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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've always found I get mixed answers about this topic when asked over the years I've been swinging, I've met loads for and against kissing whilst for, say that it adds that extra erotic thrill to there swinging meets and, against simply say they like to keep something back for that special loved one.
So quite simply the question is do you like to kiss the people you meet whilst swinging or would you rather not, whats your thoughts? xx lol |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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"I've always found I get mixed answers about this topic when asked over the years I've been swinging, I've met loads for and against kissing whilst for, say that it adds that extra erotic thrill to there swinging meets and, against simply say they like to keep something back for that special loved one.
So quite simply the question is do you like to kiss the people you meet whilst swinging or would you rather not, whats your thoughts? xx lol"
Oh god.............. not AGAIN  |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
Cyprus |
It's such a shame that posters can't be bothered to do a search for a key word?
But you are right Bi 1 get 1 free..... I shan't be posting on this thread any more. It's just another instance of piss poor thread starters, being lazy and trying to shovel their own PERSONAL choices down other's throats.
If you think I jest....look up the previous kissing threads....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well personally i think that is completely rude the guy only asked a question and he not really been posting so how was he to know?? we were all new at one point!! u dont need to post if u dont agree or find it repetitive!! he could have posted a lot worse!!
anyway its choice i do and if the other party doesnt they dont get invited back!! xx |
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"It's such a shame that posters can't be bothered to do a search for a key word?
But you are right Bi 1 get 1 free..... I shan't be posting on this thread any more. It's just another instance of piss poor thread starters, being lazy and trying to shovel their own PERSONAL choices down other's throats.
If you think I jest....look up the previous kissing threads....
ta ta "
We never created the thread, we on;y contributed to it, go have a pop at someone else  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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is it me or do some ppl have problems with being polite around here..... so what if a thread has been covered before, we dont all sit in the forums every min or every day........... and hey if someone is new around here, let them ask what they would like to..... its not up to the same few to start all the so called exciting threads around here......... be nice its much easier xx  |
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and you wonder why fab has so many people on it but yet not a lot post hear. there is so many new people on hear I think people need to let people feel welcome hear and not ostracized
when I think of kissing, the picture of julia roberts come in to my head.
I would always go to kiss because it adds to the passion of swinging (only to us though) We would turn a hair if the other couple didnt want to. there choice nothing to dowith us!
we met our first soft swing couple last night (I say soft but there was nothing soft about it lol) and were a little taken aback but we enjoyed every minuite of it.
michelle x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"anyway its choice i do and if the other party doesnt they dont get invited back!! xx
For starters, mwahhhh xxxxxxxxxxx "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's such a shame that posters can't be bothered to do a search for a key word?
But you are right Bi 1 get 1 free..... I shan't be posting on this thread any more. It's just another instance of piss poor thread starters, being lazy and trying to shovel their own PERSONAL choices down other's throats.
If you think I jest....look up the previous kissing threads....
ta ta "
Friggin eck, talk about having attitude??!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each to thier own.
I however love to kiss and can get off on someone who kisses well.
I could not play with someone and not kiss them, it would be a natural thing to do and is an intergral part of foreplay and indeed sex.
Everyone has thier choices for what they do, it is not different to only having anal with your partner, or choosing not to perform oral to completion...how boring would it be if we were all the same.x
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"I've always found I get mixed answers about this topic when asked over the years I've been swinging, I've met loads for and against kissing whilst for, say that it adds that extra erotic thrill to there swinging meets and, against simply say they like to keep something back for that special loved one.
So quite simply the question is do you like to kiss the people you meet whilst swinging or would you rather not, whats your thoughts? xx lol"
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Hi Hun,
Althoug this has been done before, and I think I statred a similar thread a few months ago, don't worry - it's a legitimate question! We love to kiss, others don't - neither is right or wrong - down to individuals. We;d play with non kissers no prob- live and let live xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Friggin eck, talk about having attitude??!! "
Lol I think that couple could do with a good kiss!
Feel like I've just been mentally assaulted! might need some counselling!
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has been done to death, and caused big rows in the past, but its fair enough question i suppose, our answer is no we never kiss and have been swinging (often) for 5 years and it has never never been a problem for us or anyone we have met, not saying ours is the right way, but it is our way |
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
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God I've been away 6 weeks but this is deja vu! its entirely up to the individual/couple if they want to kiss but we are ALL allowed our preferances.
For us kissing is a definate yes and if we had prior knowledge that the other couple wouldn't kiss we just wouldn't meet.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Friggin eck, talk about having attitude??!!
Lol I think that couple could do with a good kiss!
Feel like I've just been mentally assaulted! might need some counselling!
il council u no problem lol xxx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Friggin eck, talk about having attitude??!!
Lol I think that couple could do with a good kiss!
