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With a name like Cum Slut .. does turn a man on or off ?
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Makes me want to run a mile when you see they are having unprotected sex too !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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certainly not a turn on, but I don't read too much into people's choice of names - unless that's just one part of a bigger jigsaw of things making me think 'no thanks'. I don't think a name alone would put me off unless it strongly hinted that the person was for eg. a horrible racist or something. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Turn off. Ewww. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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Interesting thought. I always assumed that it was only women who were put off by certain profile names... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the name Warrington 2 is enough to capture the imagination... We know there is 2 of em n where they from, and she's fit as fook |
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There are user names that are instant turn offs for me.
What makes me laugh is women with those kinds of names starting threads about men being disrespectful sending wanna fuck type messages: quells surprise!  |
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Turn off for both implies too little standards |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Turn off for us.  |
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Truth in advertising.
Don't see a problem with it.
A Rose by any other name etc.
Would I be any different in real life if I changed my user name to Anass Rhammer? |
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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago
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It's not just the ladies names that are a turn off, some men's are too. If I came across one like - I'm gonna ruin you, a definite no no 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people's names are a turnoff, unfortunately we all make assumptions based on what little information is available.  |
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By *andCCouple
over a year ago
Leicester |
"Turn off for both implies too little standards "
"...too little standards". wtf?
No ...I'm not usually turned off by anyone's choice of name ... judgmental bigots turn me off big time, though. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"Some people's names are a turnoff, unfortunately we all make assumptions based on what little information is available. "
No matter how hard we may try not to judge... names evoke associations, connotations.. and yes, for me some names evoke negative thoughts and would be a turn off.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cum slut and proud here. But would hate to use that as my user name. I don't even like others calling me it. It's just a title I use for myself that my former and current dominant use.
Cali |
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By *andCCouple
over a year ago
Leicester |
"...No matter how hard we may try not to judge... names evoke associations, connotations.. and yes, for me some names evoke negative thoughts and would be a turn off. "
This is certainly true, but is there any real need for someone to start a very negative and judgmental thread like this? If you are turned off by stuff such as profile name choices, then it's very easy to look away, or ignore that profile ...why the need to judge, and maybe cause offence, by criticising the choices that others make? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes we fancy a filthy no holds barred meet and cum slut would be an attractive proposition !
Other times something more sensual , so not so much .
So really it depends on our mood - but certainly not gonna say no because of a name  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get you pregnant was a block for me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well that name was directed at me in this post as my user name is cumslut1965 he cme in chat and made abusive comments yes if u read my profile i used the name cumslut as liked to do bukaka in my time but thats my choice at end day i should not be judged on it .......but if he took time to read my profile he would see i dont do bare back sex at end day am not daft safe sex is a must at all time ....if he read verifications he would see that lot my meets r from socials not shagging round the site am a couple not a slapper could think of lot worse names .......so plz dnt judge people bye there user name take time to read profiles before judging ....and at least have pics on to prove u real not hiding behind fake profile judging people u don't know .rant over |
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"Makes me want to run a mile when you see they are having unprotected sex too !!"
each to their own..
their profile, their choice of names and how they play..
others would equally look at your profile name and pics and think certain things also..
how would that be for you where they to be starting a thread being less than complimentary...?
live and let live eh.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Names like cum slut neither turn me on or off as i dont meet women but what does make me laugh is when you see women in chat with such names moaning about they way men are talking to them and showing them no respect |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh my god...gaping hole just reduced me to tears lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You say 'HELLO.......hello......hello....' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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there was a time when I would have loved this user name or tag however as I have aged I find it rather unapealing...
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Damn I hate being a slow typer!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well that name was directed at me in this post as my user name is cumslut1965 he cme in chat and made abusive comments yes if u read my profile i used the name cumslut as liked to do bukaka in my time but thats my choice at end day i should not be judged on it .......but if he took time to read my profile he would see i dont do bare back sex at end day am not daft safe sex is a must at all time ....if he read verifications he would see that lot my meets r from socials not shagging round the site am a couple not a slapper could think of lot worse names .......so plz dnt judge people bye there user name take time to read profiles before judging ....and at least have pics on to prove u real not hiding behind fake profile judging people u don't know .rant over "
And BINGO Houston we have a problem ! Read .. read a profile ...hmm that means they can read...90% just flick onto pictures and come across "yeah babe want to shag a "20 inch cock?"; ohh yes been waiting for that for years.. ha ha ... No sorry .. judge never anyone from a name...read the profile (if of course you can read) then judge.. Angel  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Makes me want to run a mile when you see they are having unprotected sex too !!"
must have been embarrasing for the priest baptising ..i hereby anoint thee cum slut..what were the parents thinking
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have the word "cum" in my username but do have the word slut, no skin off my nose if it puts people off or they "judge" me incorrectly, and I certainly have yet to find anyone put off by it!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't have the word "cum" in my username but do have the word slut, no skin off my nose if it puts people off or they "judge" me incorrectly, and I certainly have yet to find anyone put off by it!
