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Who does bareback only meets ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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 no judgement please
But who's that naughty they have to be full of cum otherwise it's not complete for them? |
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" no judgement please
But who's that naughty they have to be full of cum otherwise it's not complete for them?"
Sometimes with people I trust but not just with anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s the ultimate |
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" no judgement please
But who's that naughty they have to be full of cum otherwise it's not complete for them?"
It can differ but i prefer bareback more |
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I think most prefer but I wouldn’t trust anyone from here |
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"I think most prefer but I wouldn’t trust anyone from here"
Ooh controversial... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always no rubber for me |
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I've exclusively played bareback for quite some years - and yes, like someone's posted above, it has meant that I've 'missed out' on meets...
....one couple who apparently visited this area a few times a year messaged me a number of times saying they'd love to meet and play, but insisted that condoms would be required...
....but then I've had various approaches specifically because I make it clear that I only play bareback... |
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By *ucelleCouple
over a year ago
Bishops Stortford |
No one mentions condom when I’m with them. So I don’t ask. Love the feel of a man bare |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love bareback fun, nothing better. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think most prefer but I wouldn’t trust anyone from here"
This! |
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Yeah bare back feels fab but it’s a no for me. Only ever went BB once in the heat of the moment. I would consider it as part of a more exclusive arrangement |
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"No one mentions condom when I’m with them. So I don’t ask. Love the feel of a man bare "
Since I first started 'playing' back in the mid-90's, the majority of my meets were bareback anyway - although for many years I would use condoms if requested, most of the time they didn't even get mentioned...  |
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"I think most prefer but I wouldn’t trust anyone from here
Ooh controversial..."
Why controversial, the rate of STDs is higher in the swinging community? |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
Assume everyone you meet with is or has played bare and just look out for yourself.
Get tested between sexual partners, including oral swabs if you do unprotected oral.
It doesn’t mean your risk of getting something is lessened, but hopefully it will help stop the spread if you do.
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"Assume everyone you meet with is or has played bare and just look out for yourself.
Get tested between sexual partners, including oral swabs if you do unprotected oral.
It doesn’t mean your risk of getting something is lessened, but hopefully it will help stop the spread if you do.
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This is our take too.
We never go bare other than together or for oral but as adults others are free to do things in whatever way works for them.
Nita |
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Always. We regularly test and request proof that others have been tested also |
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We prefer it as long as everyone tested and clear but fully appreciate it’s not for everyone. We’re honest from the start to save wasting anyones time and awkwardness that might follow  |
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By *areback_BullMan
over a year ago
Edinburgh and surrounding areas lol |
"Always. We regularly test and request proof that others have been tested also"
Test, test and test again should be a motto for barebackers. Best way to make sure everyone has fun. |
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By *onnyadtMan
over a year ago
Uttoxeter |
"I think most prefer but I wouldn’t trust anyone from here
Ooh controversial...
Why controversial, the rate of STDs is higher in the swinging community? "
Source please......... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think most prefer but I wouldn’t trust anyone from here"
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"I think most prefer but I wouldn’t trust anyone from here
Ooh controversial...
Why controversial, the rate of STDs is higher in the swinging community?
Source please........."
I very much doubt you will get a reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think most prefer but I wouldn’t trust anyone from here
Ooh controversial...
Why controversial, the rate of STDs is higher in the swinging community? "
People who aren't Swingers fuck around bareback too and they don't ever get tested... |
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By *onnyadtMan
over a year ago
Uttoxeter |
"I think most prefer but I wouldn’t trust anyone from here
Ooh controversial...
Why controversial, the rate of STDs is higher in the swinging community?
Source please.........
I very much doubt you will get a reply. "
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The current meet and all before have said bareback preferred/wanted.... I've had the snip and most have been in the mature age bracket (if there is one)... |
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There are Sti you can’t test for |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been messaging someone who wants to meet me, but he says he can't use a condom, they put him off, he says he'll get tested, that's fine but if he meets someone before me and goes bareback how do I know he's not caught something, I value my health even if he doesn't, |
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"I've been messaging someone who wants to meet me, but he says he can't use a condom, they put him off, he says he'll get tested, that's fine but if he meets someone before me and goes bareback how do I know he's not caught something, I value my health even if he doesn't, "
I agree completely, we wouldn't meet with anyone who wouldn't or couldn't use a condom.... unless it's just for "soft play"
Cal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been messaging someone who wants to meet me, but he says he can't use a condom, they put him off, he says he'll get tested, that's fine but if he meets someone before me and goes bareback how do I know he's not caught something, I value my health even if he doesn't,
I agree completely, we wouldn't meet with anyone who wouldn't or couldn't use a condom.... unless it's just for "soft play"
Cal"
It's not just the bareback it's oral as well you can catch things orally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think every guy would prefer bareback fun as there no barriers stopping the skin to skin connection that leads to better feeling.... but there's a reason why it's needed. I only play bareback if regular fwb and i know we both clean |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Following this |
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Curious to hear for those that do bb and test have ypu had an unfortunate result. I known there's antibiotics and such available and more advanced than years ago
I doubt anyone would say otherwise, but just think ot paints a better picture
No I haven't had any unfortunate results. I play safe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are Sti you can’t test for "
Really?
