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What about a profile gives you the ick?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1. Multiple photos of a dick about to enter a pussy…well done, you found the hole!
2. Posing with more than one woman bent over with their pussy’s….reminds me of those big game hunters posing with their kills, like some kind of trophy hunter  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pictures of a dick next to something like a deodorant can , congrats it’s the same size as a lynx africa that your mum bought you xD
Profiles that say straight but he’s claiming to be bi
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Basically anyone who clearly hasn't read our profile but still message anyway.
If they spent 2mins having a look they would know they are way off what we would be interested in.
Just why 
The ones who we can tell actually have read it we always try and reply even if it's a polite no thanks. |
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Couples profiles who regularly post statuses, allegedly from the wife, asking for someone to come and fuck her man. Clearly a single bloke.
Hundreds of meet verifications. I want someone who is a little more selective and not just racking up numbers.
As others have said, the pictures can give me the ick. Especially if the subject or background look unhygienic.
Arrogance is another one.
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"Basically anyone who clearly hasn't read our profile but still message anyway.
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Oh the irony, subject line is "What about a profile gives you the ick?" yet you post about people not reading your profile. |
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"Couples profiles who regularly post statuses, allegedly from the wife, asking for someone to come and fuck her man. Clearly a single bloke.
Lou x "
This and the "couples" profile where the husband messages to get a meet, or basically using a couples profile to circumvent couples only blocks. Always report as a singles profile. |
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Cock pics over loos... even worse if the loo is dirty and/or full of pee
Single line bio of "single male looking for female or couples"... yes we know as you've ticked those options already. Use your bio to tell us about yourself please.
Pics of gapping holes... even worse if they are full of cum
Single guys pics of them fucking other women. Like others have said it feels like they are showing off thier "trophies"
Any reference to 50 shades in thier user name or bio. Anyone who's properly in the BDSM scene knows that film doesn't represent a true D/s dynamic and is more akin to abuse. Makes people come across as clueless and a massive red flag.
References to 420 or chems
First message being "fancy a meet/fuck" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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oh theres so much ... id be here all day
number one is facial hair insant turn off for me (its not just sexual)
when they send face pic and its not clear ie sunglasses or halk the face covered
lie about age / size / not being who you say you are
using old holiday pics
lie to get meets
men/women moaning full stop
men/women not liking your listing of stuff you dont want
i can lick for hours / lick only meets
male halfs of swinging couples who want to play without the other half knowing
cock/pussy pics in toilet /over toilet
messy background / messy rooms
those who leave a status everyday saying they are getting no where
tight foreskins / extra long forskins / cut cocks that look all flakey
any reference to drugs
any reference to money/gifts
cicky people / clingy people / people who like to cause drama
pineapple on pizza
men who talk tabboo (unlawful stuff)
men whos daily status is balls need draining
cams / anyone asking to cam
asking for phone number (never)
using apps outside of fab
people saying its only sex / or sex site
people thinking women are 100% sex objects 24/7 / sexualizing women in normal day to day stuff
flashers / flashing
and im not wasting anymore time on this list lol id be here alday
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To quote Al Pachino in Heat: watch your backgrounds.
Also we like to think we have a pretty funny and geeky profile. We tend to be able to spot people who covered a quick Google search to try and get further along with us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends who’s profile. I’ve found in the past that one thing looks bad on a to file and the next profile can be rather good.
So I guess alsorts put me off, and at the same time nothing does  |
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"Status updates announcing various stages of their hornyness or disappointment with fab, men, women or human kind in general.
Runs away and quickly changes status…"
Noooo! I’m only on Fab for your status updates  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Delusional Womens profile.
Women :" I want to be fucked by a big cock, in all holes. But don't talk about sex!!
Or it's not a sex site, with a fully nude profile. |
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"Declarations of being 'straight' and putting down others in the process. Also capital letters, why are you shouting."
I get a lot of messages from 'straight' men. If we had sex it wouldn't be straight sex...
