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What are some of the things that really really annoy you about this lifestyle????.
I'll go first,, when you put someone on your blocklist and they set up a new account and come right back to you, with the exact same attitude that won them their place on the blocklist in the first place  haha
Second for us is,,
Alot of people presume as your a couple the hubby is a cuckhold!!! No the wife is a greedy bugger lol |
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Can be applied to many situations on Fab, but people just making assumptions. Although the worst one for us is “so when are you guys free?” when we’ve never actually agreed to a meet. Always awkward. |
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Guys who say they want to meet us both for bi action but have themselves down as straight on their profile.
Guys, cut out the bullsh*t. Unless you're declaring yourself as bi-curious at the very least you're not getting a meet because you're clearly just trying to get to the lady of the couple.
And besides, even if you did get a meet with us, my good lady would want a good mm show before she joins in, so unless you're genuinely bi you're wasting your time and ours. |
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"Discreet/discrete.
Oh god, it’s painful."
I've even seen discreed.
People who blatantly don't read the profile and get offended when you politely decline.
Constantly being invited to people's hotels. |
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By *yronMan
over a year ago
grangemouth |
"Guys who say they want to meet us both for bi action but have themselves down as straight on their profile.
Guys, cut out the bullsh*t. Unless you're declaring yourself as bi-curious at the very least you're not getting a meet because you're clearly just trying to get to the lady of the couple.
And besides, even if you did get a meet with us, my good lady would want a good mm show before she joins in, so unless you're genuinely bi you're wasting your time and ours."
Ah yes, the same ones who want a BJ, but won't so much as touch your cock in return. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate it when single guys who kid on that they are a couple x everytime you ask were the Mrs is she's either working night shift or sleeping xx that's after they ask for some private horny pics and videos x i hope that im not the only one to get caught out with that old chestnut x  |
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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago
Iceland, but Aldi is closer.. |
"I hate it when single guys who kid on that they are a couple x everytime you ask were the Mrs is she's either working night shift or sleeping xx that's after they ask for some private horny pics and videos x i hope that im not the only one to get caught out with that old chestnut x "
Oih, the missus is still waiting for that video you promised.. send it quick so she can watch it when she gets home from her nightshift.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys who say they want to meet us both for bi action but have themselves down as straight on their profile.
Guys, cut out the bullsh*t. Unless you're declaring yourself as bi-curious at the very least you're not getting a meet because you're clearly just trying to get to the lady of the couple.
And besides, even if you did get a meet with us, my good lady would want a good mm show before she joins in, so unless you're genuinely bi you're wasting your time and ours.
Ah yes, the same ones who want a BJ, but won't so much as touch your cock in return."
Would you let em flip you over? |
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By *yronMan
over a year ago
grangemouth |
"Guys who say they want to meet us both for bi action but have themselves down as straight on their profile.
Guys, cut out the bullsh*t. Unless you're declaring yourself as bi-curious at the very least you're not getting a meet because you're clearly just trying to get to the lady of the couple.
And besides, even if you did get a meet with us, my good lady would want a good mm show before she joins in, so unless you're genuinely bi you're wasting your time and ours.
Ah yes, the same ones who want a BJ, but won't so much as touch your cock in return.
Would you let em flip you over? "
Nope. |
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1) people who don't read the profile properly before contacting us, Mrs will not meet single men alone
2) messages that say fancy a f**k then? before they say hello and ask how are you?
3) rudeness and disrespect, because manners and kindness cost nothing and we won't be spoken to or treated like rubbish by anyone for any reason
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By (user no longer on site)
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"1) people who don't read the profile properly before contacting us, Mrs will not meet single men alone
2) messages that say fancy a f**k then? before they say hello and ask how are you?
3) rudeness and disrespect, because manners and kindness cost nothing and we won't be spoken to or treated like rubbish by anyone for any reason
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Excactly x great comment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys who say they want to meet us both for bi action but have themselves down as straight on their profile.
Guys, cut out the bullsh*t. Unless you're declaring yourself as bi-curious at the very least you're not getting a meet because you're clearly just trying to get to the lady of the couple.
And besides, even if you did get a meet with us, my good lady would want a good mm show before she joins in, so unless you're genuinely bi you're wasting your time and ours.
Ah yes, the same ones who want a BJ, but won't so much as touch your cock in return.
Would you let em flip you over?
Nope."
One degree of acceptance is OK but the other is not. Seems hypocritical to judge. Best to have the chat about boundaries before hand so nones dissapointed or expected to do more than their comfortable with surely? |
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By *yronMan
over a year ago
grangemouth |
"Guys who say they want to meet us both for bi action but have themselves down as straight on their profile.
Guys, cut out the bullsh*t. Unless you're declaring yourself as bi-curious at the very least you're not getting a meet because you're clearly just trying to get to the lady of the couple.
And besides, even if you did get a meet with us, my good lady would want a good mm show before she joins in, so unless you're genuinely bi you're wasting your time and ours.
