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By *JandJJCouple
over a year ago
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"How many of you would indulge in sexual relations with a married man if he was cheating on his wife?"
Never ever. Nor a cheating wife.
Why on earth would we associate with disrespectful and dishonest people when there are plenty of honest people out there?
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"Would you consider the martial status of a celebrity that you would like to have sex with (I wouldn't sleep with *George Clooney because he's married?)
*I don't know if George Clooney is married"
He is & yes it would still apply for me.I only would if she knew and was OK with it. |
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By *JandJJCouple
over a year ago
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"Probably not. However there are circumstances in which I believe understanding and empathy are required "
Agree totally.
What are the thoughts about honesty between partners?
This is where we find things difficult to understand. |
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"Probably not. However there are circumstances in which I believe understanding and empathy are required
Agree totally.
What are the thoughts about honesty between partners?
This is where we find things difficult to understand."
Honestly isn't always possible.
I've mentioned this before. A woman we know cared full time for her husband who has dementia and mobility issues. He wouldn't have been able to contribute to an honest conversation about his wife's social and physical needs. Her life revolved around caring for him. If she'd sought a little company when he was in respite care I wouldn't have judged her. |
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By *JandJJCouple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
"Probably not. However there are circumstances in which I believe understanding and empathy are required
Agree totally.
What are the thoughts about honesty between partners?
This is where we find things difficult to understand.
Honestly isn't always possible.
I've mentioned this before. A woman we know cared full time for her husband who has dementia and mobility issues. He wouldn't have been able to contribute to an honest conversation about his wife's social and physical needs. Her life revolved around caring for him. If she'd sought a little company when he was in respite care I wouldn't have judged her. "
In that case, we would agree with you 1000%.
But the majority of cheats that we have come across are doing it simply because they can, and would be horrified if the tables were turned.
Great discussion point though.
Like you, there are some people out there that we would understand about completely. |
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"Probably not. However there are circumstances in which I believe understanding and empathy are required
Agree totally.
What are the thoughts about honesty between partners?
This is where we find things difficult to understand.
Honestly isn't always possible.
I've mentioned this before. A woman we know cared full time for her husband who has dementia and mobility issues. He wouldn't have been able to contribute to an honest conversation about his wife's social and physical needs. Her life revolved around caring for him. If she'd sought a little company when he was in respite care I wouldn't have judged her.
In that case, we would agree with you 1000%.
But the majority of cheats that we have come across are doing it simply because they can, and would be horrified if the tables were turned.
Great discussion point though.
Like you, there are some people out there that we would understand about completely. "
We tend to stay out of drama, an unaware partner whatever the situation has potential to cause that. A lot of people who cheat are actually looking for something that their main partner can't or won't provide and it's always a possibility that if someone finds that elsewhere they can mistake it for something deeper |
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"Probably not. However there are circumstances in which I believe understanding and empathy are required
Agree totally.
What are the thoughts about honesty between partners?
This is where we find things difficult to understand.
Honestly isn't always possible.
I've mentioned this before. A woman we know cared full time for her husband who has dementia and mobility issues. He wouldn't have been able to contribute to an honest conversation about his wife's social and physical needs. Her life revolved around caring for him. If she'd sought a little company when he was in respite care I wouldn't have judged her. "
I think we'd all feel for her in those circumstances,
It's the ones who start posts slating their partners I can't stand, be that men or women.
We only hear one side of a story on fab. |
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What about if the partner on here is in a sexless marriage and is just together for the children?
Basically asking for myself, I am open and transparent about this and understand if people don’t want to but I do make people aware if we start chatting and point out my bio! |
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"Probably not. However there are circumstances in which I believe understanding and empathy are required
Agree totally.
What are the thoughts about honesty between partners?
This is where we find things difficult to understand.
Honestly isn't always possible.
I've mentioned this before. A woman we know cared full time for her husband who has dementia and mobility issues. He wouldn't have been able to contribute to an honest conversation about his wife's social and physical needs. Her life revolved around caring for him. If she'd sought a little company when he was in respite care I wouldn't have judged her.
I think we'd all feel for her in those circumstances,
It's the ones who start posts slating their partners I can't stand, be that men or women.
We only hear one side of a story on fab. "
Yep. Also as a collective we judge men who cheat far more harshly than women.
