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Is it a dying art? Is it a thing of teenaged, inexperienced fumblings? Who likes to be fingered and who likes to give a good fingering? Is there a preferred technique and does it help a bit of cunnilingus? What are your thoughts people? |
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over a year ago
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I love fingering… takes me back to the simple days where a night wasn’t complete unless you’d fingered a girl in the club, on the train, in the cinema etc … kids these days are too busy choking girls and doing anal to appreciate the lost art…! |
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..  "
There is definitely a technique required. |
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By *apybarasCouple
over a year ago
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"Does anyone not get their fingers involved?
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This was my first reaction too!
Long before the main event there will be fingers getting involved. Often while we are still fully dressed and I'm cooking dinner.
It's all part of the build up.
Mr C |
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"I suspect that far too often not enough time is spent exploring with fingers. Eagerness to get down to the “main event” takes over. Maybe?"
Taking time with this part or foreplay take things to a whole new level |
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"I love fingering… takes me back to the simple days where a night wasn’t complete unless you’d fingered a girl in the club, on the train, in the cinema etc … kids these days are too busy choking girls and doing anal to appreciate the lost art…!"
There you go. Have things become too “technical” ?  |
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"Does anyone not get their fingers involved?
This was my first reaction too!
Long before the main event there will be fingers getting involved. Often while we are still fully dressed and I'm cooking dinner.
It’s a good bit of foreplay. But for how long?
It's all part of the build up.
Mr C"
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"I suspect that far too often not enough time is spent exploring with fingers. Eagerness to get down to the “main event” takes over. Maybe?
Taking time with this part or foreplay take things to a whole new level "
Yes, but at what point do things transition to tongue play and then full sex? |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required. "
What’s your technique OP? |
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"This is a skill that I have mastered and take proud in fingering two women at the same time aka Mittens.
Making sure that both parties climax together and are fully satisfied.  "
That’s pretty impressive ambidextrous stuff. |
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?"
Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips.
Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"This is a skill that I have mastered and take proud in fingering two women at the same time aka Mittens.
Making sure that both parties climax together and are fully satisfied.
That’s pretty impressive ambidextrous stuff. "
Thanks, it's my party trick. |
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"One of our favourites quotes:
The conversation between your fingers and someone else's skin is the most important discussion you can have  "
Ahhhh, so does that take fingering beyond the pussy area then? |
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"One of our favourites quotes:
The conversation between your fingers and someone else's skin is the most important discussion you can have
Ahhhh, so does that take fingering beyond the pussy area then? "
Imagination is key |
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"One of our favourites quotes:
The conversation between your fingers and someone else's skin is the most important discussion you can have
Ahhhh, so does that take fingering beyond the pussy area then?
Imagination is key "
Well yes! Sensual touching (of any part) can be such a turn on. It makes sense to explore with fingers. |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?
Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips.
Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation "
So your technique is to massage the clit and lips or forcefully put your fingers in her pussy? Wow, you sound like a real expert with a unique technique that you’ve obviously honed with plenty of experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love fingering. If I get a women to cum on my fingers before anything else then I know she's satisfied
But don’t you find that this also needs her to make an effort and get into it too?"
Of course but I always like to make sure she wants more afterwards |
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?
Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips.
Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation
So your technique is to massage the clit and lips or forcefully put your fingers in her pussy? Wow, you sound like a real expert with a unique technique that you’ve obviously honed with plenty of experience. "
I’m not sure that’s quite what I meant  |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"One of our favourites quotes:
The conversation between your fingers and someone else's skin is the most important discussion you can have
Ahhhh, so does that take fingering beyond the pussy area then?
Imagination is key
Well yes! Sensual touching (of any part) can be such a turn on. It makes sense to explore with fingers. "
Spikey gloves and a Rhino can take things to a whole new level. A rhino is a metal thimble that has two spikes on it. |
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"One of our favourites quotes:
The conversation between your fingers and someone else's skin is the most important discussion you can have
Ahhhh, so does that take fingering beyond the pussy area then?
Imagination is key
Well yes! Sensual touching (of any part) can be such a turn on. It makes sense to explore with fingers.
Spikey gloves and a Rhino can take things to a whole new level. A rhino is a metal thimble that has two spikes on it."
Nice tools of the trade I suppose |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?
Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips.
Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation
So your technique is to massage the clit and lips or forcefully put your fingers in her pussy? Wow, you sound like a real expert with a unique technique that you’ve obviously honed with plenty of experience.
