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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Hi all..

We wondered if any/many had come accross the jealous swinger swinger type... Not the ones who have issues when you play as such but the ones who hate the thought you may actually play with others too.

We have had it happen a few times now each resulting in us not seeing a perfectly nice couple because of their issues with us seeing another. We just think its nuts to get the hump over a couple you see seeing someone else too.. Its part of the reason we never post who we play with in validations..

Anyone else??

Mike and Ju x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Thats the very reason we dont post who we have met, to be honest we have been lucky, we have never met anyone who has had the kind of issues you mentioned,..its just the thought of it happening that told us to hide our verification

...and its nothing to do with anyone else anyway..

S&A

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By *wabbitMan  over a year ago

grimsby

been there.I have had a husband go ape. because his wife was having to much fun

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago
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Hmm touchy subject this,Ive been thinking about asking for advice about this but was'nt sure how to word it

There is some jealousy in swinging but why do some people just hate it if you get on with people they have played with or are currently playing with?

Swinging is the last place I thought it would occur but then im realising I must have been naive lol

We were in a situation recently where the single guy playmate of a couple we know showed an interest and boy he is gorgeous but the female half of the couple made it very difficult for him..it was very cloak and dagger and eventually we managed to exchange numbers but im left feeling really guilty and wondering why on earth I should feel like this

We hav'nt met this guy yet because I feel like im taking something that does'nt belong to me

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By *adchickCouple  over a year ago

Cyprus

And this is why we meet, shag and leave.

We have friends, we have swinging friends, we have people we shag...... we, personally, never cross over....... lifes too short for the complications that arise.

And tell me someone..... why is it the women who get all stroppy when you wanna shag someone they've played with?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago
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Exactly... thats why im thinking just let this one go lol

Damn shame though *sigh*

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

lol.. well were not so different after all then.

Can understand the shag and leave alone thing but just not us, we sometimes wish we could be more like that so kinda envy you..

We think we have found a great balance now though.. so no complaints, its rare the ugly seed of envy rears its head.

Mike and Ju xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've come across it once so far and it's a real shame because I had a great meeting with the woman in question and we got on like a house on fire (maybe too well?)

As soon as she saw I had met someone else though my god she went postal on my ass and got real nasty and abusive.

Still you live and learn don't you? and you just don't have to let it cloud your judgement of other people.

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By *ildroseandthestagCouple  over a year ago

liverpool

easily solved ..if you lot just play with us we wont tell a soul and whats more if you aint playing with anyone else theres no one to get jealous...

you can thank me after we have played. i sometimes think im way too clever for you all..

staggy

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By *igboomCouple  over a year ago

west bromwich

weve had this happen too,we met a great couple a few years ago(our first swinging couple)after a few meets they told us that they had taken their profile off the swinging site where wed met them because now that theyd met us and got on great with us they didnt want to meet anyone else....creepy eh...or just being possessive ? needless to say we let them down gently and havent met up since

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By *ildroseandthestagCouple  over a year ago

liverpool

ooh hang on...i think thats a little different to whats been suggested..we know many folk that have just one swing couple or play mate we do similar some times..limiting the numbers you play with is not the same as jealousy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

omg! i get it all the time, some single guys are soooo mardy.

Grow hairs on ur balls ffs. its a swinging site!! der!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have only had one experience where something similar rose its head. But I don't think one could call it jealousy or envy. I had been chatting with a lady on a different site, and all seemed to be going well, up to the point of arranging to meet. It was then that she dropped the bombshell. In order to meet, I would have to stay off the site and agree not to meet anyone else. When I explained it was all about swinging and meeting people, I got so much abuse it was unbelieveable. Needless to say, we never met ! I agree, some meet and decide that a small regular group is what they prefer and there is nothing wrong with that. All to their own after all. As for publicising who you may have met, it seems that some will not meet unless you have been verified. That therefore creates another dilemma!! Oh well, keep trying. Who knows, it's all harmless fun if you have the right mind set.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We haven't had it happen to us personaly but have friends who have been to parties were other couples wouldn't let each other out of their sight,even to the point of going to the toilet with each other and playing up if they didn't ffs.Also were the woman has cut up rough if the guy has sex but its o.k for her to,weird or what? These types have obviously got into the wrong game.

Trace & Ric

XXXX

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By *ovCpl40sCouple  over a year ago

coventry

Well said Come Get It69!!

This is a swingers site if your after meeting a huband/wife plenty of sites for that out there!