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over a year ago
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As a married man that has cheated, all I can say is that having an itch scratched that couldn’t be resolved at home made me a much more attentive and better husband. Be a little careful on the judgement |
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That’s my point. I understand if people don’t want the drama or to get involved but I’m talking, barely speaking, sleeping in separate beds, no sex together for years… not just some horny teenager… |
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"It's quite easy to know and make your choice here, but what about clubs? Especially day time events? Do you ask whether someone is married/in relationship? Do you look for wedding ring? "
Someone may have already said but to go to a club as a single male would probably too difficult for all but the real cheating bastards  |
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"Probably not. However there are circumstances in which I believe understanding and empathy are required
Agree totally.
What are the thoughts about honesty between partners?
This is where we find things difficult to understand.
Honestly isn't always possible.
I've mentioned this before. A woman we know cared full time for her husband who has dementia and mobility issues. He wouldn't have been able to contribute to an honest conversation about his wife's social and physical needs. Her life revolved around caring for him. If she'd sought a little company when he was in respite care I wouldn't have judged her.
I think we'd all feel for her in those circumstances,
It's the ones who start posts slating their partners I can't stand, be that men or women.
We only hear one side of a story on fab.
Yep. Also as a collective we judge men who cheat far more harshly than women.
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I agree, that's cos men and most couples are looking to meet women.
I'm not into women & I'd judge them the same as any man who came on the forum to complain about their partner or brag about cheating. |
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over a year ago
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Have done this unknowingly twice. Hurt both times. No way would I do it if I knew they were cheating. Not to say I judge anyone that would at all, just not for me because being lied to is the pits. |
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"Probably not. However there are circumstances in which I believe understanding and empathy are required
Agree totally.
What are the thoughts about honesty between partners?
This is where we find things difficult to understand.
Honestly isn't always possible.
I've mentioned this before. A woman we know cared full time for her husband who has dementia and mobility issues. He wouldn't have been able to contribute to an honest conversation about his wife's social and physical needs. Her life revolved around caring for him. If she'd sought a little company when he was in respite care I wouldn't have judged her. "
You don't need to judge her. She's already been classed as " not even human " by others in earlier comments. |
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I care more on how I'm treated the information I know about. People will lie regardless..
unless I've been down the aisle to witness the marriage anything a guy says here about single or married I take it at 5% truth anyways.
It's a flat no however if they are bragging about cheating and being married. |
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"It's quite easy to know and make your choice here, but what about clubs? Especially day time events? Do you ask whether someone is married/in relationship? Do you look for wedding ring? "
And ditto at parties or any group gathering. So many men and ladies with partners that you don't know about. Also lots of couples that are married to others. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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people can say no all they want but the fact will be if you swing you'll have deffo played with a cheat 100% even if you can suss most you will never get all ...
i gave up worrying years ago i dont walk in their shoes as long as they understand if it comes to my door that ill be 100% honest and upfront then the rest is there baggage not mine.. |
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"people can say no all they want but the fact will be if you swing you'll have deffo played with a cheat 100% even if you can suss most you will never get all ...
i gave up worrying years ago i dont walk in their shoes as long as they understand if it comes to my door that ill be 100% honest and upfront then the rest is there baggage not mine.."
Yep. We do all we can to avoid it but we're pretty sure at least one of the guys we met was married and if we sussed him after the event there must be others we haven't. |
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Sometimes there are extenuating circumstances, and I will listen to reason. In the dementia case, I wouldn't be as immediate on the no though I'd still have some misgivings. If they're 'staying together for the kids' and haven't had that clear cut conversation with their coparent about what their relationship is, even though both parties are fully capable of processing and dealing with it, then it's still a hard no for me.
I've been lied to about it before. I'm sure I'll be lied to about it again. But I prefer the option to give informed and enthusiastic consent to the choices I'm involved in, and lying to get me into bed removes that from me. That's not okay  |
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"It's quite easy to know and make your choice here, but what about clubs? Especially day time events? Do you ask whether someone is married/in relationship? Do you look for wedding ring?
Someone may have already said but to go to a club as a single male would probably too difficult for all but the real cheating bastards "
Haha this made me chuckle! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. Cheaters are disgusting and I don't even regard them as human.
Not too judgemental then."
They deserve it honestly, in a perfect world we'd simply turn them into Servitors from the Warhammer series. Atleast then their bodies can give back to the species. Plus, there would be an actual punishment for such a pathetic action. Obviously snowflakes have infected our species and thus I'm deemed a villain for wanting to preserve our beautiful species. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
taunton somerset |
lets not forget women cheat too and by far the worse cheats are swingers the amount of male halfs ive had messages from where theyve asked that there partners not know is shocking ...and is a big big reason i wont meet couples via online..
can you imaging being a long term couple who have a great sex life and swing and yet still want to cheat the mind boggles |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No thank you, I wouldn’t want to be part of something deceitful and I could never fully trust someone who can’t be honest with the person they’re supposed to love.
