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I’ve been on here for 8 months now and haven’t had a meet on here for around 4 months… my longest period without a meet
Is it the time of year? Or am I just not that interesting for people to meet?
What’s everyone else’s dry spell? |
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"I’ve been on here for 8 months now and haven’t had a meet on here for around 4 months… my longest period without a meet
Is it the time of year? Or am I just not that interesting for people to meet?
What’s everyone else’s dry spell? "
No it’s because your a man with an uninspiring profile. So what if your an ex prison officer what does that matter on here? |
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By *eliusMan
over a year ago
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"I’ve been on here for 8 months now and haven’t had a meet on here for around 4 months… my longest period without a meet
Is it the time of year? Or am I just not that interesting for people to meet?
What’s everyone else’s dry spell?
No it’s because your a man with an uninspiring profile. So what if your an ex prison officer what does that matter on here? "
Handcuffs - lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's even a year since we met with another couple, and it's been 5 months since I met as a hotwife.
These are our longest periods without meets, our life has just been so busy that we haven't had time to focus on meets.
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"I’ve been on here for 8 months now and haven’t had a meet on here for around 4 months… my longest period without a meet
Is it the time of year? Or am I just not that interesting for people to meet?
What’s everyone else’s dry spell?
No it’s because your a man with an uninspiring profile. So what if your an ex prison officer what does that matter on here? "
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"I’ve been on here for 8 months now and haven’t had a meet on here for around 4 months… my longest period without a meet
Is it the time of year? Or am I just not that interesting for people to meet?
What’s everyone else’s dry spell?
No it’s because your a man with an uninspiring profile. So what if your an ex prison officer what does that matter on here? "
Jesus!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve been on here for 8 months now and haven’t had a meet on here for around 4 months… my longest period without a meet
Is it the time of year? Or am I just not that interesting for people to meet?
What’s everyone else’s dry spell?
No it’s because your a man with an uninspiring profile. So what if your an ex prison officer what does that matter on here? "
Savage!!  |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
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"I’ve been on here for 8 months now and haven’t had a meet on here for around 4 months… my longest period without a meet
Is it the time of year? Or am I just not that interesting for people to meet?
What’s everyone else’s dry spell?
No it’s because your a man with an uninspiring profile. So what if your an ex prison officer what does that matter on here?
Handcuffs - lol"
Lol wouldn’t impress me sorry |
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"I’ve been on here for 8 months now and haven’t had a meet on here for around 4 months… my longest period without a meet
Is it the time of year? Or am I just not that interesting for people to meet?
What’s everyone else’s dry spell?
No it’s because your a man with an uninspiring profile. So what if your an ex prison officer what does that matter on here?
Handcuffs - lol"
Bless your heart! 
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"I’ve been on here for 8 months now and haven’t had a meet on here for around 4 months… my longest period without a meet
Is it the time of year? Or am I just not that interesting for people to meet?
What’s everyone else’s dry spell? "
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"I’ve been on here for 8 months now and haven’t had a meet on here for around 4 months… my longest period without a meet
Is it the time of year? Or am I just not that interesting for people to meet?
What’s everyone else’s dry spell?
A day"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just before covid struck and we've both lost our swing mojos, we just can't get any enthusiasm for others at the moment, maybe one day they will return. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really can't understand why folks say they can't get meets off here 
I'm not particularly good looking I'm tall geeky looking and I'm thinning on top yet I have no issue getting what I want.
Maybe it's because I go to socials,clubs,and any other gathering that brings us crazy kids together.
For the love of god if you want a "meet" get out there and meet people in the real world
Use fab to initiate it but you need to go to all of the above  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve been on here for 8 months now and haven’t had a meet on here for around 4 months… my longest period without a meet
Is it the time of year? Or am I just not that interesting for people to meet?
What’s everyone else’s dry spell?
No it’s because your a man with an uninspiring profile. So what if your an ex prison officer what does that matter on here? "
Oh jeez alright. |
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"I’ve been on here for 8 months now and haven’t had a meet on here for around 4 months… my longest period without a meet
Is it the time of year? Or am I just not that interesting for people to meet?
What’s everyone else’s dry spell?
No it’s because your a man with an uninspiring profile. So what if your an ex prison officer what does that matter on here? "
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Is it just me who finds this remark utterly contemptible?
The OP didn't ask for profile advice or a critique.
Had it been a woman asking the same question I'm sure the thread would be prone to obsequiousness.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really can't understand why folks say they can't get meets off here
I'm not particularly good looking I'm tall geeky looking and I'm thinning on top yet I have no issue getting what I want.
Maybe it's because I go to socials,clubs,and any other gathering that brings us crazy kids together.
