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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
Recently got turned down for improvement surgery, so im now stuck with this tiny thing between my legs.
Since I can't do much to change the size, and I don't want it to be completely useless, are there any tips or techniques anyone can give to improve performance with it? |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"It doesn't look unduly small from your pics. About average I would say. How would you like to improve your performance? What's the problem?"
Thanks to clever angles and my relatively small hands, it looks average. But it's really small in real life.
I'm just looking at how I can maximise pleasure for a woman with what I have  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After looking at your pics, I'd say you're definitely not the smallest I've seen. But if it is a big worry for you, I'd suggest changing how you see sex. A lot of guys focus on penetrative sex, and see the goal as being cumming inside their partner. But I'd say think about other activities. |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"After looking at your pics, I'd say you're definitely not the smallest I've seen. But if it is a big worry for you, I'd suggest changing how you see sex. A lot of guys focus on penetrative sex, and see the goal as being cumming inside their partner. But I'd say think about other activities. "
I've looked at sleeves and extenders, but focussing on non-penetration could be a good idea. Thanks  |
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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago
Wombwell, Barnsley |
Agree with the above. Look at other ways to pleasure. Penetrative sex is not the be all and end all. Different positions might also help. It's about making someone feel good. Many men get enjoyment out of turning the woman on. If you can do that size shouldn't matter. |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"Agree with the above. Look at other ways to pleasure. Penetrative sex is not the be all and end all. Different positions might also help. It's about making someone feel good. Many men get enjoyment out of turning the woman on. If you can do that size shouldn't matter."
Yeah thats true. Think I might forego penetration from now on unless it's a sleeve and focus on doing other things instead. Thanks for the advice |
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"Recently got turned down for improvement surgery, so im now stuck with this tiny thing between my legs.
Since I can't do much to change the size, and I don't want it to be completely useless, are there any tips or techniques anyone can give to improve performance with it?"
1) Learn how to eat pussy better than well!
2. Learn how to fully please a woman to the point your dick size isn't a factor.
Learn how to dismiss women who haven't discovered 1 or 2! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Recently got turned down for improvement surgery, so im now stuck with this tiny thing between my legs.
Since I can't do much to change the size, and I don't want it to be completely useless, are there any tips or techniques anyone can give to improve performance with it?
3 get a grip and just live a life without worrying about it
1) Learn how to eat pussy better than well!
2. Learn how to fully please a woman to the point your dick size isn't a factor.
Learn how to dismiss women who haven't discovered 1 or 2!"
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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago
Wombwell, Barnsley |
"You have several complimentary veris so I'm perplexed. You obviously have some skills!
Some very nice people who were too polite to admit I was too small "
Well in my experience not many people take the trouble to write a veri just to be polite. If you were that disappointing you wouldn't get a veri at all. |
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Giving it your all, Hard and all night in a real connection with and genuine love of a woman's pussy goes along way I've found. With complimentary magic fingers and tongue! (But O.P. stop being false. You're clearly NOT small. Please please stop. It's kinda rude). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It doesn't look unduly small from your pics. About average I would say. How would you like to improve your performance? What's the problem?
Thanks to clever angles and my relatively small hands, it looks average. But it's really small in real life.
How small are you talking?
I'm just looking at how I can maximise pleasure for a woman with what I have "
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The best way to improve is to get your head in the right place. I'm not very big probably clast as small but in my younger days I had three women on the go I was confident which I think is the key. Some ladies like very bit but not all PS I'm still with one of the three 32 years later |
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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago
plymouth/chesterfield |
"Recently got turned down for improvement surgery, so im now stuck with this tiny thing between my legs.
Since I can't do much to change the size, and I don't want it to be completely useless, are there any tips or techniques anyone can give to improve performance with it?"
Your not on your own here mate and glad you had the balls to start this thred, I know I haven't, but I do state in my profile that I have issues with ED, but as lots of people here have mentioned there's more then penitrive sex to please a woman, my last GF couldn't orgasam through penetration, hence my oral skills enhanced to both our pleasure, yes some read my profile/message and by pass/not reply, but I have met some and had a great time and a good laugh too, remember not everyone was at the front of the que when big fat cocks were dished out and there are some women who don't like VWE/BCs
Love the honey pot and enjoy the taste |
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By *eeveeTV/TS
over a year ago
Doncaster |
"Recently got turned down for improvement surgery, so im now stuck with this tiny thing between my legs.
