We’re all on Fabs to meet like minded singles and couples for passionate, naughty and kinky sex right?
But I’ve always been attracted to intelligence, wit, flirty banter and I’m a sucker for a big smile. So people who agrees with me that we need less alphas, doms, entitlement, attitude….and instead more intelligence, wit and flirty banter in our prospective fab partners. |
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"We’re all on Fabs to meet like minded singles and couples for passionate, naughty and kinky sex right?
But I’ve always been attracted to intelligence, wit, flirty banter and I’m a sucker for a big smile. So people who agrees with me that we need less alphas, doms, entitlement, attitude….and instead more intelligence, wit and flirty banter in our prospective fab partners. "
Massively agree a passionate interesting conversation before increases my passion in the bedroom
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We need what we need.
I think people are attracted to different things and there's room for everyone.
I'm attracted to knowledge rather than intelligence. So someone who knows a lot about something, can talk about it in a non patronising way and will happily share what they know. If Professor Alice Roberts was a man she'd be my type  |
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I don't think intelligence is hugely important when it comes to swinging though. There are people on here who are way more intelligent than I am but that doesn't necessarily make them more attractive to me. Some people use their intelligence as a weapon and that's not attractive at all.
I like a well rounded person. Someone who has interests and can hold a bit of a conversation. Probably common sense is more attractive to me than intelligence |
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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago
Maidstone |
"Absolutely. Chatted to some gorgeous looking people who turn out to be a thick as mince. No matter how good they look I need to be engaged mentally too. "
I think male or female don't in the same way...
Men tell me they like the "secretary" or "librarian" look, glasses, black bra through white blouse, tight black pencil skirt, hair in a messy bun.
But the minute I tell them I'm a Business Analyst in real life, they get intimidated. Emotionally intelligent blokes tell me men need to feel superior, which is why a lot of we women play the "bimbo" role, just to be more alluring... |
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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago
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"We’re all on Fabs to meet like minded singles and couples for passionate, naughty and kinky sex right?
But I’ve always been attracted to intelligence, wit, flirty banter and I’m a sucker for a big smile. So people who agrees with me that we need less alphas, doms, entitlement, attitude….and instead more intelligence, wit and flirty banter in our prospective fab partners. "
It's a requirement.
If I can't spend time conversation with clothes on my clothes will never come off. I can fuck a toy if I wanted empty sex |
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By *hMeOhMyOhCouple
over a year ago
Gloucestershire |
"I don't think intelligence is hugely important when it comes to swinging though. There are people on here who are way more intelligent than I am but that doesn't necessarily make them more attractive to me. Some people use their intelligence as a weapon and that's not attractive at all.
I like a well rounded person. Someone who has interests and can hold a bit of a conversation. Probably common sense is more attractive to me than intelligence "
Nicely put. One of the results of being on here for us is rubbing up against all sorts we would never normally meet in ‘real life’ and practicing tolerance of all sorts. That is, not just talking about tolerance in the abstract, but interacting without judging them, as we would hope not to be judged ourselves.
That’s not to say we don’t have boundaries or limits, but we don’t expect to be discussing international politics with everyone we meet. It has been part of the thrill for us. We’re also not judging others for wanting to knock boots with Stephen Hawking (yeah… we know… RIP)  |
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"Absolutely. Chatted to some gorgeous looking people who turn out to be a thick as mince. No matter how good they look I need to be engaged mentally too.
I think male or female don't in the same way...
Men tell me they like the "secretary" or "librarian" look, glasses, black bra through white blouse, tight black pencil skirt, hair in a messy bun.
But the minute I tell them I'm a Business Analyst in real life, they get intimidated. Emotionally intelligent blokes tell me men need to feel superior, which is why a lot of we women play the "bimbo" role, just to be more alluring..."
That's interesting to read. I've watched a lot of my friends play the 'bimbo' role. |
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It's so high that it's compulsory for me, and really I think I'm more attracted to someone that's on the same wavelength, which is linked to intelligence. And there are many different ways of judging intelligence. I've chatted with people who have the certificate proof of intelligence, but weren't actually that smart or engaging when it came down to it. So it's hard to make generalisations but there is something about being on the same wavelength that makes sex better, sometimes mind-blowingly so.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We’re all on Fabs to meet like minded singles and couples for passionate, naughty and kinky sex right?
But I’ve always been attracted to intelligence, wit, flirty banter and I’m a sucker for a big smile. So people who agrees with me that we need less alphas, doms, entitlement, attitude….and instead more intelligence, wit and flirty banter in our prospective fab partners. "
Its very important for me - I'd say i was a sapiosexual...however you can still be an alpha or Dom with those attributes.... In fact I'd say the best Doms for sure are super intelligent, witty and full of personality and able to read other people very well |
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