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Does anyone else notice these? Like when you're in the middle of a passionate session, and your hands instinctively link up. Or when you're in absolute ecstasy as she rides you, then you realise she's smiling at the effect she has on you, and you both laugh.
These types of little moments really make an encounter fun and memorable to me. What do you think? |
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"Does anyone else notice these? Like when you're in the middle of a passionate session, and your hands instinctively link up. Or when you're in absolute ecstasy as she rides you, then you realise she's smiling at the effect she has on you, and you both laugh.
These types of little moments really make an encounter fun and memorable to me. What do you think?"
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"Does anyone else notice these? Like when you're in the middle of a passionate session, and your hands instinctively link up. Or when you're in absolute ecstasy as she rides you, then you realise she's smiling at the effect she has on you, and you both laugh.
These types of little moments really make an encounter fun and memorable to me. What do you think?"
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"Does anyone else notice these? Like when you're in the middle of a passionate session, and your hands instinctively link up. Or when you're in absolute ecstasy as she rides you, then you realise she's smiling at the effect she has on you, and you both laugh.
These types of little moments really make an encounter fun and memorable to me. What do you think?"
I’ve only ever had that with one guy from here, gave me butterflies  |
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"Does anyone else notice these? Like when you're in the middle of a passionate session, and your hands instinctively link up. Or when you're in absolute ecstasy as she rides you, then you realise she's smiling at the effect she has on you, and you both laugh.
These types of little moments really make an encounter fun and memorable to me. What do you think?
I’ve only ever had that with one guy from here, gave me butterflies "
Yeah I think it's hard to find here! |
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"Does anyone else notice these? Like when you're in the middle of a passionate session, and your hands instinctively link up. Or when you're in absolute ecstasy as she rides you, then you realise she's smiling at the effect she has on you, and you both laugh.
These types of little moments really make an encounter fun and memorable to me. What do you think?
I’ve only ever had that with one guy from here, gave me butterflies
Yeah I think it's hard to find here!"
That’s why I try to build up the connection with a guy as I prefer that and chemistry over just a fuck  |
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"Does anyone else notice these? Like when you're in the middle of a passionate session, and your hands instinctively link up. Or when you're in absolute ecstasy as she rides you, then you realise she's smiling at the effect she has on you, and you both laugh.
These types of little moments really make an encounter fun and memorable to me. What do you think?
I’ve only ever had that with one guy from here, gave me butterflies
Yeah I think it's hard to find here!
That’s why I try to build up the connection with a guy as I prefer that and chemistry over just a fuck "
Same here! I chat for weeks before meeting! |
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By *llaandGCouple
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else notice these? Like when you're in the middle of a passionate session, and your hands instinctively link up. Or when you're in absolute ecstasy as she rides you, then you realise she's smiling at the effect she has on you, and you both laugh.
These types of little moments really make an encounter fun and memorable to me. What do you think?"
They're really important. That connection, that spark of flame.... I know those moment when Ella arches her back, or sharply breathes, or fixes her gaze on my eyes or a million other moments....
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"Does anyone else notice these? Like when you're in the middle of a passionate session, and your hands instinctively link up. Or when you're in absolute ecstasy as she rides you, then you realise she's smiling at the effect she has on you, and you both laugh.
These types of little moments really make an encounter fun and memorable to me. What do you think?
I’ve only ever had that with one guy from here, gave me butterflies
Yeah I think it's hard to find here!
That’s why I try to build up the connection with a guy as I prefer that and chemistry over just a fuck
Same here! I chat for weeks before meeting! "
Me too I can always tell when a guy just wants to meet and fuck as he can’t hold a decent convo |
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"Does anyone else notice these? Like when you're in the middle of a passionate session, and your hands instinctively link up. Or when you're in absolute ecstasy as she rides you, then you realise she's smiling at the effect she has on you, and you both laugh.
These types of little moments really make an encounter fun and memorable to me. What do you think?
I’ve only ever had that with one guy from here, gave me butterflies
Yeah I think it's hard to find here!
That’s why I try to build up the connection with a guy as I prefer that and chemistry over just a fuck
Same here! I chat for weeks before meeting!
Me too I can always tell when a guy just wants to meet and fuck as he can’t hold a decent convo "
I love the tease and build up, it's all part of the fun |
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"Does anyone else notice these? Like when you're in the middle of a passionate session, and your hands instinctively link up. Or when you're in absolute ecstasy as she rides you, then you realise she's smiling at the effect she has on you, and you both laugh.
These types of little moments really make an encounter fun and memorable to me. What do you think?