Ah yes, the same ones who want a BJ, but won't so much as touch your cock in return.
Would you let em flip you over?
Nope.
One degree of acceptance is OK but the other is not. Seems hypocritical to judge. Best to have the chat about boundaries before hand so nones dissapointed or expected to do more than their comfortable with surely?"
If someone says that they're bi, but isn't interested in reciprocating, then I'm not interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys who say they want to meet us both for bi action but have themselves down as straight on their profile.
Guys, cut out the bullsh*t. Unless you're declaring yourself as bi-curious at the very least you're not getting a meet because you're clearly just trying to get to the lady of the couple.
And besides, even if you did get a meet with us, my good lady would want a good mm show before she joins in, so unless you're genuinely bi you're wasting your time and ours.
Ah yes, the same ones who want a BJ, but won't so much as touch your cock in return.
Would you let em flip you over?
Nope.
One degree of acceptance is OK but the other is not. Seems hypocritical to judge. Best to have the chat about boundaries before hand so nones dissapointed or expected to do more than their comfortable with surely?
If someone says that they're bi, but isn't interested in reciprocating, then I'm not interested. "
That's fair if that's a boundary, some guys get off giving head and aren't that fussed about getting it. Some guys too and others bottom! I'm just saying that those considerations shouldn't be a surprise for anyone in the middle of a scene.
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By *yronMan
over a year ago
grangemouth |
"Guys who say they want to meet us both for bi action but have themselves down as straight on their profile.
Guys, cut out the bullsh*t. Unless you're declaring yourself as bi-curious at the very least you're not getting a meet because you're clearly just trying to get to the lady of the couple.
And besides, even if you did get a meet with us, my good lady would want a good mm show before she joins in, so unless you're genuinely bi you're wasting your time and ours.
Ah yes, the same ones who want a BJ, but won't so much as touch your cock in return.
Would you let em flip you over?
Nope.
One degree of acceptance is OK but the other is not. Seems hypocritical to judge. Best to have the chat about boundaries before hand so nones dissapointed or expected to do more than their comfortable with surely?
If someone says that they're bi, but isn't interested in reciprocating, then I'm not interested.
That's fair if that's a boundary, some guys get off giving head and aren't that fussed about getting it. Some guys too and others bottom! I'm just saying that those considerations shouldn't be a surprise for anyone in the middle of a scene.
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Funnily enough, I do talk to people before we fuck. |
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"Discreet/discrete.
Oh god, it’s painful.
I've even seen discreed.
People who blatantly don't read the profile and get offended when you politely decline.
Constantly being invited to people's hotels."
I'd only consider if breakfast was included. Red lines people. |
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over a year ago
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As an older guy I guess it is those who include the 18-99 age and yet have no intention of meeting anyone over say 40 - Clear from their verification list.
Why not decide it and stop any misunderstandings
I love to meet and hate wasting my time and theirs |
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"As an older guy I guess it is those who include the 18-99 age and yet have no intention of meeting anyone over say 40 - Clear from their verification list.
Why not decide it and stop any misunderstandings
I love to meet and hate wasting my time and theirs "
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"Guys who say they want to meet us both for bi action but have themselves down as straight on their profile.
Guys, cut out the bullsh*t. Unless you're declaring yourself as bi-curious at the very least you're not getting a meet because you're clearly just trying to get to the lady of the couple.
And besides, even if you did get a meet with us, my good lady would want a good mm show before she joins in, so unless you're genuinely bi you're wasting your time and ours."
I have straight on mine but have time to time sucked the odd guy, it’s when the mood calls for it with me, I wouldn’t even say that was curious |
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Oh look a wink , I’ll take a look ……very nice looking couple ,wink back ……(nothing for a couple of days)
Message them I guess , hi guys thanks for the wink your profile looks great, want to see faces and talk about maybe taking it to a social meet or play ………..nothing  |
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"As an older guy I guess it is those who include the 18-99 age and yet have no intention of meeting anyone over say 40 - Clear from their verification list.
Why not decide it and stop any misunderstandings
I love to meet and hate wasting my time and theirs
Exactly this "
Double this |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
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People who share others private information is a massive pet peeve and those who feed into it are as bad.
Those who believe they are fab elite 
Rudeness is annoying but the block button solves that.
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1, I really hate being offered meets when we're not looking. It clearly says on profile that we always have a meet or statuts up when looking. Daily we get offers, and, or "wanna chat" see how we click. "No", cos it would of gone off the boil, or the diary dose not match.
2, We put a meet up for 2pm on a Tuedsay. We get bombarded with offers for, Thursday at 5pm, Tuesday at 10am ect. Why?, we've put a meet up, take whats on offer!
3, Others refering to me as "wife". We are in a long established relationship of 8 years, known each other for 13. I find it disrespectful that people assume I'm a wife.
4, cold call messages, where they bypass Mr. Sending me exsplict (spelling) messages of what they will do to me. Instant block. They can see it's a couples account. If you ignore Mr, you won't get in my knickers.