As for couples who don't like it when folks they have met meet others oooohhhh ffs grow up!! Swinging is for us anyway about sex with folks who are not our partners because its different and exciting if you think you are going to meet a cpl and become a polyamorous little group then go live in the US where i believe there are quite a few of these little "communities" lol.

Sorry but its about time people stopped looking for the greener grass on the other side of the fence because it just simply isn't there!

M&M

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By *leasureDomeMan  over a year ago

all over the place

yes had this a few times ...they see your swinging with others as a rejection of them and denial of further fun ,whereas all your doing is meeting and exploring with like minded people ....thats what its all about isnt it .

Did have one couple tho where she was so intent on making sure her hubby did not have too much fun with the woman i attended with...she actually watched him non stop and ordered him to stop doing something's ... told em straight they are not ready to swing to much insecurity ..funny old world eh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Never had a couple go jealous on us for playing with other couples but we are aware of a couple that won't swing with us purely because we don't get on with somebody in their circle of friends

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yeap had it from guys I have met in the past...and thats where they now stay, in the past!!!! I thought us girls were supposed to be the stroppy ones!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

yeah we met a few couples like this in the past, one couple we met told us they was'nt meeting anyone else besides us and then we found out the was still meeting a couple they met b4 us and when i asked why they felt they had to lie about it they said because they wasnt sure how we'd react if we knew they was meeting others as well!! which i found quite worring as we used to openly meet other and couldnt understand at all why they though it would be a problem for us, we also met a couple who told us they wasnt comfy with us meeting other and would rather we didnt, infact we had verious problems in the past with couples we have met which is why we don't meet couples anymore and only play with them at clubs and i don't go anywhere near couples as a single female lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I (Jed) get very jealous in swinging when I see 2 cute couples getting together, I think "I could be doing that to her or her )

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive never had jealousy either way. Although i wont play with anyone who has slept with a certain person. I also say that if they sleep with her i will be unable to sleep with them (the choice is theres either way). But as someone said, the last place you would expect jealousy is the swinging world

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

It does clearly happen though diamond.. too many times sadly, spoils so many things too...

Sometimes.. we think its best to not want to know if that makes sense. When were with people we are interested in them and them alone.. not anyone else who has tickled the fancy as such..

Same with us.. we just try not to discuss who we have ever seen.. Its between them and us as such.. Especially after what we have seen what happens when people get jealous.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

threads like this makes me remember why i don't like regular meets lol

I personally think thats where the problem lies, if you meet people regular, some, obviously not everyone, thinks theres more to it than there is, even more so when you meet one on one, i some times think clubs are the way forwards, where you shag and go lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It seems the green eyed monster raises his/her head in many aspects of life. Even in one I was surprised to see it happen. I think people should be a little more open before they decide to take things further, then at least there should be no jealousy etc once the fun starts.

Talking of fun.........LOL.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It seems the green eyed monster raises his/her head in many aspects of life. Even in one I was surprised to see it happen. I think people should be a little more open before they decide to take things further, then at least there should be no jealousy etc once the fun starts.

Talking of fun.........LOL.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

In reply to naughtynymphos

Understand the thrill maybe of shag and go lol.. but leaves us cold.. Just not for us. When it all works out and works out well and it does lol.. A good group of friends opens up so many more doors as such.. It never seems to go stale as we all share so much more.. and in return get so much more lol..

Mike and Ju x

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By *illynmintCouple  over a year ago

liverpool

We had an incident once, where the fem threw a strop, whilst her partner was enjoying himself (maybe too much).

Very embarresing for them. Funny thing is they now strut around our local club and blank us.WTF ??

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By *he_original_poloWoman  over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Hi all..

We wondered if any/many had come accross the jealous swinger swinger type... Not the ones who have issues when you play as such but the ones who hate the thought you may actually play with others too.

We have had it happen a few times now each resulting in us not seeing a perfectly nice couple because of their issues with us seeing another. We just think its nuts to get the hump over a couple you see seeing someone else too.. Its part of the reason we never post who we play with in validations..

Anyone else??

Mike and Ju x "

I had an experience last year on another site that went well beyond jealousy... it went into the far advanced terrain of ‘f*cked up individual’.

I should have seen it coming when a female sent me a pm out of the blue saying she had a ‘special’ relationship with a guy I was arranging to meet.