Which ones?
And if they can’t test for them, how do they know they exist? And if they do exist and can’t be tested for, how do they know the route of transmission is sexual?
-asking for a friend. |
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Only with one woman I met here, but I already knew her from "normal" life and really trusted her.
Her boyfriend was furious when she went home and told him, though. |
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Grim. Such a lack of respect for your body. |
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"Grim. Such a lack of respect for your body."
Really? I take it you give bj ‘s with a dental damn and oral spermicide then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Grim. Such a lack of respect for your body."
Do you use protection when giving or receiving oral sex ?
Do you get yourself check every time you give or receive oral sex ?
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"Grim. Such a lack of respect for your body."
Hard words and quite opionated
It's not easy to keep an opinion to oneself on subjects we feel strongly about |
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"Grim. Such a lack of respect for your body."
I see ypur profile is very specific.
Likely.some interesting messages you may receive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do with the fb , see him 3 times a week  no 1 else |
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By *easing_twoCouple
over a year ago
Bristol, Thornbury |
"There are Sti you can’t test for "
And there is illness that is undiscovered and people get killed crossing the road. Do you need a crash helmet and a bubble wrap suit? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. Most STI’s detected and treated are asymptomatic. Not everyone who does bareback gets tested, possibly because they are asymptomatic and other reasons. |
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By *aretobareCouple
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
You can guess from our profile name x |
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Use condoms or don't. Not judging either way. I just know what we do with others.
Yes, bareback feels nicer. No one is denying it. We'd go bareback all the time if we felt it was safe but we don't. If we trusted a party enough, it was wanted and everyone got tested then yeah...fail to see the issue.
Either way, regular testing makes sense and fact is, if you're active on the scene then you probably have multiple partners and the people you meet probably has multiple partners. A bit of rubber only does so much.
Be responsible your own health and safety and only do what you feel happy with. |
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By *hippy57Man
over a year ago
Chelmsford |
Absolutely ,bareback is far more erotic and intimate,in the swinging lifestyle it is a very dodgy risk,even being tested,you only as safe as your last partner,could be tested and then had partners before meet with someone who wants to see a clear test,I may have been lucky all my life,been married 3 times,earlier years had a lot of different women and men,men only just masturbating and oral,never had a problem,once got the dreaded crabs,turned out got it from my first wife,cheating slut gave it to me, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always BB for me and all these years never had a single problem. But I still get tested regularly. |
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"I think most prefer but I wouldn’t trust anyone from here
Ooh controversial...
Why controversial, the rate of STDs is higher in the swinging community?
Source please........."
This is only one source, if you need more please ask.
"A Dutch study has found that swingers -- heterosexual adults who engage in partner swapping or attend sex clubs for couples -- have rates of sexually transmitted diseases comparable to teenagers and gay or bisexual men, both considered high-risk groups for catching herpes, HIV and chlamydia, among other infections...."
"For women swingers over 45, nearly 18% had chlamydia, compared to 4% of other heterosexual women and less than 3% of prostitutes....'
https://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=117499 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What? No one has mentioned Russian roulette yet??? |
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By *isser36Man
over a year ago
fylde Coast |
Personally I would always opt for a bareback meet as its what I prefer and what turns me on and why are we here if not to get our kicks how we like them?....however....I am very selective and always build trust and mutual respect with whomever I decide to play with. All it takes is a sensible grown up honest conversation to set the boundaries. If bareback isn't for you? Cool enjoy your slightly safer sex! if it is great! Are you clean? Tested? Do you fuck all cummers in clubs or dogging spots? Can any Tom dick or Harry spunk up you? Haha you get the picture. Everyone can make an informed decision.
One last point I'd make is I've been around fab for ten years and in my experience there are alot more people willing to go bare than the profiles / forums might reflect.  |
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"Personally I would always opt for a bareback meet as its what I prefer and what turns me on and why are we here if not to get our kicks how we like them?....however....I am very selective and always build trust and mutual respect with whomever I decide to play with. All it takes is a sensible grown up honest conversation to set the boundaries. If bareback isn't for you? Cool enjoy your slightly safer sex! if it is great! Are you clean? Tested? Do you fuck all cummers in clubs or dogging spots? Can any Tom dick or Harry spunk up you? Haha you get the picture. Everyone can make an informed decision.
