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Are cuckolds always smaller?
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I’m above average and had two cuckold relationships, chastity and finding that I wasn’t as submissive as I was before cumming, because they were both FLR ‘s it became a case of longer in chastity, which was counterproductive as well because it would make me prejac, so unless I was allowed more than an evening out of Chastity, I went from lasting as long as I wanted and making my gf’s cum, to a 5 mins at best shit shag lol. Then it was talked about cuckolding etc, I did also get a cock sleeve, but one of my exes hated them, so boom, I was a cuck lol, and I have a cock that’s about 8inches lol |
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Cuck here it's not just the size of the cock that's only the humiliation it's the build up to the meeting , in a bar the kissing the touching in front of me that's as much if not more the humiliating part , |
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"Isn’t not being able to satisfy like the bull part of the humiliation for a cuck?"
Only for some, humiliation comes in many many forms. That is just one small (forgive the pun!) part, so much more to go at than just the size. |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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Size is not important but can play a part. For me its about what the couple want. And that can be all sorts of things ranging from the cuck sat on a chair in the corner and made to watch. To taking hold of my cock and inserting it into his wife as she looks him in the eye and smiles at him. The list is endless.
Shopping tasks.
Cuck preparing his wife for me, dressing her, bathing her etc. Its all about 3 people clicking and enjoying their role. |
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By *ister_EMan 41 weeks ago
Hayling Island |
No.
Cuckolding is not purely physical. There are many dynamics involved and all couples and relationships are different and have different needs.
Yes it is common for the Bull to bigger. But often it can be about his, presence, stamina, lovemaking skill, personality and or psychology.
The bull just has to bring something to the part that the cuck can't or won't provide.
I have cucked couples where the hubby bigger than me in length, girth or both. |
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"Isn’t not being able to satisfy like the bull part of the humiliation for a cuck?"
It can be but like so much in life cuckolding is not simple, as much as people like to think it is. Especially wannabe ‘bulls’. |
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i would say not always smaller, we have meet guys who have been thinner and smaller, but we have also met guys who are bigger mm, and then there are heavy cummers, but its about the ie bull , the other guy, its his presents the way he is the way he comes into it how he treats us, not the dick heads who think there gods gifts, its the guys who take time understand find out build on it get the most out of without thinking by calling me a cunt is going to make my wife wet her knickers and that we will jump through hoops for him while i sweep the floor with a boom up my arse , there is a great deal of fun out there to be had , how many cuckold couples have had the old message, ok willing to give it a go, |
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"Don’t think it is just down to size like other say. It’s the humiliation. I think colour of skin seems to be higher on cuckold couples request list .
Which is a shame for me. Lol "
It’s definitely not for us, the fetishisation of skin colour is really not our thing. |
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Not all cucks are smaller than the bulls their hotwife plays with, but generally they are and sometimes the cuck may have erection issues which is why the hotwife needs regular bull servicing.
Every cuck couple will have their own dynamic so we aren’t all the same. |
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"Not all cucks are smaller than the bulls their hotwife plays with, but generally they are and sometimes the cuck may have erection issues which is why the hotwife needs regular bull servicing.
Every cuck couple will have their own dynamic so we aren’t all the same."
Never a true word spoken and guys wishing to join us need to understand this or at least ask, it's where most guys fail I'd say. |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"Not all cucks are smaller than the bulls their hotwife plays with, but generally they are and sometimes the cuck may have erection issues which is why the hotwife needs regular bull servicing.
Every cuck couple will have their own dynamic so we aren’t all the same.
Never a true word spoken and guys wishing to join us need to understand this or at least ask, it's where most guys fail I'd say."
Could not agree more too...i had a 4yr relatio ship with a couple...and was smaller than hubby who was w/e.
Was all about the kissing dating....sort of became poly and we all got on....the wife benefitted for sure |
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Nope, don’t think so. I had a short but sweet arrangement about 7 or 8 years ago, Mr was a bigger guy than me physically, in better shape, and was at least 1inch bigger and a lot wider in the trouser dept. For them/him it was their thing, I hooked up as I got on well with both of them, and he enjoyed being subservient. |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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I’m a very decent size when hard and every meet we have had guy has been smaller unfortunately.
Looking forward to finally meet a hung guy take the Mrs and see her reaction.
Being caged gives the illusion of being small which I quite like though |
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By *ast_jjMan 41 weeks ago
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"Whilst most cucks tend to be on the smaller, I am sure there will be some w/e ones. This is because it is more about the mental attitude that drives the cuck."
This has been my experience so far with cuckold couples. The larger cucks found the cage helped them enjoy their cuck desires.
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"Do most cuckolds have dicks on the smaller side?
Any larger dick cuckold a on here? If so, why does your wife need other cock?"
