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"Whys it so hard for a decent genuine person to get replies I don't get it " There’s a lot of competition for men on here , it’s hard enough even when you bother to Jane a good profile , maybe worth putting a bit more into yours | |||
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"Unless you have a massive cock, couples and single women just don't care about you on Fab, unfortunately" Well, I don't have a massive cock and have no issues. | |||
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"Unless you have a massive cock, couples and single women just don't care about you on Fab, unfortunately" That's really not true. | |||
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"Unless you have a massive cock, couples and single women just don't care about you on Fab, unfortunately Well, I don't have a massive cock and have no issues." If you're getting meetups then it must be above average. Its the only way to be successful on this site | |||
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"Unless you have a massive cock, couples and single women just don't care about you on Fab, unfortunately Well, I don't have a massive cock and have no issues. If you're getting meetups then it must be above average. Its the only way to be successful on this site" No it's not. | |||
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"Unless you have a massive cock, couples and single women just don't care about you on Fab, unfortunately" Inaccurate. If you search the forum threads on this you will see that a lot of women actually prefer smaller. | |||
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"Unless you have a massive cock, couples and single women just don't care about you on Fab, unfortunately Inaccurate. If you search the forum threads on this you will see that a lot of women actually prefer smaller." OP, again, this is nonsense to condescend those of us with small dicks. Put up some big dick pics and watch what happens | |||
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"Whys it so hard for a decent genuine person to get replies I don't get it " A large amount are sadly fantasists who have no intention of meeting. Sadly genuine people struggle due to the amount of timewasters that are about. | |||
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"Patients is key" Or maybe Patience? | |||
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"Whys it so hard for a decent genuine person to get replies I don't get it " Start with your profile, mate. Make it about you; your chance to show why someone might want to meet you! It won't guarantee anything, of course, but a blank profile will be a turn off for 99.9% of people. | |||
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"Unless you have a massive cock, couples and single women just don't care about you on Fab, unfortunately Inaccurate. If you search the forum threads on this you will see that a lot of women actually prefer smaller. OP, again, this is nonsense to condescend those of us with small dicks. Put up some big dick pics and watch what happens" But you've had lots of meets, mate? | |||
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" OP, again, this is nonsense to condescend those of us with small dicks. Put up some big dick pics and watch what happens" What is your problem? Don’t tell me I’m talking nonsense. Research the threads for yourself or are your comments simply aimed at getting people to look at your profile. You are not helping the OP at all. | |||
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"Don't listen to these people, they're talking nonsense. If you're verified, out up a couple of huge cock pics and watch the views, winks and messages begging for meets roll in. They'll contest it, but try it and you'll see I'm right" That doesn't mean men with average or below average size penises don't meet people. Do you really believe all the verified men on here have big penises? | |||
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"Unless you have a massive cock, couples and single women just don't care about you on Fab, unfortunately Inaccurate. If you search the forum threads on this you will see that a lot of women actually prefer smaller. OP, again, this is nonsense to condescend those of us with small dicks. Put up some big dick pics and watch what happens But you've had lots of meets, mate?" Mostly socials that never went anywhere (bigger offers came along, shall we say. Haha) | |||
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"Whys it so hard for a decent genuine person to get replies I don't get it " Meeting people isn’t a problem. Meeting porn or unrealistic expectations well, that’s another elephant on the bus. Having fun now that is a whole different tunnel of termites. Just have fun. It might turn into a magic formula. | |||
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"Don't listen to these people, they're talking nonsense. If you're verified, out up a couple of huge cock pics and watch the views, winks and messages begging for meets roll in. They'll contest it, but try it and you'll see I'm right That doesn't mean men with average or below average size penises don't meet people. Do you really believe all the verified men on here have big penises?" He's had 11 meets by 9 people. I do believe hes just trolling | |||
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"Unless you have a massive cock, couples and single women just don't care about you on Fab, unfortunately Inaccurate. If you search the forum threads on this you will see that a lot of women actually prefer smaller. OP, again, this is nonsense to condescend those of us with small dicks. Put up some big dick pics and watch what happens" He'll get men pretending to be women messaging him for want talk. There will be some people who just want the big cocks, but plenty of us don't. Maybe attitude and personality have something to do with it. | |||
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"Don't listen to these people, they're talking nonsense. If you're verified, out up a couple of huge cock pics and watch the views, winks and messages begging for meets roll in. They'll contest it, but try it and you'll see I'm right That doesn't mean men with average or below average size penises don't meet people. Do you really believe all the verified men on here have big penises? He's had 11 meets by 9 people. I do believe hes just trolling" Oh, I don't see his problem then, unless they were all socials. | |||
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" OP, again, this is nonsense to condescend those of us with small dicks. Put up some big dick pics and watch what happens What is your problem? Don’t tell me I’m talking nonsense. Research the threads for yourself or are your comments simply aimed at getting people to look at your profile. You are not helping the OP at all." If you use the green arrow function you will see he’s been on at least one other thread posting the same | |||
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"Whys it so hard for a decent genuine person to get replies I don't get it Meeting people isn’t a problem. Meeting porn or unrealistic expectations well, that’s another elephant on the bus. Having fun now that is a whole different tunnel of termites. Just have fun. It might turn into a magic formula." Always easy for a couple with 205726394 options on the table. Trying to put yourself in his shoes isn't helpful when you have no idea what it's like to get nowhere on here | |||
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"Don't listen to these people, they're talking nonsense. If you're verified, out up a couple of huge cock pics and watch the views, winks and messages begging for meets roll in. They'll contest it, but try it and you'll see I'm right That doesn't mean men with average or below average size penises don't meet people. Do you really believe all the verified men on here have big penises? He's had 11 meets by 9 people. I do believe hes just trolling Oh, I don't see his problem then, unless they were all socials." They were | |||
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"I like to be kind of discreet more than willing to show pictures etc just think kind of that's a way of getting to know people a bit better if u don't already know so much about them bit of mystery " There's literally tens of thousands identical profiles to yours. Do you go out to a park in your spare time and start polishing every single grey rock you see just to check in case it's a gem? There is literally zero mystery in a blank profile. To suggest that there's anything mysterious worth checking out one has to have something to at least peak someone's curiosity. All that said having an amazing profile doesn't magically make people want to meet you, only increases your chances of people wanting to talk to you. Your personality and compatibility with people you're talking to will determine the rest. Missus | |||
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"Unless you are a massive cock, couples and single women just don't care about the size of your penis, fortunately" Fixed it for ya  | |||
