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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Cumbria

Get some sort of thrill from having a dick pic as their profile picture?

Given that, if these forums are to be believed, having a dick pic as a profile picture means an instant ignore from the vast majority of women, do men get some sort of thrill from showing their cock to the world, despite it lowering the chances of a woman going near it?

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By *c4funMan  over a year ago

nottingham

I’m too shy for that lol

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By *ustus555Couple  over a year ago

close

Really don't think it does. We've never had a problem with it. At the end of the day ppl want to see what's under the wrapping so to speak. Ei to big, to small etc erc

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By *weet and SpiceCouple  over a year ago

Around the Midlands

We have often wondered the same thing OP

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By *heron212Man  over a year ago

London

69 times out of 10, they lack couth.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Cumbria


"Really don't think it does. We've never had a problem with it. At the end of the day ppl want to see what's under the wrapping so to speak. Ei to big, to small etc erc"

I’m not saying whether we think it’s a good or bad thing, just that from reading the forums it’s something that will more often than not get a bad reaction.

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By *ealitybitesMan  over a year ago

Belfast

The only time I've ever had my cock as an avatar pic has been for a forum challenge but I've never had a negative reaction.

As for forum opinion, only a tiny percentage of fabbers use the forums so it's not exactly a great cross section of the site as a whole but for every person put off by cock or gaping fanny pics is another who embraces them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Its hard to get the balance on here, some women like some don't. Do whatever you want, what's the worst that can happen.

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By *ttentiveRabbitMan  over a year ago

Lymington

After seeing a vast amount on here that do it.

I think it’s trying to prove its not some blistering corkscrew.

There’s a lot of ugly dicks, so I think there’s a sense of proudness in showing of a decent todger in the hope that it creates a sense of attraction.

I’m bi curious, so happy to play and suck but it depends on the cock.

I don’t care too much about the face as I’m not attracted to men, just interested in playing with a nice cock too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Totally agree.

Don’t take dick pic profiles seriously.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman  over a year ago

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A lot of guys are proud of and love their penis, and I guess they assume fab women will feel the same.

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By *ustus555Couple  over a year ago

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"Really don't think it does. We've never had a problem with it. At the end of the day ppl want to see what's under the wrapping so to speak. Ei to big, to small etc erc

I’m not saying whether we think it’s a good or bad thing, just that from reading the forums it’s something that will more often than not get a bad reaction."

I get what your saying, but if someone had a bad reaction to ours then we probably don't know. Therefore not bothered. At the end of the day it's a case of each to thier own sort of thing. You'll never plz everyone so just do what works best for you really.

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By *hristopherd999Man  over a year ago

Brentwood

Isn't it the same as showing tits or pussy pics?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Some people believe their personal tastes should be considered the correct standard for all others to follow and trying to impose that is common place on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I do get more responses when my cock pic on my profile pic for some reason

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Cumbria


"Isn't it the same as showing tits or pussy pics?"

I’m not sure it is, according to studies men are more sexually aroused by visual stimuli than women, and I certainly don’t think breasts are the same as a cock!

The point I’m making is that if we go by what the forums say then women seem to think that a dick pic as profile pic is a turn off, regardless of what other pics are contained within the profile.

It’s not scientific proof or anything, I’m just thinking out loud and wondering why men would choose a picture that lowers their chances of getting laid.

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By *eregrinosCouple  over a year ago

chorley

We tend to ignore cock pic profiles... We'd be far more interested in someone who knew how to tease with a photo... There are one or two... But we remember the days when porn movie started with everyone dressed

God we're getting old..

Too old for most couples on here

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By *lice AgainTV/TS  over a year ago

Bristol

I'm not technically a man.

I prefer showing off other assets on my profile photo.

But... I do have dick pics!

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By *hristopherd999Man  over a year ago

Brentwood


"Isn't it the same as showing tits or pussy pics?

I’m not sure it is, according to studies men are more sexually aroused by visual stimuli than women, and I certainly don’t think breasts are the same as a cock!

The point I’m making is that if we go by what the forums say then women seem to think that a dick pic as profile pic is a turn off, regardless of what other pics are contained within the profile.

It’s not scientific proof or anything, I’m just thinking out loud and wondering why men would choose a picture that lowers their chances of getting laid.

"

Some women do like them though

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By *corpio_juice420Man  over a year ago

Birmingham


"Get some sort of thrill from having a dick pic as their profile picture?

Given that, if these forums are to be believed, having a dick pic as a profile picture means an instant ignore from the vast majority of women, do men get some sort of thrill from showing their cock to the world, despite it lowering the chances of a woman going near it?"

Yes I actually do get a thrill from sending pics of my dick to multiple different women, on different platforms of social media. In my defense tho, these are women that are acceptable to a pic of my willy not just any old Toni,Diane or Harriet

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By *ustus555Couple  over a year ago

close


"We tend to ignore cock pic profiles... We'd be far more interested in someone who knew how to tease with a photo... There are one or two... But we remember the days when porn movie started with everyone dressed

God we're getting old..

