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"It really interests me. The artistry of some bits I have seen is amazing. My efforts look like a poor cats cradle."
It doesn't really matter what it looks like unless that's what you're going for! It's about having fun and everyone enjoying themselves  |
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"I am always interested in learning rope, although my preference is Japanese kinbaku style. I still have an eye out for other rope bondage styles. I have recently joined shibari study.
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Yep, there is a lot to be said for Kinbaku It's always worth studying different styles and treating it like a buffet |
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"It really interests me. The artistry of some bits I have seen is amazing. My efforts look like a poor cats cradle.
It doesn't really matter what it looks like unless that's what you're going for! It's about having fun and everyone enjoying themselves "
I think the overall look is part of the eroticism. |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
Sutton |
"Is anyone interested in learning some rope bondage??
Yes very been wanting to attend classes it's just trying to fin the time to do it  "
Depending where you are in Surrey, there is a peer rope in Sutton every second Sunday.
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By *m272Woman
over a year ago
London |
"I am always interested in learning rope, although my preference is Japanese kinbaku style. I still have an eye out for other rope bondage styles. I have recently joined shibari study.
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I am a shibari enthusiast the artistic side is very misunderstood and so underated |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"I recently started to teach myself this but now got to the stage i need someone to do it too.
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Buy a dress makers dummy.
I have seen one person make a dummy out of pipes, complete with movable arms and legs. |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
Sutton |
"I recently started to teach myself this but now got to the stage i need someone to do it too.
Buy a dress makers dummy.
I have seen one person make a dummy out of pipes, complete with movable arms and legs."
Not as good as a dress makers dummyI have a shop mannequin which has been a godsend and can be seen in some of my pics. |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
Sutton |
"I am always interested in learning rope, although my preference is Japanese kinbaku style. I still have an eye out for other rope bondage styles. I have recently joined shibari study.
I am a shibari enthusiast the artistic side is very misunderstood and so underated "
I would play devil's advocate and suggest most people rave over the artistic side of shibari. Few, get Kinbaku. In a kinbaku picture you are looking at the expression and thr body language, not so much at the tie. As Steve Osada said on FL, half jokingly " In shibari you tie trees, kinbaku is pornographic".
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I would play devil's advocate and suggest most people rave over the artistic side of shibari. Few, get Kinbaku. In a kinbaku picture you are looking at the expression and thr body language, not so much at the tie. As Steve Osada said on FL, half jokingly " In shibari you tie trees, kinbaku is pornographic".
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I think it's hard to convey, well, the connection through a photograph. The snapshot nature of 1/60 doesn't lend itself so well to telling the story. |
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"Me, me, me!!!
I've been tying for a few years now, so I'm far from novice but love learning and I can always learn something new each time I tie to improve for next time. "
That's what I love and adore about rope, every time is different and every time has something to teach and give |
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"Is anyone interested in learning some rope bondage??
Yes very been wanting to attend classes it's just trying to fin the time to do it
Depending where you are in Surrey, there is a peer rope in Sutton every second Sunday.
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yes have seen this before but is generally just trying to find the time to be able to attend. |
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By *_and_SCouple
over a year ago
Scotland |
We like to play with ropes...
Have been doing so for some time.
There are a few examples in our gallery.
We recently completed a scene with our first full suspension, it was intoxicating for rigger and bunny! |
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Intersting THREAD you might say, but seriously, I knew a fella who lost his life through rope bondage. The guy was very highly strung, and the suspense was killing him! It was just a situation that he got roped in to, not like anyone was stringing him along, or he might have told them to get knotted. We say though that before his passing, it might have been appropriate for him to change his name to Stringfellow. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
I’d be interested in learning more but finding the time is really difficult. I’ve attended a couple of workshops and can do basics , neat single column ties and a few restraint positions but doing it competently takes a long time unless you’re tying notts regularly. I’d be interested in workshops covering different skills , styles, types of ropes , practical tips etc
For me it doesn’t matter what it’s called but it’s about the process and that requires a strong connection and trust between two people (and usually patience!) and then creating something, usually for photography. It’s an expression of dominance, submission & restraint and different emotions, moods and lighting that I want to capture on film. And then often it leads to kinky sex with one person all tied up  |
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"I’d be interested in learning more but finding the time is really difficult. I’ve attended a couple of workshops and can do basics , neat single column ties and a few restraint positions but doing it competently takes a long time unless you’re tying notts regularly. I’d be interested in workshops covering different skills , styles, types of ropes , practical tips etc
For me it doesn’t matter what it’s called but it’s about the process and that requires a strong connection and trust between two people (and usually patience!) and then creating something, usually for photography. It’s an expression of dominance, submission & restraint and different emotions, moods and lighting that I want to capture on film. And then often it leads to kinky sex with one person all tied up "
Did you manage to get to a peer rope meet?