Green flag though, openly bi guys. The confidence in their sexuality is hot  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"'White swingers only, not racist just a preference '
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I don't think it is. Spoke to a girl who tried and said her reasons why she didn't want BBC.. Nothing racist in her words plus she had tried be saying she didn't like.. Plus it's a predominantly white site.. Plus works both ways. There's women saying only black cock. Are they not racist because they are white??? Or again just preference. Only racist if they've never been with what they decline. So yh maybe a high percentage but not all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rooms where you'd need to wipe your feet on the way out, and stop off for a tetanus shot. Folk sitting on toilets in pics, or maybe that should be shitting
I do like a good bathroom shot that clearly shows all a 'single guys' collection of tampons & women's toiletries 
Oh, and my all time fav... A very obvious hypodermic needle in shot. I mean clearly could have been for a legit medical reason, but coupled with the crack den look of the rest of the photos... |
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"'White swingers only, not racist just a preference '
I don't think it is. Spoke to a girl who tried and said her reasons why she didn't want BBC.. Nothing racist in her words plus she had tried be saying she didn't like.. Plus it's a predominantly white site.. Plus works both ways. There's women saying only black cock. Are they not racist because they are white??? Or again just preference. Only racist if they've never been with what they decline. So yh maybe a high percentage but not all. "
Only racist if they’ve been with what they decline? How does that work?! There are physical attributes we all find attractive or unattractive in people, your theory would mean we would all have to shag people we’re not attracted to so we’re not deemed as prejudiced in any way.
I.e. Can a man only say he doesn’t want a bigger lady if he’s been with bigger ladies? Can a woman only say she doesn’t want a short man if she’s been with short men? If you’re not attracted to certain hair colours/sizes/races/heights/ages etc. that’s your preference.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A messy and vile room in the background, instant turn off!
It does work the other way though, was chatting to someone and loved their tiles in the background so asked what they were and now have the same in my kitchen!x |
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Profiles that change sex as they’re being written
“My gf is hot and horny for cock. I love cock in front of my bf it gets me wet”
Obviously male
Poor grammar and spelling….apologies to genuine dyslexics out there but the rest of you really should have been paying attention in English classes. See example above.
“We are into everything”
Then a long list of what they won’t do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"'White swingers only, not racist just a preference '
I don't think it is. Spoke to a girl who tried and said her reasons why she didn't want BBC.. Nothing racist in her words plus she had tried be saying she didn't like.. Plus it's a predominantly white site.. Plus works both ways. There's women saying only black cock. Are they not racist because they are white??? Or again just preference. Only racist if they've never been with what they decline. So yh maybe a high percentage but not all.
Only racist if they’ve been with what they decline? How does that work?! There are physical attributes we all find attractive or unattractive in people, your theory would mean we would all have to shag people we’re not attracted to so we’re not deemed as prejudiced in any way.
I.e. Can a man only say he doesn’t want a bigger lady if he’s been with bigger ladies? Can a woman only say she doesn’t want a short man if she’s been with short men? If you’re not attracted to certain hair colours/sizes/races/heights/ages etc. that’s your preference.
Lou x "
The thing I find interesting about the specific no on certain races is for example not all black people look the same, so what is it specifically about black people that does not turn you on? I feel there's something deeper there that people aren't willing to discuss because they know they will get criticised for it.
No bald/hairy/short/fat etc I can understand because they are specific things, but how do you say a whole race or races or people are not your bag?
I'm not accusing people of being racist, nobody is obligated to find anyone attractive but there's definitely more to it than 'it's just what I like'. |
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"'White swingers only, not racist just a preference '
I don't think it is. Spoke to a girl who tried and said her reasons why she didn't want BBC.. Nothing racist in her words plus she had tried be saying she didn't like.. Plus it's a predominantly white site.. Plus works both ways. There's women saying only black cock. Are they not racist because they are white??? Or again just preference. Only racist if they've never been with what they decline. So yh maybe a high percentage but not all.
Only racist if they’ve been with what they decline? How does that work?! There are physical attributes we all find attractive or unattractive in people, your theory would mean we would all have to shag people we’re not attracted to so we’re not deemed as prejudiced in any way.
I.e. Can a man only say he doesn’t want a bigger lady if he’s been with bigger ladies? Can a woman only say she doesn’t want a short man if she’s been with short men? If you’re not attracted to certain hair colours/sizes/races/heights/ages etc. that’s your preference.
Lou x
The thing I find interesting about the specific no on certain races is for example not all black people look the same, so what is it specifically about black people that does not turn you on? I feel there's something deeper there that people aren't willing to discuss because they know they will get criticised for it.
No bald/hairy/short/fat etc I can understand because they are specific things, but how do you say a whole race or races or people are not your bag?
