Im a sub, I enjoy D/s and FLR not really into the Dungeons and S/m side, but unless you go to a club. I dont think FAB is a good place to explore BDSM, but maybe Im wrong. Your probably best look for a more BDSM specific site, theres not that many anymore.  |
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Yeah Forum talk is better an PMing unless someone is personally interested. I'd add S&M to your interests to begin with, people can find you in Searches then. It looks like you are a male sub for a woman, which is quite niche so maybe look outside at fetish groups too. --pt |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
I’m naturally very submissive, I’ve been in FLRs in the past and that’s definitely the dynamic I’m most comfortable with. I very much like to please others, putting their needs and desires before my own and if I make other people happy then I’m happy, no matter what I have to do to achieve that. |
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over a year ago
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Totally depends on what aspect of BDSM, there’s a wide range. We use leather restraints around the neck and paddles, we do also use a hand around the throat, we’ve not done anything else really. You’d need to be more specific in what you wish to try
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
I've been on the public BDSM scene since I was old enough (which is over half of my life now!?)
Myself and my boyfriend are both switches.
I really don't want PMs, kinda defeats the forum for me.
BDSM is a huge catch all term, I've tried many areas in the past 20+ years and still haven't tried everything. Other than this being one way to try to get a meet, what aspects of BDSM are appealing to you?
What information, help or advice can we give you to help make your exploration easier/less scary/safer? |
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"Who's into BDSM" is as broad as saying "Who is Kinky" and has many different layers and dimensions to cover.
As you can see from my profile I am very much into the B, the D and the S&M with my own playroom.
I need to understand my subs needs and desires to deliver the experience they desire. Submission is a gift and one to be treasured. It's an amazing journey and one I enjoy with new and experienced subs.
My personal likes are in the rough play, CNC areas. These require strong communication with safe, sane and always consenting approach.
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"Who's into BDSM" is as broad as saying "Who is Kinky" and has many different layers and dimensions to cover.
As you can see from my profile I am very much into the B, the D and the S&M with my own playroom.
I need to understand my subs needs and desires to deliver the experience they desire. Submission is a gift and one to be treasured. It's an amazing journey and one I enjoy with new and experienced subs.
My personal likes are in the rough play, CNC areas. These require strong communication with safe, sane and always consenting approach.
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Ah this is why I stopped using SSC.
I am not sure many people would class CNC as sane... So personally I feel RACK would be better (however with CNC less so FRIES or PRICK) |
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" Spot on this.
I love partners with little experience and then bring out the filthiness in them
"Who's into BDSM" is as broad as saying "Who is Kinky" and has many different layers and dimensions to cover.
As you can see from my profile I am very much into the B, the D and the S&M with my own playroom.
I need to understand my subs needs and desires to deliver the experience they desire. Submission is a gift and one to be treasured. It's an amazing journey and one I enjoy with new and experienced subs.
My personal likes are in the rough play, CNC areas. These require strong communication with safe, sane and always consenting approach.
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"Over the last two years OP has regularly put up the same or similar short message. OP has been advised many times before and although God loves a trier....
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-In that case "PM me" is the part that really matters to him, he likely won't read any of this lol
I wonder if anyone's ever hit him up? --pt |
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