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"Whys it so hard for a decent genuine person to get replies I don't get it Meeting people isn’t a problem. Meeting porn or unrealistic expectations well, that’s another elephant on the bus. Having fun now that is a whole different tunnel of termites. Just have fun. It might turn into a magic formula. Always easy for a couple with 205726394 options on the table. Trying to put yourself in his shoes isn't helpful when you have no idea what it's like to get nowhere on here" Don’t be surprised if you walk down the same path and end up in the same place then. Guess you know what couples need, more than they do. Have… was going to say fun. | |||
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"Don't listen to these people, they're talking nonsense. If you're verified, out up a couple of huge cock pics and watch the views, winks and messages begging for meets roll in. They'll contest it, but try it and you'll see I'm right That doesn't mean men with average or below average size penises don't meet people. Do you really believe all the verified men on here have big penises? He's had 11 meets by 9 people. I do believe hes just trolling Oh, I don't see his problem then, unless they were all socials. They were" But you still met them, or are you telling me they all told after meeting socially that your cock was too small? | |||
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" If you use the green arrow function you will see he’s been on at least one other thread posting the same " I have literally just been checking it out as I knew something wasn’t right. Complete attention seeker who is derailing the OP’s thread  | |||
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" If you use the green arrow function you will see he’s been on at least one other thread posting the same I have literally just been checking it out as I knew something wasn’t right. Complete attention seeker who is derailing the OP’s thread "Nothing is being derailed. I'm bringing it to the core issue on this site, which couples and women seem unwilling to talk about: that size matters for having meets | |||
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" If you use the green arrow function you will see he’s been on at least one other thread posting the same I have literally just been checking it out as I knew something wasn’t right. Complete attention seeker who is derailing the OP’s thread
Nothing is being derailed. I'm bringing it to the core issue on this site, which couples and women seem unwilling to talk about: that size matters for having meets"If size mattered to every woman and couple on here then I would have no meets. | |||
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" If you use the green arrow function you will see he’s been on at least one other thread posting the same I have literally just been checking it out as I knew something wasn’t right. Complete attention seeker who is derailing the OP’s thread
Nothing is being derailed. I'm bringing it to the core issue on this site, which couples and women seem unwilling to talk about: that size matters for having meets
If size mattered to every woman and couple on here then I would have no meets."If you get meets, then it means you're big enough. It's not complicated | |||
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" If you use the green arrow function you will see he’s been on at least one other thread posting the same I have literally just been checking it out as I knew something wasn’t right. Complete attention seeker who is derailing the OP’s thread
Nothing is being derailed. I'm bringing it to the core issue on this site, which couples and women seem unwilling to talk about: that size matters for having meets"Without checking what was the original OP query? | |||
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" If you use the green arrow function you will see he’s been on at least one other thread posting the same I have literally just been checking it out as I knew something wasn’t right. Complete attention seeker who is derailing the OP’s thread
Nothing is being derailed. I'm bringing it to the core issue on this site, which couples and women seem unwilling to talk about: that size matters for having meets
Without checking what was the original OP query?"Why is it difficult for genuine guys to get replies on here. I answered it for him | |||
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" If you use the green arrow function you will see he’s been on at least one other thread posting the same I have literally just been checking it out as I knew something wasn’t right. Complete attention seeker who is derailing the OP’s thread
Nothing is being derailed. I'm bringing it to the core issue on this site, which couples and women seem unwilling to talk about: that size matters for having meets
Without checking what was the original OP query?
Why is it difficult for genuine guys to get replies on here. I answered it for him"MORON | |||
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"Wow didn't mean to cause this sorry people ??????" Not your fault, this happens on the forums when someone has a personal gripe. Take some of the genuine advice you’ve been offered about putting together a decent profile and pics. They don’t need to be facial ones. Oh and don’t be put off posting on the forums!
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" If you use the green arrow function you will see he’s been on at least one other thread posting the same I have literally just been checking it out as I knew something wasn’t right. Complete attention seeker who is derailing the OP’s thread
Nothing is being derailed. I'm bringing it to the core issue on this site, which couples and women seem unwilling to talk about: that size matters for having meets
If size mattered to every woman and couple on here then I would have no meets.
If you get meets, then it means you're big enough. It's not complicated"I'm sure I've never told any of my meets how big my cock is before meeting them, the majority don't see a picture either. Instead of blaming your perceived lack of size look for other reasons as to why you dont get the meets you want. | |||
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" If you use the green arrow function you will see he’s been on at least one other thread posting the same I have literally just been checking it out as I knew something wasn’t right. Complete attention seeker who is derailing the OP’s thread
Nothing is being derailed. I'm bringing it to the core issue on this site, which couples and women seem unwilling to talk about: that size matters for having meets"Oddly enough I agree, had a girlfriend who cuckoos her husband because he is hung like a donkey, and as all the blood is in his cock has possibly the same I.Q. Also a wife who says will not have uncomfortable sex again. Equally, she has complained to me about cervix pushing and angles. Oddly enough what works for you… works. | |||
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" If you use the green arrow function you will see he’s been on at least one other thread posting the same I have literally just been checking it out as I knew something wasn’t right. Complete attention seeker who is derailing the OP’s thread
Nothing is being derailed. I'm bringing it to the core issue on this site, which couples and women seem unwilling to talk about: that size matters for having meets
Without checking what was the original OP query?
Why is it difficult for genuine guys to get replies on here. I answered it for him"Luckily others have debunked your response. If you actually met people, then your problem manifested face to face, not face to cock. OP, fab isn't a lucky dip. People want an idea of what they're getting into BEFORE they commit time to emails and messaging. Say a bit about yourself, post some pics, it'll help. | |||
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"Whys it so hard for a decent genuine person to get replies I don't get it " Why would anyone want to meet you? That's not a pop at you, it's a direct question. You're the hundredth guy this month saying they are genuine and can't get a meet but what exactly are YOU doing about it? Aside from the fact single guys represent about two thirds of the sites user base now (so you have a lot of competition), you've got no photos, a bare minimum profile and what else? For those who meet single guys, they can be spammed with hundreds of messages each day. What exactly are you doing to stand out? If you think it is just going to fall your lap because you made a fab profile, you're in for a long long long wait. Make a better profile, add some photos, go to socials or clubs etc. Stop sitting and waiting Gor it to come to you (because it wont). Get out there and go to it. | |||
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" If you use the green arrow function you will see he’s been on at least one other thread posting the same I have literally just been checking it out as I knew something wasn’t right. Complete attention seeker who is derailing the OP’s thread
Nothing is being derailed. I'm bringing it to the core issue on this site, which couples and women seem unwilling to talk about: that size matters for having meets
Without checking what was the original OP query?