I’m not sure that’s quite what I meant "
Sorry, I must have misunderstood then, my mistake. |
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?
Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips.
Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation
So your technique is to massage the clit and lips or forcefully put your fingers in her pussy? Wow, you sound like a real expert with a unique technique that you’ve obviously honed with plenty of experience.
I’m not sure that’s quite what I meant
Sorry, I must have misunderstood then, my mistake. "
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?
Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips.
Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation
So your technique is to massage the clit and lips or forcefully put your fingers in her pussy? Wow, you sound like a real expert with a unique technique that you’ve obviously honed with plenty of experience.
I’m not sure that’s quite what I meant "
We know what your saying. Sometimes we like to soft and sensual and other times deep and hard. Totally depends on the mood |
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?
Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips.
Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation
So your technique is to massage the clit and lips or forcefully put your fingers in her pussy? Wow, you sound like a real expert with a unique technique that you’ve obviously honed with plenty of experience.
I’m not sure that’s quite what I meant
We know what your saying. Sometimes we like to soft and sensual and other times deep and hard. Totally depends on the mood "
Exactly. Mood and situation dependent.
Does it ever get to the stage where you think “just stop” though? |
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?
Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips.
Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation
So your technique is to massage the clit and lips or forcefully put your fingers in her pussy? Wow, you sound like a real expert with a unique technique that you’ve obviously honed with plenty of experience.
I’m not sure that’s quite what I meant
We know what your saying. Sometimes we like to soft and sensual and other times deep and hard. Totally depends on the mood
Exactly. Mood and situation dependent.
Does it ever get to the stage where you think “just stop” though? "
Absolutely not. Well at least not till after the almighty orgasm |
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?
Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips.
Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation
So your technique is to massage the clit and lips or forcefully put your fingers in her pussy? Wow, you sound like a real expert with a unique technique that you’ve obviously honed with plenty of experience.
I’m not sure that’s quite what I meant
We know what your saying. Sometimes we like to soft and sensual and other times deep and hard. Totally depends on the mood
Exactly. Mood and situation dependent.
Does it ever get to the stage where you think “just stop” though?
Absolutely not. Well at least not till after the almighty orgasm "
Ha. Of course. And is it a gushing/squirting type orgasm. Or one of the rolling, leg shaking type? |
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?
Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips.
Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation
So your technique is to massage the clit and lips or forcefully put your fingers in her pussy? Wow, you sound like a real expert with a unique technique that you’ve obviously honed with plenty of experience.
I’m not sure that’s quite what I meant
We know what your saying. Sometimes we like to soft and sensual and other times deep and hard. Totally depends on the mood
Exactly. Mood and situation dependent.
Does it ever get to the stage where you think “just stop” though?
Absolutely not. Well at least not till after the almighty orgasm
Ha. Of course. And is it a gushing/squirting type orgasm. Or one of the rolling, leg shaking type?"
Again, dependent on mood and intensity of play |
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?
Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips.
Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation
So your technique is to massage the clit and lips or forcefully put your fingers in her pussy? Wow, you sound like a real expert with a unique technique that you’ve obviously honed with plenty of experience.
I’m not sure that’s quite what I meant
We know what your saying. Sometimes we like to soft and sensual and other times deep and hard. Totally depends on the mood
Exactly. Mood and situation dependent.
Does it ever get to the stage where you think “just stop” though?
Absolutely not. Well at least not till after the almighty orgasm
Ha. Of course. And is it a gushing/squirting type orgasm. Or one of the rolling, leg shaking type?
Again, dependent on mood and intensity of play "
Nice. The variety in the situation makes the outcome so much more pleasurable for both parties. |
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love using my fingers and tongue, i hope its not dying out!!
love it when my lady cums from my touch (especially if she squirts), looking forward to enjoying it with others too!! |
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Define fingering nothing better than gently tease a woman with your fingers. But if your hammering her pussy with your fingers like a jack hammer right much prefer to finger her sensually seems to give a much better orgasm for the lady in my humble opinion. |
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"Think I must be the odd one out, I don’t like it at all quickest way to turn me off. Go dryer than the Sahara Desert "
That’s partly my point, it’s not for everyone. Do you prefer oral to get you going? How do you make yourself cum? |
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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago
huddersfield/manchester |
I love fingering, using a variety of techniques and movements. Finding out what she likes, feeling her responding. Opening up, getting wetter, moaning appreciation, the build up to her climax. And oh, the magical moment you know you have given her a full on orgasm. Continuing to give more and more, losing herself in pleasure.
