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Men… Do your work friends or colleagues know you’re on fab?
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By *aytie0 OP Woman 47 weeks ago
Seaham |
If so, how did it come up, did you encourage them to join and would you consider having fun together in a group situation as in MFM ? Reason I ask is I often see a group of builders in a van or guys on construction sites, bouncers at a bar leering and always think they just have some filthy, horny conversations about what they’d do etc and I fantasise about having gangbangs with them but I wonder how much of it is all just talk and they would get stage fright if they were all together with a woman in a hotel room?
One of my biggest fantasys is to spontaneously have a group of men fuck me while they’re at work or in the bathroom toilet of s pub after they finish their shift but probably not very realistic so I am trying to organise and prearrange on here I guess lol
Need men With kinky colleagues or friends x |
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"If so, how did it come up, did you encourage them to join and would you consider having fun together in a group situation as in MFM ? Reason I ask is I often see a group of builders in a van or guys on construction sites, bouncers at a bar leering and always think they just have some filthy, horny conversations about what they’d do etc and I fantasise about having gangbangs with them but I wonder how much of it is all just talk and they would get stage fright if they were all together with a woman in a hotel room?
One of my biggest fantasys is to spontaneously have a group of men fuck me while they’re at work or in the bathroom toilet of s pub after they finish their shift but probably not very realistic so I am trying to organise and prearrange on here I guess lol
Need men With kinky colleagues or friends x"
Count me if you arrange anything! |
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By *aul-81Man 47 weeks ago
Whitehaven |
I'm a builder and I really hope that I never find any of the people I work with on here not because of stage fright or anything like that it's because it's a family business lol
But on a positive note there has been times where I go to a small job on my own and get invited back later on |
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By *aytie0 OP Woman 47 weeks ago
Seaham |
"I'm a builder and I really hope that I never find any of the people I work with on here not because of stage fright or anything like that it's because it's a family business lol
But on a positive note there has been times where I go to a small job on my own and get invited back later on "
Ohh that could be kinky for me though? Haha x |
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By *aul-81Man 47 weeks ago
Whitehaven |
"I'm a builder and I really hope that I never find any of the people I work with on here not because of stage fright or anything like that it's because it's a family business lol
But on a positive note there has been times where I go to a small job on my own and get invited back later on
Ohh that could be kinky for me though? Haha x"
Let your thoughts run wild lolxxx |
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By *aytie0 OP Woman 47 weeks ago
Seaham |
"I'm a builder and I really hope that I never find any of the people I work with on here not because of stage fright or anything like that it's because it's a family business lol
But on a positive note there has been times where I go to a small job on my own and get invited back later on
Ohh that could be kinky for me though? Haha x
Let your thoughts run wild lolxxx "
I have lol x |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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No.
I suspect someone wouldwould expect an invite "cos swingers are all mad for it" andnone couldnt keep it/a secret to save their life. Ive seen someone do this before and was never invited back as his partner has trust issues.
"It has been my experience that the bravado shown by men in groups quite quickly evaporates when faced with reality "
That ^
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I'm a Head Doorman at the Club I work in, some of my colleagues know I'm on here.
I've done the doors for nearly 10yrs & when I 1st got my badge I would take women home after my shift but the novelty has definitely worn off.
However your scenario sounds hot but in reverse. I'd like a group of ladies drag me into the toilets or in the basement and have their wicked way with me. |
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Stage fright is an interesting issue, I felt it the first time I went to a swingers club, but like with anything in life, practice makes perfect.
I have clothes that people tell me I look like a big chunky builder. |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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They do. I was chatting to a friend at work about a club visit and we were being listened in on by another guy who proceded to tell as many people as possible.
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Slightly off topic but has anyone done anything with a friend in a non swinging environment?
I have a male friend and we have talked about having MMF but I don’t know if I could do it, would probably just burst out laughing |
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By *aytie0 OP Woman 35 weeks ago
Seaham |
"Mates all know. I wouldn't play with them. Nearly did in 2 different situations but a bit weird. Random d*unken night and banter went a bit far. Prob would have to be spontaneous..."
Shame give it a try sometime you never know |
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By *C79Man 35 weeks ago
Caterham |
I told a couple of people from work at the end of a very long after work drinking session. I don't think they were surprised but there was definitely no way they'd be into it. I think it has been said here that most guys wouldn't be confident enough to try.
PS, OP, you're a bit of a stunner, aren't you   |
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"Mates all know. I wouldn't play with them. Nearly did in 2 different situations but a bit weird. Random d*unken night and banter went a bit far. Prob would have to be spontaneous...
Shame give it a try sometime you never know "
God I'd love to be part of a group using you. Or even just me lots of times lol |
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I guy I used to work for has been prosecuted for having porn on his computer (these were the only details).
It's probably not a great idea to put yourselve to individuals who know your details.
Great hair btw OP, although I like blondes.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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I'm not sure they need to be on here to take part in that fantasy. In my experience, and having discussed this scenario with mates previously, I'd say it shouldn't be too difficult to find a few guys willing to indulge you.
