Yes it's a perpetual theme, I'm x inches if I measure from my asshole forwards etc, followed by crowds of "it don't look that big / you must have small hands / I'm only 6 inches and as big as u" and all the rest of the crap.
Then all the women start on length vs girth and I've had a 12 inch cock but I didn't use it as a rule etc.
I guess bra cup sizes run a close 2nd in the bullshit stakes, but cock sizes are the king.
From the man's perspective, if you can't bang it in balls deep it is too big, or the hole is too small.... if you can bang it in balls deep then you are good to go.
From the man's perspective take a look at the basic rabbit vibe, only about 4" insert able length which goes along with the old knowledge that only the first 4" of the vagina was sensitive, at ll., so as long as you have 4" it ain't your tool, it is your technique, that is the problemo.
"must be vvvwe 9+ inches" type profiles, that isn't true, it's just a sop by the woman involved to the man she is with, it is a way to excuse wanting extra cock, on the basis that it is huge, or black, or somehow different from her partners perfectly adequate cock.
I have a particular toy, it is a large jelly penis, it is 9" long and 2.5" diameter at the head, you know how many women have been able to take all 9 inches and bottom it out? Well put it this way, none of the women who say they want an 8+ or 9+ or 10+ inch cock managed it.
This toy is significantly bigger than my cock, but since it can't buy a round of drinks or do anything else I can do, it has never yet managed to pull a woman on it's own.
I have a long term mate with a cock bigger and thicker than this toy, think two tins stood one on top of the other, he fucking hates it, probably much like the slim women with H jugs, because that is all people see, and he can still never get balls deep banging it in, except for the woman he sees regularly, and she looks rode hard and hung up wet so it ain't all candy.
Condoms, another load of shite, I have to buy XXXXL super stud to fit my elephant cock, well he manages to get regular condoms on his two tins cock no problemo....
Bottom line, it ain't what you got, it's how you use it, applies to women as well as men, and unless you are freakishly large or freakishly small in any area, get on your knees and thank your maker you aren't, because it means you can have great sex with 99.9% of the opposite sex...
... every other problem is unrelated to the size of your cock or cunt, which means unless you are freakishly large or freakishly small, all your problems are inside your own head. |