One last point I'd make is I've been around fab for ten years and in my experience there are alot more people willing to go bare than the profiles / forums might reflect. "
"Slightly safer" safe sex, what evidence do you have to support this dtatement?
"When used correctly and consistently, they are a reliable method of preventing pregnancy and protecting both partners from STIs, including chlamydia, gonorrhoea and HIV..."
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/contraception/male-condoms/#:~:text=When%20used%20correctly%20every%20time,male%20condoms%20are%2098%25%20effective.
https://www.cdc.gov/condomeffectiveness/brief.html |
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I don't think using the CDC article is the right argument as this article is measuring the effectiveness if the user has an STD. The measurement should be based on the total number of people having sex against those that got protected from the carriers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only bare if I’m in monogamous relationship. No negotiation |
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"I don't think using the CDC article is the right argument as this article is measuring the effectiveness if the user has an STD. The measurement should be based on the total number of people having sex against those that got protected from the carriers"
It is not a peer reviewed article however, like the NHS, they base their advice in available research. If they used medical articles it would only confuse many readers.
" These prospective studies, published since June 2000, show that condom use is associated with statistically significant protection of men and women against several other types of STIs, including chlamydial infection, gonorrhoea, herpes simplex virus type 2, and syphilis....".
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2622864/#:~:text=These%20prospective%20studies%2C%20published%20since,virus%20type%202%2C%20and%20syphilis. |
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By *isser36Man
over a year ago
fylde Coast |
"Personally I would always opt for a bareback meet as its what I prefer and what turns me on and why are we here if not to get our kicks how we like them?....however....I am very selective and always build trust and mutual respect with whomever I decide to play with. All it takes is a sensible grown up honest conversation to set the boundaries. If bareback isn't for you? Cool enjoy your slightly safer sex! if it is great! Are you clean? Tested? Do you fuck all cummers in clubs or dogging spots? Can any Tom dick or Harry spunk up you? Haha you get the picture. Everyone can make an informed decision.
One last point I'd make is I've been around fab for ten years and in my experience there are alot more people willing to go bare than the profiles / forums might reflect.
"Slightly safer" safe sex, what evidence do you have to support this dtatement?
"When used correctly and consistently, they are a reliable method of preventing pregnancy and protecting both partners from STIs, including chlamydia, gonorrhoea and HIV..."
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/contraception/male-condoms/#:~:text=When%20used%20correctly%20every%20time,male%20condoms%20are%2098%25%20effective.
https://www.cdc.gov/condomeffectiveness/brief.html"
Am sure you mean well but Your "safe sex appreciation post" that got 2 replies and the fact your posting in a "bareback only meets" discussion should tell you everything you need to know about your audience here just before you post anymore stats. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One last point I'd make is I've been around fab for ten years and in my experience there are alot more people willing to go bare than the profiles / forums might reflect. "
Which is exactly why people can’t be trusted so I’ll take responsibility for my own sexual health and go safe. I also don’t think everyone who claims they get tested do. I think some who are asymptomatic just assume they are clean. Obviously not everyone. There will be people here who bareback and test after every partner. Hopefully the ones you choose do the same. |
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"Personally I would always opt for a bareback meet as its what I prefer and what turns me on and why are we here if not to get our kicks how we like them?....however....I am very selective and always build trust and mutual respect with whomever I decide to play with. All it takes is a sensible grown up honest conversation to set the boundaries. If bareback isn't for you? Cool enjoy your slightly safer sex! if it is great! Are you clean? Tested? Do you fuck all cummers in clubs or dogging spots? Can any Tom dick or Harry spunk up you? Haha you get the picture. Everyone can make an informed decision.
One last point I'd make is I've been around fab for ten years and in my experience there are alot more people willing to go bare than the profiles / forums might reflect.
"Slightly safer" safe sex, what evidence do you have to support this dtatement?
"When used correctly and consistently, they are a reliable method of preventing pregnancy and protecting both partners from STIs, including chlamydia, gonorrhoea and HIV..."