Feel like I've just been mentally assaulted! might need some counselling!
:P "
Oh hope up on my couch....on second thoughts...your too young for me to mentally scar....grins |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely, kissing is all part of swinging as far as we're concerned.
No kissing would be like fish n chips without salt n vinegar, .
XXXX"
have to agree, kissing is part of foreplay, i get so turned on with kissing let alone touching. mmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just wouldn't be interested if there was no kissing involved, mmmmmmmm love love love to kiss - and when you find someone who can turn you on by nothing more than kissing you you know you've hit gold.
Can't remember where I heard or read it but something about prostitutes never kissing...........
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love kissing.............. and wow if you find someone that can kiss well, it's amazing ......... think I said it all in my profile - kissing is totally underated!!
Big kisses to everyone who enjoys kissing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing is important for us, it's not for others and we accept that, and the subject has been done to death on way more than one occasion which is what prompted Madchicks posts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure it has anything to do with how good you are, it's just how some people choose to play. Some folk save intercourse for themselves only whilst others choose not to kiss, freedom of choice is a great thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure it has anything to do with how good you are, it's just how some people choose to play. Some folk save intercourse for themselves only whilst others choose not to kiss, freedom of choice is a great thing "
He's right you know... No rights or wrongs, just choice. |
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"Not sure it has anything to do with how good you are, it's just how some people choose to play. Some folk save intercourse for themselves only whilst others choose not to kiss, freedom of choice is a great thing
He's right you know... No rights or wrongs, just choice."
Ditto! Complete agreement!
And while this theme has been discussed at length in the past, it was a while back now and new people here also wish to discuss the issues them selves. Trawling back through the archives is not necessarily a way to do that.
I would say that more people kiss than don't by a fair margin. Its choice.
But its those that don't kiss that make a thing about it, not the other way round, even the ones that wont meet none kisses.
I for one expect to kiss a woman who is in my arms; if I'm not good enough to kiss, then I do not want to be playing.
My chioce.
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"Just wouldn't be interested if there was no kissing involved, mmmmmmmm love love love to kiss - and when you find someone who can turn you on by nothing more than kissing you you know you've hit gold.
Can't remember where I heard or read it but something about prostitutes never kissing...........
is that meant to be as insulting as it actually sounds
xxx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i personally dont meet people who have a no kissing rule, i do respect peoples rules but that does not mean i have to meet them if i dont agree to them.
To me its part of the forplay, without it sex is just to cold and clinical
Kissing is the key that turns the ignition. Without it, you don't get the motor running |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who cares? It’s like any other preference, just find someone to suit?
If it happens it happens, if it don’t it don’t, at the end of the day we can all have great meets without actual penetration taking place, can see the big issue with singles meeting singles and no kissing, but if we met another couple with a no kissing rule it wouldn’t matter one jot, after all we would both have our own partners there we could snog all night if we wanted to.
The people who state they wouldn’t meet people who don’t kiss or people who only soft swing etc, could be missing out on lots of fun, your choice of course, but lets all be honest, in certain scenarios kissing can sometimes gets in the way.
Anyone for a spit-roast |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some amount of moany folk on these forums at times. "I seen this thread a month or so ago" blah blah
Weve not had a meet but would feel not kissing the other person as a bit odd. Wouldnt be bothered if it happened or not. But wouldnt be like oh no dont dare kiss me... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've said it before I'll say it again ... we love sensual kissing with people that we fancy. It doesn't have to be set in stone but it is a preference of ours. I can't speak for me but Paul is a fab kisser |
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"Just wouldn't be interested if there was no kissing involved, mmmmmmmm love love love to kiss - and when you find someone who can turn you on by nothing more than kissing you you know you've hit gold.
Can't remember where I heard or read it but something about prostitutes never kissing...........
is that meant to be as insulting as it actually sounds
xxx"
Knowing the lady involved, no way. Is just a statement. Razz is not like that at all, are you hun? xx |
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"Just wouldn't be interested if there was no kissing involved, mmmmmmmm love love love to kiss - and when you find someone who can turn you on by nothing more than kissing you you know you've hit gold.
Can't remember where I heard or read it but something about prostitutes never kissing...........
is that meant to be as insulting as it actually sounds
xxx
Knowing the lady involved, no way. Is just a statement. Razz is not like that at all, are you hun? xx"
ok just sounded a bit....anyway tbh i think some prostitutes do kiss as an extra lol |
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cant say i understand people who wont kiss ,but more than that are the reasons for not doing so .One reason ive been told is that kissing is to intimate to do with just anyone ,you can shag me but dont kiss me lol dont get that at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep, as has been said, it's partly about choice.
You don't want to, fine. You do, that's fine too.
As has also been said, it appears that it's those who don't who seem to make a big thing about it.