In the newbies corner of one I go to, they go though all the different skills, styles, ropes and loads and loads of tips, this also moves into the opportunity to tie and be tied with like minded people and gain their peer experiences and tuition, and of course go to the munch afterwards |
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"We like to play with ropes...
Have been doing so for some time.
There are a few examples in our gallery.
We recently completed a scene with our first full suspension, it was intoxicating for rigger and bunny!"
Sounds amazing will check out you gallery |
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"Intersting THREAD you might say, but seriously, I knew a fella who lost his life through rope bondage. The guy was very highly strung, and the suspense was killing him! It was just a situation that he got roped in to, not like anyone was stringing him along, or he might have told them to get knotted. We say though that before his passing, it might have been appropriate for him to change his name to Stringfellow. "
Very good |
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"I’d be interested in learning more but finding the time is really difficult. I’ve attended a couple of workshops and can do basics , neat single column ties and a few restraint positions but doing it competently takes a long time unless you’re tying notts regularly. I’d be interested in workshops covering different skills , styles, types of ropes , practical tips etc
For me it doesn’t matter what it’s called but it’s about the process and that requires a strong connection and trust between two people (and usually patience!) and then creating something, usually for photography. It’s an expression of dominance, submission & restraint and different emotions, moods and lighting that I want to capture on film. And then often it leads to kinky sex with one person all tied up "
There are some good events in your UK neck of the woods, but like you say it takes practice etc etc to build muscle memory etc etc |
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"I’d be interested in learning more but finding the time is really difficult. I’ve attended a couple of workshops and can do basics , neat single column ties and a few restraint positions but doing it competently takes a long time unless you’re tying notts regularly. I’d be interested in workshops covering different skills , styles, types of ropes , practical tips etc
For me it doesn’t matter what it’s called but it’s about the process and that requires a strong connection and trust between two people (and usually patience!) and then creating something, usually for photography. It’s an expression of dominance, submission & restraint and different emotions, moods and lighting that I want to capture on film. And then often it leads to kinky sex with one person all tied up
Did you manage to get to a peer rope meet?
In the newbies corner of one I go to, they go though all the different skills, styles, ropes and loads and loads of tips, this also moves into the opportunity to tie and be tied with like minded people and gain their peer experiences and tuition, and of course go to the munch afterwards "
Sounds like an awesome peer rope event. I think I might know one of the organisers |
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"I have been exploring shibari and the aesthetic side of ropes for 3 years...
I love the whole experience.
Shibari is something we are to be looking into  "
Sorry I got confused over your location, there is a peer rope in Edinburgh which will be a little closer than Aberdeen. |
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"Any in London or the South East that you know or recommend? "
Peer ropes?
I don't think London Peer rope is back up and running again.
When you say the South East, is that Essex or Kent, and I can have a look to see if you'd like? |
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"Any in London or the South East that you know or recommend? "
Yeah Peer Rope London is still looking for a venue by the looks of it, which is a great shame 
There is a peer rope in Croydon, Zensensual will likely know better than I, there is are workshop type events going that way.
Gatwick dungeon do peer ropes I think, but thats a bit of trek for you
Sorry I can be of more help |
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"Any in London or the South East that you know or recommend?
Peer ropes?
I don't think London Peer rope is back up and running again.
When you say the South East, is that Essex or Kent, and I can have a look to see if you'd like?"
Kent and SE london
Thanks |
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"Any in London or the South East that you know or recommend?
Peer ropes?
I don't think London Peer rope is back up and running again.
When you say the South East, is that Essex or Kent, and I can have a look to see if you'd like?
Kent and SE london
Thanks"
Thanks, will keep an eye open and let you know if I spot anything. I think there might be one medway way but I would have to check |
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"We are interested in learning. And like complete noobs I didn't realise there are workshops etc to actually learn in person  "
There are bound to be events over in your neck of the woods, I'll have a look and let you know |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"Any in London or the South East that you know or recommend?
Peer ropes?
I don't think London Peer rope is back up and running again.
When you say the South East, is that Essex or Kent, and I can have a look to see if you'd like?
Kent and SE london
Thanks
Thanks, will keep an eye open and let you know if I spot anything. I think there might be one medway way but I would have to check "
Its not a peer rope, but there is always Anatomie Studio which runs beginner events and rope jams SE15 2JR |
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"Any in London or the South East that you know or recommend?
Peer ropes?
I don't think London Peer rope is back up and running again.
When you say the South East, is that Essex or Kent, and I can have a look to see if you'd like?