People say “don’t judge” but it’s human nature to judge, everyone does it both consciously and unconsciously and there’s nothing wrong with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about if the partner on here is in a sexless marriage and is just together for the children?
Basically asking for myself, I am open and transparent about this and understand if people don’t want to but I do make people aware if we start chatting and point out my bio!"
If she doesn’t know, it’s still cheating.
You’re being open and transparent with strangers but not the person you live with. |
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"Interesting this. It always assumes that chaps are the ones committing infidelity.
Either a few women are servicing a lot of married men, OR PERHAPS THERE ARE EQUAL NUMBERS OF UNFAITHFUL WOMEN? 
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Given the male to female ratio on here I think every active female would need to have at least 3 husbands to make equal numbers
Women do cheat too, obviously. |
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In all honesty our approach would probably be more "don't ask, don't tell.
We don't want to hurt anyone, and we don't want to be part of anyone getting hurt, but our liaisons are normally brief and spontaneous and I don't think we tend to spend too long considering the marital status of an invited guest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably not. However there are circumstances in which I believe understanding and empathy are required "
I agree you never know people's circumstances and who are we to judge?  |
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We'd be hypocrites to say we haven't in a club environment. However it's not something we find endearing and it's generally something that would result in a No. However we are not there to be the morality police or to make judgment on those who's shoes we don't stand. We both know how horrible it is to be cheated on by a spouse but also the world is not black and white. So generally it's very much a negative factor for us however on the rare occasion we have enjoyed something with someone knowingly inspite of our negative attitude towards this. Due to their many other qualities and easiness to get a long with as a person. However this is incredibly rare and only something of the club environment. |
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"It's quite easy to know and make your choice here, but what about clubs? Especially day time events? Do you ask whether someone is married/in relationship? Do you look for wedding ring?
Someone may have already said but to go to a club as a single male would probably too difficult for all but the real cheating bastards "
Not necessarily during the day. As they can just have a long lunch break or similar.
I try not to judge people, their circumstances are none of my business. I have met married men in the past, I don't currently for the simple reason of availability. And the fact that I only meet new people in clubs nowadays. |
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"What about if the partner on here is in a sexless marriage and is just together for the children?
Basically asking for myself, I am open and transparent about this and understand if people don’t want to but I do make people aware if we start chatting and point out my bio!
If she doesn’t know, it’s still cheating.
You’re being open and transparent with strangers but not the person you live with. "
100% this. For us, honesty and communication is vital and that has to be between us and any play mates. If you can’t be honest with the person you’re meant to be sharing your life with then we can’t trust you’ll be honest with us. I’ve seen first hand the damage cheating does - especially when children are involved - and I could never, ever be a part of that.
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what makes me laugh is all that are saying no have already been with married guys who tell them what they want to hear so they can fuck you, then return to their wives who has no clue (the poor cow). But women are equally as bad!!! This site has made me never trust a human being ever LOL u never know a person and their motives. |
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By *or7Man
over a year ago
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"No. Cheaters are disgusting and I don't even regard them as human.
Not too judgemental then.
They deserve it honestly, in a perfect world we'd simply turn them into Servitors from the Warhammer series. Atleast then their bodies can give back to the species. Plus, there would be an actual punishment for such a pathetic action. Obviously snowflakes have infected our species and thus I'm deemed a villain for wanting to preserve our beautiful species."
Fuck all to do with 'snowflakes' just think calling someone disgusting and not human is a bit cuntish.
There are parts of the world where adulterers are executed, you'd be happy with that aye? |
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By *fnmdudeMan
over a year ago
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My dear wife passed away 5 years ago and that is why I have a single man's profile. I thought that swinging implied the swapping of partners so married men cheating on their wives is a definite no no in my book. |
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"No. Cheaters are disgusting and I don't even regard them as human.
Not too judgemental then.
They deserve it honestly, in a perfect world we'd simply turn them into Servitors from the Warhammer series. Atleast then their bodies can give back to the species. Plus, there would be an actual punishment for such a pathetic action. Obviously snowflakes have infected our species and thus I'm deemed a villain for wanting to preserve our beautiful species.
Fuck all to do with 'snowflakes' just think calling someone disgusting and not human is a bit cuntish.
There are parts of the world where adulterers are executed, you'd be happy with that aye?"