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/contraception/male-condoms/#:~:text=When%20used%20correctly%20every%20time,male%20condoms%20are%2098%25%20effective.
https://www.cdc.gov/condomeffectiveness/brief.html
Am sure you mean well but Your "safe sex appreciation post" that got 2 replies and the fact your posting in a "bareback only meets" discussion should tell you everything you need to know about your audience here just before you post anymore stats. "
Facts are facts, swingers fall into a high risk group for STDs. Read back through our posts, we were asked for the source of the first post, this we did. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All the time x |
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Exactly! Not to metion a lack of respect for your playmate and any future playmates. |
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Wow lots of opinions and facts
For me nothing better than bb
But we have to be realistic and safe for each other
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There feather thin rubber justas pleasurable as bareback. No excuse in 21 century not to wear one! You can always remove it to give your load for the hot pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I would always opt for a bareback meet as its what I prefer and what turns me on and why are we here if not to get our kicks how we like them?....however....I am very selective and always build trust and mutual respect with whomever I decide to play with. All it takes is a sensible grown up honest conversation to set the boundaries. If bareback isn't for you? Cool enjoy your slightly safer sex! if it is great! Are you clean? Tested? Do you fuck all cummers in clubs or dogging spots? Can any Tom dick or Harry spunk up you? Haha you get the picture. Everyone can make an informed decision.
One last point I'd make is I've been around fab for ten years and in my experience there are alot more people willing to go bare than the profiles / forums might reflect.
"Slightly safer" safe sex, what evidence do you have to support this dtatement?
"When used correctly and consistently, they are a reliable method of preventing pregnancy and protecting both partners from STIs, including chlamydia, gonorrhoea and HIV..."
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/contraception/male-condoms/#:~:text=When%20used%20correctly%20every%20time,male%20condoms%20are%2098%25%20effective.
https://www.cdc.gov/condomeffectiveness/brief.html
Am sure you mean well but Your "safe sex appreciation post" that got 2 replies and the fact your posting in a "bareback only meets" discussion should tell you everything you need to know about your audience here just before you post anymore stats.
Facts are facts, swingers fall into a high risk group for STDs. Read back through our posts, we were asked for the source of the first post, this we did."
Thanks for highlighting this important issue.! PM if you can just for achat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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https://www.reuters.com/article/us-sex-diseases-swingers-idUSTRE65M6NX20100624
https://www.swinger-symbol.com/blog/swinging-health-risks
You better put your rubber on! |
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Interesting Topic. I don't know if I'm still fertile but I've stop taking contraception to allow my body to reset before the menopause. If the men don't mind the potential of child support, then that's on them. I don't have children so I don't see what the point would be for me to abort unless a doctor told me to do so to save my life.
The Contraception that a lot of women take can wreck their bodies....permanently. The women past the menopause might be a better bet to avoid unwanted pregnancy but still go to go to the clinic every two weeks like porn stars an still a high risk. |
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We don't do bareback only meets but in general prefer to play bareback but on occasion we use condoms |
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Regularly tested. Almost always bare here. |
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A majority of porn stars do Bareback and test regularly, just saying so it's really not that huge an issue as some people male it out to be innthe swinging community
Don't get me wrong I play safe,
But some folk make playing bareback to be a huge issue |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A majority of porn stars do Bareback and test regularly, just saying so it's really not that huge an issue as some people male it out to be innthe swinging community
Don't get me wrong I play safe,
But some folk make playing bareback to be a huge issue "
Id trust a porn star to test regularly more than someone off fab. |
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"A majority of porn stars do Bareback and test regularly, just saying so it's really not that huge an issue as some people male it out to be innthe swinging community
Don't get me wrong I play safe,
But some folk make playing bareback to be a huge issue
Id trust a porn star to test regularly more than someone off fab."
True, there is that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are Sti you can’t test for "
Yes genital herpes HSV1 and HSV 2 |
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"Assume everyone you meet with is or has played bare and just look out for yourself.
Get tested between sexual partners, including oral swabs if you do unprotected oral.
It doesn’t mean your risk of getting something is lessened, but hopefully it will help stop the spread if you do.
Always and always
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
I'd prefer to be risk free so I can continue to enjoy my life without any concerns |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do all my meets raw |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are Sti you can’t test for
Really?
Which ones?
And if they can’t test for them, how do they know they exist? And if they do exist and can’t be tested for, how do they know the route of transmission is sexual?
-asking for a friend. "
Check out the STi project website. There’s a list of about 21 of them. Not all may be deemed an STI “only” but are included as close saliva /oral/ skin contact would be included in transmitting. |
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Bare is certainly best, but a little common sense in choosing is important. With testing now very easy, and results sent in email form, it's a good check that someone is free to discard the condoms and enjoy |
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By *69meMan
over a year ago
Cambridgeshire |
I love to clean up at a bareback meet (it's rarely myself that provides the cum). I have also been to meets where the husband fucks his wife bare before I clean her then she fucks everyone else safe only (I'm just there to clean and/or fluff if required). The "safe fuckers" sometimes cum over her body, which of course I'm told to clean.