Since I can't do much to change the size, and I don't want it to be completely useless, are there any tips or techniques anyone can give to improve performance with it?"
Just how small are you? Why were you turned down? |
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"Recently got turned down for improvement surgery, so im now stuck with this tiny thing between my legs.
Since I can't do much to change the size, and I don't want it to be completely useless, are there any tips or techniques anyone can give to improve performance with it?"
Every thread you've been involved in is something to do with cock size. Go have a wank pal and be done. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More attention seeking. Change the record OP, this obsession is very unattractive.
Have you accessed psychological help yet? "
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I think he loves been told its not small tbh there's always a few new to his type of posts who try and tell him he isn't small. It's obvious that is what gets him off now.
Also cammo how do you think you calling your slightly above average 5.6 cock tiny makes those with genuinely small cocks I.E under 4 inches feel???
KJ |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"Recently got turned down for improvement surgery, so im now stuck with this tiny thing between my legs.
Since I can't do much to change the size, and I don't want it to be completely useless, are there any tips or techniques anyone can give to improve performance with it?
Your not on your own here mate and glad you had the balls to start this thred, I know I haven't, but I do state in my profile that I have issues with ED, but as lots of people here have mentioned there's more then penitrive sex to please a woman, my last GF couldn't orgasam through penetration, hence my oral skills enhanced to both our pleasure, yes some read my profile/message and by pass/not reply, but I have met some and had a great time and a good laugh too, remember not everyone was at the front of the que when big fat cocks were dished out and there are some women who don't like VWE/BCs
Love the honey pot and enjoy the taste "
Thanks man, a couple of you have now suggested more oral and less or no penetration as ideas. Might look at that going forward |
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You've done lots of posts regarding your small size, I feel you have more of an issue than people viewing your profile or meeting you.
Some good tips though, personally size doesn't bother me, oral, good hand action and actually knowing what to do with what you've got is much more important.
Mrs |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
" oral, good hand action and actually knowing what to do with what you've got is much more important.
Mrs "
Yeah I plan to do a lot more of this and other non-penetration things based on suggestions like this. And if penetration comes into it, I can always use a sleeve. Thanks |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
" oral, good hand action and actually knowing what to do with what you've got is much more important.
Mrs
Yeah I plan to do a lot more of this and other non-penetration things based on suggestions like this. And if penetration comes into it, I can always use a sleeve. Thanks "
I'd find someone using a sleeve a major turn off to be honest and would much prefer the average sized penis. |
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"Recently got turned down for improvement surgery, so im now stuck with this tiny thing between my legs.
Since I can't do much to change the size, and I don't want it to be completely useless, are there any tips or techniques anyone can give to improve performance with it?"
Ask your GP for a referral to discuss your body dysmorphia with a therapist? |
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By *d4ugirlsMan
over a year ago
Green Cove Springs |
" oral, good hand action and actually knowing what to do with what you've got is much more important.
Mrs
Yeah I plan to do a lot more of this and other non-penetration things based on suggestions like this. And if penetration comes into it, I can always use a sleeve. Thanks "
Enjoy perusing the forums for some good valid advice, some humor, and hearing some people doing a lot of moaning.
Seems like you have the same issue trying to deal with your penis size.
They say big hands and feet usually mean a big penis.
Since you feel yours is small, have you thought that fisting might be your forte? |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"I'd find someone using a sleeve a major turn off to be honest
Any particular reason?
Because if I want to have sex with a piece of silicone I can do that myself at home"
Still better than a small natural one |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
"I'd find someone using a sleeve a major turn off to be honest
Any particular reason?
Because if I want to have sex with a piece of silicone I can do that myself at home
Still better than a small natural one "
In your opinion. |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"I'd find someone using a sleeve a major turn off to be honest
Any particular reason?
Because if I want to have sex with a piece of silicone I can do that myself at home
Still better than a small natural one
In your opinion. "
It's not going to give you any pleasure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, I would be obliged if you answer my question on the size of your member, in numbers. I’ve a nasty feeling this is a “look at me post” but am willing to give you the benefit of the doubt |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP, I would be obliged if you answer my question on the size of your member, in numbers. I’ve a nasty feeling this is a “look at me post” but am willing to give you the benefit of the doubt "
Was going to say it doesn’t look too bad to me , I’d be happy with it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP, I would be obliged if you answer my question on the size of your member, in numbers. I’ve a nasty feeling this is a “look at me post” but am willing to give you the benefit of the doubt
Was going to say it doesn’t look too bad to me , I’d be happy with it "
I think there might be some fibbing from the OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP, I would be obliged if you answer my question on the size of your member, in numbers. I’ve a nasty feeling this is a “look at me post” but am willing to give you the benefit of the doubt
Was going to say it doesn’t look too bad to me , I’d be happy with it
I think there might be some fibbing from the OP"
Think you could be right |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You should think about getting some counselling mate as you’re obviously very negatively focussed on the size of penises.