What's not to love!! |
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"As a cuck nothing better than to see a guy kissing your hotwife and his hand wandering up her dress between her thighs to finger her pussy.
How does Dee like to be fingered? "
Nice gentle working of her pussy to get her nice and wet. |
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By *SCouple81Couple
over a year ago
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"Love feeling of wet pussy on my fingers. Mrs can come multiple times by me playing with her clit and then fingering her g-spot after.
Does it always lead on to full sex?"
It usually does, but not always  |
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"I love fingering, using a variety of techniques and movements. Finding out what she likes, feeling her responding. Opening up, getting wetter, moaning appreciation, the build up to her climax. And oh, the magical moment you know you have given her a full on orgasm. Continuing to give more and more, losing herself in pleasure.
What's not to love!!"
Is that enough or does it then lead on to full sex or oral? |
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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago
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"I love fingering, using a variety of techniques and movements. Finding out what she likes, feeling her responding. Opening up, getting wetter, moaning appreciation, the build up to her climax. And oh, the magical moment you know you have given her a full on orgasm. Continuing to give more and more, losing herself in pleasure.
What's not to love!!
Is that enough or does it then lead on to full sex or oral?"
For me I would choose to move to oral, a mix of fingers/mouth/tongue to keep her cumming, hopefully getting much wetter/gushing.. ultimately though it would be up to her. My wife often "just needs me inside her" at this point. |
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"Define fingering nothing better than gently tease a woman with your fingers. But if your hammering her pussy with your fingers like a jack hammer right much prefer to finger her sensually seems to give a much better orgasm for the lady in my humble opinion. "
my lady tends to prefer a mixture, slow and rythmic at times and then a frenzy with her g spot (with tongue on clit) at others, giving her a variety of sensations and orgasms. |
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"I love fingering, using a variety of techniques and movements. Finding out what she likes, feeling her responding. Opening up, getting wetter, moaning appreciation, the build up to her climax. And oh, the magical moment you know you have given her a full on orgasm. Continuing to give more and more, losing herself in pleasure.
What's not to love!!
Is that enough or does it then lead on to full sex or oral?
For me I would choose to move to oral, a mix of fingers/mouth/tongue to keep her cumming, hopefully getting much wetter/gushing.. ultimately though it would be up to her. My wife often "just needs me inside her" at this point."
The communication (verbal or otherwise) is important |
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"Define fingering nothing better than gently tease a woman with your fingers. But if your hammering her pussy with your fingers like a jack hammer right much prefer to finger her sensually seems to give a much better orgasm for the lady in my humble opinion.
my lady tends to prefer a mixture, slow and rythmic at times and then a frenzy with her g spot (with tongue on clit) at others, giving her a variety of sensations and orgasms. "
Important to know what she likes. And important to find out what she likes when it’s someone new too, I suppose. |
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"Some guys are too rough and the goal is squirting. It can be sore. "
If it gets to the point of discomfort what do you do? Do you push their hand away or manoeuvre onto something else?
I like gushing and squirting but for me it’s never the aim of fingering. |
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"This is a skill that I have mastered and take proud in fingering two women at the same time aka Mittens.
Making sure that both parties climax together and are fully satisfied. "
I can confirm the Mittens is amazing, shame they don't happen often.
And yes, both spikey gloves, and the Rhino, are very sensual, great at waking up the senses. |
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"Fingers are all part of the fun for us
All part of the build up to a “main event”? Or can fingering be enough? "
When we're together we never stop at fingering but when she's by herself fingers can do |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I absolutely love using my fingers, just slip the tip in first as I tease the throbing clit with my thumb, then slide my finger in nice and deep then sliding another one it as she get wet |
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"This is a skill that I have mastered and take proud in fingering two women at the same time aka Mittens.
Making sure that both parties climax together and are fully satisfied.
I can confirm the Mittens is amazing, shame they don't happen often.
And yes, both spikey gloves, and the Rhino, are very sensual, great at waking up the senses. "
Good first hand testimony  |
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"Fingers are all part of the fun for us
All part of the build up to a “main event”? Or can fingering be enough?
When we're together we never stop at fingering but when she's by herself fingers can do "
Love watching a woman pleasure herself with her fingers |
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion.. "
My finger inside you hooked around and dojng a come here type motion feeling the ridge skin and teasing it as my thumb is gliding over your clit and then pausing and putting a bit pressure on it |
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If it's done well (communication and responsiveness) I'd take a fingering over receiving oral most days tbf.
