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By *oxy j OP Woman
over a year ago
taunton somerset |
ok so maybe a bit sensitive as a subject but guys youve done the hard bit and got a meet you start playing and then you cum in no time ..you sulk get dressed then run ... as if its almost our fault ?? why not just laugh it off take a break and see if you can go again ? we women do understand and we understand it can happen to anyone .. so guys next time you cum too quick think before you run its part of life have a natter and a laugh and see what happens rather than run out embarrassed leaving us thinking its our fault ..
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By *oxy j OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Never had a meet so never run, but it is a fear/anxiety, i.e. cumming in no time.  "
but theres nothing to fear we all get naked no meet rarely perfect in fact it would be boring if so ... we can all control everything with in our bodys |
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By *oxy j OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Oh dear!... Surely half the fun is meant to be around meeting? Not just the finish line? "
exactly this meeting is fun first meets never go to plan the amount of first meets that have ended up just being a laugh and fun ...its those meet that end up being a second or third meet |
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over a year ago
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"Never had a meet so never run, but it is a fear/anxiety, i.e. cumming in no time.
but theres nothing to fear we all get naked no meet rarely perfect in fact it would be boring if so ... we can all control everything with in our bodys"
Well after several years I can assure you the anxiety is real. |
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By *oxy j OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Never had a meet so never run, but it is a fear/anxiety, i.e. cumming in no time.
but theres nothing to fear we all get naked no meet rarely perfect in fact it would be boring if so ... we can all control everything with in our bodys
Well after several years I can assure you the anxiety is real. "
im not saying its not real but whats the worse that can happen ? |
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I'm pleased to reload in about 10-15min but there is a level of embarrassment for round one.
We've mentally fucked about 10 times over, so a tsp of the wand is all it takes
I'd prefer to allocate the time and see how many times we can actually orgasm instead as I usually end up needing a wank again from thinking about it all by the evening |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to have a gf who sometimes purposely made me cum quickly just to show how much control she had over me.
naughty girlfriend ...i like her thinking  "
She used to love watching my face as I attempted to hold back then twist my nipples extra hard to push me to cum. She got a kick from my disappointment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve always had this problem so I went to the doctors,dropped my pants and said… please take a look at this,I think I’m premature… she said.. you certainly are… I’m the receptionist |
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"ok so maybe a bit sensitive as a subject but guys youve done the hard bit and got a meet you start playing and then you cum in no time ..you sulk get dressed then run ... as if its almost our fault ?? why not just laugh it off take a break and see if you can go again ? we women do understand and we understand it can happen to anyone .. so guys next time you cum too quick think before you run its part of life have a natter and a laugh and see what happens rather than run out embarrassed leaving us thinking its our fault ..
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The guys who claim to be sex gods who can go for hours culminating in a gigantic explosion of cum. Then they get here and manage three minutes (and that's being optimistic) followed by a slight dribble and a growl. Nest thing is they're ask to be verified as they do the walk of shame out of the door.
Sadly that's getting to be quite a regular occurrence these days
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"ok so maybe a bit sensitive as a subject but guys youve done the hard bit and got a meet you start playing and then you cum in no time ..you sulk get dressed then run ... as if its almost our fault ?? why not just laugh it off take a break and see if you can go again ? we women do understand and we understand it can happen to anyone .. so guys next time you cum too quick think before you run its part of life have a natter and a laugh and see what happens rather than run out embarrassed leaving us thinking its our fault ..
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They are on the clock to get home before wife gets back though  |
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over a year ago
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"ok so maybe a bit sensitive as a subject but guys youve done the hard bit and got a meet you start playing and then you cum in no time ..you sulk get dressed then run ... as if its almost our fault ?? why not just laugh it off take a break and see if you can go again ? we women do understand and we understand it can happen to anyone .. so guys next time you cum too quick think before you run its part of life have a natter and a laugh and see what happens rather than run out embarrassed leaving us thinking its our fault ..
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It's so common......  |
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"I used to have a gf who sometimes purposely made me cum quickly just to show how much control she had over me.
naughty girlfriend ...i like her thinking
She used to love watching my face as I attempted to hold back then twist my nipples extra hard to push me to cum. She got a kick from my disappointment."
