Usually...yes..but occasionally a social stayed a social to arrange a fun meet..I've a couple of upcoming meets already arranged and it's going to be straight into playtime

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By *arkus1812Man over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

A couple of times in the past.

If the opportunity arises and both parties are in favour then yes I would have sex on the first meet.

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By *teveanddebsCouple over a year ago

Norwich

We go with the flow but if someone stipulated definitely no sex on a first meet we probably wouldn't meet them.

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By *23RouteCouple over a year ago

Huddersfield

Every time , if lads can manage it !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We enjoy clubs so us..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Erm mostly yes because of the importance of discussing beforehand.

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By *ork and MindyMan over a year ago

Southampton

Yep

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sometimes yes, sometimes no..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Who's had sex on their first meet?

What would be the point of meeting without the sex?

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By *JstarsoloWoman over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

Most times I do

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, unless its a social but even then its normaly sex after

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By *tinerant scribeMan over a year ago

County Durham

Yep. I can only remember two first meets without sex.

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan over a year ago

All over the place

Generally I like a social first to make sure there is a connection but can't lie I've had sex with women I've met in clubs etc the same night yes x

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By *aughty but nice...Man over a year ago

Staffs

I always say a social first but sometimes you just know when meet someone for the first time where its going to end up

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By *aveworcsMan over a year ago

Worcester

In some form or other!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's kind of the point isn't it....other wise it's dating

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By *Ci LutherMan over a year ago

Cumalot

Numerous times.. if the conversation goes ok ant it feel right

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By *rivervaderMan over a year ago

bolton

Not had one yet so wouldn’t know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s usually happens

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By *s2walesCouple over a year ago

Gwent...

Not often, but has happened...

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By *eardyBikerMan over a year ago

nr stonehaven

Umm...all my meets barring 1

.. which was a social then the next day

we met

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By *angbangcouple6969Man over a year ago

Walsall

"Who's had sex on their first meet?

Always, hubster loves watching

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Usually ends up that way, including a meet in a Tesco cafe with someone here who said they only met for coffee!

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By *ossman0168Man over a year ago

Liverpool

A few times yes, but there needs to be an attraction to play and not just a pulse lol

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By *jay2020888Man over a year ago

Birmingham

Hahaha I’m in the same boat lmao

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

if all goes ok then thats why we are here to swing

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By *luebell888Woman over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Who's had sex on their first meet?

Me. Was not on the agenda but it happened.

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By *ister_ee_1981Man over a year ago

Sunniest Exeter...

All of mine have been "social and see how it goes"

All have gone well..

One was a "social only" so that one didn't (obviously...)

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By *urnhambiguyMan over a year ago

Swindon

Yes, there are dating apps for other stuff. This is fab lol

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple over a year ago

chester

All of them so far!!

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple over a year ago

chester

"All of them so far!!

Apart from the ones that were purely social I should add - the Fab socials!

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By *ugarbearCouple over a year ago

Tredegar

me often esp in my young days i was very easy

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By *ornucopiaMan over a year ago

Bexley

"That's kind of the point isn't it....other wise it's dating"

I thought 'dating' was just a euphemism for sex.

Why else would people be looking for a specific type?

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By *ull English with teaMan over a year ago

London

Guilty!

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By *mizhereMan over a year ago

Thame area

Quite often and not even at clubs

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By *unandgamegeekMan over a year ago

Bolton

I've had sex on a first meet a few times. The last time I did that was on a social meet 4 months ago.

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By *uriousScottishGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yupp, pretty much everytime

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By *omCoyoteMan over a year ago

Northern England

...With the important proviso that either party can "pull the plug" if they're not completely happy.

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By *aptainhornpipeMan over a year ago

manchester

Not every time but the majority of times, normally when I meet someone I have a fair idea that we get along and are interested in the same things.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

well it would be nice to get any sex let alone a first date

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By *omRachCouple over a year ago

Wirral

"Doesn't everyone?

We haven't

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By *andb69Couple over a year ago

leeds

We play in clubs so I have sex on first meeting guys virtually every time. Anonymous sex with strangers is a great turn on for me.

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By *aveyDipperMan over a year ago

Teesside

It depends on what spark is there and what expectations are set before hand, some couples only want you present for sex so if you don’t come prepared you won’t cum

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By *enatton2Couple over a year ago

West Midlands

All but once and that was agreed to be just a social, we never heard from them again so clearly went well

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By *harAndBryCouple over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"Who's had sex on their first meet?

We always say that a first meet is a social though we never rule out playing on a first meet and so far we always have. Char's health means we don't get very many opportunities and a social takes it out of her just as much as a play date, so we find that social only meets are a bit of a wasted opportunity.

(Bry)

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple over a year ago

Rushden

Yeah, I we try to have a bit of a chat first on here, then on to Telegram, so we have a bit of a vibe with each other before hand.

So when we meet we can usually get straight to the good bit

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By *xcited99Couple over a year ago

omagh

Oh yes. Not here for long term relationships.

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