Anyway sometime went by and said guy didn’t show up for an arranged meet and tried fobbing me off with a stack of bullshit. The female is in touch like a shot asking if I’ll be in touch with him again, what had he said, what had we planned to do and so on. Once she gets the idea I’m not too keen (to say the least) making any further plans with the guy, she starts telling me the guy is accusing me of what boils down to being sexual assault. She claimed the guy had told her he was 100% straight and had no interest in being orally-bi (shows how well she knew him) and that he’d said he had fobbed off the arranged meet because I had previously forced him to suck on men’s cocks against his will….wtf!!!!!!!!

Now just how sick is someone who:

1 – would make some shit like that up just to make sure you didn’t arrange to meet her ‘special friend’ again.

2 – would want to make anyone feel so fucking bad - thinking that something like that had been said about them.

3 – would think you’d just sit back and say fuck all about it.

4 – would try and drop their ’special friend’ in such potentially deep shit just to knock someone else out of the picture.

5 – and then starts telling you how much they want to fuck you!!!!

Some people should carry f*cking health warnings!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Was this a women..............

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By *habsMan  over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"Hi all..

We wondered if any/many had come across the jealous swinger swinger type... Not the ones who have issues when you play as such but the ones who hate the thought you may actually play with others too.

We have had it happen a few times now each resulting in us not seeing a perfectly nice couple because of their issues with us seeing another. We just think its nuts to get the hump over a couple you see seeing someone else too.. Its part of the reason we never post who we play with in validations..

Anyone else??

Mike and Ju x "

I had one couple I got chatting to on msn want to video call with me - in the process of doing so someone on my contacts list logged on and sent me a "hello" message. Geez - the couple I was on video call to hit the roof: "You have someone else talking to you while you're talking to us? Sorry - we don't do multiple shaggers, bye!"

A second one was a couple that live near Kent (I'm in London) but had dragged out the issue of meeting for so long, they said they preferred to meet in clubs so, if not attracted they could always just look elsewhere - the only problem is they wanted to meet in Chams (go to Birmingham to meet someone on your doorstep), did not know when exactly they would go, but also warned me off talking to others while I'm there talking to them.

Am I the only one that found both cases strange?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As my better half said - we've not *yet* come across full blown jealousy. I think this is mostly down to the fact we are incredibly careful about who we play with...

However, within the scene there is a crazy f*cked up individual who seems to be seethingly jealous of me, and I'm not really sure why. I've refused to play with her - which she seems to put down to her 'being too old for me' (not in the slightest bit true). Whenever at the same parties, if I'm speaking to someone she has to come over and sit on their lap, or flash her tits at them, or start sucking their cock/tits etc...she seems desperate to prove to me how much she is desired or something, or maybe its purely to try to stop anyone flirting with me?

Who knows. Shes mental anyway, and her lame games have not been working!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Also, goes around telling people things that aren't actually true about me.

:rollseyes:

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Darcie... Sounds more like she si insecure of her own looks and ability to pull to me..

Maybe not jealous but see's you as BIG competition so has to prove more to herself maybe..

What do I know lol.....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Seems quite simple to get rid of unwanted attention to me..

..tell them the truth... "You're a bloody bunny boiler now piss off and annoy someone else!"

If that fails.... ur buggered!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I'd like a bunny Boiler lol... Think I'd be flattered pmsl...

Then again.. maybe not eh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Darcie... Sounds more like she si insecure of her own looks and ability to pull to me..

Maybe not jealous but see's you as BIG competition so has to prove more to herself maybe..

What do I know lol..... "

Maybe, although she seems to fuck everything that walks (think thats why she was shocked I turned her down), and I clearly don't - so technically im not competition at all. lol.

meh, makes life entertaining i guess.

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By *he_original_poloWoman  over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Was this a women.............. "

According to the chromosomes, yes I guess she is – if we are talking emotional intelligence and maturity then I’d say no, as ‘woman’ implies adult maturity.

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By *he_original_poloWoman  over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Darcie...

Maybe, although she seems to fuck everything that walks (think thats why she was shocked I turned her down), and I clearly don't - so technically im not competition at all. lol.

meh, makes life entertaining i guess."

That actually reminds me of a fucked up individual who told me she had made it her mission to have another female from this other site because her 'special friend' wanted to have her and she wanted to rub it in that she had got there first.... (again wtf?)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

That actually reminds me of a fucked up individual who told me she had made it her mission to have another female from this other site because her 'special friend' wanted to have her and she wanted to rub it in that she had got there first.... (again wtf?)

"

My god, that is fucked up. She sounds quite similar to crazy fuck head I was talking about.

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By *he_original_poloWoman  over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"

That actually reminds me of a fucked up individual who told me she had made it her mission to have another female from this other site because her 'special friend' wanted to have her and she wanted to rub it in that she had got there first.... (again wtf?)