I had a gf like that she got turbo rage with me when she realised I can switch off my cock sensations at will pretty much as I can just zone myself out mentally while going through it mechanically .. lol she didn’t like that aspect at all and it messed up her power trip thing she was always trying to push on me. We didn’t last long after that a few months |
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"ok so maybe a bit sensitive as a subject but guys youve done the hard bit and got a meet you start playing and then you cum in no time ..you sulk get dressed then run ... as if its almost our fault ?? why not just laugh it off take a break and see if you can go again ? we women do understand and we understand it can happen to anyone .. so guys next time you cum too quick think before you run its part of life have a natter and a laugh and see what happens rather than run out embarrassed leaving us thinking its our fault ..
They are on the clock to get home before wife gets back though "
Surely you don't mean the "single" guys? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have you considered that some chaps might find it highly embarrassing to the point they don’t want to face up to what’s happened. Thus causing them to run. |
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"Have you considered that some chaps might find it highly embarrassing to the point they don’t want to face up to what’s happened. Thus causing them to run."
This...
The men claiming this and that on here is amazing!
The harsh reality is that this kind of thing isn't talked about enough...
For the genuine guys its bloody tough, nerves etc trying to get it up, maintain it, and also not get embarrassed if it shoots too soon!
Sorry ladies, you've got it east, lube, fake sounds etc
There are numerous reasons guys might act like this, they just aren't talked about xxx |
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By *oxy j OP Woman
over a year ago
taunton somerset |
"Have you considered that some chaps might find it highly embarrassing to the point they don’t want to face up to what’s happened. Thus causing them to run."
hence the post men dont need to be embarrassed we dont judge a guy because hes cum to quick ? so why run just sit have a chat try again its all part n parcel of life ..
unless they've spent days telling you what a super stud they are and can last for hours then whats the embarrassment ??
i guess if you brag then yes it backfires but to be honest i dont meet guys who brag/lie |
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By *oxy j OP Woman
over a year ago
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Sorry ladies, you've got it east, lube, fake sounds etc"
we've got it easy ?? really i need to be turned on too cause it aint going in me until im wet n horny at the very least ... no fake sounds from me if your not pleasing me then your not pleasing me as for lube no thanks i get wet when turned on so ill not be using lube anytime soon
but us ladies have it so easy  |
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over a year ago
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"Have you considered that some chaps might find it highly embarrassing to the point they don’t want to face up to what’s happened. Thus causing them to run.
hence the post men dont need to be embarrassed we dont judge a guy because hes cum to quick ? so why run just sit have a chat try again its all part n parcel of life ..
unless they've spent days telling you what a super stud they are and can last for hours then whats the embarrassment ??
i guess if you brag then yes it backfires but to be honest i dont meet guys who brag/lie"
You may say you don’t judge a guy by his ‘performance’. But there are plenty that do, and that’s where the anxiety comes from.
It’s easy to say ‘don’t worry about it’ to a speedy ending. It’s another to actually believe it. |
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Sorry ladies, you've got it east, lube, fake sounds etc
we've got it easy ?? really i need to be turned on too cause it aint going in me until im wet n horny at the very least ... no fake sounds from me if your not pleasing me then your not pleasing me as for lube no thanks i get wet when turned on so ill not be using lube anytime soon
but us ladies have it so easy "
Nicely cherry picked |
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By *uvery30Woman
over a year ago
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Had this once and he made me feel so crap.
We went out social drink then back to his. Started the fun few pics he got over exited by them then fucked and in 2mins he cum. I went to Bathroom came back thinking ok refresh ect. He was then was like o my friend called his coming to get me in 5mins so you need to kinda go now. So i just left. He wanted another meet but just blocked and didn't both again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I cum to quick sometimes it's due to the build up. Definitely is her fault but not in a negative way. If I found you hot to begin and then you add to the sexual tension I'm going to bust quick but give me 5 10 mins let me focus on your pleasure for a bit and I'll be good to go again if she does want to continue fucking. |
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"Had this once and he made me feel so crap.
