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Do you keep it a secret?
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over a year ago
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Penny told all her friends on a girls night out, the phone doesn't stop the day after we have been out and now they are even asking if we would take them to a club.
Family wise they know we enjoy going to nudist spas and find it quite the giggle. |
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Haha my work mates are like it with me. It ends up been story time for them and it helps through the shift
Don’t know how I’d feel about taking friends though.
Not that it’s a secret but I kinda meant would you be bothered if they knew |
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No this is our life and we dont share it with vanilla friends/family. That said it’s becoming more and more the case that we socialise from friends from the lifestyle so that balance is evolving all the time. |
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"Do you tell your friends and family about your secret life?"
Nah, but I doubt my friends would believe me even if I did tell them! I think most of my friends think I'm boring and vanilla. In fact, one of my male friends, who reckons he's god's gift to women, even said to my missus that he reckoned I was very boring and vanilla in the bedroom, which kinda gave my confidence a bit of a beating at the time, tbf. |
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By *C79Man
over a year ago
Caterham |
I've told 2 people and a handful of others know I'm happy strolling on a naked beach. Ive got the advantage of having been in a toxic relationship so I lost all my friends which means I've got nobody to hide the secret from  |
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I like tge thought that most may have an idea. Some know I'm naughty but they never ask. Would I tell them? No as I like the intrigue a couple of close gf do know and I have introduced them to the lifestyle always a balance in life x |
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"I've told 2 people and a handful of others know I'm happy strolling on a naked beach. Ive got the advantage of having been in a toxic relationship so I lost all my friends which means I've got nobody to hide the secret from "
That's funny,or is it sad? At how toxic people can be? |
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Secret. Its our thing we do together. We have a huge circle of friends, so it's nice to have something to ourselves. Once a month or so we have a naughty weekend away & most of our friends can tell the difference, so there's no way we want to spoil that.  |
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Family no, although Mr’s parents used to be swingers. Friends yes, not all of them, but close ones. Trying to hide it at work is tough as Mr is merchant navy and with 70 crew on ship mostly male, have single guy profiles for general perving and cheating on wives ! So by the time I realised this it was too late to make all pics friends only. Distinctive hand tattoos like mine , coupled with a proximity search showing us within a mile when in an industrial port  , got found out straight away, took 2 days if I remember and the ship knew, no doubt the fleet does now |
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By *C79Man
over a year ago
Caterham |
"That's funny,or is it sad? At how toxic people can be? "
At the time, it was dreadful but like most people, you don't realise it is happening. Now that I am out of that situation, I'm free to choose my lifestyle without needing to keep it a secret unless I want to. You can always make new friends & you never know, they may approve of our little secret  |
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