When you were “turned down” I assume they gave you a reason and some guidance for going forward. |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"OP, I would be obliged if you answer my question on the size of your member, in numbers. I’ve a nasty feeling this is a “look at me post” but am willing to give you the benefit of the doubt "
I'm 4 inches |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd find someone using a sleeve a major turn off to be honest
Any particular reason?
Because if I want to have sex with a piece of silicone I can do that myself at home
Still better than a small natural one "
And who are you to judge what women want or prefer?! You have serious body dismorphia, or the hands of a Lilliputian. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP, I would be obliged if you answer my question on the size of your member, in numbers. I’ve a nasty feeling this is a “look at me post” but am willing to give you the benefit of the doubt
I'm 4 inches"
I thought you said you were bigger than that before? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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wow a guy who only a few weeks ago said he was 5 and 1/2 inches is now 4 ?? wow also a guy who can hold his penis with his hand and yet over half his penis is still showing now even if you had very small hands that would still put you in the above average ...
there are guys on here who are small (in real life not in head) who look at your post in disbelief ... |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"Loosen those hips op! You need to work with what you have, make sure you are working the angles, it's all in the technique "
Noted, thanks . Though I'm planning to use only a sleeve for penetration so that it feels at least normal |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
"Loosen those hips op! You need to work with what you have, make sure you are working the angles, it's all in the technique
Noted, thanks . Though I'm planning to use only a sleeve for penetration so that it feels at least normal "
A sleeve won't feel 'normal', for either person. |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"Loosen those hips op! You need to work with what you have, make sure you are working the angles, it's all in the technique
Noted, thanks . Though I'm planning to use only a sleeve for penetration so that it feels at least normal
A sleeve won't feel 'normal', for either person. "
It would feel much less normal using mine on its own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve gave you my opinions enough times so I’m not going to do it again.
Have you ever thought about looking for a cuckold relationship?
The woman can have “the Adonis” as you call them and you can have your satisfaction by watching or being told about it later. This probably isn’t that easy to find but judging by your forum posts it seems like something you might enjoy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It doesn't look unduly small from your pics. About average I would say. How would you like to improve your performance? What's the problem?
Thanks to clever angles and my relatively small hands, it looks average. But it's really small in real life.
You are very normal, bigger then me. Just get on with it.
I'm just looking at how I can maximise pleasure for a woman with what I have "
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I'll leave aside the fact that this does appear to be a "look at me" thread as i struggle to believe that you genuinely think your cock is small enough not to be able to pleasure a woman and move to the actual advice.
Obviously all the usual advice that you have seen so far applies, be good at oral and fingers and foreplay etc. Thats all valuable advice. But not the answer to your question, which was how to use your cock better.
You need to be reading the reactions of your partner and varying up angles and positions until you find the right combination.
Your cock is more than sufficient in size to hit most of the important elements and its not the norm that most women like having their cervix smashed in.
The angle at which you penetrate will have a huge impact on perceived girth and at your size i would say you are better off fixating on a less direct angle (causing a greater percieved girth at the cost of more shallow penetration)
Since for most women the business end of the happy feelings generators are near the shallow end of the runway, unless you have enough cock volume to hit deep AND wide, go for wide.
Imagine trying to fit a pencil down a drain pipe. If you go in more diagonally than vertically its going to be harder to fit and therefore stretch and stimulate those areas more. Ive found taking an extreme diagonal angle can sometimes be extremely effective. |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"I’ve gave you my opinions enough times so I’m not going to do it again.
Have you ever thought about looking for a cuckold relationship?
The woman can have “the Adonis” as you call them and you can have your satisfaction by watching or being told about it later. This probably isn’t that easy to find but judging by your forum posts it seems like something you might enjoy."
I don't want a cuckold relationship, I want advice on how to better use my small penis. The title isn't hard to read. |
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