We went out social drink then back to his. Started the fun few pics he got over exited by them then fucked and in 2mins he cum. I went to Bathroom came back thinking ok refresh ect. He was then was like o my friend called his coming to get me in 5mins so you need to kinda go now. So i just left. He wanted another meet but just blocked and didn't both again. "
similar..
at a guys, 13 mins from doorbell to him cumming and falling asleep n leaving
horrid feeling like crap
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"Had this once and he made me feel so crap.
We went out social drink then back to his. Started the fun few pics he got over exited by them then fucked and in 2mins he cum. I went to Bathroom came back thinking ok refresh ect. He was then was like o my friend called his coming to get me in 5mins so you need to kinda go now. So i just left. He wanted another meet but just blocked and didn't both again.
similar..
at a guys, 13 mins from doorbell to him cumming and falling asleep n leaving
horrid feeling like crap
E x
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Wow... And I thought one I had at 38 mins was disappointing
This is why I say I prefer longer sessions, it's more relaxed, less pressure and there's time for a repeat performance hopefully! |
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By *icknHMan
over a year ago
Ilfracombe |
"ok so maybe a bit sensitive as a subject but guys youve done the hard bit and got a meet you start playing and then you cum in no time ..you sulk get dressed then run ... as if its almost our fault ?? why not just laugh it off take a break and see if you can go again ? we women do understand and we understand it can happen to anyone .. so guys next time you cum too quick think before you run its part of life have a natter and a laugh and see what happens rather than run out embarrassed leaving us thinking its our fault ..
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Great advice x |
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By *icknHMan
over a year ago
Ilfracombe |
"I’ve always had this problem so I went to the doctors,dropped my pants and said… please take a look at this,I think I’m premature… she said.. you certainly are… I’m the receptionist"
Boom boom ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Before anyone asks, it was me
knew it "
Did I disappoint you as well ?
Was it at the gloryhole ? Can’t remember now.
I shoot and leave without paying much attention to be honest |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"I used to have a gf who sometimes purposely made me cum quickly just to show how much control she had over me.
naughty girlfriend ...i like her thinking
She used to love watching my face as I attempted to hold back then twist my nipples extra hard to push me to cum. She got a kick from my disappointment.
I had a gf like that she got turbo rage with me when she realised I can switch off my cock sensations at will pretty much as I can just zone myself out mentally while going through it mechanically .. lol she didn’t like that aspect at all and it messed up her power trip thing she was always trying to push on me. We didn’t last long after that a few months "
good riddance and excellent mind control. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Before anyone asks, it was me
knew it
Did I disappoint you as well ?
Was it at the gloryhole ? Can’t remember now.
I shoot and leave without paying much attention to be honest "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ok so maybe a bit sensitive as a subject but guys youve done the hard bit and got a meet you start playing and then you cum in no time ..you sulk get dressed then run ... as if its almost our fault ?? why not just laugh it off take a break and see if you can go again ? we women do understand and we understand it can happen to anyone .. so guys next time you cum too quick think before you run its part of life have a natter and a laugh and see what happens rather than run out embarrassed leaving us thinking its our fault ..
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I'm surprised in a way that men do this OP. I can understand that it may make men a bit frustrated if they cum earlier than they'd hoped for, but running away isn't the answer. It doesn't take me much to cum being honest here, but I will communicate and find a way around that with a meet, so in overall, I agree with you're statement. |
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People place a lot of expectations on themselves, and often project those expectations onto others, placing even more pressure on themselves.
Also, the male ego is the most fragile thing in the universe. |
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"People place a lot of expectations on themselves, and often project those expectations onto others, placing even more pressure on themselves.
Also, the male ego is the most fragile thing in the universe."
Yep when you get told fuck that was good of one woman then another says that was shit all I say is if I’m not hitting the spot I’m open to you helping me |
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had a few meets in Clubs when playing a stunner iv'e cum fairly quickly but when i'm ready again a few minutes later i can go for ages so ne need to get pissed off - as long as the lady is ok with a 2 minute break its all good lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm normally a one shot player, but can last for hours. I had one swinging partner who was multi orgasmic, I mean every 10 minutes, she was older and very sexy. The first night was brilliant, 3 or 4 hours if hedonism, but after that each time we met it I came quickly, I was even knocking one out before we met to make it last, but it didn't work. I often wondered if it was her orgasms that set me off, not looking to pass the blame, but it never happened with other partners. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes after chatting for days or week, the build up and desire of finally feeling can cause that.