Any couples that fuck bare between themselves that would like a cleaner, please get in touch. Indeed, if the scenario above interests you then plesse also ferl free to message me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Up to now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always. We regularly test and request proof that others have been tested also"
There are so many pathogens that can be transmitted through bareback, most sti screenings will only test for well know stds but there are many lesser known diseases that they don't test for as they are not stis per say but can be transmitted through bareback so a clean bill of health from a gum clinic isnt always fool proof just saying.. |
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No way for me. What others do for them but advise not if I may say so |
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Have done in past with people I trust and know are tested. Not with just anyone though. As much as I love it its not worth a visit to the clap clinic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always BB for me and all these years never had a single problem. But I still get tested regularly."
Nothing better feeling warm pussy juices around my bare cock; then shooting a load inside her. A creampie gangbang sounds fun!
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A little plea - if you play bareback don't tick "Safe Sex". Each to their own but be honest. Had a couple we've chatted to on and off who have Safe Sex ticked. They've just said they play bareback. At least they said but complete waste of time. Fab really needs a Bareback option on interests or even better you have to choose Bsreback or Safe Sex when you sign up like you do with sexuality. |
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"A little plea - if you play bareback don't tick "Safe Sex". Each to their own but be honest. Had a couple we've chatted to on and off who have Safe Sex ticked. They've just said they play bareback. At least they said but complete waste of time. Fab really needs a Bareback option on interests or even better you have to choose Bsreback or Safe Sex when you sign up like you do with sexuality. "
Agree with this.
A) it helps people find like minded people.
B) it helps people make informed decisions about who they play with or not. |
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"A little plea - if you play bareback don't tick "Safe Sex". Each to their own but be honest. Had a couple we've chatted to on and off who have Safe Sex ticked. They've just said they play bareback. At least they said but complete waste of time. Fab really needs a Bareback option on interests or even better you have to choose Bsreback or Safe Sex when you sign up like you do with sexuality. "
Should def have a bareback option but I don’t see why you can’t tick both, if you do both .
If you tick Anal for instance , it doesn’t mean you have to do anal on every meet . Just worry about what you do and leave others to do what they want . |
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"A little plea - if you play bareback don't tick "Safe Sex". Each to their own but be honest. Had a couple we've chatted to on and off who have Safe Sex ticked. They've just said they play bareback. At least they said but complete waste of time. Fab really needs a Bareback option on interests or even better you have to choose Bsreback or Safe Sex when you sign up like you do with sexuality.
Should def have a bareback option but I don’t see why you can’t tick both, if you do both .
If you tick Anal for instance , it doesn’t mean you have to do anal on every meet . Just worry about what you do and leave others to do what they want ."
As long as people are open and honest that all works. The comparison with anal is false as what you regarding anal doesn't affects us. We don't want oral sex with people who do bareback even if they wear a condom with us. Any kind of bareback option would be an improvement and would benefit all. Just fear many would still not tick it. If you had to choose like you do with sexuality then people would have to choose. |
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"A little plea - if you play bareback don't tick "Safe Sex". Each to their own but be honest. Had a couple we've chatted to on and off who have Safe Sex ticked. They've just said they play bareback. At least they said but complete waste of time. Fab really needs a Bareback option on interests or even better you have to choose Bsreback or Safe Sex when you sign up like you do with sexuality.
Should def have a bareback option but I don’t see why you can’t tick both, if you do both .
If you tick Anal for instance , it doesn’t mean you have to do anal on every meet . Just worry about what you do and leave others to do what they want .
As long as people are open and honest that all works. The comparison with anal is false as what you regarding anal doesn't affects us. We don't want oral sex with people who do bareback even if they wear a condom with us. Any kind of bareback option would be an improvement and would benefit all. Just fear many would still not tick it. If you had to choose like you do with sexuality then people would have to choose. "
You will never , ever get a guarantee that anyone you play with hasn’t had bareback sex with someone else , if that worries you then your better off staying completely monogamous.
Somebody could be on here and only play safe with people they meet on here but be fucking 3 people a week off tinder and not using anything .
Bareback tick box would be a good idea but only to help people who like bareback sex to meet each other .
People who do both can tick both . |
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
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Having multiple vanilla sexual partners increases risk. Being a swinger further increases that risk. Gave oral sex with no condom increases risk. Being a bareback swinger increases risk even further. Being bareback gangbanged further still.
Nothing except complete celibacy is risk free. So it is all about how comfortable you are with risk in relation to your health.
What people will do is make a judgement call on the activities of others to see how high on the risk scale they are willing to go and how that compares to their own comfort level.