I like to lie back. Have my pussy inspected. Every inch of the vulva teased and massaged. Leading to gently stretching and building up of insertion. Clit play to make me cum.
Oooooo yes please. |
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"Think I must be the odd one out, I don’t like it at all quickest way to turn me off. Go dryer than the Sahara Desert
That’s partly my point, it’s not for everyone. Do you prefer oral to get you going? How do you make yourself cum? "
Yes I prefer oral, the right amount of pressure on my clit does it for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I (Mrs R) love being fingered, when done properly..... gets me off every time!!
I’d be disappointed to have a meet and not have this pleasure. xx"
Yes me too, I love it
J x |
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By *ex LutherMan
over a year ago
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As long as you do it subtly and not for the full ‘finger blast’ like an over excited teenager then it can be great.
I was told I had fat fingers the other day by a lovely lady and her imagination was running riot  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Fingering is such an intrinsic part of sex, my fingers rubbing on wife's g-spot gets her so wet and horning. Licking her clit and making her cum as I rub guarantees a squirting orgasm.
The fingers increased over time until I have my whole hand inside her. Fisting is a thing for us.
Of course there's fingering her ass too, especially good if I'm inside her from behind and feeling my cock in her pussy through the walls. |
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Love going down and giving a good licking (Clit Stim) with the Fingers inside.. nearly never fails to get a good reaction (and a bit damp) and just builds up Her enjoyment IF She decides to go further |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?
Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips.
Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation
So your technique is to massage the clit and lips or forcefully put your fingers in her pussy? Wow, you sound like a real expert with a unique technique that you’ve obviously honed with plenty of experience.
I’m not sure that’s quite what I meant
We know what your saying. Sometimes we like to soft and sensual and other times deep and hard. Totally depends on the mood
Exactly. Mood and situation dependent.
Does it ever get to the stage where you think “just stop” though?
Absolutely not. Well at least not till after the almighty orgasm
Ha. Of course. And is it a gushing/squirting type orgasm. Or one of the rolling, leg shaking type?"
What about the floaty orgasms? |
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Fingering isn't a dying art in my opinion, I love it, Something I'd love to try is fingering a Woman the same time as another Woman, Going to have to try it with gf next time we meet up 
But I also think some Women have bad experiences, Going in to rough etc so don't really like it, Similar with BJ'S |
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"If it's done well (communication and responsiveness) I'd take a fingering over receiving oral most days tbf.
I like to lie back. Have my pussy inspected. Every inch of the vulva teased and massaged. Leading to gently stretching and building up of insertion. Clit play to make me cum.
Oooooo yes please. "
Lots of pussy attention needed |
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"I (Mrs R) love being fingered, when done properly..... gets me off every time!!
I’d be disappointed to have a meet and not have this pleasure. xx"
How do you make sure it happens? Do you direct their fingers to where you want them? |
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"Fingering is such an intrinsic part of sex, my fingers rubbing on wife's g-spot gets her so wet and horning. Licking her clit and making her cum as I rub guarantees a squirting orgasm.
The fingers increased over time until I have my whole hand inside her. Fisting is a thing for us.
Of course there's fingering her ass too, especially good if I'm inside her from behind and feeling my cock in her pussy through the walls."
The full finger (and fist) experience  |
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?
Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips.
Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation
So your technique is to massage the clit and lips or forcefully put your fingers in her pussy? Wow, you sound like a real expert with a unique technique that you’ve obviously honed with plenty of experience.
I’m not sure that’s quite what I meant
We know what your saying. Sometimes we like to soft and sensual and other times deep and hard. Totally depends on the mood
Exactly. Mood and situation dependent.
Does it ever get to the stage where you think “just stop” though?
Absolutely not. Well at least not till after the almighty orgasm
Ha. Of course. And is it a gushing/squirting type orgasm. Or one of the rolling, leg shaking type?
What about the floaty orgasms?"
The ones that just seem to turn up and then float away? |
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"Fingering isn't a dying art in my opinion, I love it, Something I'd love to try is fingering a Woman the same time as another Woman, Going to have to try it with gf next time we meet up
But I also think some Women have bad experiences, Going in to rough etc so don't really like it, Similar with BJ'S"
You are probably right |
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By *eembuckMan
over a year ago
portsmouth |
It’s an art form. Something that I have been told, when done right gives a lot of pleasure.