Why is it difficult for genuine guys to get replies on here. I answered it for him"From another thread by yourself just now. "I don't want people humiliating me for my size? I just know that women aren't interested in smaller dicks. I joined this site only to get to know people and have some fun, and it turned into a measuring contest whenever I'd message people" Get a GRIP and deal with your issues  | |||
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"Whys it so hard for a decent genuine person to get replies I don't get it " You need a couple of pics on your profile mate. Most women and couples scroll past blank ‘silhouette’ profiles in their inbox. Punctuating your text would help too  | |||
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"Whys it so hard for a decent genuine person to get replies I don't get it Why would anyone want to meet you?" Your answer in a nutshell, OP, it's not enough to just be yourself, you have to jump through rings and dance on hot coals just to be noticed, only for your size to be the decider | |||
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"Whys it so hard for a decent genuine person to get replies I don't get it Why would anyone want to meet you? Your answer in a nutshell, OP, it's not enough to just be yourself, you have to jump through rings and dance on hot coals just to be noticed, only for your size to be the decider" You're funny! | |||
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"Patients is key Or maybe Patience?" Yes that's the one. Cheers bud | |||
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"Whys it so hard for a decent genuine person to get replies I don't get it " .. For some single guys it can be hard.. better if you put a few pics up .. may have a better chance of a meet . | |||
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"I like to be kind of discreet more than willing to show pictures etc just think kind of that's a way of getting to know people a bit better if u don't already know so much about them bit of mystery " So who do you think people will contact? Mystery guy who they haven't even got an idea what he looks like, or someone who they know what he looks like and think they might have something in common with them? The fact you aren't doing well might help answer that. | |||
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"Whys it so hard for a decent genuine person to get replies I don't get it .. For some single guys it can be hard.. better if you put a few pics up .. may have a better chance of a meet . " Ironically, you're giving this advice despite the fact you'd never talk to him unless he was hung | |||
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" If you use the green arrow function you will see he’s been on at least one other thread posting the same I have literally just been checking it out as I knew something wasn’t right. Complete attention seeker who is derailing the OP’s thread
Nothing is being derailed. I'm bringing it to the core issue on this site, which couples and women seem unwilling to talk about: that size matters for having meets"It really doesn't. You are so wrong. | |||
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" If you use the green arrow function you will see he’s been on at least one other thread posting the same I have literally just been checking it out as I knew something wasn’t right. Complete attention seeker who is derailing the OP’s thread
Nothing is being derailed. I'm bringing it to the core issue on this site, which couples and women seem unwilling to talk about: that size matters for having meets
If size mattered to every woman and couple on here then I would have no meets.
If you get meets, then it means you're big enough. It's not complicated
I'm sure I've never told any of my meets how big my cock is before meeting them, the majority don't see a picture either.
Instead of blaming your perceived lack of size look for other reasons as to why you dont get the meets you want."Exactly this. I've never discussed my cock size, never been asked about it and never sent a picture of it. So how did I get my meets? Probably by showing I wasn't a huge cock. | |||
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"we don't have any problem meeting people from here, in fact, it's almost quite the opposite. Effort put in equals fun times! Work on your profile, talk to people openly and honestly, find yourself people with who you "click" and the barriers will melt away. " That's because you're a couple... You're literally the in-demand demographic on this site. Unless a single guy is well-endowed, he won't get anywhere on this site | |||
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" Effort put in equals fun times! " And nonsense advice like this. As if guys don't put effort into their profiles and chatting. Doesn't help them get messages | |||
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" Effort put in equals fun times! And nonsense advice like this. As if guys don't put effort into their profiles and chatting. Doesn't help them get messages" Your advice has been the most nonsense. No one can do anything about their dick size, and it really doesn't affect the amount of meets in the way you keep on about. The OP putting more effort into his profile will help. | |||
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" Effort put in equals fun times! And nonsense advice like this. As if guys don't put effort into their profiles and chatting. Doesn't help them get messages Your advice has been the most nonsense. No one can do anything about their dick size, and it really doesn't affect the amount of meets in the way you keep on about. The OP putting more effort into his profile will help." Effort is an excuse couples use all the time, and yet will still reject these same profiles despite "Effort". And actually, there is. There is enlargement surgery, which I'm in the process of seeing a consultant about at the moment | |||
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"That's because you're a couple... You're literally the in-demand demographic on this site. Unless a single guy is well-endowed, he won't get anywhere on this site" Well it’s definitely not top of our list. People try to treat this site like tinder. Try messaging couples that have posted a meet request. Go to a club or an organised social. The chances of coming on here and finding a meet in the here and now are very slim. A well written profile with some nice pics will at least get you some interest. Any message we get that contains a dick pic goes in the bin no matter how big it is | |||
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"That's because you're a couple... You're literally the in-demand demographic on this site. Unless a single guy is well-endowed, he won't get anywhere on this site Well it’s definitely not top of our list. People try to treat this site like tinder. Try messaging couples that have posted a meet request. Go to a club or an organised social. The chances of coming on here and finding a meet in the here and now are very slim. A well written profile with some nice pics will at least get you some interest. Any message we get that contains a dick pic goes in the bin no matter how big it is " This is the kind of generic advice people get to improve their tinder profiles. Well written and nice pics, take a pic with a puppy etc. And it never results in more matches. And they don't go into the bin if they're over 8 inches. Haha. Stop lying | |||
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" And they don't go into the bin if they're over 8 inches. Haha. Stop lying" No need to lie. Do you you think this is how clubs work too? All the couples and females queuing up for the guy with the biggest cock !! From our experience this isn’t the case. | |||
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" And they don't go into the bin if they're over 8 inches. Haha. Stop lying No need to lie. Do you you think this is how clubs work too? All the couples and females queuing up for the guy with the biggest cock !! From our experience this isn’t the case. " I'm sure couples do their homework and hunt the hung guys down when they are there, yes | |||
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"Unless you have a massive cock, couples and single women just don't care about you on Fab, unfortunately" This is incredibly incorrect | |||
