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Do women really want a nice guy?
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"Being a nice guy is bloody hard on this site. Get the feeling of I wasn't such a nice guy I would be meeting more than I do. Rant over lol"
I only meet nice people. Actually, 'nice' is too bland a word ro describe them. 'Living eroticism' is a better adjective. |
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over a year ago
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Being a nice guy does work! I recently mailed a young lady, was polite and gentlemanly(if that's a word), never expected a reply...and lo and behold she did!
In my opinion being nice does work...
once in my boudoir though the bad boy comes out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what's the saying "nice guys finish last" ... girls seem to like a bad boy for some reason xx  "
Its quite simple - whilst the saying is just a generalisation, 'bad boys' are deemed to be attractive because they know how to get what they want, whereas a 'nice guy' is seen as a wimpy pushover.
Thing is though, you can still get what you want without being a arse about it - they often say that women are attracted to confidence, and it takes a confident man to give life his best shot, who isn't afraid to put himself first now and then yet won't do it by taking liberties with others - such a man combines the best aspects of both the nice guy and the bad boy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being a nice guy is bloody hard on this site. Get the feeling of I wasn't such a nice guy I would be meeting more than I do. Rant over lol"
You're wrong
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Being a nice guy is bloody hard on this site. Get the feeling of I wasn't such a nice guy I would be meeting more than I do. Rant over lol"
nonsense, but what you will find is that for those who make a success of the site, you get out what you put in.....
hand on heart can you say you have put in to your best efforts so far???? |
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"Being a nice guy is bloody hard on this site. Get the feeling of I wasn't such a nice guy I would be meeting more than I do. Rant over lol
nonsense, but what you will find is that for those who make a success of the site, you get out what you put in.....
hand on heart can you say you have put in to your best efforts so far????"
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's about the balance. Extreme either way has its pitfalls. I was pretty much an outright nice guy when I was younger and occasionally have to reign myself in from being too nice but I've been doing fine in recent times.
You kind of learn to change your approach because its a real pisser when you end up 'just friends' with someone yet she carries on shagging the 'dick head' she keeps whinging to you about. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Being a nice guy is bloody hard on this site. Get the feeling of I wasn't such a nice guy I would be meeting more than I do. Rant over lol
nonsense, but what you will find is that for those who make a success of the site, you get out what you put in.....
hand on heart can you say you have put in to your best efforts so far????"
I have since I came back to this site yes. |
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I have since I came back to this site yes.
in which case... if that profile is "your best effort" then no offence, being a nice guy is the least of your issues....."
Ouch! Fabiola strikes again!  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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actually... let me clarify that because the statement on its own looks really bitchy...
okay... think of it like this, if you look at others does your profile stand out against those?
think of it as your mission to get across the best "you" you can.... how do you get people to say "oh my god, I have to meet that person!!!"
you may "think" it is being a nice guy that is working against you.... I am trying to get across that if that is what you think is the issue and that is what you are concentrating on, then I think you are missing tricks all over the place...... |
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"actually... let me clarify that because the statement on its own looks really bitchy...
okay... think of it like this, if you look at others does your profile stand out against those?
think of it as your mission to get across the best "you" you can.... how do you get people to say "oh my god, I have to meet that person!!!"
you may "think" it is being a nice guy that is working against you.... I am trying to get across that if that is what you think is the issue and that is what you are concentrating on, then I think you are missing tricks all over the place......"
as ever sound advice from Fabio... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"actually... let me clarify that because the statement on its own looks really bitchy...
okay... think of it like this, if you look at others does your profile stand out against those?
think of it as your mission to get across the best "you" you can.... how do you get people to say "oh my god, I have to meet that person!!!"
you may "think" it is being a nice guy that is working against you.... I am trying to get across that if that is what you think is the issue and that is what you are concentrating on, then I think you are missing tricks all over the place......
as ever sound advice from Fabio... "
No point anybody else offering tips. The guru has spoken, and wise words as ever.
Do you ever get fed up dispensing your wisdom Fabio? Especially when it seems you're knocking and they ain't listening. |
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