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Has dogging died?
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Dogging used be be something that was always fun. The exhibitionist buzz, the random participants, and risk of getting caught all made it super exciting.
Now, we've noticed, the dynamic has changed. People just want to turn up and film any action on their phone, which kills it for us.
Anyone else experience this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have never had anyone get phones out at a dogging site. We don't let anyone else take photos of us we have on occasion taken our own photos with everyone else involved been in agreement and we always blur faces out and any tattoos. |
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"It would help if locations were advertised properly somewhere thats what killed dogging its one of those if you know you know the moment a spot is made public its ruined "
Exactly this, it also attracts all sorts of undesirables to a location. Usually the sort who would get out their mobile phone and attempt to start filming………
We’ve never had anyone try this. |
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"That’s what puts us off is the peope filming without consent "
Same here! Sadly this is one of many examples where technology and people's attitudes to it have ruined it. Definitely don't want everyone and there dog seeing our lovely faces plastered across the internet  |
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By *nj6969Couple
over a year ago
Grimsby |
Only ever tried once and was full of scruffy looking chavs and oaps. Don't know what we expected but wasn't that lol.
The old rord ranger banged a rapid u turn and bailed. I suppose if organised with people you want to meet could be fun. But it was pretty seedy and minging not going to lie. But hey each to their own xx  |
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"Only ever tried once and was full of scruffy looking chavs and oaps. Don't know what we expected but wasn't that lol.
The old rord ranger banged a rapid u turn and bailed. I suppose if organised with people you want to meet could be fun. But it was pretty seedy and minging not going to lie. But hey each to their own xx "
depends where you go and the times, but if you know some quiet locations you can arrange private fun and just invite people, its what weve done before |
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"Only ever tried once and was full of scruffy looking chavs and oaps. Don't know what we expected but wasn't that lol.
The old rord ranger banged a rapid u turn and bailed. I suppose if organised with people you want to meet could be fun. But it was pretty seedy and minging not going to lie. But hey each to their own xx
depends where you go and the times, but if you know some quiet locations you can arrange private fun and just invite people, its what weve done before"
exactly the way to go about it |
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There’s lots of places in n around york you get the couples places and the cruising places full of guys but it changes night by night and certainly time of day!!
I’ve ventured to both and never seen a phone out!! But I also believe invite is the way forward!!
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It still goes on near my neck of the woods in Surrey.
I attend when I can but its always organised. I never just turn up and loiter around car parks for hours upon end waiting to catch a glimpse of pussy.
I only ever attend if I get invited  |
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"There’s lots of places in n around york you get the couples places and the cruising places full of guys but it changes night by night and certainly time of day!!
I’ve ventured to both and never seen a phone out!! But I also believe invite is the way forward!!
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never seen any couples around york? usually have to go out of york |
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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
Never had this problem when I started going dogging, they didn't have cameras on them...Yep, I'm that old and been doing it that long.
I used to be a regular very small group of nice guys and everything was word of mouth. Polite and manners.
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time of the year, spontaneous dogging can be seasonal. when weather warms it gets busier.
But I have found Autumn a bit of a busy time less public and kids back at school.
Organised stuff is usually spring and summer.
cctv is another problem even rural areas are cammed up to catch fly tippers and farm theives.
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Some people have careers and jobs and not dole freebies... I think the whole point of outdoor fun is being invisible blending in and still getting off.. not winding up in jail for a so called thrill session |
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No it has not but it’s now a last option cause of what has happened yes the phone ?? messed it up big time an people just seem to can’t live in the moment we used to have some good spots in hereford I was out the other night a car of lads pulled up an was driving an shouting like wtf it’s just sad now even if you advertise the place u will get all sorts coming an not for what it’s ment to be.
Let’s make a group for doggers only an see if we can restore some fun back to it ?? |
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"Only ever tried once and was full of scruffy looking chavs and oaps. Don't know what we expected but wasn't that lol.
The old rord ranger banged a rapid u turn and bailed. I suppose if organised with people you want to meet could be fun. But it was pretty seedy and minging not going to lie. But hey each to their own xx "
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That sounds awfully seedy |
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" I have a place not far from me which u frequent when I get the urge, it does all that I need but u do think dogging is on the decline sadly."
How much of this to do with the last few years of lockdown. I feel people are less likely to go out in general. And a lot of people who want to go into the woods don't know how to go about it and are worried. So its a clusterfff of issues and obstacles. People can't relax around others anymore. |
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By *elboy1957Man
over a year ago
Weston-super-Mare |
Its a shame because I've watched some lovely couples enjoying themselves, it's about watching and hoping for an invite. Why do people have to film everything, it's better to watch for real if you want to film watch some porn
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Not dead but there’s been a noticeable downturn in couples going to known dogging spots.
It’s always been hit and miss, always but chatting with other regular doggers here in Notts and further abroad it would seem spontaneous dogging is more and more ‘miss’
I have my theories for why this is and FAB, where you can organise outdoor meets, could well be a major factor.. that and folk advertising meets and not racers turning up and being dicks..
Ho hum, I’m still waiting for that sex starved/ craved Swedish netball team to turn up one day.. |
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I’ve been going dogging for over 20 years and the amount of activity is significantly lower than it used to be but I’ve never ever seen anybody take videos or photos without consent.
Saying that, I think the main reason dogging has declined is because of some single guy behaviour.
For example, last week I turned up to a site and there was a guy playing with a couple through their car window. I always approach slowly in this situation and I did so again. I got to about within 10 metres and the single guy, probably in his 60s stormed over to me and told me to F off.
This is why I try to only do pre arranged meets now and have actually found better places to go with the couples! |
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"Dogging up Cannock Chase isn’t dead but just got to find the right time to be there thinking of going Friday if mrs is up for it after work "
It does attract the wrong types sometimes, we’ve seen all sorts up there in the past. |
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yeah think its seen its day now ,, so much bad things to go with it now and moral ethics of doing things in public view ...
the risk of getting charged for indecent exposure, people filming you and uploading online/ peopple taking your car details and finding out who you are and posting what you get upto.. . wronguns out to rob people/gaybash / intimate etc
I think its a thing that is well on its way to being pushed back back into the closet from its hey day |
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