Killing them is a waste and a mercy they don't deserve, they should be used for medical testing or turned into servitors. I don't see how wanting humanity to progress by removing sub-humans who actively wish to see pure humans be brought to pain is cuntish but hey, it seems that people really are just snowflakes these days. They can't accept that people deserve to be punished it seems. |
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By *or7Man
over a year ago
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"No. Cheaters are disgusting and I don't even regard them as human.
Not too judgemental then.
They deserve it honestly, in a perfect world we'd simply turn them into Servitors from the Warhammer series. Atleast then their bodies can give back to the species. Plus, there would be an actual punishment for such a pathetic action. Obviously snowflakes have infected our species and thus I'm deemed a villain for wanting to preserve our beautiful species.
Fuck all to do with 'snowflakes' just think calling someone disgusting and not human is a bit cuntish.
There are parts of the world where adulterers are executed, you'd be happy with that aye?
Killing them is a waste and a mercy they don't deserve, they should be used for medical testing or turned into servitors. I don't see how wanting humanity to progress by removing sub-humans who actively wish to see pure humans be brought to pain is cuntish but hey, it seems that people really are just snowflakes these days. They can't accept that people deserve to be punished it seems."
Snowflakes is it? Wanting people executed?
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"No. Cheaters are disgusting and I don't even regard them as human.
Not too judgemental then.
They deserve it honestly, in a perfect world we'd simply turn them into Servitors from the Warhammer series. Atleast then their bodies can give back to the species. Plus, there would be an actual punishment for such a pathetic action. Obviously snowflakes have infected our species and thus I'm deemed a villain for wanting to preserve our beautiful species.
Fuck all to do with 'snowflakes' just think calling someone disgusting and not human is a bit cuntish.
There are parts of the world where adulterers are executed, you'd be happy with that aye?
Killing them is a waste and a mercy they don't deserve, they should be used for medical testing or turned into servitors. I don't see how wanting humanity to progress by removing sub-humans who actively wish to see pure humans be brought to pain is cuntish but hey, it seems that people really are just snowflakes these days. They can't accept that people deserve to be punished it seems.
Snowflakes is it? Wanting people executed?
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I don't want people executed since adulterers aren't even people. Adulterers are scum who get sexual satisfaction from causing psychological harm to innocent people. They must be removed. I don't see how that is a harsh concept. |
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By *or7Man
over a year ago
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"No. Cheaters are disgusting and I don't even regard them as human.
Not too judgemental then.
They deserve it honestly, in a perfect world we'd simply turn them into Servitors from the Warhammer series. Atleast then their bodies can give back to the species. Plus, there would be an actual punishment for such a pathetic action. Obviously snowflakes have infected our species and thus I'm deemed a villain for wanting to preserve our beautiful species.
Fuck all to do with 'snowflakes' just think calling someone disgusting and not human is a bit cuntish.
There are parts of the world where adulterers are executed, you'd be happy with that aye?
Killing them is a waste and a mercy they don't deserve, they should be used for medical testing or turned into servitors. I don't see how wanting humanity to progress by removing sub-humans who actively wish to see pure humans be brought to pain is cuntish but hey, it seems that people really are just snowflakes these days. They can't accept that people deserve to be punished it seems.
Snowflakes is it? Wanting people executed?
I don't want people executed since adulterers aren't even people. Adulterers are scum who get sexual satisfaction from causing psychological harm to innocent people. They must be removed. I don't see how that is a harsh concept."
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Not knowingly although have met guys who after we’ve played have found out they were married.
Some men say they have their reasons which we think is a load of rubbish and would rather avoid the drama.
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"Not knowingly although have met guys who after we’ve played have found out they were married.
Some men say they have their reasons which we think is a load of rubbish and would rather avoid the drama.
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Same for cheating females too not trying to just crucify men x |
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"What about if the partner on here is in a sexless marriage and is just together for the children?
Basically asking for myself, I am open and transparent about this and understand if people don’t want to but I do make people aware if we start chatting and point out my bio!"
Then leave staying for children is more harm than anything |
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"I don't want people executed since adulterers aren't even people. Adulterers are scum who get sexual satisfaction from causing psychological harm to innocent people. They must be removed. I don't see how that is a harsh concept."
Seriously??? |
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For us if we have knowledge of someone cheating then it’s a no - reason being we don’t want to be part of someone feeling hurt.
There isn’t ever any judgement as we know many people stay together for kids or other reasons; some people are carers with occasional needs.