My god, that is fucked up. She sounds quite similar to crazy fuck head I was talking about."

I guess there are some people who have such a high need for attention it is bordering on mental disorder. Similar to 'factitious disorders' where people exaggerate the symptoms or degrees of illness to gain attention… how far down the barrel can one person scrape when it’s just about sex at the end of the day?

May be we should feel sorry for the fucked up individuals we encounter or pitty them for their insecurities and constant need to be whatever it is they think their actions will make them…. unless they’ve made up crap about me committing a sexual assault one step away from rape…. then the fuckers deserve something entirely different!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

I guess there are some people who have such a high need for attention it is bordering on mental disorder. Similar to 'factitious disorders' where people exaggerate the symptoms or degrees of illness to gain attention… how far down the barrel can one person scrape when it’s just about sex at the end of the day?

May be we should feel sorry for the fucked up individuals we encounter or pitty them for their insecurities and constant need to be whatever it is they think their actions will make them…. unless they’ve made up crap about me committing a sexual assault one step away from rape…. then the fuckers deserve something entirely different!

"

Indeed. I cling to the hope that others see such people for what they are, and the more they slip up and get picked up on it - the more people will see them for their real selves, and therefore not fall in to their traps or become victims of their stories.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well I thought it would be a good idea to have my profile verified.......

How wrong I was !

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago
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"Hmm touchy subject this,Ive been thinking about asking for advice about this but was'nt sure how to word it

There is some jealousy in swinging but why do some people just hate it if you get on with people they have played with or are currently playing with?

Swinging is the last place I thought it would occur but then im realising I must have been naive lol

We were in a situation recently where the single guy playmate of a couple we know showed an interest and boy he is gorgeous but the female half of the couple made it very difficult for him..it was very cloak and dagger and eventually we managed to exchange numbers but im left feeling really guilty and wondering why on earth I should feel like this

We hav'nt met this guy yet because I feel like im taking something that does'nt belong to me

"

Mwahahahahaha good things come to those who wait

Jealousy should have no place in swinging and people that behave all territorial end up with no playmates lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

yeah agreed goes against everything me thinks , to expect someone to only play with u or ur partner , is not what its about i have no worries with anyone on here i think everyone should be free to see who they want when they want and experience everythhing that they desire . got to be open minded and honest , freindly and tolerant , maybe they just not ready for swinging ? i dnt know just my thoughts on it .

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By *1dKingColeMan  over a year ago

east london


"

Mwahahahahaha good things come to those who wait

"

Details! Details!

Don't just leave us hanging! LOL

;-)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"omg! i get it all the time, some single guys are soooo mardy.

Grow hairs on ur balls ffs. its a swinging site!! der!"

i'd rather they didnt have hairy balls thankyou!!!!!

lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

but on a serious note, i know a few ( 6 to be exact) single guys on here who have had to delete their profile and start a new one , cuz they met a cpl, and the fem half has been so jealous and possesive, telling them who they can and cant meet !!!!!!!and if they didnt text her every day she went mad ..... wtf is that about..... oooo and she deleted their profile the other day...... maybe it back fired ,,,who knows !!!!

some odd ones about !!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago
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"but on a serious note, i know a few ( 6 to be exact) single guys on here who have had to delete their profile and start a new one , cuz they met a cpl, and the fem half has been so jealous and possesive, telling them who they can and cant meet !!!!!!!and if they didnt text her every day she went mad ..... wtf is that about..... oooo and she deleted their profile the other day...... maybe it back fired ,,,who knows !!!!

some odd ones about !!"

In that sort of situation what on earth does the husband think when his wife is behaving like that? I don't get it at all

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago
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"

Mwahahahahaha good things come to those who wait

Details! Details!

Don't just leave us hanging! LOL

;-)

"

Im too much of a lady to say but I will have a smile on my face lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Jealousy should have no place in swinging and people that behave all territorial end up with no playmates lol

"

I'm sick of this... every damn time I turn my back honeypot your talking to others... this just can't go on.. if you don't curb this happy go lucky talk to anyone care free i'm happy attitude were done... over, got it!!!

I mean ff's .... next you'll be wanting to have flammin sex with some of em...

Jeeze..............

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago
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"Jealousy should have no place in swinging and people that behave all territorial end up with no playmates lol

I'm sick of this... every damn time I turn my back honeypot your talking to others... this just can't go on.. if you don't curb this happy go lucky talk to anyone care free i'm happy attitude were done... over, got it!!!