Kent and SE london
Thanks
Thanks, will keep an eye open and let you know if I spot anything. I think there might be one medway way but I would have to check
Its not a peer rope, but there is always Anatomie Studio which runs beginner events and rope jams SE15 2JR"
Good call, and there are beginner classes coming up in August too |
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"Does anyone know of any rope classes in the Manchester/NW area at all?"
Looks like there was pre covid, but no posts recently. I know a couple of people active on the kink scene up that way, hopefully they will jump in with an update.
I don't know how far Sheffield is, I know their peer rope is starting up again and has an event coming up soon. If you want details, drop me a message |
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"Does anyone know of any rope classes in the Manchester/NW area at all?
The Manchester rope jam has a teaching slot/area... That's a monthly thing. Details are on the other site
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Thank you, I hoped you'd have the info |
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"Does anyone know of any rope classes in the Manchester/NW area at all?
The Manchester rope jam has a teaching slot/area... That's a monthly thing. Details are on the other site
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Doesn't look like I'd be able to get in (stairs). Never mind... |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
"Does anyone know of any rope classes in the Manchester/NW area at all?
The Manchester rope jam has a teaching slot/area... That's a monthly thing. Details are on the other site
Doesn't look like I'd be able to get in (stairs). Never mind..."
Ah boooooo. Boooooo.
I wonder if the organiser would concider moving to picadilly (if the venue were amenable)... |
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"Does anyone know of any rope classes in the Manchester/NW area at all?
The Manchester rope jam has a teaching slot/area... That's a monthly thing. Details are on the other site
Doesn't look like I'd be able to get in (stairs). Never mind...
Ah boooooo. Boooooo.
I wonder if the organiser would concider moving to picadilly (if the venue were amenable)... "
We're definitely interested (once I'm COVID free!) |
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"Does anyone know of any rope classes in the Manchester/NW area at all?
The Manchester rope jam has a teaching slot/area... That's a monthly thing. Details are on the other site
Doesn't look like I'd be able to get in (stairs). Never mind...
Ah boooooo. Boooooo.
I wonder if the organiser would concider moving to picadilly (if the venue were amenable)...
We're definitely interested (once I'm COVID free!)"
Have a look at the Manchester alternative rooms, they have a beginner event, it's full up atm, but gives you an idea, tis listed over there yonder ?? |
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"Does anyone know of any rope classes in the Manchester/NW area at all?
The Manchester rope jam has a teaching slot/area... That's a monthly thing. Details are on the other site
Doesn't look like I'd be able to get in (stairs). Never mind...
Ah boooooo. Boooooo.
I wonder if the organiser would concider moving to picadilly (if the venue were amenable)...
We're definitely interested (once I'm COVID free!)
Have a look at the Manchester alternative rooms, they have a beginner event, it's full up atm, but gives you an idea, tis listed over there yonder ??"
Just what I've been looking for |
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"We are interested in learning. And like complete noobs I didn't realise there are workshops etc to actually learn in person
There are bound to be events over in your neck of the woods, I'll have a look and let you know "
That would be fab, thanks |
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
Camberley occasionally doncaster |
"Is anyone interested in learning some rope bondage??
I'm learning myself.. love it
It can be a real rabbit hole of a topic"
Definitely. Found some good YT tutorials. Seriously considering getting a dressmakers dummy to practice on. |
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There are bound to be events over in your neck of the woods, I'll have a look and let you know
That would be fab, thanks"
The Peer rope Cambridge like so many others lost its venue at the start of Covid and is still looking for a new one
If I hear any more, I'll update you |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
Sutton |
"Any in London or the South East that you know or recommend?
Peer ropes?
I don't think London Peer rope is back up and running again.
When you say the South East, is that Essex or Kent, and I can have a look to see if you'd like?
Kent and SE london
Thanks"
Medway Towns Peer Rope last Thursday of the month.
Peer Rope Sutton second Sunday of the month. |
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There are bound to be events over in your neck of the woods, I'll have a look and let you know
That would be fab, thanks
The Peer rope Cambridge like so many others lost its venue at the start of Covid and is still looking for a new one
If I hear any more, I'll update you "
Thank you so much |
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"I used to follow this really cute American girl on YouTube who used to do rope work on herself. It looked amazing "
There is someone on various sites that does amazing self ties worn under clothes, first class work |
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"Any North West Shibari experts please feel free to get in touch x"
What part of the "north-west" Manchester has a good scene going on, if you want to drop me a DM, I will let you know if I know of anyone near you
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W are also looking to explore ropeplay, O has been a rope bunny once or twice and enjoyed it, now we want to explore it in more depth, and hopefully really push our boundaries. Ideally looking for someone around the Northampton / Milton Keynes region, as we want rope and soft bdsm play as part of our normal life. Hopefully someone, somewhere can help |
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"W are also looking to explore ropeplay, O has been a rope bunny once or twice and enjoyed it, now we want to explore it in more depth, and hopefully really push our boundaries. Ideally looking for someone around the Northampton / Milton Keynes region, as we want rope and soft bdsm play as part of our normal life. Hopefully someone, somewhere can help "
There's a peer rope in Milton Keynes, the July one was cancelled at the organiser was unwell, but I'm sure it will be back.
