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Going alone

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

COUPLES

If your partner couldnt make a club night, would you go alone and also would you mind if your partner did if you couldn't make it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For us it is something we do as a couple, so we wouldn't go alone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"COUPLES

If your partner couldnt make a club night, would you go alone and also would you mind if your partner did if you couldn't make it "

Neither of us would mind if the other wanted to go alone

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By *oxy jWoman over a year ago

somerset

i play alone he plays alone we play together we do it all and we've done that from the moment we started this lifestyle ...we keep nothing from each other and know where each other are at all times for safety reasons and have a rock solid marriage

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

We play together, not separate so if one couldn't make it we both wouldn't go.

Mrs

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By *ubwife4uCouple over a year ago

Kent

"For us it is something we do as a couple, so we wouldn't go alone. "

Exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's an 'us' experience and so one wouldn't go without the other. The response would be the same for any activity, event, social outing etc that we planned for as a couple.

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's an 'us' experience and so one wouldn't go without the other. The response would be the same for any activity, event, social outing etc that we planned for as a couple.

NBVN x"

THIS!!!

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By *oneyBear100Couple over a year ago

Gatwick area

We would go separately but very aware our style of swing is not to most peoples taste

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are a couple and all activities we do are done as a couple.

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By *inkForLifeCouple over a year ago

North Shields

"COUPLES

If your partner couldnt make a club night, would you go alone and also would you mind if your partner did if you couldn't make it "

I think it is a major step and probably isn't something you should consider as a one off. Mrs plays alone and goes to clubs alone but that's a deliberate step we've taken as a progression of our relationship etc.

I don't think either of us would have been happy to do it as a one off previously.

As always, understanding each others expectations of one another is key, and if done properly shouldn't lead to any issues.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would and as it happens I am going to a club without my hubby in 2 weeks

He will drop me off and come to collect me ( if needed to )

Ha ha

He often drops me off at meets so really no difference just like a normal night out

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By *enelope2UWoman over a year ago

Fife

When I had a partner we played and allowed others to enjoy our moment together. We didn't play without each other aware of what was happening so no.. if he can't see or know what I'm enjoying and I can't see how he's enjoying then it's no longer about US it's an individual seeking to cheat and keep what's home.. at home

I don't want to be told how he had a good time I want to watch join allow or experience that time with him..

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