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How many messages do you really get?
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We see lots of profiles with the “we get hundreds of messages each day and so can’t reply to everyone” type of text in their profile. It’s safe to assume that single women get the most but how many messages do you really get on an average week?
For us if we have a meet posted it’s about 50. If not then it’s about 5 a week. |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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I’d say I get about 10-12ish most weeks there are weeks I don’t get many at all, so with that on average 5-6?
I’m shite at replying though, I don’t mean it as I log in, go to the forums, spend a while typing away and log out. Oopsies |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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If I’m active and have posted new pics then I have messages in the hundreds but if I’ve not posted anything and not on often I can get around 15-20 a day sometimes less sometimes more  |
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Depends on how many I send usually. If I am not active and not sending out messages or winks my inbox is a desert, if I am bothering others with messages/winks I may get a couple replies or back and forth messages. |
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By *iz78Woman 49 weeks ago
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"If I’m active and have posted new pics then I have messages in the hundreds but if I’ve not posted anything and not on often I can get around 15-20 a day sometimes less sometimes more "
What she said |
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Around 30 a day on a normal day.
Travelling somewhere new, or uploading a new picture gets it towards the 100 mark. Well over that if I actually show nipple or something more than the usual in my gallery in said upload. |
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Get around 3- 5 messages per day generally. A few more at the weekend.
The most I have ever received is after a dressing and photo session (I was extremely randy) in which I posted the results I got over 40 individual messages. Unfortunately the one guy I invited over ended up not turning up.   |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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It's very rare that anyone messages me first, and maybe about the same amount of people message back. Fab is full of single dudes like me so couples and ladies get tons of messages to sift through so it's not hard to accept  |
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Very dependent on filters and pictures. With no filters on and a new pic maybe 20 or so a day.
With filters on and no new pics some days hardly any.
Did speak to someone who had GENUINELY got 600 in 14hrs on joining the site.
That is nuts. |
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About maybe 20/30 a day depending on whether we have posted a pic.
If C goes on cam then a lot more.
You have a gorgeous figure - I can only guess as it’s a couples profile and there’s no pics of Mr, maybe people don’t bother.
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"Today I've had 23 messages.
5 are from friends on here.
8 I have banned for dick pics.
4 I've replied to.
The rest have been ignored.
You mind us adding one more message to that list?  "
Not in the slightest. |
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"About maybe 20/30 a day depending on whether we have posted a pic.
If C goes on cam then a lot more.
You have a gorgeous figure - I can only guess as it’s a couples profile and there’s no pics of Mr, maybe people don’t bother.
If that was a reply to us- we don’t use fab to meet anymore so we’re not bothered how many messages we get, but were just curious on what other people get.
K"
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"We see lots of profiles with the “we get hundreds of messages each day and so can’t reply to everyone” type of text in their profile. It’s safe to assume that single women get the most but how many messages do you really get on an average week?
For us if we have a meet posted it’s about 50. If not then it’s about 5 a week. "
10-20 ISH. Mostly from guys but occasional mf couples. And rarely single f
All though some messages are forum replies rather than direct intrest messages |
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"We see lots of profiles with the “we get hundreds of messages each day and so can’t reply to everyone” type of text in their profile. It’s safe to assume that single women get the most but how many messages do you really get on an average week?
For us if we have a meet posted it’s about 50. If not then it’s about 5 a week. "
I’ve never counted on either this or my personal profile
I do know it’s not 100’s in a day on either , nor do I want it to be , tailored , well pitched and clear messages are ace … lots of ‘ hi how are you ‘ are pointless |
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By *ustBoWoman 49 weeks ago
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I don't get many I have very tight filters. I would say about 4 or 5 a week normally. The most I got in one day recently was three.
I've zero interest in recieving loads of messages that I won't read or reply to I don't see the point of that for anyone involved. |
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We probably get about 10 new messages (excluding replies) a week. Most of them are your standard one-liners.
If we’ve been on the forums lots, have a meet posted, or spend an evening on cam, that can be two, three or four times as many.
