol...she can cut me fringe but that's all she's getting... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The mess,
The men that 'can get any woman to squirt'
The thought that 'if you can I want you too' because its fun for him, but me?
Personally Im not interested in it, and those profiles that show an interest in it, usually get me declining.
The best thing I ever learnt was to switch it off
I never have! And glad i dont, always hear so much about it. Why is it such a good thing???
I never have either I'm so missing out
Are you? I've never been fisted something else that the enjoyment police seem to think we should all be trying out and loving, buy far from feeling I'm missing out I feel quite glad that I don't need to accommodate some guy up to his elbow who isn't my gynaecologist.
All power to those that enjoy these things but all power too to those that manage to enjoy sex without them."
I feel exactly the same. There is certainly a trend of guys becoming rougher, are they to blame or the women who are encouraging it. I prefer men who are in tune with a womans body. Can tell from her responses what is good for her and adapt their skills to that. That is what a good lover is, not a man who roughly fingers or pounds away like there's no tomorrow.
I an old fashioned I guess. I like sensual sex, I like being turned on b y touching gently with a slightly firmer touch when my body is ready, lots of foreplay and definitely oral, I will certainly get moist when I'm suitably turned on, and this can seem quite wet but it never enough to squirt out and hit the ceiling. I may dampen a sheet a little, I would never soak it or go through to the mattress and stain it. I like 2 fingers, I do not want a whole hand and arm up there. I'm not competing against Sticky Vicky to see how many items I can get in my muff. I like sex how millions of women before me have enjoyed it, not into all these new sexual inventions that have come from porn films |
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We played with a lady who could squirt but she didn't tell us - we were in a hotel and had to take the bedding off the bed and sleep in her wet patch which wasn't fun at all.
We didn't have any spare towels to put on the bed either and had to sleep on the matress and we just left the bedding on the floor for the cleaners....sorry Premier Inn |
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"And no-ones mentioned the smell o stale piss ?? ......
runs and dives into bunker .....
On an honest _iew im with Views earlier post .....
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I have MCS (multiple chemical sensitivity) and the smell of urine is horrendous in clubs, especially on beds with rips in, or have cushions on them. Its often the 1st smell I get when I walk into a room.
I dont squirt, I gush but stop myself as it feels like I need to pee. Only once did I let it go further, but my friend agreed to a bit of watersports fun. |
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