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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i have 3 one ive known for over 25 years another over 10 "
Thank you, someone has just got funny with, he wants to know why I'm still looking if I've already got an FWB  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i have 3 one ive known for over 25 years another over 10
Thank you, someone has just got funny with, he wants to know why I'm still looking if I've already got an FWB "
Because they are a FWB not your boyfriend haha You can have as many or as few as you like! Cheek of it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i have 3 one ive known for over 25 years another over 10
Thank you, someone has just got funny with, he wants to know why I'm still looking if I've already got an FWB
Because they are a FWB not your boyfriend haha You can have as many or as few as you like! Cheek of it. "
Sorry, I just assumed boyfriend! Should have said partner |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i have 3 one ive known for over 25 years another over 10
Thank you, someone has just got funny with, he wants to know why I'm still looking if I've already got an FWB "
Just tell him He's misunderstood the assignment and you're searching for his replacement.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" a question, how many can you have
How many do you want?
I've one lovely one, but I was just asking how many people thought was acceptable  "
For me a FWB is someone I've know for sometime and meet many times  |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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from a womans point of view they are extremely hard to find just finding a regular guy you like is mission almost impossible finding one thats a friend is even harder after all there has to be the sexual attraction for both and then the lines drawn in the sand of whats not on offer so even tho the site is saturated with men its still very very hard ....
those who want to be exclusive dont understand what swinging is (unless you both want exclusive then that of course is right)
good luck and stick to your guns ive had a couple of guys whop i thought oh hell why not come back to bite me on the ass stick to your gut feelings stick to your rules .... and if its any help all 3 of my regular fwb have come from club meets ive never got a guy from any online activity to be regular let alone a fwb ... |
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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago
Where the flamboyance of flamingos live |
"i have 3 one ive known for over 25 years another over 10
Thank you, someone has just got funny with, he wants to know why I'm still looking if I've already got an FWB "
Sounds like possessive behaviour |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i have 3 one ive known for over 25 years another over 10
Thank you, someone has just got funny with, he wants to know why I'm still looking if I've already got an FWB
Sounds like possessive behaviour "
Possibly, but he still wants to meet me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thank you to all that sent a message, maybe I'll get a couple more now lol 
I think you should beautiful. The only limit to FBs is having the time "
You know who one of them is, don't you Sweetie x |
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"Thank you to all that sent a message, maybe I'll get a couple more now lol
I think you should beautiful. The only limit to FBs is having the time
You know who one of them is, don't you Sweetie x "
I sure do |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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"i have 3 one ive known for over 25 years another over 10
Thank you, someone has just got funny with, he wants to know why I'm still looking if I've already got an FWB
Sounds like possessive behaviour
Possibly, but he still wants to meet me "
personally id avoid if hes asking those questions now its a big red flag to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i have 3 one ive known for over 25 years another over 10
Thank you, someone has just got funny with, he wants to know why I'm still looking if I've already got an FWB "
How does he know you have a FWB?
He might not be a swinger or not want to meet someone with an existing FWB. Just means you're not compatible. |
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Whatever works for you. I have a lover, and did have one FWB and a FB.
FWB got jealous, so stopped seeing him.
FB, rarely had time to meet, so fizzled out.
Would love a new FWB. Guess I'll have to see how things go with my new fab friends. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i have 3 one ive known for over 25 years another over 10
Thank you, someone has just got funny with, he wants to know why I'm still looking if I've already got an FWB
Sounds like possessive behaviour
Possibly, but he still wants to meet me
personally id avoid if hes asking those questions now its a big red flag to me"
I've been thinking, actually it's none of his business really, |
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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago
Gateway to the Beacons |
"i have 3 one ive known for over 25 years another over 10
Thank you, someone has just got funny with, he wants to know why I'm still looking if I've already got an FWB
Sounds like possessive behaviour
Possibly, but he still wants to meet me
personally id avoid if hes asking those questions now its a big red flag to me
I've been thinking, actually it's none of his business really, "
just that none of his business |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In all seriousness it’s up to you how many fwb your require
If this bloke can’t handle this move on sure there are plenty more on subs bench
Enjoy life live it x |
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"I wouldn't be able to juggle more than 1
Is one even juggling?
 point!
What I'd like to ask is, for those that said they have more than one, how often do you meet with each?"
In my case, it was whenever we were both free to meet. Could be once a week for overnight stay, or once a month for quickie in car. Few times we've had entire weekends together.
Tended to play a bit on cam in between
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" a question, how many can you have "
I have a few mostly all in the states as it's not something that guys understand over here.. there isn't a limit that's why it's Friends with benefits.. once either of the two requirements stop so does the status |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
I have one lovely FWB but we don't meet up as often as I would like. I am hoping to find another two, possibly one FB and one FWB. One reason I want others is that I don't want to rely on one guy for my sexual needs, and meeting others also means less chance of developing feelings for him. But what works for you, is very much an individual thing and everyone's circumstances are unique. |
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"I wouldn't be able to juggle more than 1
Is one even juggling?
point!
What I'd like to ask is, for those that said they have more than one, how often do you meet with each?"
One I haven't seen in 5 years.. he's in the states £1600 flight 13hrs away, but picked me up from the airport when I arrived and we had a few nights together like it was just yesterday
One I haven't seen in 6+ months who lives 45 min away he says distance time is a factor.
So it very much depends on a lot of factors that both you decide and they decide |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"i have 3 one ive known for over 25 years another over 10
Thank you, someone has just got funny with, he wants to know why I'm still looking if I've already got an FWB
Sounds like possessive behaviour
Possibly, but he still wants to meet me
personally id avoid if hes asking those questions now its a big red flag to me
I've been thinking, actually it's none of his business really, "
It's sounds like you consider him more of a FB than a fwb. If he was a friend you would have chatted with him and discussed what you both wanted.
There is nothing wrong with you wanting more than one just like there is nothing wrong with him wanting to only meet you. It may be just that what you both are looking for is different.If he was actually a friend ye should be able to discuss this together without involving the forums and kinda having a wee laugh at his expense. If he is a friend then chat to him if he is just a fuck buddy then let him know that as well.
I have an amazing fwb and no at the moment I am not doing any new meets due to personal circumstances.If I wanted to though I would tell him before I would even look because he first and foremost a friend. |
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"i have 3 one ive known for over 25 years another over 10
Thank you, someone has just got funny with, he wants to know why I'm still looking if I've already got an FWB "
As many as you want, he is clearly insecure and threatened by you having the option of other lovers! |
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