5, mesaages offering things we're not after. Biggest is " can I watch". Our profile title says " no just watchers". If we're out and looking we're out for extra. Not your live porn show. We don't mind watchers if we're in the middle of stuff. But not purley Vouyers. |
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People who are happy to watch me on cam but don't engage by chat, hide their profiles, and block all contact with me by gender/age filter. Rather hypocritical. |
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"I hate it when single guys who kid on that they are a couple x everytime you ask were the Mrs is she's either working night shift or sleeping xx that's after they ask for some private horny pics and videos x i hope that im not the only one to get caught out with that old chestnut x "
They definitely do Try really hard don't they  |
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"1, I really hate being offered meets when we're not looking. It clearly says on profile that we always have a meet or statuts up when looking. Daily we get offers, and, or "wanna chat" see how we click. "No", cos it would of gone off the boil, or the diary dose not match.
2, We put a meet up for 2pm on a Tuedsay. We get bombarded with offers for, Thursday at 5pm, Tuesday at 10am ect. Why?, we've put a meet up, take whats on offer!
3, Others refering to me as "wife". We are in a long established relationship of 8 years, known each other for 13. I find it disrespectful that people assume I'm a wife.
4, cold call messages, where they bypass Mr. Sending me exsplict (spelling) messages of what they will do to me. Instant block. They can see it's a couples account. If you ignore Mr, you won't get in my knickers.
5, mesaages offering things we're not after. Biggest is " can I watch". Our profile title says " no just watchers". If we're out and looking we're out for extra. Not your live porn show. We don't mind watchers if we're in the middle of stuff. But not purley Vouyers. "
Number 4 is a nightmare like whyyy ?? It's never going to happen save your breath mr lol x the male half just deletes them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Text speak, bad spelling and pushy people. "
Lots of people text speak, its why mobile phones started having text function so you could send short messeges without writing a whole book = text speak! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women who on there profile ask for guys to sendcface body cock pic when messaging but have none on there profile...
When on there interests they put something and when you ask them about it they say there not into it ...
Say they can travel.. but then always come up with a reason why they can't.
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"Discreet/discrete.
Oh god, it’s painful."
Descent also seems to be appearing with a speed which would be dangerous without a decent parachute.
I have no problem with god not taking a capital G in this context! |
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By *kmaleMan
over a year ago
Bedford |
Someone who reads a mail and does nothing with it.
I know that ladies and cpls get too many. Downside of a free site.
But just delete the message if you aren't interested or a polite 'no thanks'
Leaving it just read serves no purpose |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just had another of my pet peeves
Tell someone oh so nicely thay its a no and get the response
That's a shame
The most pointless reply ever "
Honestly, if someone takes the time to write back politely I'll thank them. Most don't even bother to open their messages; which suggests they should be narrowing their potential pool of prospects with a better profile. |
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By *bhbCouple
over a year ago
nottingham |
People assuming that because hb is a nurse that the uniform must be fun, she is extra horny etc.
Get peoples fantasy around nurses but often shows they haven't read the profile as we are both nurses!!
Not a big one but just a peeve. |
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Fakes who worm their way into your friends pics then make every excuse under the sun when you try to arrange a social.
Messages from folk claiming great interest then not logging back in for weeks on end (even months)
Those who can't read your messages WE'RE NOT INTERESTED IN CLUB MEETS Lol
Those who claim great, often repeated interest in meeting (or meeting again) yet communication is ALWAYS one way, full of excuses why they can't meet. If we don't message them, nothing ever appears.
Fake/misleading photos. We met a couple a month or two back, we couldn't recognise her at all 
When you request face pics of a couple and get just one of the male or female that is VERY blurred, wearing sunglasses, clearly an old holiday photo and so on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us it’s the following
1) Repeat messaging - just don’t do it. The worst is when they just follow up with “???” Which i assume is to bump it up your mailbox again. Instant delete usually.
2) Bad spelling & grammar, or “text speak” sorry there is nothing less attractive than an idiot.
3) People sending messages with either no photos attached or visible on their profile and no, 27 close up photos of your cock from marginally different angles do not count. Won’t ever bother to reply to these.
4) Guys only addressing the female half as if I’m not even there. We are a couples profile for a reason…
These are all tiny annoyances but really build up when you get 30 of them a day.
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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago
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"When people on the scene refer themselves as "professional".
Just a load of pretentious self proclaimed bollocks.
Maybe it's code for on the game?"
Nice one. Actually, there is a host of terms - often misused - such as "professional" or "discerning" that immediately have the "entitlement" alarm ringing. In short, anything that says "you're not good enough". |
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"Guys who say they want to meet us both for bi action but have themselves down as straight on their profile.
Guys, cut out the bullsh*t. Unless you're declaring yourself as bi-curious at the very least you're not getting a meet because you're clearly just trying to get to the lady of the couple.
And besides, even if you did get a meet with us, my good lady would want a good mm show before she joins in, so unless you're genuinely bi you're wasting your time and ours."
100% This |
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