I’ve only ever had that with one guy from here, gave me butterflies
Yeah I think it's hard to find here!
That’s why I try to build up the connection with a guy as I prefer that and chemistry over just a fuck
Same here! I chat for weeks before meeting!
Me too I can always tell when a guy just wants to meet and fuck as he can’t hold a decent convo "
Or you exchange three messages and they then try to rush you into meeting. It’s obvious to me really quickly whether I can develop a connection with someone or whether they just want a quick fuck! |
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"Does anyone else notice these? Like when you're in the middle of a passionate session, and your hands instinctively link up. Or when you're in absolute ecstasy as she rides you, then you realise she's smiling at the effect she has on you, and you both laugh.
These types of little moments really make an encounter fun and memorable to me. What do you think?"
Yes - isn’t that the whole point? |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Oh I absolutely love those! I think I've been quite spoiled with them in my experiences to be honest.
Like the tender brushing of hair away from my face as they're slowly thrusting inside of me and I can feel exactly how I feel. Or when they're fucking me and they look into my eyes and it's that perfect juxtaposition of lust and love and you can tell how much they enjoy you. Being with you. All of you.
Or when they've spanked you and they stop and there's this almost unspoken language between you both, pushing and accepting the other. You don't have to say please stop or please carry on because you know. They know.
The little silly things that happen that make you burst into giggles and you can see genuine mirth painted across their face.
Even simple things like knowing when they're close to orgasm and you can feel every part of them tense and their hand clasps around yours. That catch of breath and the smile when they do come like you've brought them sheer ecstasy and then you lay together in post coital bliss.
It feels like you've really connected with another human in those moments. In a very raw, incredible way. |
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"Does anyone else notice these? Like when you're in the middle of a passionate session, and your hands instinctively link up. Or when you're in absolute ecstasy as she rides you, then you realise she's smiling at the effect she has on you, and you both laugh.
These types of little moments really make an encounter fun and memorable to me. What do you think?"
I have these with long term partners but not casual sex encounters. I'd cringe if someone tried to hold my hand |
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"Does anyone else notice these? Like when you're in the middle of a passionate session, and your hands instinctively link up. Or when you're in absolute ecstasy as she rides you, then you realise she's smiling at the effect she has on you, and you both laugh.
These types of little moments really make an encounter fun and memorable to me. What do you think?
I’ve only ever had that with one guy from here, gave me butterflies
Yeah I think it's hard to find here!
That’s why I try to build up the connection with a guy as I prefer that and chemistry over just a fuck
Same here! I chat for weeks before meeting!
Me too I can always tell when a guy just wants to meet and fuck as he can’t hold a decent convo
I love the tease and build up, it's all part of the fun "
Most definitely |
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"Does anyone else notice these? Like when you're in the middle of a passionate session, and your hands instinctively link up. Or when you're in absolute ecstasy as she rides you, then you realise she's smiling at the effect she has on you, and you both laugh.
These types of little moments really make an encounter fun and memorable to me. What do you think?
I’ve only ever had that with one guy from here, gave me butterflies
Yeah I think it's hard to find here!
That’s why I try to build up the connection with a guy as I prefer that and chemistry over just a fuck
Same here! I chat for weeks before meeting!
Me too I can always tell when a guy just wants to meet and fuck as he can’t hold a decent convo
Or you exchange three messages and they then try to rush you into meeting. It’s obvious to me really quickly whether I can develop a connection with someone or whether they just want a quick fuck!"
Or they message assuming you’re looking to meet ….. can’t stand desperate needy men |
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"Oh I absolutely love those! I think I've been quite spoiled with them in my experiences to be honest.
Like the tender brushing of hair away from my face as they're slowly thrusting inside of me and I can feel exactly how I feel. Or when they're fucking me and they look into my eyes and it's that perfect juxtaposition of lust and love and you can tell how much they enjoy you. Being with you. All of you.
Or when they've spanked you and they stop and there's this almost unspoken language between you both, pushing and accepting the other. You don't have to say please stop or please carry on because you know. They know.
The little silly things that happen that make you burst into giggles and you can see genuine mirth painted across their face.
Even simple things like knowing when they're close to orgasm and you can feel every part of them tense and their hand clasps around yours. That catch of breath and the smile when they do come like you've brought them sheer ecstasy and then you lay together in post coital bliss.
It feels like you've really connected with another human in those moments. In a very raw, incredible way."
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By *at me drink meWoman
over a year ago
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I want to be able to relax at a meet enjoy the connection meeting a reg fwb means we spend time on each other we take time to pleasure each other find out what gets each other going . |
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"Oh I absolutely love those! I think I've been quite spoiled with them in my experiences to be honest.