I think this is where chatting and taking a little time to speak allows clear communication on situations |
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"No. Cheaters are disgusting and I don't even regard them as human.
Not too judgemental then.
They deserve it honestly, in a perfect world we'd simply turn them into Servitors from the Warhammer series. Atleast then their bodies can give back to the species. Plus, there would be an actual punishment for such a pathetic action. Obviously snowflakes have infected our species and thus I'm deemed a villain for wanting to preserve our beautiful species.
Fuck all to do with 'snowflakes' just think calling someone disgusting and not human is a bit cuntish.
There are parts of the world where adulterers are executed, you'd be happy with that aye?
Killing them is a waste and a mercy they don't deserve, they should be used for medical testing or turned into servitors. I don't see how wanting humanity to progress by removing sub-humans who actively wish to see pure humans be brought to pain is cuntish but hey, it seems that people really are just snowflakes these days. They can't accept that people deserve to be punished it seems.
Snowflakes is it? Wanting people executed?
I don't want people executed since adulterers aren't even people. Adulterers are scum who get sexual satisfaction from causing psychological harm to innocent people. They must be removed. I don't see how that is a harsh concept."
If you keep talking about executing or similar horrible punishments to a large chunk of Fab members you might be one being removed |
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"No. Cheaters are disgusting and I don't even regard them as human.
Not too judgemental then.
They deserve it honestly, in a perfect world we'd simply turn them into Servitors from the Warhammer series. Atleast then their bodies can give back to the species. Plus, there would be an actual punishment for such a pathetic action. Obviously snowflakes have infected our species and thus I'm deemed a villain for wanting to preserve our beautiful species.
Fuck all to do with 'snowflakes' just think calling someone disgusting and not human is a bit cuntish.
There are parts of the world where adulterers are executed, you'd be happy with that aye?
Killing them is a waste and a mercy they don't deserve, they should be used for medical testing or turned into servitors. I don't see how wanting humanity to progress by removing sub-humans who actively wish to see pure humans be brought to pain is cuntish but hey, it seems that people really are just snowflakes these days. They can't accept that people deserve to be punished it seems.
Snowflakes is it? Wanting people executed?
I don't want people executed since adulterers aren't even people. Adulterers are scum who get sexual satisfaction from causing psychological harm to innocent people. They must be removed. I don't see how that is a harsh concept.
If you keep talking about executing or similar horrible punishments to a large chunk of Fab members you might be one being removed "
Fine with me. People really have gone soft it seems. |
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"No. Cheaters are disgusting and I don't even regard them as human.
Not too judgemental then.
They deserve it honestly, in a perfect world we'd simply turn them into Servitors from the Warhammer series. Atleast then their bodies can give back to the species. Plus, there would be an actual punishment for such a pathetic action. Obviously snowflakes have infected our species and thus I'm deemed a villain for wanting to preserve our beautiful species.
Fuck all to do with 'snowflakes' just think calling someone disgusting and not human is a bit cuntish.
There are parts of the world where adulterers are executed, you'd be happy with that aye?
Killing them is a waste and a mercy they don't deserve, they should be used for medical testing or turned into servitors. I don't see how wanting humanity to progress by removing sub-humans who actively wish to see pure humans be brought to pain is cuntish but hey, it seems that people really are just snowflakes these days. They can't accept that people deserve to be punished it seems.
Snowflakes is it? Wanting people executed?
I don't want people executed since adulterers aren't even people. Adulterers are scum who get sexual satisfaction from causing psychological harm to innocent people. They must be removed. I don't see how that is a harsh concept.
If you keep talking about executing or similar horrible punishments to a large chunk of Fab members you might be one being removed
Fine with me. People really have gone soft it seems. "
This is really interesting. Morality, religious beliefs, law and order. Does the punishment fit the crime ect? |
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It's a no from us. We arranged a 3some but he confessed it was behind his wife's back! At least he was honest, but it was a no deal for us. Part of the turn on is a married couple getting off on the fact their partner is fuciing someone else |
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"Mitigating circumstances- Extreme example. You're shipwrecked with just one other person. You're physically attracted but they are married, it's been 3 years on the island with no hope"
Do you need us to send a rescue ship for you OP?
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By *JandJJCouple
over a year ago
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"Absolute not, if he's that little respect for his wife what respect can anyone else expect.
Lying, deceiving and hurting people ain't hot.
Mrs"
Fair comment.
Yet you will find many married cheating people on here saying that they will treat everyone with respect....
But that doesn't include the partner.
Still, the world won't change will it? |
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over a year ago
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Absolutely NO.
