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over a year ago
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If it helps any we block if we receive contact from people we're not interested in. Experience has shown us that simply deleting their message can result in abuse and harrasment.
Don't take it personally, just assume anything other than a friendly reply is a "thanks but no thanks" and move on.
Life's too short to worry about such matters. |
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"If it helps any we block if we receive contact from people we're not interested in. Experience has shown us that simply deleting their message can result in abuse and harrasment.
Don't take it personally, just assume anything other than a friendly reply is a "thanks but no thanks" and move on.
Life's too short to worry about such matters."
If they delete it that's fine I never message back
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I don't think you understand the point...
What I'm saying is we block as soon as we get contact from someone we're not interested in, be that a wink a message or even just a "who looked at me".
Don't take it personally and it's not as a result of your behaviour. |
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"I don't think you understand the point...
What I'm saying is we block as soon as we get contact from someone we're not interested in, be that a wink a message or even just a "who looked at me".
Don't take it personally and it's not as a result of your behaviour."
Yeah we used to do the exact same thing to be honest, until we realised there's a limit to how many people you can block, now we just save block for people who deserve a visit to the naughty step. |
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"If it helps any we block if we receive contact from people we're not interested in. Experience has shown us that simply deleting their message can result in abuse and harrasment.
Don't take it personally, just assume anything other than a friendly reply is a "thanks but no thanks" and move on.
Life's too short to worry about such matters."
We do the same, we block people we are not interested in. Otherwise, we find some mail us again asking “”why” !!
Just easier to add them to the block list  |
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"We don't reply to many... Frankly the state of some of the messages are crap.. Usually a copy and paste. A dick pic or hiya... Boring bye.
What do you want a book  "
Well put it this way, even if you msged us with a book then we wouldn't reply to you purely because your profile doesn't tell us anything about you, no pics, and very short profile text. |
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I do have a sneaking suspicion that quite a number of the couple's profiles I look at are single men enjoying other men perving over their wife. They've been on here a reasonable amount of time, have no verifications but regularly log in. That's not a sweeping generalisation, just something I've been wondering about. |
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"I do have a sneaking suspicion that quite a number of the couple's profiles I look at are single men enjoying other men perving over their wife. They've been on here a reasonable amount of time, have no verifications but regularly log in. That's not a sweeping generalisation, just something I've been wondering about."
I’m curious as to how a single man enjoys another man perving over his wife? If he has a wife then he’s not single surely??
Yes there are fake couples no doubt, but then there’s singles (both male and female) that are a little economical with the truth shall we say.
We haven’t blocked anyone, but then again we don’t give a flying fuck if you think we’re genuine or if we’re just a single bloke, we’re not here to win a popularity contest, for the most part if someone can’t read and digest what’s in a profile about peoples choices and preferences and then thinks that those choices and preferences don’t apply to them, then unlucky, your likely to get blocked or no response.
Maybe your just not the couples cup of tea and they block you, this also works the other way round of course. |
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"In sure most of the couple profiles are just single men
I've never been abusive or nasty
But I'm getting blocked left right and centre  "
But that's good if the block isn't it you don't want to meet a bloke do you. |
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Our profile states we are not after single guys but that does not mean Mrs does not enjoy the thought of you guys looking.. we only block those that are rude ..or sometimes a bit odd !!!.. but we rarely reply to a message.. but we are a genuine couple  |
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"We don't reply to many... Frankly the state of some of the messages are crap.. Usually a copy and paste. A dick pic or hiya... Boring bye.
What do you want a book
Well put it this way, even if you msged us with a book then we wouldn't reply to you purely because your profile doesn't tell us anything about you, no pics, and very short profile text."
Exactly profiles like that are boring. We just block them if people cant be bothered to write a short bio then we ain't interested. I suspect it's a I dont get meets so it's the couples fault culture. |
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Well put it this way, even if you msged us with a book then we wouldn't reply to you purely because your profile doesn't tell us anything about you, no pics, and very short profile text."
We get loads of messages from guys with no information/pictures on their profile, also a lot have been on the site for “over a year” and don’t have any verifications- So, it’s an instant block from us |
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"In sure most of the couple profiles are just single men
I've never been abusive or nasty
But I'm getting blocked left right and centre "
Why does you getting blocked suggest they are single men.
Many couples and Women simply block any guys they are not interested in.
That's more than likely why you are being blocked |
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Quite agree, to many ignore your requirements or tastes in what you are looking for. If guys took time to read your profile then they would know exactly what your are looking for. Too many get assy when you politely decline, only one course of action, block |
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"In sure most of the couple profiles are just single men
I've never been abusive or nasty
But I'm getting blocked left right and centre "
I actually think that the majority of couples are genuine.
Not responding doesn't mean they are fake, just not interested. |
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Unfortunately we block guys that have blatantly not read our profile and who message us, we used to reply to guys who didn't read what we've written to point this out but we just block now because they mostly get offended and sometimes nasty and its not worth our time to reply |
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"Unfortunately we block guys that have blatantly not read our profile and who message us, we used to reply to guys who didn't read what we've written to point this out but we just block now because they mostly get offended and sometimes nasty and its not worth our time to reply "
This... All day long... |
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"Will someone please tell me what OP stands for, I have asked before but got no reply ?
Original poster"
Thank you, it has mystified me for quite a while |
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"We don't reply to many... Frankly the state of some of the messages are crap.. Usually a copy and paste. A dick pic or hiya... Boring bye.
What do you want a book
Well put it this way, even if you msged us with a book then we wouldn't reply to you purely because your profile doesn't tell us anything about you, no pics, and very short profile text."
What the hell is wrong with you people?
Don't you want some spunk fun? |
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