No not always. The fact you think it’s about dock size shows you don’t understand the myriad of dynamics that can occur. Also the fact that every guy whose wife fucks other men is cuckold by the definition of the word. They may call themselves stag/vixen but that’s probably because they’re not keen to admit they have cuckold tendencies. |
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Several things for me
I'm small 3 inch erect.
I cum in seconds and i mean 20 tops.
I love being inadequate for L.
I'm into humiliation and would happily wear sissy outfits knickers and suck a bull off so he can exert his dominance over me to fuck my wife better than me.
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By *alsam1Couple 40 weeks ago
Caister |
"Do most cuckolds have dicks on the smaller side?
Any larger dick cuckold a on here? If so, why does your wife need other cock?
No not always. The fact you think it’s about dock size shows you don’t understand the myriad of dynamics that can occur. Also the fact that every guy whose wife fucks other men is cuckold by the definition of the word. They may call themselves stag/vixen but that’s probably because they’re not keen to admit they have cuckold tendencies. "
We are a Stag/vixen dynamic as im the one who finds the guys to use my wife, I'm the one that dictates how the scenario will go.
My wife is my sex toy and she only does what she does because I ask her to do it. Its all about the dynamic. |
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A bigger dick size isnt important if the rest of the package comes through. However we must say our preference is for bigger and a prolific cummer. We find the comparison very exciting!
"Do most cuckolds have dicks on the smaller side?
Any larger dick cuckold a on here? If so, why does your wife need other cock?"
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While we were married I'm not sure I was a cuckold as just loved watching her with other men. No humiliation etc more the enjoyment of her having sex with a guy or guys. Saying that my cock is only 3" which is probably why I can't find another woman now lol |
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"Do most cuckolds have dicks on the smaller side?
Any larger dick cuckold a on here? If so, why does your wife need other cock?"
It's about the Dynamic, the transfer of power the enjoyment of voyuerism, it's about so many things, each one individual to that couple, I'm not a big bloke physically, I'm fit & healthy yes.
1st time I was a bull, the hubby was bigger than me physically & cock size, however it was more about the power his wife had over him, she showed him that she could have just about anyone & they didn't have to be bigger/ stronger etc, picture a 6ft doorman wearing stockings for his wife as another man was fucking her & then bringing drinks for them both. Apparently the reclaim was out of this world, but we all got along & everyone had fun.
2nd one Mr was similar size & build to me, he was caged most of the time & she wore the key on a chain round her ankle with alphabet charms that were HWIFE. I met them a few times in a bar, they'd go in together, be identified as a couple,a few kisses holding hands etc, then I'd join them & take her off him, while beating at him at pool or darts. Other customers would see her transferring from him to me, knowing full well she'd came in with hubby.
It was so hot & a good laugh too   
We all had a great time. |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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I’m above average size, I’m maybe not a true cuck either, but I love watching My wife seduce and be seduced and be pleasured and having fun.
Maybe I’m more stag like… (sick of trying to box everyone up?) but I think it’s more about the intelligence and sexual anticipation with sharing rather than my size. My wife is more than happy with my stamina and size.
NB; She’s also happy with me playing but doesn’t want to watch unless it’s a unicorn thing?!!? |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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"I’m above average and had two cuckold relationships, chastity and finding that I wasn’t as submissive as I was before cumming, because they were both FLR ‘s it became a case of longer in chastity, which was counterproductive as well because it would make me prejac, so unless I was allowed more than an evening out of Chastity, I went from lasting as long as I wanted and making my gf’s cum, to a 5 mins at best shit shag lol. Then it was talked about cuckolding etc, I did also get a cock sleeve, but one of my exes hated them, so boom, I was a cuck lol, and I have a cock that’s about 8inches lol"
FLR full form please.  |
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As with most things it’s open to individuals own interpretation but intrinsically it has nothing to do with the physical , and everything to do with the mental aspects of cuckoldry and the humiliation sought by the cuckold. |
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By *omRachCouple 39 weeks ago
Wirral |
Cock size plays a relatively small part (in my opinion), however I think a lot of it comes down to the temperament of the individual. If you are sexually submissive and passive in thought as well as in the bedroom then there is a greater chance of that person assuming and adapting to the role of a cuckold with greater ease. |
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"Not necessarily. I'm not small and spent 5 years in a cuck relationship, it was a power thing rather than size "
Yep I have played with some huge cocked subs and it was all the denying them the ability to use it as it was not needed.
Diversity is fun indeed |
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"Not all cucks are smaller than the bulls their hotwife plays with, but generally they are and sometimes the cuck may have erection issues which is why the hotwife needs regular bull servicing.
Every cuck couple will have their own dynamic so we aren’t all the same."
We've, discussed this and part of the reason for considering it for us is that because sometimes I orgasm too quickly and no longer spunk (thanks prostate cancer  )
Missing the feeling of someone lasting as long as I always did, and the lack of feeling the cum inside seems to be quite off putting for my wife
those of you who check will see i'm not without some size... |
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