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Why is it so hard to get a meet
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey all,
Hope all is good with everyone. Just wanted to ask for a few tips on how to approach people, finding it hard to get my fab life onto a kick start. Would appreciate a few pointers thanks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try sending dic pics telling them how you fancy smashing their back doors in while hanging out the boot of your Ford Sierra
If no reply within 30 seconds send a abusive message telling them what they are missing out on
Before you know it you will be mass deleting messages
I am glad I could help |
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How do you approach women outside of fab? It's not an awful lot different. Send a message introducing yourself, possibly mention something about their profile you liked.
Do you approach women in bars with your cock out? Have a think about how that might come across |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you approach women outside of fab? It's not an awful lot different. Send a message introducing yourself, possibly mention something about their profile you liked.
Do you approach women in bars with your cock out? Have a think about how that might come across "
This made me giggle! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go to the nearest cash point withdraw 80 quid, head to the nearest club as advised, be mindful its no different from this site other than the membership is a tad more than here but 80 quid should cover it.
If the club is not to your liking, go back to the cash point withdraw 80 quid .................. |
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If I got a message from you, ignoring factors like distance, the profile pic would make it an instant no thanks from me. The Sydney University nonsense on the profile would also be an instant no from me.
But everyone is different.
Clubs are by far the best way to get into swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you approach women outside of fab? It's not an awful lot different. Send a message introducing yourself, possibly mention something about their profile you liked.
Do you approach women in bars with your cock out? Have a think about how that might come across "
To be fair I have just done a search of single ladies in my locale and over half have their breasts on show? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you approach women outside of fab? It's not an awful lot different. Send a message introducing yourself, possibly mention something about their profile you liked.
Do you approach women in bars with your cock out? Have a think about how that might come across "
. You truly are a nice couple  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I got a message from you, ignoring factors like distance, the profile pic would make it an instant no thanks from me. The Sydney University nonsense on the profile would also be an instant no from me.
But everyone is different.
Clubs are by far the best way to get into swinging."
Just as an aside all legal disclaimers I have read on this site are total nonsense. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Compare your profile to the profiles of some more successful men on here.
How much more attention should you then expect?
Define successful?"
Men that have lots of verifications are orwsumably getting lots of meets and so that could be used as a definition of successful on Fab? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey all,
Hope all is good with everyone. Just wanted to ask for a few tips on how to approach people, finding it hard to get my fab life onto a kick start. Would appreciate a few pointers thanks "
As a single guy you could have the best profile and the best message and still not get anywhere cos of the sheer amount of single men on here wanting it. It’s just a numbers game. Just send a respectful message and have a profile pic that isnt a dick pic |
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Well you do have one verification, so have made a start.
Avoid approaching people like the d*unk arsehole found in every pub.
Be respectful, don't assume, and if the messages don't click, wish them well on their search.
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"Hey all,
Hope all is good with everyone. Just wanted to ask for a few tips on how to approach people, finding it hard to get my fab life onto a kick start. Would appreciate a few pointers thanks "
your profile is all about sex approach it differently you may get a meet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seeing as there is a forum for the solitary topic of Covid it would be a good idea for Fab to introduce a “Woe is me” forum for all the blokes who post “woe is me” threads.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey all,
Hope all is good with everyone. Just wanted to ask for a few tips on how to approach people, finding it hard to get my fab life onto a kick start. Would appreciate a few pointers thanks "
If you're honest on your profile, genuinley single, can do planned or last minute meets, can travel or accom in your own smart clean home and send face pics, it's not difficult if you have some banter. Another tip if you can do all of the above, if you can travel or accom after last orders, you'll get plenty of offers on a fri and sat night. Attach your mobile number to message to, gives coulples and fems more confidence that you are all of the above |
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"Hey all,
Hope all is good with everyone. Just wanted to ask for a few tips on how to approach people, finding it hard to get my fab life onto a kick start. Would appreciate a few pointers thanks
If you're honest on your profile, genuinley single, can do planned or last minute meets, can travel or accom in your own smart clean home and send face pics, it's not difficult if you have some banter. Another tip if you can do all of the above, if you can travel or accom after last orders, you'll get plenty of offers on a fri and sat night. Attach your mobile number to message to, gives coulples and fems more confidence that you are all of the above"
For us, attaching a phone number straight out is more of a red flag. Not saying it is definitively a red flag for all - but may be err on the side of caution before doing this. It doesn't instill more confidence than an actual attentive conversation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey all,
Hope all is good with everyone. Just wanted to ask for a few tips on how to approach people, finding it hard to get my fab life onto a kick start. Would appreciate a few pointers thanks "
Perhaps go out to pubs and or clubs and chat up ladies who you fancy? |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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it wont matter what advice people give you it will still be very very hard the problem is your one of many looking for one of the very few ...
100/200/or more men per one woman / couple thats just the numbers side of things take into account that alot of women and couples accounts are fake ie single men too the it gets even harder then take into account the other person/persons have to like whom they see and what that person is about..
also bare in mind your asking for advice from the forums and that a tiny tiny tiny part of fab most who use fab to play never go to the forums..
all you can do is be you but dont be under any illusion that its not going to be very hard for you ..
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