For the love of god if you want a "meet" get out there and meet people in the real world
Use fab to initiate it but you need to go to all of the above "
I do go to clubs and social events. That still doesn't guarantee sex. |
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"Just before covid struck and we've both lost our swing mojos, we just can't get any enthusiasm for others at the moment, maybe one day they will return. "
Same here
Just can’t be arsed with the emotional roll coaster
Check our messages once a week hoping for the Bazinga message but alas no
Xstasia is pretty close but we like VA - again lacking motivation
Guess our swinging days are over , thanks Covid  |
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"I’ve been on here for 8 months now and haven’t had a meet on here for around 4 months… my longest period without a meet
Is it the time of year? Or am I just not that interesting for people to meet?
What’s everyone else’s dry spell?
No it’s because your a man with an uninspiring profile. So what if your an ex prison officer what does that matter on here?
Oh jeez alright."
I thought that was a bit full on too |
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"I’ve been on here for 8 months now and haven’t had a meet on here for around 4 months… my longest period without a meet
Is it the time of year? Or am I just not that interesting for people to meet?
What’s everyone else’s dry spell?
No it’s because your a man with an uninspiring profile. So what if your an ex prison officer what does that matter on here?
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Is it just me who finds this remark utterly contemptible?
The OP didn't ask for profile advice or a critique.
Had it been a woman asking the same question I'm sure the thread would be prone to obsequiousness.
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My man! My thoughts exactly but unfortunately on fab you get these kind of people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really can't understand why folks say they can't get meets off here
I'm not particularly good looking I'm tall geeky looking and I'm thinning on top yet I have no issue getting what I want.
Maybe it's because I go to socials,clubs,and any other gathering that brings us crazy kids together.
For the love of god if you want a "meet" get out there and meet people in the real world
Use fab to initiate it but you need to go to all of the above "
Maybe you are just a god and we should all bow down.
Has it occurred to you that it doesn't work like that for everyone. Some might be different to you?? |
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"I really can't understand why folks say they can't get meets off here
I'm not particularly good looking I'm tall geeky looking and I'm thinning on top yet I have no issue getting what I want.
Maybe it's because I go to socials,clubs,and any other gathering that brings us crazy kids together.
For the love of god if you want a "meet" get out there and meet people in the real world
Use fab to initiate it but you need to go to all of the above "
Maybe, just maybe not all of us are Interested in socials or swingers clubs. Everyone is different. I've read this many times on this forum, about clubs and socials. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh goodness, not sure if this makes me look good or bad by I average 2-3 meets a month. I go to parties and one maybe with one of my regulars "
That's damn good in my book! |
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I've never had a meet through here and long since gave up trying (hence the rather basic profile).I'm not being "woe is me" as I've had plenty of success in clubs and other places and I'm certainly nothing special to look at. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Must be a good six months since my last meet, covid hasn’t put a stop to the regularity of my meets…. Even before the pandemic I would be pressed to get a meeting once every 18 months unless I took myself to a club… and even then there would be no guarantee of success with getting any actual interest from any ladies or couples. |
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"I’ve been on here for 8 months now and haven’t had a meet on here for around 4 months… my longest period without a meet
Is it the time of year? Or am I just not that interesting for people to meet?
What’s everyone else’s dry spell?
No it’s because your a man with an uninspiring profile. So what if your an ex prison officer what does that matter on here? "
He might have kept his handcuffs ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even worse:
My very sexy fwb from the past and I have been back in contact for months but haven’t had sex. At all. He’s suggested it…but I’ve been enjoying our friendship and didn’t want to change it
There’s something wrong with me |
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"Even worse:
My very sexy fwb from the past and I have been back in contact for months but haven’t had sex. At all. He’s suggested it…but I’ve been enjoying our friendship and didn’t want to change it
There’s something wrong with me "
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Swap that delectable Oscar de la Renta for a Cristobal Balenciaga™ couture dress...and you'll both be inseperable like Magdeburg hemispheres. X |
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"I’ve been on here for 8 months now and haven’t had a meet on here for around 4 months… my longest period without a meet
Is it the time of year? Or am I just not that interesting for people to meet?
What’s everyone else’s dry spell?
No it’s because your a man with an uninspiring profile. So what if your an ex prison officer what does that matter on here? "
Plenty of screws on this site...
Least this guy was professional about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you don’t count a couple of parties then 5 months.
It’s been a bit of a different time for us though as recently married so was busy planning that and then wanted a bit of time to ourselves.
Will be back properly in the new year though and for the record … handcuffs are right up my alley! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swap that delectable Oscar de la Renta for a Cristobal Balenciaga™ couture dress...and you'll both be inseperable like Magdeburg hemispheres. X"
I wish!! 
*goes off to Google Balenciaga pieces* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really can't understand why folks say they can't get meets off here
I'm not particularly good looking I'm tall geeky looking and I'm thinning on top yet I have no issue getting what I want.