I mean ff's .... next you'll be wanting to have flammin sex with some of em...

Jeeze.............. "

See what I bleeding mean!!!!! its a fecking nightmare pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Its absolutely ridiculous... Were fuming, how dare they.. How very dare they. Today we found out those we have been playing with.....Have been seeing others too.

This world, it just has no morals anymore...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

ok ok, I said SORRY!!!!!!!!!!!!!

FFS How long are you gonna hold a grunge for!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I need therapy........ and a stronger commitment.

You said you were going to faithful 4 weeks ago... and 3 and 2 and again on Friday Sat Sun Mon Tue Wed and again Thurday.... I'm just not sure I can trust you now lol...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Ohhhhh and now it seems twice on fookin Friday... Well, thats it lol..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

guys yes i have had that one

best thing to do is ignore it .

there is no pretence why we are here and your silence will show your lack of interest to their comments

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think some people go into swinging for the wrong reasons.

You'll always get some people who are so egocentric that they believe it's all just about them, and that nobody should be having fun unless they're part of it!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's so sad to hear that some peeps act so bizarrely & god help the individual(s) who would attempt that childish & immature nonsense with us. Rar!

Would drag em to the nearest psychiatric institution quick sharp.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We had a couple that we played with regularly and we became friends outside of swinging as well. He turned really jealous whenever they knew we'd played without them being there, and he started to try and control me, so I put a stop to it. We now only do parties because I don't want to put myself in that situation again.

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By *teve_SoleilCouple  over a year ago

Malaysia

I would call them exclusive swingers...it means they believe that the swinging relationship is an exclusive one...so you can swing...but only with us...sort of like a polygamous relationship...:D

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

lmao part of being swinger didn't they get hehehe.Thats what it's all about can't believe ppl can really actually be like that . Hmmmmm were you there first I need to ask ? ,Ive had couple encounters I've gone with a friend somewhere few times obviously you get to know one another then yeah it comes out after being asked so what u Bern up2 this week then s1 goes crazy like hello babes what u all about were swinger you really think it's just us hello wake up it's reality hunny yeah . My advice end it mwah x Namaste x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

well i had someone get jeajouse of me chattin to another woman in a chatroom, needless to say, she is now of my friends list lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Now then i heard a little story the other day about an old stalker of mine.

A couple met this single guy (stalker) and apparently the hubby beat the single guy up in a jealous rage as the missus and the single guy seemed to be enjoying themselves too much.

Didnt find out much more than that but seems theres more to this story.

And im sorry but i had to pmsl as it cudnt av happened to a nicer bloke!!! lol

Before i get my ass slapped for this i know violence aint the answer but if only you knew what he put me through.

True what they say 'what goes around comes back around'

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

hence i only show social verifications now lol x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

oh forgot to say...who ever the hubby is of the couple? let me shake ur hand mate lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

So far so good, not had any of these situations yet, however ,we have had couples who were fuck buddies,contact us and even meet up with us, and then it all falls apart because one or the other was married or one of them did not want to really swing and was being forced too pretty much, and it can never work, so one part of the couple was saying one thnig and the other another, plus the blokes were saying, I wont let her play on her own without me ,so my reply was, if your screwing this all up due to your issues ,you dont own the girl ,and is she wants to meet on her own then she can..very odd. Not that all "Fuck buddy" couples arel iek that, but our experience has been odd, so we decided to try and meet couples who have a realtive long standing marriage or relationship and know each other well and hopefully have no jelousy issues.We have no problem ,were very open and relaxed, its just fun. But you really do need to be secuee in this game.

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By *obletonMan  over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

I'll admit that the first time Vonn met another guy on her own after me and Vonn became more than just casual FBs, I did have a few mad moments - call it being protective, or insecurity, or just plain old fashioned jealousy - I dunno.

I got over it pretty quick tho and now I just find talking to her about any meets she's had and what she's got up to rrrrrrreally horny - and I've even picked up a tip or two

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I learned my lesson so now I only show my social verifications, so no one knows who I actually playing with, cos i had few probs when i first started

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Black Widows got the right idea.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i met a cpl last year at a travelodge near lymm cheshire which started off great with a drink in the bar next door. however the male partner was a few years her senior and she was more my ageish lol and she seemed to enjoy my company and was paying me lots of attention. had not even finished the first drink when he stood up, had a few harsh words with her and handed me the keys to the room he`d paid £60 for and stormed off leaving her with me and the use of a nice room for the night. what a result. swining is definately not for those who have an alter ego called the green eyed monster lol

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