Like the tender brushing of hair away from my face as they're slowly thrusting inside of me and I can feel exactly how I feel. Or when they're fucking me and they look into my eyes and it's that perfect juxtaposition of lust and love and you can tell how much they enjoy you. Being with you. All of you.
Or when they've spanked you and they stop and there's this almost unspoken language between you both, pushing and accepting the other. You don't have to say please stop or please carry on because you know. They know.
The little silly things that happen that make you burst into giggles and you can see genuine mirth painted across their face.
Even simple things like knowing when they're close to orgasm and you can feel every part of them tense and their hand clasps around yours. That catch of breath and the smile when they do come like you've brought them sheer ecstasy and then you lay together in post coital bliss.
It feels like you've really connected with another human in those moments. In a very raw, incredible way."
Jeez I’m dry humping the sofa here!  |
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"As long as it's not too much of a connection - like one occasion when the wife I was fucking suddenly blurted out "I love you" as I was spunking in her...  "
She meant I love your cock |
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"Does anyone else notice these? Like when you're in the middle of a passionate session, and your hands instinctively link up. Or when you're in absolute ecstasy as she rides you, then you realise she's smiling at the effect she has on you, and you both laugh.
These types of little moments really make an encounter fun and memorable to me. What do you think?"
The holy grail...I like it |
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"As long as it's not too much of a connection - like one occasion when the wife I was fucking suddenly blurted out "I love you" as I was spunking in her... "
I've had a fab tell me she loved me during sex before. She was married, and I assumed it was just something said in the heat of passion, but no, when I mentioned it later she stood by it. It was further complicated by the fact that she was married |
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"Does anyone else notice these? Like when you're in the middle of a passionate session, and your hands instinctively link up. Or when you're in absolute ecstasy as she rides you, then you realise she's smiling at the effect she has on you, and you both laugh.
These types of little moments really make an encounter fun and memorable to me. What do you think?"
I’ve never experienced anything like this until I met J…for the first time in my life I feel like I properly connect with someone on all the levels, not just sexually, and it feels amazing
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"As long as it's not too much of a connection - like one occasion when the wife I was fucking suddenly blurted out "I love you" as I was spunking in her...
I've had a fab tell me she loved me during sex before. She was married, and I assumed it was just something said in the heat of passion, but no, when I mentioned it later she stood by it. It was further complicated by the fact that she was married "
A fab?
Is that a category? |
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"Does anyone else notice these? Like when you're in the middle of a passionate session, and your hands instinctively link up. Or when you're in absolute ecstasy as she rides you, then you realise she's smiling at the effect she has on you, and you both laugh.
These types of little moments really make an encounter fun and memorable to me. What do you think? I have these with long term partners but not casual sex encounters. I'd cringe if someone tried to hold my hand "
Are long term partners just casual sex encounters too? |
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"As long as it's not too much of a connection - like one occasion when the wife I was fucking suddenly blurted out "I love you" as I was spunking in her...
I've had a fab tell me she loved me during sex before. She was married, and I assumed it was just something said in the heat of passion, but no, when I mentioned it later she stood by it. It was further complicated by the fact that she was married
A fab?
Is that a category?"
I already corrected that typo but thanks for your input |
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"As long as it's not too much of a connection - like one occasion when the wife I was fucking suddenly blurted out "I love you" as I was spunking in her...
I've had a fab tell me she loved me during sex before. She was married, and I assumed it was just something said in the heat of passion, but no, when I mentioned it later she stood by it. It was further complicated by the fact that she was married
A fab?
Is that a category?
I already corrected that typo but thanks for your input "
Sorry you did |
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"It's these moments that make sex amazing!! The moment you look at each other and realise you're the only ones in that moment at that time.... erotic, sensual ... delicious  "
That's a really good point, it's a private, shared connection, making it very intimate, and like you say, sensual and delicious |
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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else notice these? Like when you're in the middle of a passionate session, and your hands instinctively link up. Or when you're in absolute ecstasy as she rides you, then you realise she's smiling at the effect she has on you, and you both laugh.
These types of little moments really make an encounter fun and memorable to me. What do you think?"
This type
The only sex I enjoy so the only sex that I have.
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"Lol love that though as a cuckold"
Except her husband wasn't present to hear it...
....unlike another occasion with another wife, when she turned and groaned "I love you" to her husband as I started spunking into her for the second time in an hour...  |
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"She meant I love your cock"
Not on that occasion, she didn't - I'd only had a handful of meets with her at that point, and she was quite insecure in herself at the time...