Maybe it's because I go to socials,clubs,and any other gathering that brings us crazy kids together.
For the love of god if you want a "meet" get out there and meet people in the real world
Use fab to initiate it but you need to go to all of the above "
Agree. Clubs and socials are the way.
We could not be bothered to try and organise meets off fab. Clubs are definitely for us. |
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"Swap that delectable Oscar de la Renta for a Cristobal Balenciaga™ couture dress...and you'll both be inseperable like Magdeburg hemispheres. X
I wish!!
*goes off to Google Balenciaga pieces*"
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Google has its uses but I would suggest sauntering around Sloane Street for a more immersive shopping experience. |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
Plymouth |
"We joined for the first time about 6 months ago - our last meet was nearly 3 months ago "
It's very tricky for everyone on here , couples as well.
Used to have a couples profile and rarely did we a) find a couple that looked nice , b) manage to coordinate a meeting and c) find them engaging enough to want to get naked ...
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
I don’t meet for the sake of it- I need to be fascinated really… so it can be well over a year between meets. And that is ok!
I’ve been pretty lucky in the last few months that I’ve been able to meet fascinating people- both here and overseas. Last meet was a week ago in the USA. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh goodness, not sure if this makes me look good or bad by I average 2-3 meets a month. I go to parties and one maybe with one of my regulars
That's damn good in my book! "
After reading the replies I’m not sure  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh goodness, not sure if this makes me look good or bad by I average 2-3 meets a month. I go to parties and one maybe with one of my regulars
From your pic, I can see why you get so many meets  "
Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve been on here for 8 months now and haven’t had a meet on here for around 4 months… my longest period without a meet
Is it the time of year? Or am I just not that interesting for people to meet?
U attack everyone for their profile espwcial single males yet urs is hiding so hoe cannu judge and pass comment . Plus i havnt seen u give one positive comment to anyone in forums !!!!
What’s everyone else’s dry spell?
No it’s because your a man with an uninspiring profile. So what if your an ex prison officer what does that matter on here? "
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"I’ve been on here for 8 months now and haven’t had a meet on here for around 4 months… my longest period without a meet
Is it the time of year? Or am I just not that interesting for people to meet?
What’s everyone else’s dry spell?
No it’s because your a man with an uninspiring profile. So what if your an ex prison officer what does that matter on here?
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Is it just me who finds this remark utterly contemptible?
The OP didn't ask for profile advice or a critique.
Had it been a woman asking the same question I'm sure the thread would be prone to obsequiousness.
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Just fed up with the wining of single males who don’t make much effort but expect all the rewards. |
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We meet when we can. For us, this time of year is just too busy with friends and family plans to make new connections with anybody.
We have 1 or 2 friends that we get together with. We have long spells of Fab abstinence but still like the social side |
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"I’ve been on here for 8 months now and haven’t had a meet on here for around 4 months… my longest period without a meet
Is it the time of year? Or am I just not that interesting for people to meet?
What’s everyone else’s dry spell?
No it’s because your a man with an uninspiring profile. So what if your an ex prison officer what does that matter on here? "
That was a slammer of a response, you should be locked up for that |
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Arranged a meet just over a year ago for her to meet her fb ,glad we did as last visit to club was quite , no play as people were still cautious , looking for solo play at moment until wife ready to play again |
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Ive had several people contact me saying if you havent had a pysical meet on fab in last 6 months its against what fab is all about so your profile should be automatically deleted I thought that was bit harsh tbh |
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"Ive had several people contact me saying if you havent had a pysical meet on fab in last 6 months its against what fab is all about so your profile should be automatically deleted I thought that was bit harsh tbh "
Very harsh |
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"I’ve been on here for 8 months now and haven’t had a meet on here for around 4 months… my longest period without a meet
Is it the time of year? Or am I just not that interesting for people to meet?
What’s everyone else’s dry spell?
No it’s because your a man with an uninspiring profile. So what if your an ex prison officer what does that matter on here?
Savage!! "
Nothing wrong with that comment
Totally agree who cares what work you did or do do |
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"I’ve been on here for 8 months now and haven’t had a meet on here for around 4 months… my longest period without a meet
Is it the time of year? Or am I just not that interesting for people to meet?
What’s everyone else’s dry spell?
No it’s because your a man with an uninspiring profile. So what if your an ex prison officer what does that matter on here?
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Is it just me who finds this remark utterly contemptible?
The OP didn't ask for profile advice or a critique.
Had it been a woman asking the same question I'm sure the thread would be prone to obsequiousness.
Just fed up with the wining of single males who don’t make much effort but expect all the rewards. "
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How curious! Perhaps your indignation is on par with mine: I received a monosyllabic message from a woman earlier, titled "Hey".
And - get this - her message was "Hey". My boxers are still on; she won't be getting any rewards. |
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