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What was your reason for getting into swinging?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Extra-marital sex. Without the investment into an affair. Simple as that really. "
Yes pretty much us too. So that we could fuck other people without cheating  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly I’ve forgotten how I found out about this Website & whole scene itself, I thought I would just be interested in meeting Women but I’ve also met Couples to help Cuck which I would never think would happen tbh |
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By *edGrayCouple
over a year ago
Swindon |
To meet people with the same sexual interests as ourselves as satisfy our sexual desires. Swingers is the preferred option, as we are not looking for complicated relationships more of friends with benefits scenario.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For good sex with like minded people who like a fun session...
I don't believe in having sex with 1 person for years on end. Biology literally doesn't want us to do that. Science bitch! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Started when my wife confessed to cheating and telling me she didn’t think she could spend the rest of her life only having sex with one person. I was angry but aroused at the idea. We didn’t want to part as still very much in love. Initially tried swinging which developed into cuckolding (turned out the perfect answer)…that was 15 years ago and we are still very much a happy couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been unto swinging from my 1st time with an ex, was hooked, loved seeing her suck other cocks and bring fucked, become slightly obsessed wanting to see multiples fucking her xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been unto swinging from my 1st time with an ex, was hooked, loved seeing her suck other cocks and bring fucked, become slightly obsessed wanting to see multiples fucking her xx"
This for me is the hottest thing about out lifestyle choice… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Working single mum, no time for a relationship or dating and fed up with blokes trying to tell me they wanted more when in fact we all just want sex. Fab is uncomplicated for the most part |
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Can’t say I necessarily went looking for this lifestyle, it more so found me as I was introduced to fab by someone. Decided to take the plunge and attend a party on my own which is now nearly 3 years ago and the rest as they say is history |
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Originally got into it for social side with wife to reinvigorate marriage.
Obviously that didn't work as we are now separated now looking for fun without a relationship, I'm happy being on my own bit miss female company and contact |
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"I just wanted the sex without the fear of a relationship "
This for me too. Had tried to have some non committed friendships on dating sites and it always ended with me "letting them down" after clearly stating what I wanted.
Came here because it looked like the obvious place to be sensual without the weight of expectation.
Doesn't always work that way but mostly been great. |
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By *rNightMan
over a year ago
Coventry |
Me and my partner just kept pushing the boundaries till it started to include other people, then we found this and another website.
We eventually created separate accounts until one individual started to harass her to the point she had to deleted her account.
We still play together & separately a lot but enjoy the freedom to explore alone now too
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Hubby had had lots of experience before me and at 1st I wanted to impress him earlier in relationship. Then I found out how much fun it was being centre of attention of guys . Also how horny hubby got with guys watching or joining us . Made sex even more fun with each other xx |
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My foray in to the swi g in world about 20 years ago, mainly my curious mind was peaked and being the inquesitive type, visited a club, to investigate so glad I did. Had some fun times, discovered more about myself,had great fun long may it continue |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A long time partnership with very limited sex. Relationship With a girl after she was a swinger and that how I got into this.
Now that’s history."
So would you say you get more or less sex now? If so how much is more? |
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By *eladeCouple
over a year ago
hull |
For me I have a very hight sex drive but dint want a relationship so I was going to hu9 and they all said I should join fab.And I can honestly say av enjoy every minute except for one occasion.
Av had the opportunity to tick a lot of things off my fuckit list and have many more things pland. |
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I had an accidental 3sum... then a 4sum... then I found someone to be with.. when we split i wanted to find someone or someone's that made me feel as good as he did.... sadly still looking 25 odd years later... ..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’ve been together since we were teenagers so we had done virtually all we could with just two of us. Took me a while to convince her I would be ok with her going with other men once we gave it a try it opened up new adventures |
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We are here purely for the time wasters and scatter gun swingers.
The ones who make contact but are then clearly juggling about five conversations at once. Then after three short messages they think they've found a better offer somewhere else and disappear without a trace.
It makes our lives so fulfilling and we love wasting our time on them to pass the cold winter nights |
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I wasn't prepared to live a sexless life anymore. I suppose initially it was to feel desired and wanted sexually again. It's also led to a lot of experimental sex too. I've no regrets, I just wish I had more time to pursue it. |
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By *anes HubbyCouple
over a year ago
Babbacombe Torquay |
Because you cannot base a worthwhile long term relationship solely on sex, Jane chose me over her ex boyfriend Thirty years ago.
But because the calling of the sex they had was so strong Jane found it difficult to leave it behind.
So she broke up with him slowly, seeing us both for a few months and only making the break when we began to fall in love and eventually we married.
Seven years later he and us attended the wedding of a mutual friend of Jane and on the night of the wedding reception fate pushed the three of us together and our life changed forever.
We've never looked back |
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We had talked about our fantasies before & both loved the thought of making them reality, a mutual friend mentioned to Rob in the pub that he wanted to try a threesome so Rob said, "well, I know someone who would be up for that"! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Initially to enjoy exploring my sexual preference in straight acting men.
Eventually discussed the site with my wife and we ventured on as a couple, to find her a man friend with benefits. We were lucky to find an unattached mature gentleman, who understood our dynamic. He satisfied my wife sexually and entertained her socially too. He also knew how to push my cuckold buttons.
It has been difficult to find another guy to fit the gap when he became unavailable to join us. Although it is still fun looking for the right bloke. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine was to meet people that I wouldn’t usually meet in the normal way of life, I have a thing for the older women and bbw. And I had a few fantasies I wanted to do. And here there’s no judgment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I first started when my then GF and I had gone out with a friend and his GF. Had a bit to much to drink and went back to their place. We had sex in the same room (with our partners and didn't swop) but watching others have sex at the same time as we were having sex, was such a turn on. |
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
Brighton |
I (Mr) went to the cinema in 1999 with then girlfriend to watch Eyes Wide Shut. We both thought it was hot and wanted to go to parties like that. We started out in the Fetish scene and things progressed from there. When we split I played as a single guy for a while before meeting the woman who became Mrs B (met in vanilla world). After dating for few months I decided to tell her about my “sordid past” and she thought it was hot and wanted to do the same. |
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The way I got into "swinging" was with a GF in the late 90's. We would go clubbing and if I didn't want to dance, she would go on the dance floor. She then started to dancing with other guys and getting more and more flirtatious.... I then realised i found it really hot to watch my partner with others and it developed from there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Does anybody know of any other swinging sites that people actually meet because fab is full of pic collectors nobody meets off there unless it’s at a club |
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One night drinking the mrs back then asked about any girls I’d been with and I in return asked about any lads. She told me about a lad from work who had tried to fuck her and take her virginity but he didn’t have any condoms. It turned me on so much I said I would have loved to have seen that. After a few months of talking we went to a club didn’t play that time but did a few times after that. Then one night bumped into the lad from work and she invited him back to ours where I went on to watch him fuck her and to blow his load up her. That was the start of many years till I lost her. |
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In my 20s, met up with an older FB who went to swingers clubs to have NSA sex with women. She took me along and I found to my surprise that fucking complete strangers in front of an audience was one of my favourite things in life. Still is. |
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