Being drowned in messages and probably vacating the site for a bit.
I remember the first time I signed up and hadn't even got as far as writing a profile or uploading a picture before getting distracted. When I came back to fill it in there were over 300 messages. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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"I can't stand the whole "fab for friend request" etc... too many women on here using this site for their "other" pages these days... Would be good to see the site clamp down on it!"
agree with you but where do you draw the line ...
men know theres no enough women on here but i think they would be shocked if they realised how many are here not to swing ... huge % of women on fab dont meet got to be around the 70/80% mark |
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"They are all having sex ... With the new men...not the same old ones always posting  
They probably haven't found the forums yet - you can easily rack up 1k messages as a new person, especially if you make the mistake of replying! "
Aha I like that reply very well put I think people should get timed out after a certain amount of time just so it can change and allow new opportunities |
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"I can't stand the whole "fab for friend request" etc... too many women on here using this site for their "other" pages these days... Would be good to see the site clamp down on it!"
I agree loads of people promote other things on here in the photos and videos they upload |
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"Being drowned in messages and probably vacating the site for a bit.
I remember the first time I signed up and hadn't even got as far as writing a profile or uploading a picture before getting distracted. When I came back to fill it in there were over 300 messages."
That is ruthless of the women to men ratio on here is definitely a landslide |
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"I can't stand the whole "fab for friend request" etc... too many women on here using this site for their "other" pages these days... Would be good to see the site clamp down on it!
agree with you but where do you draw the line ...
men know theres no enough women on here but i think they would be shocked if they realised how many are here not to swing ... huge % of women on fab dont meet got to be around the 70/80% mark "
That’s also very true majority are here just to promote other sites or stuff they do off of fab it’s a very small % |
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Well I’m an old one I will just remove my account to make way for the new and no I don’t promote anything, this is the only site I’m on and yes I do meet when I actually find someone I want to meet |
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"They are all having sex ... With the new men...not the same old ones always posting
They probably haven't found the forums yet - you can easily rack up 1k messages as a new person, especially if you make the mistake of replying! "
Theres no way your 53? you look incredible! |
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"Well I’m an old one I will just remove my account to make way for the new and no I don’t promote anything, this is the only site I’m on and yes I do meet when I actually find someone I want to meet"
If your one of the people on the hot page for more then 1 week it should time you out from being put up again for like a week or so because you probably have a fan base or guys who hot listed you on that will always make your photo stay up forever need to give new women a equal chance her photo might not be seen if it’s just the same ones always up |
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"Well I’m an old one I will just remove my account to make way for the new and no I don’t promote anything, this is the only site I’m on and yes I do meet when I actually find someone I want to meet
If your one of the people on the hot page for more then 1 week it should time you out from being put up again for like a week or so because you probably have a fan base or guys who hot listed you on that will always make your photo stay up forever need to give new women a equal chance her photo might not be seen if it’s just the same ones always up "
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"Well I’m an old one I will just remove my account to make way for the new and no I don’t promote anything, this is the only site I’m on and yes I do meet when I actually find someone I want to meet
If your one of the people on the hot page for more then 1 week it should time you out from being put up again for like a week or so because you probably have a fan base or guys who hot listed you on that will always make your photo stay up forever need to give new women a equal chance her photo might not be seen if it’s just the same ones always up "
Why pay so much attention to Hot Photo’s? Sure, women probably say and do things to get there but it’s no big deal.
Most of us who are actually on here to meet have no desire to reach Hot Photo’s, the two times I did on my old profile I had over 1100 messages and I hid my profile for days after that.
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"Well I’m an old one I will just remove my account to make way for the new and no I don’t promote anything, this is the only site I’m on and yes I do meet when I actually find someone I want to meet"
That sounds a bit like Logan’s Run, but you are far to young to remember the film!
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"Well I’m an old one I will just remove my account to make way for the new and no I don’t promote anything, this is the only site I’m on and yes I do meet when I actually find someone I want to meet
If your one of the people on the hot page for more then 1 week it should time you out from being put up again for like a week or so because you probably have a fan base or guys who hot listed you on that will always make your photo stay up forever need to give new women a equal chance her photo might not be seen if it’s just the same ones always up
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Well it doesn’t bother me they can do that if they wish, I don’t beg or ask for fabs I can’t help where they come but I won’t stop putting pics up because of that, that’s not the reason I do it |
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"Well I’m an old one I will just remove my account to make way for the new and no I don’t promote anything, this is the only site I’m on and yes I do meet when I actually find someone I want to meet
If your one of the people on the hot page for more then 1 week it should time you out from being put up again for like a week or so because you probably have a fan base or guys who hot listed you on that will always make your photo stay up forever need to give new women a equal chance her photo might not be seen if it’s just the same ones always up
Why pay so much attention to Hot Photo’s? Sure, women probably say and do things to get there but it’s no big deal.
Most of us who are actually on here to meet have no desire to reach Hot Photo’s, the two times I did on my old profile I had over 1100 messages and I hid my profile for days after that.