I would still continue with an oral session until I'm ready for round two. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ok so maybe a bit sensitive as a subject but guys youve done the hard bit and got a meet you start playing and then you cum in no time ..you sulk get dressed then run ... as if its almost our fault ?? why not just laugh it off take a break and see if you can go again ? we women do understand and we understand it can happen to anyone .. so guys next time you cum too quick think before you run its part of life have a natter and a laugh and see what happens rather than run out embarrassed leaving us thinking its our fault ..
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Sometimes my husband cums quick, especially if he's been abstaining or edging to get a big load. He's ready to go again within a min or quicker normally, and he's always focussed on me enjoying myself and cumming repeatedly, so I've got no issue with him cumming quick. Don't run guys, just go again, and if you really can't, there's more than just cocks that make a woman cum.... If you shoot early but I cum a few times with fingers, toys, tongue etc you'd be a winner in my eyes. |
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"Agree if you cum to quickly by accident stay and chat otherwise it makes the ladies think you only turned up to cum and go. "
Usually the "single" married/taken guys trick for a quickie on his way from A to B. |
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"Agree if you cum to quickly by accident stay and chat otherwise it makes the ladies think you only turned up to cum and go.
Usually the "single" married/taken guys trick for a quickie on his way from A to B. "
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"ok so maybe a bit sensitive as a subject but guys youve done the hard bit and got a meet you start playing and then you cum in no time ..you sulk get dressed then run ... as if its almost our fault ?? why not just laugh it off take a break and see if you can go again ? we women do understand and we understand it can happen to anyone .. so guys next time you cum too quick think before you run its part of life have a natter and a laugh and see what happens rather than run out embarrassed leaving us thinking its our fault ..
They are on the clock to get home before wife gets back though
Surely you don't mean the "single" guys?"
I seem to manage ok and I'm actually single. Don't get why guys would run surely you can do other things and go again! |
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"ok so maybe a bit sensitive as a subject but guys youve done the hard bit and got a meet you start playing and then you cum in no time ..you sulk get dressed then run ... as if its almost our fault ?? why not just laugh it off take a break and see if you can go again ? we women do understand and we understand it can happen to anyone .. so guys next time you cum too quick think before you run its part of life have a natter and a laugh and see what happens rather than run out embarrassed leaving us thinking its our fault ..
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You have fingers and a young just stay men and enjoy. |
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Speaking from experience I have cum within 5 min of sex with some one and that's only because I was so turned on with her I could not stop but I have never done a runner or even thought about it.
I had 5 min then made her happy to
What us men need to realise is women want good sex and ve satisfied not some one who comes in fucks and leave |
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No need to get embarrassed, it does happen occasionally. Just carry on with my tongue and fingers until I have reloaded.
It’s all about quality time with each other not a race to the finish.
Wouldn’t dream of running out. |
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"ok so maybe a bit sensitive as a subject but guys youve done the hard bit and got a meet you start playing and then you cum in no time ..you sulk get dressed then run ... as if its almost our fault ?? why not just laugh it off take a break and see if you can go again ? we women do understand and we understand it can happen to anyone .. so guys next time you cum too quick think before you run its part of life have a natter and a laugh and see what happens rather than run out embarrassed leaving us thinking its our fault ..
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Isn't that Panda sex eats shoots and leaves
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By *oxy j OP Woman
over a year ago
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its way more common than guys think ..guys its not just you it happens to anyone and proof on this post most women dont really care they just want to continue having fun with your penis or not ..i like to think i can help get a guy hard again but if not then im jumping on his face and getting him to use his fingers and i like to think i can still please him more too ..
guys saying it normally happens when your with a stunner ?? well surely they are all stunners ? or are you implying you'll fuck anything ?? surely men have standards too surely men would not go with someone they dont fancy ??
guys when you meet a woman its not all about you pleasing the woman we want to please back too ...i love knowing im pleasing a guy thats a massive part of it for me
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The speed isn't really an issue. It only becomes an issue when at that point everything stops and the woman is literally left hanging.