No judgement from me, I'm just making an informed decision that married men are not something that I am interested in.
Lying (i.e.), them with holding the truth of their situation, robs me of the ability to make a consensual, informed decision.
Their situation (whether they are staying or not) is absolutely none of my business.
Lying about being married/partnered etc, amounts to treating me with disrespect, same as they way they are treating the person they supposedly love! |
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By *or7Man
over a year ago
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"Absolutely NO.
No judgement from me, I'm just making an informed decision that married men are not something that I am interested in.
Lying (i.e.), them with holding the truth of their situation, robs me of the ability to make a consensual, informed decision.
Their situation (whether they are staying or not) is absolutely none of my business.
Lying about being married/partnered etc, amounts to treating me with disrespect, same as they way they are treating the person they supposedly love! "
I don't think not seeing married people is judging, it's absolutely the individual's choice, but the c**t who advocates execution is clearly a fruitcake! |
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"How many of you would indulge in sexual relations with a married man if he was cheating on his wife?
Not a chance in hell."
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Married man OR woman. Makes no difference to us, if their partner doesn’t know and isn’t giving the green light then it’s a simple NO.
We are a couple who play separately at times but always with the others knowledge prior to any plans.
Yes we know there are ones who don’t admit they are married/in relationship but then that’s not on our conscious - but if we are made aware No no no |
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Alot of no people on here but end of the day, this site is about getting sex not a for relationships, if you are purely on here for sex do you really care what happens in that other persons personal life, i know i have slept with a few cheating wives and girlfriends but its mutual consent and you are on this site for the same reason as each other regardless of being male or female |
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No I wouldn't want to help a man cheat on his wife when they aren't consenting in the situation. The consent makes it non cheating. I wouldn't like to be tricked either and not make an informed choice.
My cheeky take on it is - if your wife doesn't want tonsleep with you, why on earth would I? |
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"No I wouldn't want to help a man cheat on his wife when they aren't consenting in the situation. The consent makes it non cheating. I wouldn't like to be tricked either and not make an informed choice.
My cheeky take on it is - if your wife doesn't want tonsleep with you, why on earth would I? "
Does assume that the married guys aren't sleeping with their wives which I suspect may not be the case! |
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"Alot of no people on here but end of the day, this site is about getting sex not a for relationships, if you are purely on here for sex do you really care what happens in that other persons personal life, i know i have slept with a few cheating wives and girlfriends but its mutual consent and you are on this site for the same reason as each other regardless of being male or female "
Mutual consent. Informed and enthusiastic mutual consent is what I like. And knowing that someone I'm considering sleeping with has a partner at home they're lying to tells me how much I can trust them to respect my body or wishes when they can't give the same to someone they made a commitment to and pretend to care for.
What people choose to do amongst themselves is whatever. But I can't give informed consent on a lie. And neither can their partner. |
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"No I wouldn't want to help a man cheat on his wife when they aren't consenting in the situation. The consent makes it non cheating. I wouldn't like to be tricked either and not make an informed choice.
My cheeky take on it is - if your wife doesn't want tonsleep with you, why on earth would I? "
Great answer!!! |
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By *emboy AlexMan
over a year ago
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A hard no. Cheaters are disgusting. I've seen some of the earlier comments on here and even though I personally wouldn't execute them, if they did fuck off and die, I think this world would be a better place. |
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"No I wouldn't want to help a man cheat on his wife when they aren't consenting in the situation. The consent makes it non cheating. I wouldn't like to be tricked either and not make an informed choice.
My cheeky take on it is - if your wife doesn't want tonsleep with you, why on earth would I?
Does assume that the married guys aren't sleeping with their wives which I suspect may not be the case! "
I've had messages claiming that to be the case. Obviously could be a lie. It's just my cheeky take. I can't see fulfilled couples that aren't swingers/ open/ poly/ ENM etc wanting to inflict that kind of pain on their partner.
I could be very wrong. |
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"No I wouldn't want to help a man cheat on his wife when they aren't consenting in the situation. The consent makes it non cheating. I wouldn't like to be tricked either and not make an informed choice.
My cheeky take on it is - if your wife doesn't want tonsleep with you, why on earth would I?
Great answer!!! "
I had an open marriage so no fooling anyone. I don't think I could do monogamy now but maybe I could. I'm separated and fully appreciate that might not be others taste and I respect their boundaries. |
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"No I wouldn't want to help a man cheat on his wife when they aren't consenting in the situation. The consent makes it non cheating. I wouldn't like to be tricked either and not make an informed choice.