Too old for most couples on here

"

Age is just a number.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Cumbria


"Isn't it the same as showing tits or pussy pics?

I’m not sure it is, according to studies men are more sexually aroused by visual stimuli than women, and I certainly don’t think breasts are the same as a cock!

The point I’m making is that if we go by what the forums say then women seem to think that a dick pic as profile pic is a turn off, regardless of what other pics are contained within the profile.

It’s not scientific proof or anything, I’m just thinking out loud and wondering why men would choose a picture that lowers their chances of getting laid.

Some women do like them though"

I’m sure some do, I’m only going on what is said oh these fora. If the point is getting paid, and the majority of women (on these fora) don’t like to see a dick as a profile pic (as opposed to in the gallery) then why do something that lessens the chances of getting laid?. Unless of course there’s another reason for doing it?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Get some sort of thrill from having a dick pic as their profile picture?

Given that, if these forums are to be believed, having a dick pic as a profile picture means an instant ignore from the vast majority of women, do men get some sort of thrill from showing their cock to the world, despite it lowering the chances of a woman going near it?"

Sadly, the answer is 'yes'!

I do get a sexual kick from showing off. On here and in real life sex.

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By *hristopherd999Man  over a year ago

Brentwood


"Isn't it the same as showing tits or pussy pics?

I’m not sure it is, according to studies men are more sexually aroused by visual stimuli than women, and I certainly don’t think breasts are the same as a cock!

The point I’m making is that if we go by what the forums say then women seem to think that a dick pic as profile pic is a turn off, regardless of what other pics are contained within the profile.

It’s not scientific proof or anything, I’m just thinking out loud and wondering why men would choose a picture that lowers their chances of getting laid.

Some women do like them though

I’m sure some do, I’m only going on what is said oh these fora. If the point is getting paid, and the majority of women (on these fora) don’t like to see a dick as a profile pic (as opposed to in the gallery) then why do something that lessens the chances of getting laid?. Unless of course there’s another reason for doing it?"

I guess it's a matter of taste, some women put open pussy pics up which I find off putting

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Get some sort of thrill from having a dick pic as their profile picture?

Given that, if these forums are to be believed, having a dick pic as a profile picture means an instant ignore from the vast majority of women, do men get some sort of thrill from showing their cock to the world, despite it lowering the chances of a woman going near it?

Sadly, the answer is 'yes'!

I do get a sexual kick from showing off. On here and in real life sex. "

(Not that I'm a flasher - I mean in appropriate circumstances - like a swingers site!)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'd much prefer a cock pic to a silhouette picture.

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By *heonixrising500Man  over a year ago

Barnsley

I put mine on due to people asking me to

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Cumbria


"I guess it's a matter of taste, some women put open pussy pics up which I find off putting"

In the context of this thread it’s not a matter of taste though, I find open pussy pics off putting too, this is about why men would deliberately lower their chances to f having meaningful interaction with women.

I just find it interesting.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Cumbria

To be clear, when I say profile pic, I don’t mean any pic on your profile I mean the one you choose to show as your main picture.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We tend to ignore cock pic profiles... We'd be far more interested in someone who knew how to tease with a photo... There are one or two... But we remember the days when porn movie started with everyone dressed

God we're getting old..

Too old for most couples on here

"

Long beautiful legs never gets old

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"To be clear, when I say profile pic, I don’t mean any pic on your profile I mean the one you choose to show as your main picture."

So ... you would like to see the hardware on display in the gallery? So you can make an informed choice?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I changed my dp because of this thread haha. It was me wearing my cock pump. But decided to go for a full body pic.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Cumbria


"To be clear, when I say profile pic, I don’t mean any pic on your profile I mean the one you choose to show as your main picture.

So ... you would like to see the hardware on display in the gallery? So you can make an informed choice? "

No, this isn’t really about our personal preference (although choosing to see the goods rather than having them unavoidably on display would be ours) it’s about why, despite the prevailing opinion of women and couples on the fora, some men display behaviour that makes it less likely that they get laid!

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan  over a year ago

Coventry


"Get some sort of thrill from having a dick pic as their profile picture?

Given that, if these forums are to be believed, having a dick pic as a profile picture means an instant ignore from the vast majority of women, do men get some sort of thrill from showing their cock to the world, despite it lowering the chances of a woman going near it?"

Not particularly. However I do have a penis and sometimes it's in my pictures. Mainly because (like every one else) people put pictures on their proud to show, be it containing a vagina, breasts, a penis etc. Lots of people do it on here as a single or couples and of any gender or physiology. That doesn't necessarily mean they get a kick out of it, just putting pictures they think put them in a good light in terms of their sales pitch. Obviously this is subjective. At the end of the day most people dont want to play blind date. Secondly I am a naturist that although is not linked to my presence in the lifestyle means the naked is a normalised state in my normal life so naturally nudity will be normal for me in any space where it is applicable.