On a personal level, we will not have vaginal or anal sex without condoms but will do oral without. That has some risk but the risk is lower than bareback. When choosing our partners, we would avoid people openly doing bareback as their risk appetite is higher than ours. All power to them but not for us. Of course those play partners we do meet could be lying or may be inconsistent but therein lies some of the risk.
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"Having multiple vanilla sexual partners increases risk. Being a swinger further increases that risk. Gave oral sex with no condom increases risk. Being a bareback swinger increases risk even further. Being bareback gangbanged further still.
Nothing except complete celibacy is risk free. So it is all about how comfortable you are with risk in relation to your health.
What people will do is make a judgement call on the activities of others to see how high on the risk scale they are willing to go and how that compares to their own comfort level.
On a personal level, we will not have vaginal or anal sex without condoms but will do oral without. That has some risk but the risk is lower than bareback. When choosing our partners, we would avoid people openly doing bareback as their risk appetite is higher than ours. All power to them but not for us. Of course those play partners we do meet could be lying or may be inconsistent but therein lies some of the risk.
You can also assess a play partner’s risk appetite by the people they choose to play with. "
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"A little plea - if you play bareback don't tick "Safe Sex". Each to their own but be honest. Had a couple we've chatted to on and off who have Safe Sex ticked. They've just said they play bareback. At least they said but complete waste of time. Fab really needs a Bareback option on interests or even better you have to choose Bsreback or Safe Sex when you sign up like you do with sexuality.
Should def have a bareback option but I don’t see why you can’t tick both, if you do both .
If you tick Anal for instance , it doesn’t mean you have to do anal on every meet . Just worry about what you do and leave others to do what they want .
As long as people are open and honest that all works. The comparison with anal is false as what you regarding anal doesn't affects us. We don't want oral sex with people who do bareback even if they wear a condom with us. Any kind of bareback option would be an improvement and would benefit all. Just fear many would still not tick it. If you had to choose like you do with sexuality then people would have to choose.
You will never , ever get a guarantee that anyone you play with hasn’t had bareback sex with someone else , if that worries you then your better off staying completely monogamous.
Somebody could be on here and only play safe with people they meet on here but be fucking 3 people a week off tinder and not using anything .
Bareback tick box would be a good idea but only to help people who like bareback sex to meet each other .
People who do both can tick both ."
Yes there is no guarantee and everything has its risks.. You just hope people are honest and Fab give them the tools to be and then we can take our own judgements on risk we are willing to accept - this happens on Fabguys but not Fab for some weird reason. Clearly somebody who does the odd bareback sessions but plays safe and has met lots of other people who play safe is different to somebody explicitly seeking bareback and meetings others doing the same. Just want people to be honest up front. |
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"Having multiple vanilla sexual partners increases risk. Being a swinger further increases that risk. Gave oral sex with no condom increases risk. Being a bareback swinger increases risk even further. Being bareback gangbanged further still.
Nothing except complete celibacy is risk free. So it is all about how comfortable you are with risk in relation to your health.
What people will do is make a judgement call on the activities of others to see how high on the risk scale they are willing to go and how that compares to their own comfort level.
On a personal level, we will not have vaginal or anal sex without condoms but will do oral without. That has some risk but the risk is lower than bareback. When choosing our partners, we would avoid people openly doing bareback as their risk appetite is higher than ours. All power to them but not for us. Of course those play partners we do meet could be lying or may be inconsistent but therein lies some of the risk.
You can also assess a play partner’s risk appetite by the people they choose to play with. "
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"I've been messaging someone who wants to meet me, but he says he can't use a condom, they put him off, he says he'll get tested, that's fine but if he meets someone before me and goes bareback how do I know he's not caught something, I value my health even if he doesn't,
I agree completely, we wouldn't meet with anyone who wouldn't or couldn't use a condom.... unless it's just for "soft play"
Cal
It's not just the bareback it's oral as well you can catch things orally "
The risk of catching STDs from oral is much lower than through penetration, and we're happy to accept that level of risk.
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By *heswingerMan
over a year ago
the steel city sheffield |
Me and a pal host in Sheffield for ladies and couples looking for bb fun with select genuine respectable guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No glove no love.
Unless I'm in a relationship which is rare.