My cheeky take on it is - if your wife doesn't want tonsleep with you, why on earth would I?
Does assume that the married guys aren't sleeping with their wives which I suspect may not be the case!
I've had messages claiming that to be the case. Obviously could be a lie. It's just my cheeky take. I can't see fulfilled couples that aren't swingers/ open/ poly/ ENM etc wanting to inflict that kind of pain on their partner.
I could be very wrong. "
Have spoken with married women who say they still have sexy with their husband but just want more or something different. Suspect a lot of men say they are here because they don't get sex at home which maybe the case but feels a little bit of a sympathy request. But who are we to judge, I guess we don't know what goes on behind marries doors. |
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Actually I don't agree that everyone on here is looking for sex, that is why guys on here complain that they can't get meets.
It is a friendship that I look for. Something that is more social. It is like minded people I look for. IF the chat turns to having fun I would carefully consider if that was what I wanted at that time. These days, due to health and medication, I prefer to just sit on the side line and take my pleasure from watching others (is that any different to watching porn?).
I totally respect the views of others but every situation is different. People just need to be grown up, expect nothing and know each others boundaries.
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"No I wouldn't want to help a man cheat on his wife when they aren't consenting in the situation. The consent makes it non cheating. I wouldn't like to be tricked either and not make an informed choice.
My cheeky take on it is - if your wife doesn't want tonsleep with you, why on earth would I?
Does assume that the married guys aren't sleeping with their wives which I suspect may not be the case!
I've had messages claiming that to be the case. Obviously could be a lie. It's just my cheeky take. I can't see fulfilled couples that aren't swingers/ open/ poly/ ENM etc wanting to inflict that kind of pain on their partner.
I could be very wrong.
Have spoken with married women who say they still have sexy with their husband but just want more or something different. Suspect a lot of men say they are here because they don't get sex at home which maybe the case but feels a little bit of a sympathy request. But who are we to judge, I guess we don't know what goes on behind marries doors."
We don't but I also feel people should respect boundaries. Many profiles myself included are contacted my married cheating men and our profiles read not our style. |
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"No I wouldn't want to help a man cheat on his wife when they aren't consenting in the situation. The consent makes it non cheating. I wouldn't like to be tricked either and not make an informed choice.
My cheeky take on it is - if your wife doesn't want tonsleep with you, why on earth would I?
Does assume that the married guys aren't sleeping with their wives which I suspect may not be the case!
I've had messages claiming that to be the case. Obviously could be a lie. It's just my cheeky take. I can't see fulfilled couples that aren't swingers/ open/ poly/ ENM etc wanting to inflict that kind of pain on their partner.
I could be very wrong.
Have spoken with married women who say they still have sexy with their husband but just want more or something different. Suspect a lot of men say they are here because they don't get sex at home which maybe the case but feels a little bit of a sympathy request. But who are we to judge, I guess we don't know what goes on behind marries doors.
We don't but I also feel people should respect boundaries. Many profiles myself included are contacted my married cheating men and our profiles read not our style. "
Totally agree, respect people's preferences, and if guys or ladies are married, tell folks so they can make their decision, some people will meet them, others won't. |
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"Alot of no people on here but end of the day, this site is about getting sex not a for relationships, if you are purely on here for sex do you really care what happens in that other persons personal life, i know i have slept with a few cheating wives and girlfriends but its mutual consent and you are on this site for the same reason as each other regardless of being male or female "
Well yes if you’re just after a body to use your pleasure then by all means you wouldn’t care would you.
Personally I’m after someone I can explore and share mutual sexual experiences with and also have a bit of a friendship. |
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I can't believe how horrible some people can be. Executing/ murder, really.
What people do with their life is entirely up to them, whether they're cheating or not, as someone said its a sex site, enjoy the sex and move on, |
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"What about if the partner on here is in a sexless marriage and is just together for the children?
Basically asking for myself, I am open and transparent about this and understand if people don’t want to but I do make people aware if we start chatting and point out my bio!
Then leave staying for children is more harm than anything "
That’s an assumption what if the mums a nutter , courts always favour the mum if there is no addiction or abuse , world isn’t sunshine and rainbows ( rocky) |
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"A hard no. Cheaters are disgusting. I've seen some of the earlier comments on here and even though I personally wouldn't execute them, if they did fuck off and die, I think this world would be a better place."