I am pleased I learnt the art a long time ago and love to see the results of my efforts.
Love to finger a willing pussy |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"Fingering isn't a dying art in my opinion, I love it, Something I'd love to try is fingering a Woman the same time as another Woman, Going to have to try it with gf next time we meet up
But I also think some Women have bad experiences, Going in to rough etc so don't really like it, Similar with BJ'S"
This is called mittens and I have the veris to prove it. get this little skill right and they will come back for more.
Even remaining perfectly still, but applying some pressure to the G-spot will bring out the spasms of ecstasy. |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?
Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips.
Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation
So your technique is to massage the clit and lips or forcefully put your fingers in her pussy? Wow, you sound like a real expert with a unique technique that you’ve obviously honed with plenty of experience.
I’m not sure that’s quite what I meant
We know what your saying. Sometimes we like to soft and sensual and other times deep and hard. Totally depends on the mood
Exactly. Mood and situation dependent.
Does it ever get to the stage where you think “just stop” though?
Absolutely not. Well at least not till after the almighty orgasm
Ha. Of course. And is it a gushing/squirting type orgasm. Or one of the rolling, leg shaking type?
What about the floaty orgasms?
The ones that just seem to turn up and then float away?"
LOl, no the ones that send ripples of warmth from the pelvis up through the waist and into the chest, almost like being caressed my invisble hands. |
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"My most favourite thing to have ... amazing and love finger squirting so much ... bring back fingering
Did it ever go away? Do you cum easily?"
So quickly with 'come hither' finger motion ... like a tsunami lol |
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"My most favourite thing to have ... amazing and love finger squirting so much ... bring back fingering
Did it ever go away? Do you cum easily?
So quickly with 'come hither' finger motion ... like a tsunami lol "
I'll update a vid |
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?
Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips.
Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation
So your technique is to massage the clit and lips or forcefully put your fingers in her pussy? Wow, you sound like a real expert with a unique technique that you’ve obviously honed with plenty of experience.
I’m not sure that’s quite what I meant
We know what your saying. Sometimes we like to soft and sensual and other times deep and hard. Totally depends on the mood
Exactly. Mood and situation dependent.
Does it ever get to the stage where you think “just stop” though?
Absolutely not. Well at least not till after the almighty orgasm
Ha. Of course. And is it a gushing/squirting type orgasm. Or one of the rolling, leg shaking type?
What about the floaty orgasms?
The ones that just seem to turn up and then float away?
LOl, no the ones that send ripples of warmth from the pelvis up through the waist and into the chest, almost like being caressed my invisble hands."
Yep! Know that feeling well.
Mr Bump has amazing fingers |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"One of our favourites quotes:
The conversation between your fingers and someone else's skin is the most important discussion you can have
Ahhhh, so does that take fingering beyond the pussy area then?
Imagination is key
Well yes! Sensual touching (of any part) can be such a turn on. It makes sense to explore with fingers.
Spikey gloves and a Rhino can take things to a whole new level. A rhino is a metal thimble that has two spikes on it.
Nice tools of the trade I suppose "
Yes indeedy, check out my pictures. |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?
Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips.
Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation
So your technique is to massage the clit and lips or forcefully put your fingers in her pussy? Wow, you sound like a real expert with a unique technique that you’ve obviously honed with plenty of experience.
I’m not sure that’s quite what I meant
We know what your saying. Sometimes we like to soft and sensual and other times deep and hard. Totally depends on the mood
Exactly. Mood and situation dependent.
Does it ever get to the stage where you think “just stop” though?
Absolutely not. Well at least not till after the almighty orgasm
Ha. Of course. And is it a gushing/squirting type orgasm. Or one of the rolling, leg shaking type?
What about the floaty orgasms?
The ones that just seem to turn up and then float away?
LOl, no the ones that send ripples of warmth from the pelvis up through the waist and into the chest, almost like being caressed my invisble hands.
Yep! Know that feeling well.
Mr Bump has amazing fingers "
Miss Devil, would most definitely approve. |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
There is definitely a technique required.
What’s your technique OP?
Good question. I suppose it depends on the women you’re with and knowing what they like and gets them turned on. Personally I like to gently play with the general area and feel the wetness of my partner. A gentle massaging of the clit and lips.
Other times I like to give a good deep forceful fingering. But it all depends on the mood and the situation
So your technique is to massage the clit and lips or forcefully put your fingers in her pussy? Wow, you sound like a real expert with a unique technique that you’ve obviously honed with plenty of experience.