....and sometimes thought that men desiring her meant they also had feelings for her - a three-way discussion with her and her husband established soon set 'boundaries'...
....there were later instances when she told me how much she loved my cock! |
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"I've had a fab tell me she loved me during sex before. She was married, and I assumed it was just something said in the heat of passion, but no, when I mentioned it later she stood by it. It was further complicated by the fact that she was married "
As in my post immediately above, we moved past it... |
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By *lippy02Man
over a year ago
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"Lol love that though as a cuckold
Except her husband wasn't present to hear it...
....unlike another occasion with another wife, when she turned and groaned "I love you" to her husband as I started spunking into her for the second time in an hour... "
Yes I am familiar with the latter and loved my wife being filled with spunk by men who excited her so much. |
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By *d4ugirlsMan
over a year ago
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Cannot explain it but to me when I am receiving a BJ there is usually one hand being utilized and the other hand is tenderly resting on my body. That hand to me is the tender connection just like intimately snogging and tenderly holding her cheek while lightly kissing and looking into her eyes.
Interesting and erotic reading about others connections |
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"Does anyone else notice these? Like when you're in the middle of a passionate session, and your hands instinctively link up. Or when you're in absolute ecstasy as she rides you, then you realise she's smiling at the effect she has on you, and you both laugh.
These types of little moments really make an encounter fun and memorable to me. What do you think?"
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Yes, I agree.
There is a spontaneity of 'instinctiveness' that frequently kicks in for me to mutual delight.
It's an involuntary reaction, caught in the throes of wild abandonment.
We all find at some point each partner moving in tandem to the other person's action and reaction: exploratory hands, facial expressions, laughter and reassuring smiles, grabbing the raised leg when pinned against the wall...
These moments should be savoured...and they linger long after the passionate encounter. |
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"Looking into a womans eyes when i push my cock deep inside her for the first time the conection is there then"
see I avoid this and will only get bent over .. I sometimes read these threads and think I'm very broken x
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"The whole time should be a connection for me not just the odd moment call me greedy"
Lol! The whole session was connection but he’s just thinking of some of the little moments that highlight it |
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"Looking into a womans eyes when i push my cock deep inside her for the first time the conection is there then see I avoid this and will only get bent over .. I sometimes read these threads and think I'm very broken x"
If you enjoy what you do, then I doubt you're "broken" |
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I've been here less than a month, and this thread is an example of why I'll be staying. (Along with a couple of other threads about a woman having a traumatising encounter with an ex, and a guy perhaps trying to push things along a little fast, where the responses are a miracle of compressed wisdom and lived solidarity.)
I'm not egotistical enough to think.I can add better examples, so I will just say that I don't have the words to express how much I agree with all this. It's why I'm here. I don't just mean on Fab - I mean on this good Earth. We die alone: we must endeavour not to live alone. |
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"Does anyone else notice these? Like when you're in the middle of a passionate session, and your hands instinctively link up. Or when you're in absolute ecstasy as she rides you, then you realise she's smiling at the effect she has on you, and you both laugh.
These types of little moments really make an encounter fun and memorable to me. What do you think?"
All the time - but just between me and Fire |
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I like connection and vulnerability. I like most people have my own insecurities specifically around my body and to voice these or trust someone else to open up about them is a big thing. But then I’m not here for fuck and go’s they really aren’t my style! Sex is just better with good connection! |
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Without a connection, for me, there's no sex in the first place, but yes those little intimate moments during sex, make it great. I like eye contact in the heat of orgasm, but that's just me...  |
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"Without a connection, for me, there's no sex in the first place, but yes those little intimate moments during sex, make it great. I like eye contact in the heat of orgasm, but that's just me... "
Eye contact is hot! I like eye contact when his cock is in my mouth or he’s going down on me |
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"I've been here less than a month, and this thread is an example of why I'll be staying. (Along with a couple of other threads about a woman having a traumatising encounter with an ex, and a guy perhaps trying to push things along a little fast, where the responses are a miracle of compressed wisdom and lived solidarity.)
I'm not egotistical enough to think.I can add better examples, so I will just say that I don't have the words to express how much I agree with all this. It's why I'm here. I don't just mean on Fab - I mean on this good Earth. We die alone: we must endeavour not to live alone. "
Thanks for this response mate, it's awesome to see one of my posts have a positive effect on someone! Hope you have a good time with the site |
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"Without a connection, for me, there's no sex in the first place, but yes those little intimate moments during sex, make it great. I like eye contact in the heat of orgasm, but that's just me... "
Eye contact in the heat of orgasm is tricky for me, I'm usually too busy entering a different dimension! |
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