I've had that happen before. First time I forgave. Put it down to nerves /excitement and went back for a second go.
When it happened again, I gave it up. |
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"The speed isn't really an issue. It only becomes an issue when at that point everything stops and the woman is literally left hanging.
I've had that happen before. First time I forgave. Put it down to nerves /excitement and went back for a second go.
When it happened again, I gave it up. "
Yes |
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By *uvery30Woman
over a year ago
Gloucestershire |
"Had this once and he made me feel so crap.
We went out social drink then back to his. Started the fun few pics he got over exited by them then fucked and in 2mins he cum. I went to Bathroom came back thinking ok refresh ect. He was then was like o my friend called his coming to get me in 5mins so you need to kinda go now. So i just left. He wanted another meet but just blocked and didn't both again.
similar..
at a guys, 13 mins from doorbell to him cumming and falling asleep n leaving
horrid feeling like crap
E x
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Really is why do they do it. Put me off wanting to meet for a good while |
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By *oxy j OP Woman
over a year ago
taunton somerset |
i do think there are guys on here who are not completely honest who suffer with premature ejaculation who know they suffer ie all the time but fail to pass that info on ..to them its getting a shag and not caring how the woman feels ..that is wrong guys should be honest rather than lie |
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"Had this once and he made me feel so crap.
We went out social drink then back to his. Started the fun few pics he got over exited by them then fucked and in 2mins he cum. I went to Bathroom came back thinking ok refresh ect. He was then was like o my friend called his coming to get me in 5mins so you need to kinda go now. So i just left. He wanted another meet but just blocked and didn't both again.
similar..
at a guys, 13 mins from doorbell to him cumming and falling asleep n leaving
horrid feeling like crap
E x
Really is why do they do it. Put me off wanting to meet for a good while "
exactly the same feeling, he got a great blow job and that was it nothing for moi |
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"its way more common than guys think ..guys its not just you it happens to anyone and proof on this post most women dont really care they just want to continue having fun with your penis or not ..i like to think i can help get a guy hard again but if not then im jumping on his face and getting him to use his fingers and i like to think i can still please him more too ..
guys saying it normally happens when your with a stunner ?? well surely they are all stunners ? or are you implying you'll fuck anything ?? surely men have standards too surely men would not go with someone they dont fancy ??
guys when you meet a woman its not all about you pleasing the woman we want to please back too ...i love knowing im pleasing a guy thats a massive part of it for me
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THANK YOU. This warms the cockles of my heart on a cold evening! Nothing hotter than getting in bed with a woman who straight up wants to make me as a man feel good just as much as she is open to being pleasured by the man too. Takes a lot of pressure off both parties.  |
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"Had this once and he made me feel so crap.
We went out social drink then back to his. Started the fun few pics he got over exited by them then fucked and in 2mins he cum. I went to Bathroom came back thinking ok refresh ect. He was then was like o my friend called his coming to get me in 5mins so you need to kinda go now. So i just left. He wanted another meet but just blocked and didn't both again.
similar..
at a guys, 13 mins from doorbell to him cumming and falling asleep n leaving
horrid feeling like crap
E x
Really is why do they do it. Put me off wanting to meet for a good while
exactly the same feeling, he got a great blow job and that was it nothing for moi "
Agreed to meet a guy some time back, initially in our cars so no commitment to anything.
Drove the 30 miles or so, got in his car and we chatted. Put my hand on his knee and moved up his leg (had his trousers on), could see his hard cock and as my hand brushed it he cum buckets, he was soaked through.
Offered his apologies and said it had been a while. Got out his car into mine and went home. |
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Had that problem for about 3months with a ex, made me gain control over it and I did, horrid feeling for guy and I assume the girl too....but do something about it, my main fear is stage fright on a meet, kind of happened couple of years ago on my first single profile, that was worse still, luckily not first round, but again did something about it. |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
This happens to me a lot these days; I don't run though, just carry on with foreplay until I'm ready to go again which, normally, isn't that long.