Some would probably bottle it but I certainly wouldn't say no if a sexy woman offered herself to my mates and I. |
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By *ameraman007Man 27 weeks ago
stafford but holidaying in PDC |
I once went to a club and bumped in to our company secretary and her husband
Ide been watching and playing a while
She had a mascarade on its was only after when at the bar it all was revealed
Awkward
She left the company a few month later |
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"2 workmates - it all came out on an after-work pub crawl about 6 years ago… still best pals.
What was those response ? Any kinky meets they’ve joined in ?"
Aye they were very intrigued to learn what’s out there in the fab world! |
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"A few do. Not really anyone's business, but my work- husband's know, because we chat about all sorts."
Something similar. I haven’t told anyone at work. Men gossip and judge. But I have told my work wife. As above, we talk about most things, although she is very vanilla |
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Talked years ago to work guys .
But as banta went it was always the but of jokes after ..
Which was ok as gave as good as took .
But was a bit too much sometimes as they all would ask me individually if could join in with a FB I had then .
I said ok .
But they never wanted any of the others there .
So never got to do the full GB I wanted |
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By *TWboyMan 5 weeks ago
Norwich |
I went to a non-swinger)party at a workmates house, his wife spoke to me most of the night - she seemed nice enough. Afterwards (the next week) he said to me that she really liked me and then confessed they were ‘in the lifestyle’ and he was happy to let her ‘spend some time with me’ - our first meet as a 3 was at a hotel where she and I fucked and he just watched and took pictures, after that we met alone at their house ( he went to work) - we (she and I) met another 3 times over the next couple of months with his knowledge but I’ve not seen her since……. She also introduced me to a few other friends of theirs who were ‘in the lifestyle’ who also met me for fun but apparently my workmates relationship has ‘gone to hell in a handcart’ - I’ve not seen him recently and she is with someone else now.
I’ve not (knowingly) met any other workmates on FAB although odd are that there are some out there…….
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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago
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Ive Never seen anyone i know or work with here, which i find strange as some people I know are into all sorts. Kind of nice though having your own little secret part of you nobody knows about  |
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Only one client knows, they are swingers themselves & it came up in conversation after I picked up on a couple of things he said
It was all very cautious to start with, after a couple of hours of business chat and a little bit of other stuff it was apparent we were both into the same things.
Once he Stafford left, we were able to talk quite openly and ended up showing each other photographs of our ladies.
I also went round there for dinner the next time I was up in that area…. |
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"It has been my experience that the bravado shown by men in groups quite quickly evaporates when faced with reality "
Quite right, I'm the quiet one in our group lol, they're all mouth in trousers, me & the lads went to Benidorm & Amsterdam, they chatted & flirted but, when a lass & her Friend offered a couple of the lads back they bottled it. This reason, that reason & of course alcohol.
They have no idea what I do, but they can't hold water so my discretion would be shot too. |
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By *ickawitchCouple 4 weeks ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
All of our work colleagues are fully aware. I would definitely play with any of the lasses wifey works with and there are a few guys I work with whom she would like to try . However as most of the guys and girls in my gym are also fully aware. We’d both prefer to pick from them , given the choice haha |
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Only my best friend who happens to be my work collegue, (who also often becomes a fwb), knows. Nobody else will ever know as its a part of my life which will remain private. Work and social life dictates my privacy or I probably wouldn't care  |
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When I first got in to this scene I met a great couple who were totally out.
Neighbours, friends, children, extended family and employees. They all knew. It was exciting knowing that their neighbours were in on it every time I pulled on to the drive. |
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I've already posted this on another chat.
I once recognised someone from work in my earlier days on fab, I just wrote my username on a piece of paper, and gave it to her at work once I could catch her by herself, explained I'd seen their profile, and just said you might want to block me, she was a bit shocked, but apparently her husband just laughed about it. Lol |
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By *big9Man 1 week ago
shire |
I had a colleague that recognised me because of one of my tattoos.
We did have some fun together for a while off the back of it. She's no longer on here though. A while after I left that job, she suddenly went quiet and disappeared off social media. |
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By *eglegMan 1 week ago
Coventry |
"If so, how did it come up, did you encourage them to join and would you consider having fun together in a group situation as in MFM ? Reason I ask is I often see a group of builders in a van or guys on construction sites, bouncers at a bar leering and always think they just have some filthy, horny conversations about what they’d do etc and I fantasise about having gangbangs with them but I wonder how much of it is all just talk and they would get stage fright if they were all together with a woman in a hotel room?
One of my biggest fantasys is to spontaneously have a group of men fuck me while they’re at work or in the bathroom toilet of s pub after they finish their shift but probably not very realistic so I am trying to organise and prearrange on here I guess lol
Need men With kinky colleagues or friends x"
Yep two for sure know, And if I'm ho est I think the other lady suspects or has been told. I'm quite open about it and polly aspects of my life. We're a very small team only 4 of us in office.
One we have a good relationship, kinda just chat about everything including our sex life's.
The other, a mutual "friend" found me on a different site and told her.
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Genrally no (some may do). It's not a closely guarded secret, we're not ashamed of it. However neither is it something we genuinely wish to share with the people from work. On the whole the people we work with are just people we work with. So why share that and invite hassle and gossip for stuff that is non of their business.
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