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"seen closer magazine this week ??? mother takes son swinging, bumped into her last sunday in a club...............wrong or very wrong ????" ermmm how old is the son???? Takes him what - to meets or to clubs??? I find this very astonishing | |||
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"seen closer magazine this week ??? mother takes son swinging, bumped into her last sunday in a club...............wrong or very wrong ????" I'd have to read the article to make a decision. GOING to a club with a relative isn't so bad. I'm assuming the son doesn't have sex with his mother OR watch her having sex. If he's doing either then i'm inclined to say that society- in general - considers it wrong. | |||
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"i think its sick " I think it's made up. | |||
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"lifes rich tapestry ,,,,," ........... or pure fantasy. | |||
"well we were in a club a few months ago and got chatting as you do,lol. found out they had two sisters in and one of there daughters, brings a new meaning to keeping it in the family and yes they were playing together with males." Ok, now that's definitely weird. It's one thing to be at the same venue and not play anywhere near each other. Close relatives playing over the same person though is just odd. So glad it's not something I have to worry about. | |||
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"each 2 there own, but i wudnt even go swinging with my dog never mind my son, " Now thats a whole different topic! And one im sure i saw a video of in Amsterdam a few years back!
Back to the original topic tho - I have no kids but feel sick just thinking about it. Imagine the car ride home: Mother and daughter discussing the merits of the same guy they have just shagged. Lets hope they use condoms! | |||
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"My partners daughter goes to swinging clubs with us. They dont play together or even in the same room though." Your partner? You are on as a single man. Am I missing the point? | |||
"My partners daughter goes to swinging clubs with us. They dont play together or even in the same room though. Your partner? You are on as a single man. Am I missing the point?" maybe he has a partner who he goes to clubs with, but then fancies a fuck behind her back without her knowing | |||
"My partners daughter goes to swinging clubs with us. They dont play together or even in the same room though. Your partner? You are on as a single man. Am I missing the point? maybe he has a partner who he goes to clubs with, but then fancies a fuck behind her back without her knowing "hopefully not the daughter...... off to phone the editor of 'closer' another scoop coming up lol ....... | |||
"seen closer magazine this week ??? mother takes son swinging, bumped into her last sunday in a club...............wrong or very wrong ????" Wrong....so bloody Wrong | |||
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"the mum not actually physically swinging with son tho is she yuk. we got mother and daughter who go swinging together etc.," i think thats pretty bad too - just can't deal the concept | |||
so for me at least, knowing she is in a club where she is respected, is safe, and has many of my friends watching out for her well being is actually a bonus.
She still goes to the club with friends but no longer needs me to "hold her hand" of course so now she just telephones me in advance to see if I will be there, if I will be there she doesn't go (though in truth I generally am the one not to go when she wants to as I get more opporunity to get out than she does babysitters permitting etc)
So comments listened to but the main point for me is that not everything is always as it seems as reported in the press | |||
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A note of sanity amongst the OTT.
I suspect for all Jed's openness, he found it difficult to some degree.
There are many reasons and many variations that could apply to situations like this.
The idea of sexual contact between parent and child is a real no no, but knowledge is difficult ground and should be dealt with case by case.
Recently I was in a hot tub and a woman in the adjacent tub call out 'Mum' to another woman in the tub. I admit it was a real eye opener and everyone near surreptitiously had a dam good look!
But we're all weired so I for one am careful not to throw stones. | |||
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"Hi Ruby Broadly I a agree with you, for me its a no no. But my comment about OTT was in relation to the strong negative unqualified reactions, with no room for circumstance. This I find uncomfortable regardless of subject. And as Jed so adroitly pointed out, there are circumstances where may be acceptable to some. I do note from observation that mothers and daughters attending parties seems to happen occasionally (not just in weired male fantasies)." Thats what I thought you were saying was OTT. Personally I think being qualified as a parent is enough. Just the thought of the subject would turn most peoples stomachs,and I am guessing by the fact it is supposed to be being reported as a sensational story that they were not doing what Jed was doing and would there be many cases like Jeds anyway? He says himself it is because he worked there and knew how things worked that made his daughter ask him to hold their hands on entrance. If people were in a swinging club you would assume they were there to swing...so even though you might try and avoid each other, it might not always be possible and that as a parent is wrong for me. You are the second person to call me Ruby today, I like that name better | |||
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"Done similar and wonder if people believe I was wrong or right, it would be interesting to hear your comments when faced with the full facts, I haven't seen the full facts about this case so cannot decide if what she did was wrong or right - here is my story - and folks the story is true, I know I was that father. My daughter has always known about my swinging lifestyle, I have been swinging for around 9 years. She has always known about the club I use (Chameleons), she rang me one day and said that a couple of female friends and herself would like to visit he club but wanted me to accompany them to "hold thier hands" for thier first visit. On the given night they came to my house and we all trundled off to the club, membership formalities done, I showed them to the changing room then left the room while they got changed, then I took them on a tour of the club, introduced them to friends and the staff and we all returned to the bar for a drink. I showed them my spot at the bar (2 seats next to the door. opposite the loo and right by the alleyway leading to the laundry area, (I was staff so could use this area for a quick ciggie it being outside), I told them that this is where they would find me for the rest of the night and that if 2 of them fancied a jacuzzi or something else and one of them didn't then the "odd one out" could join me at the bar until the others had finished what they were doing. I pointed out that at no time during the evening would I venture upstairs or to the jacuzzi or any other area" which would put any of us in a position of embarrassment. Now the way I see it my daughter is 33 years old and can make her own mind up about sexual matters. She is a divorced, working single mother whose only other option for a night out might be to frequent the bars and nightclubs in Birmingham, notorious for fights, drug abuse, drink spiking and other such undesirable acts. If she should meet someone she likes she can either take them back to her home where my grandchildren live or go home to a strangers house so for me at least, knowing she is in a club where she is respected, is safe, and has many of my friends watching out for her well being is actually a bonus.
She still goes to the club with friends but no longer needs me to "hold her hand" of course so now she just telephones me in advance to see if I will be there, if I will be there she doesn't go (though in truth I generally am the one not to go when she wants to as I get more opporunity to get out than she does babysitters permitting etc)
So comments listened to but the main point for me is that not everything is always as it seems as reported in the press"now ive known your bloody years as you well know lol and i know your a decent guy and knowing someone does make it different to hearing about a stranger going to club with their kids, because if you dont know someone you always wonder what they really getting upto lol but having read your story and know you 100% well enough to know that your not the kid of guy that would go perving on their own kid i have to admit i still couldnt be in the same club as my own child, just the thought of total strangers groping one of my girls makes me feel quite bad, even tho its ok for them to grope me lol :D they my babies and will always be my babies no matter how old they are. My sister once asked me to take her to chameleons and i couldnt even do that, i dont want to see my sister dressed for sex, risk walking into a room on her, to me its just not right | |||
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"That's ok hun I appreciate your honesty, and as you say we have known each other long enough to be able to say such things, but it's the last time I come to your wedding ..... giggles "should bloody hope so too lol  | |||
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) could be a part of that. I'm assuming they wouldn't play together and would have their own boundaries in terms of what to discuss and being in the room together and that.
An older guy I play with every now and then was telling me about a young boy and his mother who had contacted him. The father had died, and they wanted him to come over and fuck the both of them... Now I'm all into "and it hurt none, do as ye will" and all that, but I for one would not want to get myself involved in that situation. Far too many issues being worked through there! | |||
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