I've also ways to last longer plus, I tend to play more in the MFM and more-some scenarios as this gives me time to "reload" and the woman is still being pleasured by the other guy(s). |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
"i do think there are guys on here who are not completely honest who suffer with premature ejaculation who know they suffer ie all the time but fail to pass that info on ..to them its getting a shag and not caring how the woman feels ..that is wrong guys should be honest rather than lie "
I'm up front about my "shortcomings " before a meet; I don't want to disappoint plus it's equally important to me that they are understanding. |
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"Had that problem for about 3months with a ex, made me gain control over it and I did, horrid feeling for guy and I assume the girl too....but do something about it, my main fear is stage fright on a meet, kind of happened couple of years ago on my first single profile, that was worse still, luckily not first round, but again did something about it."
May I ask, what did you do about it?
I suffer from this, as by the time I get to a meet I’ve been on the site perving for so long I’m ready to burst! I know the signs and will say to a partner not to touch me. I honestly get the most pleasure from any interactions from pleasuring others. I can recover quickly and go again though, and if a lady indulges in certain things with me when I’ve cum, she can drive me crazy and im rampant for more |
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"ok so maybe a bit sensitive as a subject but guys youve done the hard bit and got a meet you start playing and then you cum in no time ..you sulk get dressed then run ... as if its almost our fault ?? why not just laugh it off take a break and see if you can go again ? we women do understand and we understand it can happen to anyone .. so guys next time you cum too quick think before you run its part of life have a natter and a laugh and see what happens rather than run out embarrassed leaving us thinking its our fault ..
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The perfect fab encounter for me zip down to zip up and he's away in 5 minutes, well done sir. |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
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"ok so maybe a bit sensitive as a subject but guys youve done the hard bit and got a meet you start playing and then you cum in no time ..you sulk get dressed then run ... as if its almost our fault ?? why not just laugh it off take a break and see if you can go again ? we women do understand and we understand it can happen to anyone .. so guys next time you cum too quick think before you run its part of life have a natter and a laugh and see what happens rather than run out embarrassed leaving us thinking its our fault ..
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I can only speak for myself but I woukd not leave if I came to quick. I would definitely stay and play, I have fingers and a tongue.
I can ome too qui k if it was a while since I had sex or I was really turned on by someone.
It happens and as far as I am concerned has no reflection on myself or who I am with. I will simply laugh say that was quick and give me a minute to get ready to go again.
Interesting that the older I get the other way round is more often likely and then I worry about causing discomfort to us both |
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"ok so maybe a bit sensitive as a subject but guys youve done the hard bit and got a meet you start playing and then you cum in no time ..you sulk get dressed then run ... as if its almost our fault ?? why not just laugh it off take a break and see if you can go again ? we women do understand and we understand it can happen to anyone .. so guys next time you cum too quick think before you run its part of life have a natter and a laugh and see what happens rather than run out embarrassed leaving us thinking its our fault ..
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It's not on, usually I would go for 30 to 45 mins cum then start again, I'm a bit greedy lol |
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"ok so maybe a bit sensitive as a subject but guys youve done the hard bit and got a meet you start playing and then you cum in no time ..you sulk get dressed then run ... as if its almost our fault ?? why not just laugh it off take a break and see if you can go again ? we women do understand and we understand it can happen to anyone .. so guys next time you cum too quick think before you run its part of life have a natter and a laugh and see what happens rather than run out embarrassed leaving us thinking its our fault ..
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Sensitive subject. I see what you did there.
Surely coming quick, coming slow, whenever you come... (Unless its a spunk and run) it's all just one part of the fun and not the end of it.? |
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"i do think there are guys on here who are not completely honest who suffer with premature ejaculation who know they suffer ie all the time but fail to pass that info on ..to them its getting a shag and not caring how the woman feels ..that is wrong guys should be honest rather than lie "
Ejaculating quickly isn't actually a bad thing. In our primal days, that was a good trait to have, due to being vulnerable whilst having sex and potentially getting mawled by some other creature in the process. But of course in this day and age, things are completely different, and so I get where you're coming from in the context of pleasure and not procreation. And yes, the male should always communicate with the female and vice versa. |
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It all depends on the type of meet
Some have a lot of excitement, sometimes the female or couple would like the male to cum at the start but then run lol
I am glad to say that i have always had a few rounds in me along with stamina 2+ hr meets here |
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By *PanBBCouple
over a year ago
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Mrs said I'm a breath of fresh air because I go down on her after I cum and make sure she's satisfied. She says her experience is as per the topic. Mrs rarely cums through PIV anyway and enjoys having oral performed on her more to climax. So, our sessions normally follow oral, sex where I cum then more oral. Everyone is happy at the end ?? |
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any man who cums prematurely then runs away is a pussy lmao.