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" And they don't go into the bin if they're over 8 inches. Haha. Stop lying No need to lie. Do you you think this is how clubs work too? All the couples and females queuing up for the guy with the biggest cock !! From our experience this isn’t the case. I'm sure couples do their homework and hunt the hung guys down when they are there, yes" You seem to be obsessed with the size of your dick On checking the green arrow looks like this isn't the only thread you've tried to derail with this talk. You've even tried to derail a BBC and a mental health thread? I really hope you get the help you need to be able to look past this because you're coming across as bitter and obsessed and its probably not your dick size that stops you getting meets. | |||
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" And they don't go into the bin if they're over 8 inches. Haha. Stop lying No need to lie. Do you you think this is how clubs work too? All the couples and females queuing up for the guy with the biggest cock !! From our experience this isn’t the case. I'm sure couples do their homework and hunt the hung guys down when they are there, yes You seem to be obsessed with the size of your dick On checking the green arrow looks like this isn't the only thread you've tried to derail with this talk. You've even tried to derail a BBC and a mental health thread? I really hope you get the help you need to be able to look past this because you're coming across as bitter and obsessed and its probably not your dick size that stops you getting meets." You've not seen how small it is. If you did, you'd know | |||
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" And they don't go into the bin if they're over 8 inches. Haha. Stop lying No need to lie. Do you you think this is how clubs work too? All the couples and females queuing up for the guy with the biggest cock !! From our experience this isn’t the case. I'm sure couples do their homework and hunt the hung guys down when they are there, yes You seem to be obsessed with the size of your dick On checking the green arrow looks like this isn't the only thread you've tried to derail with this talk. You've even tried to derail a BBC and a mental health thread? I really hope you get the help you need to be able to look past this because you're coming across as bitter and obsessed and its probably not your dick size that stops you getting meets. You've not seen how small it is. If you did, you'd know" So you're publicly admitting that you've got someone's else's penis pictures on your profile? | |||
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" And they don't go into the bin if they're over 8 inches. Haha. Stop lying No need to lie. Do you you think this is how clubs work too? All the couples and females queuing up for the guy with the biggest cock !! From our experience this isn’t the case. I'm sure couples do their homework and hunt the hung guys down when they are there, yes You seem to be obsessed with the size of your dick On checking the green arrow looks like this isn't the only thread you've tried to derail with this talk. You've even tried to derail a BBC and a mental health thread? I really hope you get the help you need to be able to look past this because you're coming across as bitter and obsessed and its probably not your dick size that stops you getting meets. You've not seen how small it is. If you did, you'd know So you're publicly admitting that you've got someone's else's penis pictures on your profile?" They are mine. I'm medically just about average, but Fab small | |||
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" And they don't go into the bin if they're over 8 inches. Haha. Stop lying No need to lie. Do you you think this is how clubs work too? All the couples and females queuing up for the guy with the biggest cock !! From our experience this isn’t the case. I'm sure couples do their homework and hunt the hung guys down when they are there, yes You seem to be obsessed with the size of your dick On checking the green arrow looks like this isn't the only thread you've tried to derail with this talk. You've even tried to derail a BBC and a mental health thread? I really hope you get the help you need to be able to look past this because you're coming across as bitter and obsessed and its probably not your dick size that stops you getting meets. You've not seen how small it is. If you did, you'd know So you're publicly admitting that you've got someone's else's penis pictures on your profile? They are mine. I'm medically just about average, but Fab small" If they are your pictures then you're not small You're clearly just saying you are to get attention and profile views | |||
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" And they don't go into the bin if they're over 8 inches. Haha. Stop lying No need to lie. Do you you think this is how clubs work too? All the couples and females queuing up for the guy with the biggest cock !! From our experience this isn’t the case. I'm sure couples do their homework and hunt the hung guys down when they are there, yes You seem to be obsessed with the size of your dick On checking the green arrow looks like this isn't the only thread you've tried to derail with this talk. You've even tried to derail a BBC and a mental health thread? I really hope you get the help you need to be able to look past this because you're coming across as bitter and obsessed and its probably not your dick size that stops you getting meets. You've not seen how small it is. If you did, you'd know So you're publicly admitting that you've got someone's else's penis pictures on your profile? They are mine. I'm medically just about average, but Fab small If they are your pictures then you're not small You're clearly just saying you are to get attention and profile views " As I've said, I'm medically just about normal (not quite), but Fab small. I'm not trying to draw any attention to my small dick, I just want single guys to get the right advice, not generic stuff from the same couples who will go on to ignore them | |||
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" And they don't go into the bin if they're over 8 inches. Haha. Stop lying No need to lie. Do you you think this is how clubs work too? All the couples and females queuing up for the guy with the biggest cock !! From our experience this isn’t the case. I'm sure couples do their homework and hunt the hung guys down when they are there, yes You seem to be obsessed with the size of your dick On checking the green arrow looks like this isn't the only thread you've tried to derail with this talk. You've even tried to derail a BBC and a mental health thread? I really hope you get the help you need to be able to look past this because you're coming across as bitter and obsessed and its probably not your dick size that stops you getting meets. You've not seen how small it is. If you did, you'd know So you're publicly admitting that you've got someone's else's penis pictures on your profile? They are mine. I'm medically just about average, but Fab small If they are your pictures then you're not small You're clearly just saying you are to get attention and profile views As I've said, I'm medically just about normal (not quite), but Fab small. I'm not trying to draw any attention to my small dick, I just want single guys to get the right advice, not generic stuff from the same couples who will go on to ignore them" You clearly are trying to draw attention to your self other wise you wouldn't post the same comments on every single thread you comment on. Good night | |||
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"Unless you have a massive cock, couples and single women just don't care about you on Fab, unfortunately" 100% not true | |||
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"Unless you have a massive cock, couples and single women just don't care about you on Fab, unfortunately Well, I don't have a massive cock and have no issues. If you're getting meetups then it must be above average. Its the only way to be successful on this site" .................................. Not at all true. | |||
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"Just seems like nobody is really after meeting new friends contacts am I doing something wrong ha ha " I wouldn't reply to a message from a silhouette and a hidden profile. | |||
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" If you use the green arrow function you will see he’s been on at least one other thread posting the same I have literally just been checking it out as I knew something wasn’t right. Complete attention seeker who is derailing the OP’s thread
Nothing is being derailed. I'm bringing it to the core issue on this site, which couples and women seem unwilling to talk about: that size matters for having meets
Without checking what was the original OP query?