There seem to be a number of other events and there's likely a munch or similar running locally.
So you appear to be in a good place for expanding your kink interests |
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over a year ago
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"We're just learning the ropes 
Miss S x
There are rope events in your neck of the woods "
Don't fancy being in the woods with rope and strangers 
Miss S x |
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"We're just learning the ropes
Miss S x
There are rope events in your neck of the woods
Don't fancy being in the woods with rope and strangers
Miss S x"
Well indeed
You never know what you'll find down in the woods lol |
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"As you can probably tell from our profile pic, we are new and very interested…
Would love to be able to find some to teach us more.
X Blue & Pink X"
There are peer rope events in both Sheffield and Leeds depending on which is closer and easier to go to for you both, you have a little bit of choice |
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"Yes! Mrs P is very interested in this. Shibari in particular. We are near London, and hoping to find somewhere near we can take a beginner's course or workshop soon. "
If you scroll up the thread Zensensual gave some details about London based events
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"The rope workshops in MK and London sound interesting. How do we find out about the MK ones?"
A quick Google of "Milton Keynes peer rope" returned some good information and pictures of flyers etc.
Might be good to join the other more fet related site too.
Hope that helps? |
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"Is anyone interested in learning some rope bondage??
Are you the person who runs sessions at Xstasia?"
The peer rope, no I'm knot, but if will happily help if I can or point you in their direction, I think one of the organisers is on this site
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"Is anyone interested in learning some rope bondage??
Are you the person who runs sessions at Xstasia?
The peer rope, no I'm knot, but if will happily help if I can or point you in their direction, I think one of the organisers is on this site
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Yes if you have a fab name for them, that would be great. I looked on the website but didn’t see anything mentioned currently. |
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Yes if you have a fab name for them, that would be great. I looked on the website but didn’t see anything mentioned currently. "
OK to message as I don't wish to share names on the forum?
Are you members of the fet site? Might be easier to contact them there?
Or ask me I might know, I've been a few times, if you're just looking for when it's next on etc ? |
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over a year ago
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"Recently had my first real experience, it was mind blowing
There is an awesome rope scene in your neck of the woods
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I have been searching, but can't find details anywhere!! |
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I have been searching, but can't find details anywhere!!"
If you search for "Christian Red" he is nottingham based, give group and private tuition and will likely be a good source for what rope events are happening that way as I believe his partner is involved with them.
I hope that helps, if you're still stuck drop me a DM
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"I ( adie ) would love to be tied"
I'm struggling to find anything local to you currently I'm afraid
Bedford had a great peer event, but I can't be sure it is still running
I will keep looking and feed back |
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over a year ago
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I have been searching, but can't find details anywhere!!
If you search for "Christian Red" he is nottingham based, give group and private tuition and will likely be a good source for what rope events are happening that way as I believe his partner is involved with them.
I hope that helps, if you're still stuck drop me a DM
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He's the only person who came up when I searched. Thank you |
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I hope that helps, if you're still stuck drop me a DM
He's the only person who came up when I searched. Thank you "
Cool
He is a nice friendly guy and does a fair bit of teaching, so should be able to help you out.
Have fun |
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"I've never really found a true enthusiast who would like to tue me up I find rope work so erotic are there local people in cheshire who would like to contact me"
Try looking for a local peer rope maybe? That's usually a good place to meet some people |
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"I enjoy bondage play but find rope a bit slow & tedious "
Rope can be just as quick as cuffs depends on what people want to achieve. The sensual element is often over looked with it comes to rope |
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I have been searching, but can't find details anywhere!!
If you search for "Christian Red" he is nottingham based, give group and private tuition and will likely be a good source for what rope events are happening that way as I believe his partner is involved with them.
I hope that helps, if you're still stuck drop me a DM
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Returning to thank you for this recommendation, he's booked |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
Sutton |
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I have been searching, but can't find details anywhere!!
If you search for "Christian Red" he is nottingham based, give group and private tuition and will likely be a good source for what rope events are happening that way as I believe his partner is involved with them.
I hope that helps, if you're still stuck drop me a DM
Returning to thank you for this recommendation, he's booked "
Pre-covid I have had an all day one to one tutorial with him, and been to a number of workshops hosted by him aa part of Nottingham Rope. I think he is a really good guy and an exceptional rigger. He has his own YouTube channel ( I can't remember it's name). He has also appeared on The Rope Podcast, (which is the best podcast on rope that I have listened to so far). |
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