it happens to us all, the first nut is always the quickest one.
its the 2nd,3rd,4th,5th,6th,7th, 8th etc where we have staying power/stamina.
who meets up just to nut once anyway? |
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"any man who cums prematurely then runs away is a pussy lmao.
it happens to us all, the first nut is always the quickest one.
its the 2nd,3rd,4th,5th,6th,7th, 8th etc where we have staying power/stamina.
who meets up just to nut once anyway? "
Exactly! Unless they have erection problems then they should consult their doctor or take viagra to avoid disappointing others |
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Quite astounded at some of the experiences people have described. Cannot understand why people think it’s acceptable to trust others so badly!! Surely the whole point of a naughty meet is for all parties to enjoy it and feel satisfied....... |
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"Quite astounded at some of the experiences people have described. Cannot understand why people think it’s acceptable to trust others so badly!! Surely the whole point of a naughty meet is for all parties to enjoy it and feel satisfied....... "
you'd think that wouldn't you? sadly, after reading some of the comments here, i'm quite shocked it's common.
i couldnt meet up with someone and disappoint them, might as well stay home and have a wank.
I dont understand how there's men out there who do this, i couldnt get off if she aint getting off either, otherwise its pointless.
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"Quite astounded at some of the experiences people have described. Cannot understand why people think it’s acceptable to trust others so badly!! Surely the whole point of a naughty meet is for all parties to enjoy it and feel satisfied.......
you'd think that wouldn't you? sadly, after reading some of the comments here, i'm quite shocked it's common.
i couldnt meet up with someone and disappoint them, might as well stay home and have a wank.
I dont understand how there's men out there who do this, i couldnt get off if she aint getting off either, otherwise its pointless.
it takes two to tango "
It could boil down to total selfishness. The male gets laid. Shoots his load. Job done. Why bother about the female and how she feels. I've experienced this a few times and it's not the nicest thing. Especially after they've promised this and that.
You do feel there's a reason for their haste. 9 times out of 10 it'll be that they have to get back to their wife/girlfriend/partner.
To be brutally honest, it should be their wives/girlfriend's/partners who are on here looking for a decent shag if that's all they're getting at home.
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"Quite astounded at some of the experiences people have described. Cannot understand why people think it’s acceptable to trust others so badly!! Surely the whole point of a naughty meet is for all parties to enjoy it and feel satisfied.......
you'd think that wouldn't you? sadly, after reading some of the comments here, i'm quite shocked it's common.
i couldnt meet up with someone and disappoint them, might as well stay home and have a wank.
I dont understand how there's men out there who do this, i couldnt get off if she aint getting off either, otherwise its pointless.
it takes two to tango
It could boil down to total selfishness. The male gets laid. Shoots his load. Job done. Why bother about the female and how she feels. I've experienced this a few times and it's not the nicest thing. Especially after they've promised this and that.
You do feel there's a reason for their haste. 9 times out of 10 it'll be that they have to get back to their wife/girlfriend/partner.
To be brutally honest, it should be their wives/girlfriend's/partners who are on here looking for a decent shag if that's all they're getting at home.
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certainly the selfish part in my experience E x |
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By *igpacketMan
over a year ago
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Never understand that! Round 2 is always more fun. Always amazes me how many women cum once and are done. Sex to me is multiple orgasms for both parties, lots of foreplay and after play as well as teasing and fun during sex. Pumpnand run is never fun even for a quicky. |
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Any one remember Cynthia Payne the Luncheon Voucher madame? In her book she reveals that to improve turnover her girls would get the guys to cum as quickly as possible because as soon as they did they would get dressed and go even though they had paid for an hour of the girls time. So cum quick and go isn't a few phenomenon lol.. I did actually meet Madame Cyn who was actually guest speaker at a business conference I attended in the 1980s. She sat next to me at the dinner and was down to earth and funny. |
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