So bearing in mind that it's about personal choice, personally I can't envisage being with a lady and not kissing her. Anything else we did would would feel very mechanical and cold. |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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Kissing,.. my personal thoughts (to quote a friend):
"You can fondle her, grope her, figner her.. hell.. fist her if it fist.. you can shag her up the arse, cum in her mouth, have a bunch of fellas spunk over over had after she's been DP'ed, DV'ed and (if they can manage it) DA'd ...
... just don't fucking kiss her - that's for us!"
Oh well, each to their own - I LUV IT!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Kissing,.. my personal thoughts (to quote a friend):
"You can fondle her, grope her, figner her.. hell.. fist her if it fist.. you can shag her up the arse, cum in her mouth, have a bunch of fellas spunk over over had after she's been DP'ed, DV'ed and (if they can manage it) DA'd ...
... just don't fucking kiss her - that's for us!"
Oh well, each to their own - I LUV IT!!!"
Yep........Nowt as queer as folk! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never seen this thread on here before so I'll give you my answer... which is simply - it would never cross my mind not to kiss.
I usually meet socially the first time and I think it's nice, if there's a spark, to round it off with a kiss... a bit of a taster of what's to come the next time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have to kiss, couldn't really play without kissing....but....I can't watch Kate french kissing another guy. I don't mind watching her being shagged, or watching her giving guys bj's. I can watch her playing with 2 or 3 guys but can't watch her kissing them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No kissing is personal to Billy and me! well you gotta leave something in the relationship thats just for us otherwise whats the point in a relationship?????
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do understand what your saying but what i never understand is when people say kissing is to personal or to intimate, if you can have sex with someone without making love why can you kiss someone without it being to intimate, surely its the feelinge behind who your kissing/having sex with that makes it love making or personal not the actual act itself? To me the feelings that couples have for each other thats something they save for themselves, you dont get that with anyone else |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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"I do understand what your saying but what i never understand is when people say kissing is to personal or to intimate, if you can have sex with someone without making love why can you kiss someone without it being to intimate, surely its the feelinge behind who your kissing/having sex with that makes it love making or personal not the actual act itself? To me the feelings that couples have for each other thats something they save for themselves, you dont get that with anyone else"
I Luv to kiss,.. does things to my towel |
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I Luv to kiss,.. does things to my towel"
yes it does.....I remember that towel
I for one would not even contemplate having one on one sex without there being lots og kissing. Maybe in a group I wouldn't have to kiss everyone....as long as I was kissing someone I'd be happy....I just lurrrrve hot wet tongues |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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I Luv to kiss,.. does things to my towel
yes it does.....I remember that towel
I for one would not even contemplate having one on one sex without there being lots og kissing. Maybe in a group I wouldn't have to kiss everyone....as long as I was kissing someone I'd be happy....I just lurrrrve hot wet tongues "
I love wet slurping tongues as well |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"is it me or do some ppl have problems with being polite around here..... so what if a thread has been covered before, we dont all sit in the forums every min or every day........... and hey if someone is new around here, let them ask what they would like to..... its not up to the same few to start all the so called exciting threads around here......... be nice its much easier xx "
This I agree with.
Unless there are some subjects Admin disagree with, then asking questions is allowed on the forums, wether they have been covered before or not.
Back to the question.
For me ( Mrs ) I found I didn't want to kiss a man who joins us for MFM. I did try it but it isn't for me.
A couple of different people mentioned it would make things feel cold and calculated without kissing the people they were playing with....I think that is it for me, I don't want affection with a playmate, just sex....and just sex is sex without kissing for me.
I do love a good snog with the other half though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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had my first meet 3 weeks ago and it was the first question in my head but they prempted it and gave me a full run down on what likes, dislikes "not many dislikes " glad when they said kissing was on i think if it had not been i would not be back. ps think cos am a hot kisser |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Kissing,.. my personal thoughts (to quote a friend):
"You can fondle her, grope her, figner her.. hell.. fist her if it fist.. you can shag her up the arse, cum in her mouth, have a bunch of fellas spunk over over had after she's been DP'ed, DV'ed and (if they can manage it) DA'd ...
... just don't fucking kiss her - that's for us!"
Oh well, each to their own - I LUV IT!!!"
DV..thats disgusting !!!!...kisses..kisses..and more kisses..Mr A...I love a snog... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do understand what your saying but what i never understand is when people say kissing is to personal or to intimate, if you can have sex with someone without making love why can you kiss someone without it being to intimate, surely its the feelinge behind who your kissing/having sex with that makes it love making or personal not the actual act itself? To me the feelings that couples have for each other thats something they save for themselves, you dont get that with anyone else"
Exactly the way we see it too.
We keep something special for each other....our love!
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