I wouldn't with fabber's. I always wonder why ppl turn up without Johnny's thinking that's gonna work. |
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Love it! My ultimate fantasy is a bareback gang bang all those juicy cummy cocks just for me! Till my pussy drips! But in reality will never fulfill (no pun lol) as allways play safe! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they show me proof of sti results and all good yesssss! I prefer it  |
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"Only bareback sex for me  "
Love it, wow 551 verifications, were they all different random strangers spunking up you? X |
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Prefer BB, would use a condom if they wanted. No one ever has. |
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"Only bareback sex for me
Love it, wow 551 verifications, were they all different random strangers spunking up you? X "
Well seems like 412 different men at least  |
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"Only bareback sex for me
Love it, wow 551 verifications, were they all different random strangers spunking up you? X
Well seems like 412 different men at least "
Holy fuck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only bareback sex for me "
Why not state that on your profile? |
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Only with regulars .. maybe once a trust and history is explored |
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"Only bareback sex for me
Why not state that on your profile?"
If you read there profile and vers they pretty much do |
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By *isex80Man
over a year ago
Palmers Green |
I do like most of this comments
Controversial or not
At the end of the day it’s all about honesty on what you like and what the others prefer.
There’s a lot of stigma attached to anyone who catches anything from stis to stds, which if cured and on treatment don’t pose half of the risk as those who don’t get regularly checked.
Alas we are all good to judge when someone says I am undetectable on meds
Which I am sure half of us won’t even know what it means
But then ok to take someone word for :I am clean and tested …
Be honest and enjoy sex
And bb is in my opinion far better than anything else,
The feeling of getting inside something warm with someone you have never met before… that itself is a turn on
Again
Each to their own |
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"Only bareback sex for me
Why not state that on your profile?"
It doesn’t take a detective to see she’s a bareback fan |
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By *areback_BullMan
over a year ago
Edinburgh and surrounding areas lol |
Only bareback sex for me, obviously |
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"Only bareback sex for me
Love it, wow 551 verifications, were they all different random strangers spunking up you? X "
Just shows how much bb just is really |
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"Only bareback sex for me
Why not state that on your profile?"
They did . There's no safe sex interest |
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"Only bareback sex for me
Why not state that on your profile?"
Whom really reads them anyway |
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Did you know that thousands of us have herpes and can only be detected through blood tests
If we didn't have apparent symptoms we would unlikely know |
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I'm tested regularly negative STD. I love to play with regular partner BB |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We do |
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Not judging anyone, but this massively puts me off meeting anyone. Not so much the people who do it and are open and honest about it, but there are undoubtedly numerous people who say they don't when really they do. And it only takes one...
Yes, I'd love to go bareback all the time, but for me, it's just not worth the risk...
And yes, I realise that probably means the only thing I'll be banging anytime soon is my right hand!!  |
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"Not judging anyone, but this massively puts me off meeting anyone. Not so much the people who do it and are open and honest about it, but there are undoubtedly numerous people who say they don't when really they do. And it only takes one...
Yes, I'd love to go bareback all the time, but for me, it's just not worth the risk...
And yes, I realise that probably means the only thing I'll be banging anytime soon is my right hand!! "
There's an incredible amount of couples where they do but say they don't. The odd single lady too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always. We regularly test and request proof that others have been tested also"
Exactly this we test every 3 months that being said we don’t meet regularly at the moment and would only really play bare if we had a long term arrangement …. Better to be safe than sorry. |
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By *iclassyCouple
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Not judging anyone, but this massively puts me off meeting anyone. Not so much the people who do it and are open and honest about it, but there are undoubtedly numerous people who say they don't when really they do. And it only takes one...
Yes, I'd love to go bareback all the time, but for me, it's just not worth the risk...
And yes, I realise that probably means the only thing I'll be banging anytime soon is my right hand!! "
Agree risk too much.
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Not exclusively. But mostly. But regularly tested |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Play as nature intended mmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not judging anyone, but this massively puts me off meeting anyone. Not so much the people who do it and are open and honest about it, but there are undoubtedly numerous people who say they don't when really they do. And it only takes one...
Yes, I'd love to go bareback all the time, but for me, it's just not worth the risk...
And yes, I realise that probably means the only thing I'll be banging anytime soon is my right hand!! "
Same here |
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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago
Skegness |
most likely get slatered but we do only bear back |
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It is what I look for, my profile doesn't hide the fact and it is a shame people do get negative comments for being honest in how they play.
Good to see a few positive threads and people saying they enjoy/do play this way.
Hard to find on here and other sites, but thoroughly enjoyable when you do.
Hope to meet some of you in 2023 |
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I definitely think bareback should be an option on the interests list. Apparently it is on fabguys.
I respect that it’s not for everyone but it would help filter for people that want to enjoy it and those that want to avoid it. |
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I'm strictly condoms. Within the fab circle
And yes bb is much more sexual
Is it wrong of me to think that at the end of day
We test regularly and if we don't get a result we should then there's antibiotics.