I’m not sure that’s quite what I meant
We know what your saying. Sometimes we like to soft and sensual and other times deep and hard. Totally depends on the mood
Exactly. Mood and situation dependent.
Does it ever get to the stage where you think “just stop” though?
Absolutely not. Well at least not till after the almighty orgasm
Ha. Of course. And is it a gushing/squirting type orgasm. Or one of the rolling, leg shaking type?
What about the floaty orgasms?
The ones that just seem to turn up and then float away?
LOl, no the ones that send ripples of warmth from the pelvis up through the waist and into the chest, almost like being caressed my invisble hands.
Yep! Know that feeling well.
Mr Bump has amazing fingers "
Miss Devil, would most definitely approve. |
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"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion.. "
I always trim my nails |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"It still has a place in my bedroom.. needs to be done the right way! Using a quick in and out motion won’t do. Doing it with clit stimulation and a good motion..
I always trim my nails"
Good advice! |
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TBH, a lot older and problems downstaris with me/Mr, the hand does 99% the job. Wife finds my hand, fingers even better than the simple dildo we have. This is possibly due to her finally telly me what to do next. Working with two fingers, working on the outer lips, g-spot etc as advised by P eventually allows to get most of my hand in there and TBH, her being so excited makes me even more excited.
Btw, you have to be in a nice mood to get to the above.
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"I just love fingering if it’s done right. Unfortunately most men approach it like they’re trying to unblock a sink …..totally ruins the experience "
No wonder that pottery scene in Ghost was seen as sexual. |
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"Got to have good technique. Most guys have no clue, they can’t even find the clit and very few know how to make a woman squirt "
Is that the guys fault or the woman for not showing them what they like though? |
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"Got to have good technique. Most guys have no clue, they can’t even find the clit and very few know how to make a woman squirt
Is that the guys fault or the woman for not showing them what they like though?"
Some guys don't want to learn. They don't seem to care about what making this particular woman tick, they're just going to use a trick they learned from watching porn as it worked so well there! If it doesn't make her gush, then she's just uptight.
And some women don't have enough confidence to teach men what they like. |
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"Got to have good technique. Most guys have no clue, they can’t even find the clit and very few know how to make a woman squirt
Is that the guys fault or the woman for not showing them what they like though?
Some guys don't want to learn. They don't seem to care about what making this particular woman tick, they're just going to use a trick they learned from watching porn as it worked so well there! If it doesn't make her gush, then she's just uptight.
And some women don't have enough confidence to teach men what they like. "
What would be the solution? x |
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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago
huddersfield/manchester |
"Got to have good technique. Most guys have no clue, they can’t even find the clit and very few know how to make a woman squirt
Is that the guys fault or the woman for not showing them what they like though?
Some guys don't want to learn. They don't seem to care about what making this particular woman tick, they're just going to use a trick they learned from watching porn as it worked so well there! If it doesn't make her gush, then she's just uptight.
And some women don't have enough confidence to teach men what they like. "
In my experience everyone is different, I love to be guided/told how to give the most pleasure....it is a huge turn on for me, especially then to see how well it works! |
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Definitely essential. A good fingering if the clit and lips is essential before working the fingers inside. I don’t tend to go in and out, but more of a squeezing up behind the clit with a slight circular motion. I also love to them compliment this with my mouth. Then there is time for a good shag c |
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"I just love fingering if it’s done right. Unfortunately most men approach it like they’re trying to unblock a sink …..totally ruins the experience "
I can honestly say that I’ve never used a sink plunger on anyone’s pussy…  |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"Got to have good technique. Most guys have no clue, they can’t even find the clit and very few know how to make a woman squirt
Is that the guys fault or the woman for not showing them what they like though?
Some guys don't want to learn. They don't seem to care about what making this particular woman tick, they're just going to use a trick they learned from watching porn as it worked so well there! If it doesn't make her gush, then she's just uptight.
And some women don't have enough confidence to teach men what they like.
What would be the solution? x"
She needs to be a squirter, just like not-all-men-are-repeaters: just ask! |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
I’m pretty convinced my partner has magic hands - I absolutely love a good fingering, especially when he has a few deep inside and I can feel my juices running down his hand, the pulsing against them..almost gripping him it drives me wild! Add a circular motion with his tongue on my clit and I’m at the head flung back, hope the neighbours can hear us stage!
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