I’d say that’s a good number, but we always prefer quality over quantity xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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Absolutely none! I’m lucky to get 2/3 views a week never mind messages
Send a couple out to never receiving a reply or even been read! When first signed up had a few but from men. So because of this I find myself rarely coming on because seems a pointless exercise |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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I get maybe 1 reply a week if I send a message to someone…. Even my friends list do t reply anymore. *true story.
This place couldn’t appear anyless sociable away from the forums if it tried for a single guy.
But it’s also a laugh at times when someone cool pops into your inbox.  |
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Suppose it depends if people are posting on the forums or post new pics or just being quiet on here
When we post pics and comments in the forums we will get 20-50 a day. But they will mainly be “meet now” messages. |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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"We see lots of profiles with the “we get hundreds of messages each day and so can’t reply to everyone” type of text in their profile. It’s safe to assume that single women get the most but how many messages do you really get on an average week?
For us if we have a meet posted it’s about 50. If not then it’s about 5 a week. "
Yes about the same for us |
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"We see lots of profiles with the “we get hundreds of messages each day and so can’t reply to everyone” type of text in their profile. It’s safe to assume that single women get the most but how many messages do you really get on an average week?
For us if we have a meet posted it’s about 50. If not then it’s about 5 a week. "
None, nor winks or replies if I message someone, I didn't actually think I was that ugly ?? |
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Varies. Somedays absolutely nothing. Then others (like Saturday) it was unusually busy with around 80ish from 5 different people.
Frequency is determined by how active we have been, posting pics, comments on the forum or hovering in the shadows in the chat room.
As a rule of thumb it’ll be 1/2 people with 10-15 messages a day depending on how well
We know them or how keen they are to chat to us. |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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None really unless I instigate the first message and then I would say only 20% reply.
When I had a couples account it would be 3-4 a day, more if we posted a new photo and about 10 or so shortly after being on cam.
I’m ok with no messages. People will message if interested and if I message and no reply I take that as a polite no and make sure I don’t bother them again.
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Some days we get none, others maybe 10 or 12..
All depends on what we’re commenting on and whether we have a status update that’s inviting.
When we’ve run parties or socials then we get lots.
It’s the 1 or 2 quality messages that are the key.. |
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Depends. If I post a new picture then I'll get quite a lot, maybe 50 a day. If I'm active on the forums I get about 10-20 a day. If im not on for a few days/weeks then maybe 1 day.
Inbox was at 60 something unread and now at 42 unread. I guess as people delete messages or accounts. |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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I send some out about 100 I’ve had 4 back but single males is a hard slog I feel justify your self. That’s why I try to just go to socials as I feel I’m way better in the flesh. |
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"No content, status posted, etc… about 50-80 a day.
If I post a photo or a status can go up to 200.
If I post a video my inbox blows up- 500+ and I have to mass delete.
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Yeah, but that’s because you’re awesome.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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"No content, status posted, etc… about 50-80 a day.
If I post a photo or a status can go up to 200.
If I post a video my inbox blows up- 500+ and I have to mass delete.
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If I hang out on Fab a lot - post lots on the forums, upload new photos, put up a status more often - then my inbox will be like Grand Central Station. If I back off and keep quiet, it’ll be so empty it echoes.
So I’m in control, really. |
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I’m very suspicious if I get a message from a woman, or couple, that isn’t a response to one of my own messages. Unless it asks something specific about one of my pictures, or profile.
Typically, I get one message per 30 (I’m guessing) personalised messages I send.
Over a year since a message, meet or forum post actually triggered a meet on here. Probably going to stick to the more common ‘dating’ apps from now on and real life liaisons - much more successful. |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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I reckon on average I've had one message a month since joining Fab. I sort of expected that, as I am a mature male competing against younger, fitter males. Also I don't really make that much of an effort myself, so I guess the saying is true. You only get out what you are prepared to put in. No complaints from me though, just a profile view, brightens up my day. |
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