Yes I get that some choose to not have this as a potential issue. Bit it is just a case of a course of antibiotics
Putting hiv and such to one side as that's a different tablet prep |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only ever done BB on here once with an old fuck buddy and looking back I wish I hadn’t as the trust wasn’t really there. I never caught anything but it wasn’t worth the risk. Won’t do it again
Some things are for life and aren’t just a case of antibiotics! |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
"I'm strictly condoms. Within the fab circle
And yes bb is much more sexual
Is it wrong of me to think that at the end of day
We test regularly and if we don't get a result we should then there's antibiotics.
Yes I get that some choose to not have this as a potential issue. Bit it is just a case of a course of antibiotics
Putting hiv and such to one side as that's a different tablet prep"
You think herpes and hpv can be cured by antibiotics lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not exclusively bareback but I'm happy to if we've discussed it & I tested regularly (every 3-5 weeks) so can always provide clear results.
I think it also depends on who I'm playing with. Love the feeling of bare. X |
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For the ones that bareback, do you let them cum inside you? |
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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago
Wiltshire and London |
Not a good idea for purely recreational sex. |
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"I'm strictly condoms. Within the fab circle
And yes bb is much more sexual
Is it wrong of me to think that at the end of day
We test regularly and if we don't get a result we should then there's antibiotics.
Yes I get that some choose to not have this as a potential issue. Bit it is just a case of a course of antibiotics
Putting hiv and such to one side as that's a different tablet prep
You think herpes and hpv can be cured by antibiotics lol"
O dokt think, I was asking |
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By *aylonMan
over a year ago
Earlsfield |
Alot will say no but when it gets down to the naughtiness most are taking it Bb and want the Cp. Just being honest. J x ???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only with each others. no chance with anyone else. |
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I do,just love the feeling of Cumming in someone's wife. |
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By *areback_BullMan
over a year ago
Edinburgh and surrounding areas lol |
"I do,just love the feeling of Cumming in someone's wife."
Oh god yesss, so do I. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not me but I know many do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Grim. Such a lack of respect for your body."
Have to agree |
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It is always amusing to us to read ferocious condemnations of bareback play on forums and see who actually previously contacted us looking us for meets.
It’s not an issue for us whether people prefer bareback or not. We are comfortable with either.
Just can’t abide hypocrites |
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Not for me sorry. I value my health far too much.
No protection = no erection! |
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Always funny to read these threads. Condoms been in use for 150 years. God knows how the world survived for the 2000+ years before.
Personally we couldn't care less. Folk do and folk don't play bare. Their choice and we aren't going to lambast them like a lot of people on here for having a personal choice. |
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Think we all are aware of how good a nice raw bare fuck feels.
But they aren’t all like that |
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I'm sure its up to the person you are meeting if they want it or not. It doesn't bother me either way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not exclusively bareback but I'm happy to if we've discussed it & I tested regularly (every 3-5 weeks) so can always provide clear results.
I think it also depends on who I'm playing with. Love the feeling of bare. X"
Looking at your pics you only play bare with strangers. |
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"Always funny to read these threads. Condoms been in use for 150 years. God knows how the world survived for the 2000+ years before.
Personally we couldn't care less. Folk do and folk don't play bare. Their choice and we aren't going to lambast them like a lot of people on here for having a personal choice."
On point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I will |
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We do enjoy it bare with people who like us test regular.
It definitely adds so much to the fun for us both. |
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"Not a good idea for purely recreational sex."
What other reasons are you having sex for? |
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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago
West midlands |
Masks are coming back again |
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Definatly not! I value mine and other people’s health |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
I like it but wouldn’t trust anyone from here sorry |
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"I like it but wouldn’t trust anyone from here sorry "
Best not to trust the ones that say they don't do it rather than the ones that say they do. I've lost count the times the lady or couple ask me to go bare when they have no bareback on their profile |
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By *aughty VicarMan
over a year ago
Bamber Bridge, P R E S T O N, Lancashire |
Too much risk for me |
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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago
Wiltshire and London |
"Not a good idea for purely recreational sex.
What other reasons are you having sex for? "
Sex can be procreational, you know. |
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Yet another thread where people are ignoring the OP question. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yet another thread where people are ignoring the OP question. "
Are you surprised by that, so many people just misinterpret the question as usual... |
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I do love the peeps who demand a condom for sex but feel oral is fine
If you were at a club and a guy approached you and said “ I’ve got an Std” would you suck it ?
You use a condom in case he has for sex
but suck bare ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love it when they allow me to rawdog them |
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"I do love the peeps who demand a condom for sex but feel oral is fine
If you were at a club and a guy approached you and said “ I’ve got an Std” would you suck it ?
You use a condom in case he has for sex
but suck bare ?? "
This is so true |
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