Why is it difficult for genuine guys to get replies on here. I answered it for him"................................ Why do you think you're in a position to answer? | |||
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" And they don't go into the bin if they're over 8 inches. Haha. Stop lying No need to lie. Do you you think this is how clubs work too? All the couples and females queuing up for the guy with the biggest cock !! From our experience this isn’t the case. I'm sure couples do their homework and hunt the hung guys down when they are there, yes You seem to be obsessed with the size of your dick On checking the green arrow looks like this isn't the only thread you've tried to derail with this talk. You've even tried to derail a BBC and a mental health thread? I really hope you get the help you need to be able to look past this because you're coming across as bitter and obsessed and its probably not your dick size that stops you getting meets. You've not seen how small it is. If you did, you'd know" ........................ Your verifications suggest you don't have issues meeting people despite you're apparently small cock | |||
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"Unless you have a massive cock, couples and single women just don't care about you on Fab, unfortunately" Not true at all… | |||
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"I like to be kind of discreet more than willing to show pictures etc just think kind of that's a way of getting to know people a bit better if u don't already know so much about them bit of mystery So who do you think people will contact? Mystery guy who they haven't even got an idea what he looks like, or someone who they know what he looks like and think they might have something in common with them? The fact you aren't doing well might help answer that. " Absolutely spot on and a hidden profile too. Nope | |||
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"Unless you have a massive cock, couples and single women just don't care about you on Fab, unfortunately" That's not true, but it may seem like that sometimes | |||
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"Ok in ref to the notion a big cock is everything I’ll be honest… from this site yes it’s a bonus having a larger dick here" Finally some honesty on here, not from a woman or a couple, but from someone who is big and gets a lot more meets because of it. Thank you | |||
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"Ok in ref to the notion a big cock is everything I’ll be honest… from this site yes it’s a bonus having a larger dick here Finally some honesty on here, not from a woman or a couple, but from someone who is big and gets a lot more meets because of it. Thank you "Interesting how you've paraphrased that comment to suit your narrative. As you're not a couple or a single woman, how can you accurately state what they're looking for? First thing that puts people off when looking at profiles, is an utter tool. Posts, or bio that reek of entitlement, whining, complaining or a general woe is me attitude will put most people off. Regardless of cock size. As long as that's not you, you shouldn't have a problem. | |||
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"As you're not a couple or a single woman, how can you accurately state what they're looking for? First thing that puts people off when looking at profiles, is an utter tool. Posts, or bio that reek of entitlement, whining, complaining or a general woe is me attitude will put most people off. Regardless of cock size. As long as that's not you, you shouldn't have a problem. "I know because I get enough replies from them telling me that they are looking for at least 8 inches, after viewing my profile. And no, my opening messages are never rude, and my profile isn't entitled or negative in any way | |||
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" And they don't go into the bin if they're over 8 inches. Haha. Stop lying No need to lie. Do you you think this is how clubs work too? All the couples and females queuing up for the guy with the biggest cock !! From our experience this isn’t the case. I'm sure couples do their homework and hunt the hung guys down when they are there, yes" Sad that you blame the size of your penis for no-one wanting to meet you rather than realising that it's actually your personality, which is something you could maybe overcome | |||
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" And they don't go into the bin if they're over 8 inches. Haha. Stop lying No need to lie. Do you you think this is how clubs work too? All the couples and females queuing up for the guy with the biggest cock !! From our experience this isn’t the case. I'm sure couples do their homework and hunt the hung guys down when they are there, yes Sad that you blame the size of your penis for no-one wanting to meet you rather than realising that it's actually your personality, which is something you could maybe overcome " I wish there was a bull eye emoji | |||
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" And they don't go into the bin if they're over 8 inches. Haha. Stop lying No need to lie. Do you you think this is how clubs work too? All the couples and females queuing up for the guy with the biggest cock !! From our experience this isn’t the case. I'm sure couples do their homework and hunt the hung guys down when they are there, yes Sad that you blame the size of your penis for no-one wanting to meet you rather than realising that it's actually your personality, which is something you could maybe overcome " And as I've just said, my messages are always polite and my profile isn't offensive. I'm too small for most couples on a site mostly geared at size | |||
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" And they don't go into the bin if they're over 8 inches. Haha. Stop lying No need to lie. Do you you think this is how clubs work too? All the couples and females queuing up for the guy with the biggest cock !! From our experience this isn’t the case. I'm sure couples do their homework and hunt the hung guys down when they are there, yes Sad that you blame the size of your penis for no-one wanting to meet you rather than realising that it's actually your personality, which is something you could maybe overcome And as I've just said, my messages are always polite and my profile isn't offensive. I'm too small for most couples on a site mostly geared at size " I thought you had a big cock, and got sex weekly because of the size of it?? | |||
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" Effort put in equals fun times! And nonsense advice like this. As if guys don't put effort into their profiles and chatting. Doesn't help them get messages Your advice has been the most nonsense. No one can do anything about their dick size, and it really doesn't affect the amount of meets in the way you keep on about. The OP putting more effort into his profile will help. Effort is an excuse couples use all the time, and yet will still reject these same profiles despite "Effort". And actually, there is. There is enlargement surgery, which I'm in the process of seeing a consultant about at the moment "Then delete all your profile info and photos apart from you dick shots, as obviously it's all pointless. Oh! You won't, because that stuff improves your chances. Maybe they reject you because of other reasons, like seeing how you interact on forums? | |||
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" Effort put in equals fun times! And nonsense advice like this. As if guys don't put effort into their profiles and chatting. Doesn't help them get messages Your advice has been the most nonsense. No one can do anything about their dick size, and it really doesn't affect the amount of meets in the way you keep on about. The OP putting more effort into his profile will help. Effort is an excuse couples use all the time, and yet will still reject these same profiles despite "Effort". And actually, there is. There is enlargement surgery, which I'm in the process of seeing a consultant about at the moment
Then delete all your profile info and photos apart from you dick shots, as obviously it's all pointless.
Oh! You won't, because that stuff improves your chances.
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"Ok in ref to the notion a big cock is everything I’ll be honest… from this site yes it’s a bonus having a larger dick here Finally some honesty on here, not from a woman or a couple, but from someone who is big and gets a lot more meets because of it. Thank you "To be clear I said there are some who just want a big cock. In my experience not many though. I can tell you many, many people I’ve met and spoken with have said my size is a bonus but not why they chat or meet. I can’t speak for others only what they tell me, I’ve no reason to think they’re lying… | |||
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"If you actually think people only meet guys based on the size of there cock you are extremely deluded. " Absolutely 
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" Effort put in equals fun times! And nonsense advice like this. As if guys don't put effort into their profiles and chatting. Doesn't help them get messages Your advice has been the most nonsense. No one can do anything about their dick size, and it really doesn't affect the amount of meets in the way you keep on about. The OP putting more effort into his profile will help. Effort is an excuse couples use all the time, and yet will still reject these same profiles despite "Effort". And actually, there is. There is enlargement surgery, which I'm in the process of seeing a consultant about at the moment
Then delete all your profile info and photos apart from you dick shots, as obviously it's all pointless.
Oh! You won't, because that stuff improves your chances.
Maybe they reject you because of other reasons, like seeing how you interact on forums?