Jeeeesus! |
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I'm married and play wife doesn't know We are now in a sexless marriage...wife went off sex after menopause became painfully
Love her to bits but I still have needs Only sex ....so if I'm a cheater ok Must be others in same position as me |
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"I'm married and play wife doesn't know We are now in a sexless marriage...wife went off sex after menopause became painfully
Love her to bits but I still have needs Only sex ....so if I'm a cheater ok Must be others in same position as me "
You love her yet are fine betraying her? That makes literally zero sense. Just stop spewing BS and just admit you don't love her, if you actually loved someone you wouldn't commit the absolute betrayal. If she can't make you happy just move on. It literally is that simple. |
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By *ddfellowMan
over a year ago
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I would, prefer married, no possibility of any emotional attachment, either way which means less chance of breaking a marriage, also consider myself to be doing the partner a service, if he she doesnt want to have sex with there partner, lets face it if someone isnt getting it at home, there are 3 outcomes, they are miserable for the rest of their life, they split up, or they get it on the side.  |
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"If she can't make you happy just move on. It literally is that simple."
Easy to say when you're 22. Not so easy to say when you're the OP's age and have a lifetime together.
Maybe spew a little less hatred, and try and be a bit more understanding of people less fortunate than yourself? |
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I wouldnt agree to meeting someone if they were cheating on here, however, in a club environment it can be very hard to know or tell so have I done it more than likely yes. |
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"I wouldnt agree to meeting someone if they were cheating on here, however, in a club environment it can be very hard to know or tell so have I done it more than likely yes. "
I only go to clubs with my partner, but sometimes she likes to sit in the bar getting chatted up by single guys, while I soak in the hot tub.
Occasionally I get lucky as well. None of them has ever asked about my marital status. |
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"If she can't make you happy just move on. It literally is that simple.
Easy to say when you're 22. Not so easy to say when you're the OP's age and have a lifetime together.
Maybe spew a little less hatred, and try and be a bit more understanding of people less fortunate than yourself?"
I think everyone’s entitled to their opinion. I don’t think anyone needs to be “understanding” towards cheaters if they feel it’s morally wrong. |
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By *or7Man
over a year ago
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"If she can't make you happy just move on. It literally is that simple.
Easy to say when you're 22. Not so easy to say when you're the OP's age and have a lifetime together.
Maybe spew a little less hatred, and try and be a bit more understanding of people less fortunate than yourself?
I think everyone’s entitled to their opinion. I don’t think anyone needs to be “understanding” towards cheaters if they feel it’s morally wrong. "
Possibly, but the wee prick was advocating medical experiments and execution. |
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I generally as a rule wouldn’t meet a married guy, but it’s hard to tell if they are married sometimes. Having said that I would meet a married woman behind her husbands back, I think this is different because I’m a woman. But also if the men are in an unhappy marriage who am to judge? I’m not a marriage councillor |
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"If she can't make you happy just move on. It literally is that simple.
Easy to say when you're 22. Not so easy to say when you're the OP's age and have a lifetime together.
Maybe spew a little less hatred, and try and be a bit more understanding of people less fortunate than yourself?
I think everyone’s entitled to their opinion. I don’t think anyone needs to be “understanding” towards cheaters if they feel it’s morally wrong.
Possibly, but the wee prick was advocating medical experiments and execution. "
Extreme and uncalled for yes, but there may be a reason why they have such strong feelings, not saying that excuses it.
But a lot of people have been cheated on and that feeling then goes on to mould their opinion of cheaters in general. |
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I wouldn’t plan to meet up with someone who I knew was married or engage in anything regular, but if I was on a night out / in a club and there was a very strong chemistry then I might consider it as a one off. |
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"If she can't make you happy just move on. It literally is that simple.
Easy to say when you're 22. Not so easy to say when you're the OP's age and have a lifetime together.
Maybe spew a little less hatred, and try and be a bit more understanding of people less fortunate than yourself?
I think everyone’s entitled to their opinion. I don’t think anyone needs to be “understanding” towards cheaters if they feel it’s morally wrong.
Possibly, but the wee prick was advocating medical experiments and execution. "
When I was 14 I dated a 27 year old. That 27 year old cheated on me with another person my age. He psychologically tormented me for a solid year. The reason I despise Cheaters is for the same reason I despise pedos. Due to that experience I can't make out a difference between a cheater and a nonce because all I see are two groups who are pure evil. In my mind all I see are 2 groups who enjoy causing permanent psychological issues to innocent people. When I see a cheater I see a pedo and when I see a pedo I see cheater. That's why I want such a punishment, because those two groups stole my childhood and ruined my mentality probably permanently. |
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