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I’m not it’s just that it doesn’t change |
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"Well I’m an old one I will just remove my account to make way for the new and no I don’t promote anything, this is the only site I’m on and yes I do meet when I actually find someone I want to meet
If your one of the people on the hot page for more then 1 week it should time you out from being put up again for like a week or so because you probably have a fan base or guys who hot listed you on that will always make your photo stay up forever need to give new women a equal chance her photo might not be seen if it’s just the same ones always up
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Well it doesn’t bother me they can do that if they wish, I don’t beg or ask for fabs I can’t help where they come but I won’t stop putting pics up because of that, that’s not the reason I do it"
Yeah no I’m not saying don’t past I’m just saying I don’t think it’s far |
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"Well I’m an old one I will just remove my account to make way for the new and no I don’t promote anything, this is the only site I’m on and yes I do meet when I actually find someone I want to meet
If your one of the people on the hot page for more then 1 week it should time you out from being put up again for like a week or so because you probably have a fan base or guys who hot listed you on that will always make your photo stay up forever need to give new women a equal chance her photo might not be seen if it’s just the same ones always up
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Well it doesn’t bother me they can do that if they wish, I don’t beg or ask for fabs I can’t help where they come but I won’t stop putting pics up because of that, that’s not the reason I do it
Yeah no I’m not saying don’t past I’m just saying I don’t think it’s far "
Fair |
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I don’t look at hot photos much, always the same old same old and not many of them appeal to me. I prefer the excitement of the recently posted! You occasionally come across some gems. If you’ll forgive the expression. |
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"Well I’m an old one I will just remove my account to make way for the new and no I don’t promote anything, this is the only site I’m on and yes I do meet when I actually find someone I want to meet
If your one of the people on the hot page for more then 1 week it should time you out from being put up again for like a week or so because you probably have a fan base or guys who hot listed you on that will always make your photo stay up forever need to give new women a equal chance her photo might not be seen if it’s just the same ones always up
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Well it doesn’t bother me they can do that if they wish, I don’t beg or ask for fabs I can’t help where they come but I won’t stop putting pics up because of that, that’s not the reason I do it
Yeah no I’m not saying don’t past I’m just saying I don’t think it’s far "
I agree I’ve seen some great pics and beautiful people and can’t understand why they aren’t up there, it just comes across as you are projecting the blame to those who just get up their more than once even if they don’t beg for fabs rather than projecting your frustrations at fab for not changing the system |
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Well my profile is long it's direct yet I still get the assholes who can't don't or won't read it
so when I do get to read the messages it's usually a block and delete session Vs having the opportunity to find someone actually genuine and worth meeting.
It's fine because I prefer the one who's compatible Vs the one who's convenient |
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"I don’t look at hot photos much, always the same old same old and not many of them appeal to me. I prefer the excitement of the recently posted! You occasionally come across some gems. If you’ll forgive the expression."
Yeah but still tho the hot photos don’t change at all ever lol |
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"Well I’m an old one I will just remove my account to make way for the new and no I don’t promote anything, this is the only site I’m on and yes I do meet when I actually find someone I want to meet
If your one of the people on the hot page for more then 1 week it should time you out from being put up again for like a week or so because you probably have a fan base or guys who hot listed you on that will always make your photo stay up forever need to give new women a equal chance her photo might not be seen if it’s just the same ones always up
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Well it doesn’t bother me they can do that if they wish, I don’t beg or ask for fabs I can’t help where they come but I won’t stop putting pics up because of that, that’s not the reason I do it
Yeah no I’m not saying don’t past I’m just saying I don’t think it’s far
I agree I’ve seen some great pics and beautiful people and can’t understand why they aren’t up there, it just comes across as you are projecting the blame to those who just get up their more than once even if they don’t beg for fabs rather than projecting your frustrations at fab for not changing the system "
I understand I don’t mean to come across that way |
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"Well my profile is long it's direct yet I still get the assholes who can't don't or won't read it
so when I do get to read the messages it's usually a block and delete session Vs having the opportunity to find someone actually genuine and worth meeting.
It's fine because I prefer the one who's compatible Vs the one who's convenient "
Yeah no even that it’s not fair even them spamming you females makes it hard for up to find the ones you want |
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"They're probably shaving their beards off for the verification photo they're not going to post.. way too many guys posing as new females..
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I’ve definitely seen a lot of fake profiles "
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How do you distinguish between the fake profiles and the genuine ones? |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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"They're probably shaving their beards off for the verification photo they're not going to post.. way too many guys posing as new females..
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I’ve definitely seen a lot of fake profiles
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How do you distinguish between the fake profiles and the genuine ones?"
Keen eye and gut instinct like Colombo  |
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"They're probably shaving their beards off for the verification photo they're not going to post.. way too many guys posing as new females..
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I’ve definitely seen a lot of fake profiles
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How do you distinguish between the fake profiles and the genuine ones?"
there are certain tell tale signs.. |
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"They're probably shaving their beards off for the verification photo they're not going to post.. way too many guys posing as new females..
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I’ve definitely seen a lot of fake profiles
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How do you distinguish between the fake profiles and the genuine ones?
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there are certain tell tale signs.. "
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I sêê. I don't think I've ever come across a fake profile. |
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"Well my profile is long it's direct yet I still get the assholes who can't don't or won't read it
so when I do get to read the messages it's usually a block and delete session Vs having the opportunity to find someone actually genuine and worth meeting.
It's fine because I prefer the one who's compatible Vs the one who's convenient "
Yes! The amount of messages i get where guys just havent read my profile 
I am here to meet, least i ask in return is a conversation and you actually showing an interest by reading my profile  |
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"They're probably shaving their beards off for the verification photo they're not going to post.. way too many guys posing as new females..
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I’ve definitely seen a lot of fake profiles
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How do you distinguish between the fake profiles and the genuine ones?"
I’d say FaceTime them |
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