I'm not accusing people of being racist, nobody is obligated to find anyone attractive but there's definitely more to it than 'it's just what I like'."
My point was you don’t need to have sex with people you’re not attracted to in order to say you’re not attracted to them.
Me? As a short fat person, I’ll take what I can get. 
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"Basically anyone who clearly hasn't read our profile but still message anyway.
Oh the irony, subject line is "What about a profile gives you the ick?" yet you post about people not reading your profile. "
Yes so their profile immediately gives us the ick as if they can't manage that then they aren't for us... not hard to understand but maybe irony is for some. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"'White swingers only, not racist just a preference '
I don't think it is. Spoke to a girl who tried and said her reasons why she didn't want BBC.. Nothing racist in her words plus she had tried be saying she didn't like.. Plus it's a predominantly white site.. Plus works both ways. There's women saying only black cock. Are they not racist because they are white??? Or again just preference. Only racist if they've never been with what they decline. So yh maybe a high percentage but not all.
Only racist if they’ve been with what they decline? How does that work?! There are physical attributes we all find attractive or unattractive in people, your theory would mean we would all have to shag people we’re not attracted to so we’re not deemed as prejudiced in any way.
I.e. Can a man only say he doesn’t want a bigger lady if he’s been with bigger ladies? Can a woman only say she doesn’t want a short man if she’s been with short men? If you’re not attracted to certain hair colours/sizes/races/heights/ages etc. that’s your preference.
Lou x
The thing I find interesting about the specific no on certain races is for example not all black people look the same, so what is it specifically about black people that does not turn you on? I feel there's something deeper there that people aren't willing to discuss because they know they will get criticised for it.
No bald/hairy/short/fat etc I can understand because they are specific things, but how do you say a whole race or races or people are not your bag?
I'm not accusing people of being racist, nobody is obligated to find anyone attractive but there's definitely more to it than 'it's just what I like'."
I really think it’s how people word it in their profiles that can make it appear racist rather than preference. I generally find I’m more attracted to darker skin upon first impressions but personality is way more important regardless of race. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Aggressively negative profiles with a long list of what they're not looking for or which hoops need to be jumped in the first message.
The list of reasons on what they will block for.
We don't like winks, they're lazy, we'll block you if you wink, kinda thing.
In reality, winks can be a great first step.
Blank, or close to blank profiles, one line stating something obvious and a dick pic or two.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aggressively negative profiles with a long list of what they're not looking for or which hoops need to be jumped in the first message."
Yes, this -- although when you realise the enormous amount of junk that some women get, it's hardly surprising they end up cynical. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Aggressively negative profiles with a long list of what they're not looking for or which hoops need to be jumped in the first message.
Yes, this -- although when you realise the enormous amount of junk that some women get, it's hardly surprising they end up cynical. "
Thing is, many don't read profiles, so how much difference will it make? and those that do read and also fit their criteria may well be put off with the lack of friendliness.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone who specifies clean/smells good. This does not need saying."
Sadly, it sometimes does -- not from this site, but over the years I've had some bad experiences with this.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone who specifies clean/smells good. This does not need saying.
Sadly, it sometimes does -- not from this site, but over the years I've had some bad experiences with this. "
I agree but it doesn’t always work. I had a social with a guy who had “impeccable hygiene” on his profile and demanded the same. Sadly I had to keep edging away from him in the cafe as he had terrible bad breath. |
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Firstly 420 friendly is a no no.
Pictures tell a lot. Any blurry or out of focus pictures turn us off. As does rubbish, empty bottles and cans and general unkeptness.
Close ups of a cock and vagina is a no no.
Toilet pictures is an instant no.
Comparing apatures to objects is just plain strange.
Pictures with cigarettes and close ups on the insides of ladies underwear...just a plain not for us.
Other than that fill your boots  |
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By *inkarellaWoman
over a year ago
Eastcote, Pinner |
"'White swingers only, not racist just a preference '
I don't think it is. Spoke to a girl who tried and said her reasons why she didn't want BBC.. Nothing racist in her words plus she had tried be saying she didn't like.. Plus it's a predominantly white site.. Plus works both ways. There's women saying only black cock. Are they not racist because they are white??? Or again just preference. Only racist if they've never been with what they decline. So yh maybe a high percentage but not all. "
Agree with the above poster. I like white men but I already have a regular BBC and I have slept with all races in my time, more than just once or twice. Its not about racism at all. It annoys me when people pull that card and become abusive, especially as I am from a very mixed heritage myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Though I could add,
Cock pic as the profile pic
8 pics of just a cock
Stupidly sexual profile name
Calling grown women 'girls'
ooops, I should probably stop now...