If I had a big dick, then i would, as I'd have no problems getting meets then like all you hung guys on here "Oh, so now having a profile and putting effort in 'is' useful if you haven't a big dick? So your comments about how putting effort into a profile is pointless was complete bollocks? You just seem like a troll and a waste of time tbh. Glad the green arrow exists so people can see conversations like this. | |||
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"If you actually think people only meet guys based on the size of there cock you are extremely deluded. Absolutely
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"Ok in ref to the notion a big cock is everything I’ll be honest… from this site yes it’s a bonus having a larger dick here Finally some honesty on here, not from a woman or a couple, but from someone who is big and gets a lot more meets because of it. Thank you
To be clear I said there are some who just want a big cock. In my experience not many though. I can tell you many, many people I’ve met and spoken with have said my size is a bonus but not why they chat or meet. I can’t speak for others only what they tell me, I’ve no reason to think they’re lying…"You don't have to be modest around small guys like me, man, I know how this site works. I'm sure your inbox is rammed with couples and singles dying to meet you after seeing your size. Just some of us aren't so lucky to be hung for this site | |||
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" And they don't go into the bin if they're over 8 inches. Haha. Stop lying No need to lie. Do you you think this is how clubs work too? All the couples and females queuing up for the guy with the biggest cock !! From our experience this isn’t the case. I'm sure couples do their homework and hunt the hung guys down when they are there, yes Sad that you blame the size of your penis for no-one wanting to meet you rather than realising that it's actually your personality, which is something you could maybe overcome And as I've just said, my messages are always polite and my profile isn't offensive. I'm too small for most couples on a site mostly geared at size " I've not seen dick pics for majority of men I've met on here,if size was all important I would insist on seeing the goods surely? I've met each them because there's something about them that interested me , nothing to do with the size of their penis | |||
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" You don't have to be modest around small guys like me, man, I know how this site works. I'm sure your inbox is rammed with couples and singles dying to meet you after seeing your size. Just some of us aren't so lucky to be hung for this site" I’ve had enough of this. It was the OP’s first thread. He is new to the site and was seeking advice. YOU have made the whole thread completely about yourself as you do with most threads you comment on. The OP has now hidden his profile and will probably go unlos. You have been here for over a year and had numerous meets. The OP hasn’t had this opportunity. What are you getting out of this? You’re an adult (apparently) Grow the hell up! | |||
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" If you use the green arrow function you will see he’s been on at least one other thread posting the same I have literally just been checking it out as I knew something wasn’t right. Complete attention seeker who is derailing the OP’s thread
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" You don't have to be modest around small guys like me, man, I know how this site works. I'm sure your inbox is rammed with couples and singles dying to meet you after seeing your size. Just some of us aren't so lucky to be hung for this site I’ve had enough of this. It was the OP’s first thread. He is new to the site and was seeking advice. YOU have made the whole thread completely about yourself as you do with most threads you comment on. The OP has now hidden his profile and will probably go unlos. You have been here for over a year and had numerous meets. The OP hasn’t had this opportunity. What are you getting out of this? You’re an adult (apparently) Grow the hell up!" I was giving him an honest answer for what to expect on this site being a single guy, which I unfortunately had to learn the hard way. All the couples on here can't pretend to know what it's like when their inboxes are full of people wanting to meet them. For single guys, unless you're big, you're going way down the pecking order on this site | |||
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"Unless you have a massive cock, couples and single women just don't care about you on Fab, unfortunately Well, I don't have a massive cock and have no issues. If you're getting meetups then it must be above average. Its the only way to be successful on this site" This is absolute nonsense and quite frankly a cop out that a lot of guys use as an excuse when they’re not getting any head way on here. You need to come away from your phone screen, get out there and start meeting people in real life and clubs, parties and social gatherings. That’s the way to be successful, fab is simply a by-product of the swinging world. | |||
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"If you actually think people only meet guys based on the size of there cock you are extremely deluded. Absolutely
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" You don't have to be modest around small guys like me, man, I know how this site works. I'm sure your inbox is rammed with couples and singles dying to meet you after seeing your size. Just some of us aren't so lucky to be hung for this site I’ve had enough of this. It was the OP’s first thread. He is new to the site and was seeking advice. YOU have made the whole thread completely about yourself as you do with most threads you comment on. The OP has now hidden his profile and will probably go unlos. You have been here for over a year and had numerous meets. The OP hasn’t had this opportunity. What are you getting out of this? You’re an adult (apparently) Grow the hell up! I was giving him an honest answer for what to expect on this site being a single guy, which I unfortunately had to learn the hard way. All the couples on here can't pretend to know what it's like when their inboxes are full of people wanting to meet them. For single guys, unless you're big, you're going way down the pecking order on this site" You said improving his profile (which was the best advice) was pointless as it's all about dick size. This is not an honest answer, as if it were you would have been happy to do as I suggested and remove all your profile details and other pics, but you won't. Why would advising the the OP to at least get his profile up to the level of yours be bad advice when it obviously must have worked for you as you have had meets? You have also had numerous couples, single women and single men (of various sizes) tell you you are wrong and yet you are still in denial. If you are struggling, it is down to you, not your dick. | |||
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"If you actually think people only meet guys based on the size of there cock you are extremely deluded. Absolutely
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" You don't have to be modest around small guys like me, man, I know how this site works. I'm sure your inbox is rammed with couples and singles dying to meet you after seeing your size. Just some of us aren't so lucky to be hung for this site I’ve had enough of this. It was the OP’s first thread. He is new to the site and was seeking advice. YOU have made the whole thread completely about yourself as you do with most threads you comment on. The OP has now hidden his profile and will probably go unlos. You have been here for over a year and had numerous meets. The OP hasn’t had this opportunity. What are you getting out of this? You’re an adult (apparently) Grow the hell up! I was giving him an honest answer for what to expect on this site being a single guy, which I unfortunately had to learn the hard way. All the couples on here can't pretend to know what it's like when their inboxes are full of people wanting to meet them. For single guys, unless you're big, you're going way down the pecking order on this site" I think what you don't realise is many couples do realise exactly how hard it is for single guys on here as lots of couples have single profiles also & while the female halves could meet every week if they wanted to the male halves like every other single guy on here struggle to get someone to even look at their profile My husband has the elusive 8 inches you seem to think people worship and the only time he receives messages from couples are when the male halves are obviously horny fantasising about their partners taking something bigger and are after some wank fodder the ladies are never involved in the chat and the chats never turn into or the other messages he gets is nice pictures but there's no way I'd let that thing anywhere near me, proof that not everyone wants something so big Success on here gas nothing to do with size, your verifications show at least 5 play meets in a year most guys struggle to get 1 so you rubbished your own argument. it's simply a numbers game, for every guy to get 1 meet a year women would need to meet twice a week and as we have a life outside FAB that's simply not possible which is why guys will always unfortunately find this site fustrating nothing to do with dick size | |||