I also agree that the nature and volume of some of the dick pics on here maybe counter productive. Although I think the wider context of the photo (or not) and the way the photo is taken has some effect on how well or not a photo containing a dick is received. I think the same is true in my opinion of some vagina pictures. Im guessing the nature of this being aimed at guys is an acceptance that market forces makes Fab a far more forgiving place for females and thus has little impact when roles reversed? But that's the individuals choice and not for me to judge, smirk at or belittle in a subtle passive aggressive manner.

Just out of intresr is originator of this post the male or female of the couple?

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Cumbria


"Get some sort of thrill from having a dick pic as their profile picture?

Given that, if these forums are to be believed, having a dick pic as a profile picture means an instant ignore from the vast majority of women, do men get some sort of thrill from showing their cock to the world, despite it lowering the chances of a woman going near it?

Not particularly. However I do have a penis and sometimes it's in my pictures. Mainly because (like every one else) people put pictures on their proud to show, be it containing a vagina, breasts, a penis etc. Lots of people do it on here as a single or couples and of any gender or physiology. That doesn't necessarily mean they get a kick out of it, just putting pictures they think put them in a good light in terms of their sales pitch. Obviously this is subjective. At the end of the day most people dont want to play blind date. Secondly I am a naturist that although is not linked to my presence in the lifestyle means the naked is a normalised state in my normal life so naturally nudity will be normal for me in any space where it is applicable.

I also agree that the nature and volume of some of the dick pics on here maybe counter productive. Although I think the wider context of the photo (or not) and the way the photo is taken has some effect on how well or not a photo containing a dick is received. I think the same is true in my opinion of some vagina pictures. Im guessing the nature of this being aimed at guys is an acceptance that market forces makes Fab a far more forgiving place for females and thus has little impact when roles reversed? But that's the individuals choice and not for me to judge, smirk at or belittle in a subtle passive aggressive manner.

Just out of intresr is originator of this post the male or female of the couple?

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You do acknowledge that there is a difference between a dick pic as profile pic is different to a dick pic in the gallery though?

The market forces absolutely make a difference, which makes it even more mystifying as to why a man would engage in behaviour that makes them even less likely than they previously were to get a meet.

Out of interest, which of the couple do you think is the originator?

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By *razytimesinloveCouple  over a year ago

SW Scotland


"Get some sort of thrill from having a dick pic as their profile picture?

Given that, if these forums are to be believed, having a dick pic as a profile picture means an instant ignore from the vast majority of women, do men get some sort of thrill from showing their cock to the world, despite it lowering the chances of a woman going near it?"

Only times it’s the profile pic is if it’s a forum challenge/theme

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Closet flashers or aggressive marketing..

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan  over a year ago

Coventry


"Get some sort of thrill from having a dick pic as their profile picture?

Given that, if these forums are to be believed, having a dick pic as a profile picture means an instant ignore from the vast majority of women, do men get some sort of thrill from showing their cock to the world, despite it lowering the chances of a woman going near it?

Not particularly. However I do have a penis and sometimes it's in my pictures. Mainly because (like every one else) people put pictures on their proud to show, be it containing a vagina, breasts, a penis etc. Lots of people do it on here as a single or couples and of any gender or physiology. That doesn't necessarily mean they get a kick out of it, just putting pictures they think put them in a good light in terms of their sales pitch. Obviously this is subjective. At the end of the day most people dont want to play blind date. Secondly I am a naturist that although is not linked to my presence in the lifestyle means the naked is a normalised state in my normal life so naturally nudity will be normal for me in any space where it is applicable.

I also agree that the nature and volume of some of the dick pics on here maybe counter productive. Although I think the wider context of the photo (or not) and the way the photo is taken has some effect on how well or not a photo containing a dick is received. I think the same is true in my opinion of some vagina pictures. Im guessing the nature of this being aimed at guys is an acceptance that market forces makes Fab a far more forgiving place for females and thus has little impact when roles reversed? But that's the individuals choice and not for me to judge, smirk at or belittle in a subtle passive aggressive manner.

Just out of intresr is originator of this post the male or female of the couple?

You do acknowledge that there is a difference between a dick pic as profile pic is different to a dick pic in the gallery though?

The market forces absolutely make a difference, which makes it even more mystifying as to why a man would engage in behaviour that makes them even less likely than they previously were to get a meet.

Out of interest, which of the couple do you think is the originator?"

Yes I (as per what is said above) think for many there is a difference in the way a penis is presented in a photo for many. Not exactly a defacto no for many on the presence of any penis. At the extreme end of the scale you have a picture of just a penis as the profile picture. I think we agree that the evidence in general shows that is not generally productive.

I think it's kind of universally accepted about market forces and its far less forgiving for men.

To be fair I did ask first and although I'm not entitled to an answer (obviously) I find it surprising to reply with a counter question rather than just an answer or a refusal to answer. But I would if I'm a guessing man guess this is the male half?

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By *orestguy28Man  over a year ago

Glos

I w never done it except for a forum challenge because it’s not that big. That said it’s clean and well kept so proof of life is there if requested.

I can see how frustrating it must be for couples and single ladies if the first contact contains a dick pick unless requested. Funny how some people get massively offended by it though when it’s shown as an avatar. I’ve seen plenty of chainsaw wounds on here as avatars

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