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6000 dick pics, most of which are out of focus.
Single guy profile showing pics of his dick in various vaginas.
Dick as profile pic.
Will fill in later.
Seeing what's about (hello... people are 'whos' not 'whats').
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Basically anyone who clearly hasn't read our profile but still message anyway.
If they spent 2mins having a look they would know they are way off what we would be interested in.
Just why
The ones who we can tell actually have read it we always try and reply even if it's a polite no thanks."
This.
Also when they say they've read it and say something in their message which states on your profile you're not into or not looking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having read All the above.
We have nothing left to add.
Each has pretty much covered it all.. Just shows most of us are on the same wavelength on this subject |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
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"[original quote] 'White swingers only, not racist just a preference"
[follow up quote] I don't think it is. Spoke to a girl who tried and said her reasons why she didn't want BBC.. Nothing racist in her words plus she had tried be saying she didn't like.. Plus it's a predominantly white site.. Plus works both ways. There's women saying only black cock. Are they not racist because they are white??? Or again just preference. Only racist if they've never been with what they decline. So yh maybe a high percentage but not all. "
Well there's so much to pick through here ..
" Spoke to a girl who tried and said her reasons why she didn't want BBC.. Nothing racist in her words plus she had tried be saying she didn't like.. "
Right .... so a girl told you something so that must be right. And did she try all non white swingers or just one BBC?
Did she also dislike big white cocks or big asian cocks? What was it that she explained that was so reasonable I'd love to hear it.
"Plus it's a predominantly white site.. "
So you only go for the group that's predominant? Does that mean you only go with white guys. It's a predominantly white male membership isn't it?
"Plus works both ways. There's women saying only black cock. Are they not racist because they are white??? "
Let me get some clarity here. Are you saying it can't be racist because other people do something similar?
The original quote is highlighting that they see "white swingers only" as a red flag. Why are you so keen to say they are wrong?
Genuine questions and I'm interested in your thoughts on this.
Thanks,
Gbat
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By *batMan
over a year ago
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I should add that I despair when I see those cut and paste stupid legal warnings.
A few things
" ... take legal action." No they won't.
"Publicly traded entity" No it isn't. You can't buy shares here.
"Facebook is publicly traded entity" It's not even this fucking site! And even if it were, it's still not traded publicly.
"[a list of numbers]" What do they think those numbers even stand for?
Get a grip.
Gbat
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"I should add that I despair when I see those cut and paste stupid legal warnings.
A few things
" ... take legal action." No they won't.
"Publicly traded entity" No it isn't. You can't buy shares here.
"Facebook is publicly traded entity" It's not even this fucking site! And even if it were, it's still not traded publicly.
"[a list of numbers]" What do they think those numbers even stand for?
Get a grip.
Gbat
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Love this!
Goes to show people really follow things blindly without asking themselves why they are doing it, doesn’t it?
A few of mine:
Shouty entitled profiles from women, who have lost sense of reality because of the oversized attention they get from men who want sex.
It’s never “I am this person and this is what I am looking for” but instead “you should be this, this and this and this is not what I am looking for”. Then you look at their pics and what they are asking and what they look like doesn’t even add up. I tend to read profiles in detail before I look at the pics to see if it adds up and often times it doesn’t. Like how are you looking for muscular, 6ft plus only, when you are 5’3””, overweight, 420 friendly [often (not always)a signifier of laziness] and in a bed sit. Just because men want you for sex doesn’t mean you have to lose all sense of logic and reality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Shouty entitled profiles from women, who have lost sense of reality because of the oversized attention they get from men who want sex."
I think this happens on vanilla dating sites too -- but I also blame the men for creating this warped sense of reality.
I've been around the Internet since 1995 and have seen the way men behave -- copy and paste messages, persistence in spite of zero interest, telling average women how stunning they are, plus lying about their own societal status etc.
Men really can be like dogs begging for a crumb of attention like they've never been fed.
If they behaved themselves a bit better, things would be a lot more balanced.
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