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"Unless you have a massive cock, couples and single women just don't care about you on Fab, unfortunately Inaccurate. If you search the forum threads on this you will see that a lot of women actually prefer smaller. OP, again, this is nonsense to condescend those of us with small dicks. Put up some big dick pics and watch what happens" By what you are replyimg like id say its your negative attitude thats not getting you meets. Nobody gives out pity fucks either. Dick size does attract some but not all. Joanne wont entertain anyone over 7" but prefers the 5-6" dick better. Op put pics up. Nobody looks at blank profiles. | |||
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"It's because most women and couples are up there own arse. Even the ugly ones think there special on here Haha I love that. I don’t agree but it has made me laugh. " Oh we agree but that’s because of perception from those who have sent the message. If you get one message a week, you answer it. If you get a hundred you may well answer most. If you get a thousand, you’re most likely to ignore most of them. The ones you answer or even just look at are the ones which catch your eye. So perception, you suddenly feel better about yourself and you can have more opportunity to simply ignore, as you have loads of other options. On the flip side, that person who sent a message that got ignored has probably been ignored many times before, therefore thinking ‘you’re up your own arse’ despite it simply being you didn’t see there message. We however are simply up our own arse cause we’re hot x | |||
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"Whys it so hard for a decent genuine person to get replies I don't get it the fact you have no verifications no photos you don't say where you live or what you are looking for or your likes etc it's not surprising. And you have hidden your profile ..Good luck" Unfortunately he’s hidden his profile due to one guy on here completely derailing his first thread on the forums. Hopefully the OP won’t be completely put off 
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"It's because most women and couples are up there own arse. Even the ugly ones think there special on here Haha I love that. I don’t agree but it has made me laugh. Oh we agree but that’s because of perception from those who have sent the message. If you get one message a week, you answer it. If you get a hundred you may well answer most. If you get a thousand, you’re most likely to ignore most of them. The ones you answer or even just look at are the ones which catch your eye. So perception, you suddenly feel better about yourself and you can have more opportunity to simply ignore, as you have loads of other options. On the flip side, that person who sent a message that got ignored has probably been ignored many times before, therefore thinking ‘you’re up your own arse’ despite it simply being you didn’t see there message. We however are simply up our own arse cause we’re hot x"Exactly this. Couples and women have so much choice and can afford to be very choosy . But , fab also creates the illusion that there are thousands of swingers . There's a massive mismatch number wise and also with expectations. A good number of couple profiles are just the male getting off on chats. It really is far removed from reality in many ways. | |||
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"Whys it so hard for a decent genuine person to get replies I don't get it the fact you have no verifications no photos you don't say where you live or what you are looking for or your likes etc it's not surprising. And you have hidden your profile ..Good luck Unfortunately he’s hidden his profile due to one guy on here completely derailing his first thread on the forums. Hopefully the OP won’t be completely put off
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"It's because most women and couples are up there own arse. Even the ugly ones think there special on here Haha I love that. I don’t agree but it has made me laugh. Oh we agree but that’s because of perception from those who have sent the message. If you get one message a week, you answer it. If you get a hundred you may well answer most. If you get a thousand, you’re most likely to ignore most of them. The ones you answer or even just look at are the ones which catch your eye. So perception, you suddenly feel better about yourself and you can have more opportunity to simply ignore, as you have loads of other options. On the flip side, that person who sent a message that got ignored has probably been ignored many times before, therefore thinking ‘you’re up your own arse’ despite it simply being you didn’t see there message. We however are simply up our own arse cause we’re hot x
Exactly this. Couples and women have so much choice and can afford to be very choosy .
But , fab also creates the illusion that there are thousands of swingers . There's a massive mismatch number wise and also with expectations. A good number of couple profiles are just the male getting off on chats. It really is far removed from reality in many ways."Exactly this | |||
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"Just bare in mind that it’s something stupid Like a 10-1 ratio for single guys to girls on the site. " Think it's more like 50-1 tbh | |||
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"It’s not just difficult for Men either! I get my time wasted and bailed on 95% of the time. I’ve found there are more on here now who like the thrill of a chat but then panic and vanish when it’s time to actually meet someone x " For you....i find that amazing! | |||
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"It’s not just difficult for Men either! I get my time wasted and bailed on 95% of the time. I’ve found there are more on here now who like the thrill of a chat but then panic and vanish when it’s time to actually meet someone x " 100% agree | |||
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"It’s not just difficult for Men either! I get my time wasted and bailed on 95% of the time. I’ve found there are more on here now who like the thrill of a chat but then panic and vanish when it’s time to actually meet someone x For you....i find that amazing!" Oh god yes! Men like to chat but when I try to arrange it’s nothing but excuses or ghosting… I haven’t tasted another man’s cum in months | |||
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" And they don't go into the bin if they're over 8 inches. Haha. Stop lying No need to lie. Do you you think this is how clubs work too? All the couples and females queuing up for the guy with the biggest cock !! From our experience this isn’t the case. I'm sure couples do their homework and hunt the hung guys down when they are there, yes You seem to be obsessed with the size of your dick On checking the green arrow looks like this isn't the only thread you've tried to derail with this talk. You've even tried to derail a BBC and a mental health thread? I really hope you get the help you need to be able to look past this because you're coming across as bitter and obsessed and its probably not your dick size that stops you getting meets. You've not seen how small it is. If you did, you'd know So you're publicly admitting that you've got someone's else's penis pictures on your profile? They are mine. I'm medically just about average, but Fab small" You sound absolutely obsessed with size. You seem to be adamant that's all people are interested in, that couldn't be further from the truth. | |||
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"Guys it's less of an issue about cock size and more the fact that you're insecure as fuck which is a massive turn off. Anyway, my meets have only been the result of women messaging me. Most of my own messages fall on deaf ears "You're obviously big enough for fab couples, so that's why you get messages and don't have to do any work to get meets .
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"Unless you have a massive cock, couples and single women just don't care about you on Fab, unfortunately That's really not true. " Exactly you got to put the effort in it’s a lot of things that contribute to getting a actual meeting. | |||
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"Guys it's less of an issue about cock size and more the fact that you're insecure as fuck which is a massive turn off. Anyway, my meets have only been the result of women messaging me. Most of my own messages fall on deaf ears
You're obviously big enough for fab couples, so that's why you get messages and don't have to do any work to get meets .
It's certainly not insecurity. I was happy enough with my small cock until I found out how much expectation there is for size on here"Wow! What a way to pigeon while every couple or single female in here! Yes there are some who specifically look for the big cock but that is no different to men who go for bbw.. we are all in here for our own likes/wants/needs/kinks and honestly as far as I’m concerned size has got sod all to do with it. It’s how a guy makes me feel in his company and that starts from first messages and his profile. My first thought is if that’s the level of effort (usually a lack of) he puts into his profile to try and attract someone, what’s the level of effort when it comes to a play date. Fab takes time, it’s not a quick and easy sex sight! | |||
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"Guys it's less of an issue about cock size and more the fact that you're insecure as fuck which is a massive turn off. Anyway, my meets have only been the result of women messaging me. Most of my own messages fall on deaf ears
You're obviously big enough for fab couples, so that's why you get messages and don't have to do any work to get meets .