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I think very crass names can be a little off putting, and yours isnt one of those. Besides its what you read in the profile and see in the pictures that truly draw you in.
I know a lot of women complain about the simple "cock" pics, and I agree, but there's a lot of women out there sending close up pics too theses days....all a bit mundane and to be honest looks like a bag of chopped liver
Its imagination and creativity that's best. Tasteful sexy pics Julie |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmmmmm.... morally no....with little head..... Fuck ayeee!!..Lol!!   |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would turn me off. I prefer a mystery in someones name and thats what usually gets me talking to certain individuals so as to break the ice.
With a name like 'cumslut' theres not much i can say lol. All my answers are in the name and no conversation needed lol
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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago
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I find descriptive nametags like that interesting. I can't help but feel it solves some ambiguity somehow...
gangnamstyleebarebackarsetomouthspunkgarglers might be a bit too long a username for the site though ...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't have the word "cum" in my username but do have the word slut, no skin off my nose if it puts people off or they "judge" me incorrectly, and I certainly have yet to find anyone put off by it!
I think very crass names can be a little off putting, and yours isnt one of those. Besides its what you read in the profile and see in the pictures that truly draw you in.
I know a lot of women complain about the simple "cock" pics, and I agree, but there's a lot of women out there sending close up pics too theses days....all a bit mundane and to be honest looks like a bag of chopped liver
Its imagination and creativity that's best. Tasteful sexy pics Julie "
Thank you |
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Doesn't matter what name people use on here unless offensive,just because it says cumslut does not mean.Unsafe my wife has protected sex and she likes to behave like a cumslut and let guys cum on her, people should read profiles ,and if they don't like what they see ,they should do one, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Turn off for both implies too little standards "
We have standards thank you....
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By *andcCouple
over a year ago
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Cannot see a problem.
So if she was called angel love bunny that's OK? But in real life she's cum slut.. so a username is just that a username!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whats in a name? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mind a slutty name, it's when the user isn't I want to call trading standards |
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Think we shall change our name to soft Dick and frigid se how many replies we get lol |
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"Makes me want to run a mile when you see they are having unprotected sex too !!"
thing is you didnt see the user doing that did you ? you asked the question and then made a post with no real point at all.because the persons username dont do what you have said. like to see you come back tto actually anser this.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Makes me want to run a mile when you see they are having unprotected sex too !!thing is you didnt see the user doing that did you ? you asked the question and then made a post with no real point at all.because the persons username dont do what you have said. like to see you come back tto actually anser this."
I'm quite certain he will, he is after all, Very easy going, polite, well mannered and respectful |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think we shall change our name to soft Dick and frigid se how many replies we get lol "
let us know how you get on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wouldn't bother me at all, what's in a name?
That said, 'Crap-Bag' or 'Lickmypits' might get passed over.... |
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Our name manhornym. Does not mean she is going to fuck every guy on the planet,only like minded guys who are into swinging and enjoy fucking other wife's,this is a swinging site ,nobody is going to put proper names on,we READ profiles if we like couples or singles we meet them ,we find out what they like ,they find out what we like ,and we have had great fun doing it ,do names matter,,,??????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think people's user names are that important ? I can't say I reely take any notice of the name....that's all it is... A name
The first thing I look at is the couples/singles profile to make sure they are looking for a single male in my age range.... If I think we might get on then I look at the name so I know who I am messaging..........
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well that name was directed at me in this post as my user name is cumslut1965 he cme in chat and made abusive comments yes if u read my profile i used the name cumslut as liked to do bukaka in my time but thats my choice at end day i should not be judged on it .......but if he took time to read my profile he would see i dont do bare back sex at end day am not daft safe sex is a must at all time ....if he read verifications he would see that lot my meets r from socials not shagging round the site am a couple not a slapper could think of lot worse names .......so plz dnt judge people bye there user name take time to read profiles before judging ....and at least have pics on to prove u real not hiding behind fake profile judging people u don't know .rant over "
Take no notice,u shouldn't have to come on here and defend yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People can choose what names they like can't they? That doesn't mean they have to appeal to others also I don't see why people have to start calling people names just for asking questions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if you take someone's username in isolation you might be put off by certain titles but reading a users profile as well should grant you some context
Its a narrow minded individual who will judge based on name alone - but on the other hand it is first impressions that count.
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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A couple of reminders.
Don't start threads about another user just to be nasty or criticise.
If you want to comment then please don't abuse anyone while doing that.
http://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules |
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How do you politely address someone with a gaping fanny pic? 