It's certainly not insecurity. I was happy enough with my small cock until I found out how much expectation there is for size on here
Wow! What a way to pigeon while every couple or single female in here! Yes there are some who specifically look for the big cock but that is no different to men who go for bbw.. we are all in here for our own likes/wants/needs/kinks and honestly as far as I’m concerned size has got sod all to do with it. It’s how a guy makes me feel in his company and that starts from first messages and his profile. My first thought is if that’s the level of effort (usually a lack of) he puts into his profile to try and attract someone, what’s the level of effort when it comes to a play date. Fab takes time, it’s not a quick and easy sex sight!"What constitutes a lack of effort on a profile? Assuming he has pics, of course | |||
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"Don't listen to these people, they're talking nonsense. If you're verified, out up a couple of huge cock pics and watch the views, winks and messages begging for meets roll in. They'll contest it, but try it and you'll see I'm right That doesn't mean men with average or below average size penises don't meet people. Do you really believe all the verified men on here have big penises? He's had 11 meets by 9 people. I do believe hes just trolling Oh, I don't see his problem then, unless they were all socials." If none of them went anywhere maybe he is a common denominator in that situation? | |||
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"Whys it so hard for a decent genuine person to get replies I don't get it " You got a lot of replies on this thread. So take this as an example, maybe you just need to ask the right question to the right person at the right time and boom, loads of interaction.
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" You don't have to be modest around small guys like me, man, I know how this site works. I'm sure your inbox is rammed with couples and singles dying to meet you after seeing your size. Just some of us aren't so lucky to be hung for this site I’ve had enough of this. It was the OP’s first thread. He is new to the site and was seeking advice. YOU have made the whole thread completely about yourself as you do with most threads you comment on. The OP has now hidden his profile and will probably go unlos. You have been here for over a year and had numerous meets. The OP hasn’t had this opportunity. What are you getting out of this? You’re an adult (apparently) Grow the hell up!" I think we need to make a collective effort to ignore this guy because he seems to be enjoying all this (negative) attention I can't believe it's 24 hours later and he's still on the forums obsessing over the size of his dick | |||
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" Oh god yes! Men like to chat but when I try to arrange it’s nothing but excuses or ghosting… I haven’t tasted another man’s cum in months "It’s easy to chat on here, and like you, I question if anyone follows through with all the flirtatiousness, I’m still waiting to find out  | |||
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"Is it just me that thinks this guy is getting some kind of pleasure about talking about how much bigger other guys are than him? I’m not sure if he wants people to agree or tell him he’s not as small as he thinks "Defo not you Ar this point I'm sure everyone think that's | |||
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"Is it just me that thinks this guy is getting some kind of pleasure about talking about how much bigger other guys are than him? I’m not sure if he wants people to agree or tell him he’s not as small as he thinks
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"Is it just me that thinks this guy is getting some kind of pleasure about talking about how much bigger other guys are than him? I’m not sure if he wants people to agree or tell him he’s not as small as he thinks
Defo not you
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Yeah seems he just wants attention "Don’t most of us?
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" Oh god yes! Men like to chat but when I try to arrange it’s nothing but excuses or ghosting… I haven’t tasted another man’s cum in months
It’s easy to chat on here, and like you, I question if anyone follows through with all the flirtatiousness, I’m still waiting to find out
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" Oh god yes! Men like to chat but when I try to arrange it’s nothing but excuses or ghosting… I haven’t tasted another man’s cum in months
It’s easy to chat on here, and like you, I question if anyone follows through with all the flirtatiousness, I’m still waiting to find out
If I like someone, I'd never miss an opportunity to meet them, even if it's just for a drink.
I can't understand the people that don't. "Oh yes. I completely agree, if someone wants to meet you, say yes or no. And turn up when you say you will. It’s easy. | |||
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" OP, again, this is nonsense to condescend those of us with small dicks. Put up some big dick pics and watch what happens What is your problem? Don’t tell me I’m talking nonsense. Research the threads for yourself or are your comments simply aimed at getting people to look at your profile. You are not helping the OP at all." Green arrow | |||
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"Whys it so hard for a decent genuine person to get replies I don't get it the fact you have no verifications no photos you don't say where you live or what you are looking for or your likes etc it's not surprising. And you have hidden your profile ..Good luck Unfortunately he’s hidden his profile due to one guy on here completely derailing his first thread on the forums. Hopefully the OP won’t be completely put off
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His profile was hidden before I said anything, and the replies were on topic, nothing was derailed.
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" I think we need to make a collective effort to ignore this guy because he seems to be enjoying all this (negative) attention I can't believe it's 24 hours later and he's still on the forums obsessing over the size of his dick " You’re absolutely right. Viv | |||
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"Hmm. Read this so had to stick my tuppence worth in. Recently attended a private party, a guy there had been invited to join in by his then girlfriend. He had the biggest chopper any of us had ever seen! Thing is, that's all there was to him. He was a twat, really pushy, and acted like a right dick after. Banned by the hostess and blocked by everyone there. So OP, don't listen. The cock don't maketh the man! (ps average size here and been named "West Wales premier swordsman
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"Hmm. Read this so had to stick my tuppence worth in. Recently attended a private party, a guy there had been invited to join in by his then girlfriend. He had the biggest chopper any of us had ever seen! Thing is, that's all there was to him. He was a twat, really pushy, and acted like a right dick after. Banned by the hostess and blocked by everyone there. So OP, don't listen. The cock don't maketh the man! (ps average size here and been named "West Wales premier swordsman
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" We however are simply up our own arse cause we’re hot x"Bah hah haaaaaa
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" Although... losing a couple of pints of blood that should be going the brain though? That's bound to have an effect on the capacity for rational thinking surely? I bet someone's done a PhD study on that "Worth it for all the increased interest and meets you'd get, though .
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"Hmm. Read this so had to stick my tuppence worth in. Recently attended a private party, a guy there had been invited to join in by his then girlfriend. He had the biggest chopper any of us had ever seen! Thing is, that's all there was to him. He was a twat, really pushy, and acted like a right dick after. Banned by the hostess and blocked by everyone there. So OP, don't listen. The cock don't maketh the man! (ps average size here and been named "West Wales premier swordsman
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??? so only idiots have big cocks ??? is that the message ??"The message was having a big cock isn't all that people are interested in. The sad thing that it wasn't a point even mentionned by the guy asking for advise. It was the chap with the smaller than average dick who took over the thread and dominated the remainder of the thread. Such a shame that this is what happened and the OP has now retreated and hidden his profile . I think it's time to stop discussing penis size so the chap trolling doesn't get any more attention . Green arrow shows its his favourite subject and doesn't help the OP at all. | |||
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