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do you lookat who they have been with ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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ok so you get a message and you think mmmm ok looks good .. look at there profile and then read there veri's and then think no chance ie will you turn down a meet based on who the person has been with ??
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
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"ok so you get a message and you think mmmm ok looks good .. look at there profile and then read there veri's and then think no chance ie will you turn down a meet based on who the person has been with ??
asking for a friend "
Absolutely. Even people I have met before. If after meeting me I see that they will meet anything as long they have a pulse, it’s buh-bye from me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We always read the veris carefully and invariably they swing our decision one way or the another. It happens in real life, too. At a club we had our eyes on someone until we spotted them playing with a person we thought was a tad unclean. Put us right off. Shallow as fuck we are  |
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To be honest I don’t check the profile, although I do read the veris, it’s the person/couple I’m interested at the time that matters, I’m really not fussed why they met what’s his name 2 weeks ago, that’s their business. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We always read the veris carefully and invariably they swing our decision one way or the another. It happens in real life, too. At a club we had our eyes on someone until we spotted them playing with a person we thought was a tad unclean. Put us right off. Shallow as fuck we are "
This sounds like me .Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, I usually check out the guys that she's met, mainly to check out cock size, if she's met a string of guys and they all have massive wangers then it's a no from me. |
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Absolutely, 100% I would turn down depending on who, how many they've been with. Sex is sex I agree but also I don't believe just because you're on a site like this people should just fuck around. I'm personally attracted to people who haven't fucked half the planet and definitely wouldn't wish to be a notch for someone. Yuk. This is why I don't meet a lot of people in comparison to the amount of offers i receive daily because you never know....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ok so you get a message and you think mmmm ok looks good .. look at there profile and then read there veri's and then think no chance ie will you turn down a meet based on who the person has been with ??
asking for a friend "
Yes I have turned away some good looking blokes on here due to who they have been with, has shocked me sometimes what I have seen with who goes with who.
Private notes can be a lifesaver, as some of them do not display the veris but I stumbled across their veris elsewhere on profiles I definitely would not go with, then added warning notes. If you get put off by who shags what, then get in the habit of private notes. |
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By *r_G_SPMan
over a year ago
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Some people do tend to worry too much on this site. Just be cool. Some will always find fault with anyone.
I’ve heard it all in my time on fabs. It can be too many varies, not enough recent ones, wrong people, or even that I have one from a man. Unfortunately they are no longer on the site. It was from a couple who happened to have a single profile.
Just try and enjoy what there is to enjoy here. Yes the odds aren’t great but for every ten people that don’t fancy you there has to be one that does.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Possibly, but only really if I'm looking for men. If they claim to be straight but have sexual veris from men or TVs then I'd avoid."
Totally your choice of course, I’m interested to know what puts you off meeting bisexual guys? Seems to be quite commonn. |
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"Possibly, but only really if I'm looking for men. If they claim to be straight but have sexual veris from men or TVs then I'd avoid.
Totally your choice of course, I’m interested to know what puts you off meeting bisexual guys? Seems to be quite commonn."
Personal choice.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Possibly, but only really if I'm looking for men. If they claim to be straight but have sexual veris from men or TVs then I'd avoid.
Totally your choice of course, I’m interested to know what puts you off meeting bisexual guys? Seems to be quite commonn.
Personal choice.... "
I understand that, was asking if she would elaborate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. I have in the past. But purely because every woman was roughly a size 8.
I cant compete with that hahah"
You are a goddess, its you they can't compete with. |
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"Possibly, but only really if I'm looking for men. If they claim to be straight but have sexual veris from men or TVs then I'd avoid.
Totally your choice of course, I’m interested to know what puts you off meeting bisexual guys? Seems to be quite commonn.
Personal choice....
I understand that, was asking if she would elaborate"
It's the dishonesty that is off putting I think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Possibly, but only really if I'm looking for men. If they claim to be straight but have sexual veris from men or TVs then I'd avoid.
Totally your choice of course, I’m interested to know what puts you off meeting bisexual guys? Seems to be quite commonn.
Personal choice....
I understand that, was asking if she would elaborate
It's the dishonesty that is off putting I think."
That’s fair enough - dishonesty is a unattractive trait. Was wondering if it was more about not wanting to meet people who are attracted to both men and women, as I’ve seen a lot of people say male bisexuality puts them off. |
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"Possibly, but only really if I'm looking for men. If they claim to be straight but have sexual veris from men or TVs then I'd avoid.
Totally your choice of course, I’m interested to know what puts you off meeting bisexual guys? Seems to be quite commonn.
Personal choice....
I understand that, was asking if she would elaborate
It's the dishonesty that is off putting I think.
That’s fair enough - dishonesty is a unattractive trait. Was wondering if it was more about not wanting to meet people who are attracted to both men and women, as I’ve seen a lot of people say male bisexuality puts them off."
It’s personal choice... that’s the bottom line, it’s been done to death a hundred times over before, just do a quick forum search, you’ll get all the answers you will ever need. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ok so you get a message and you think mmmm ok looks good .. look at there profile and then read there veri's and then think no chance ie will you turn down a meet based on who the person has been with ??
asking for a friend "
If I’d got to the point of wanting to meet them, no, probably not. But Veri’s can be a turn on, or a turn off for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Possibly, but only really if I'm looking for men. If they claim to be straight but have sexual veris from men or TVs then I'd avoid.
Totally your choice of course, I’m interested to know what puts you off meeting bisexual guys? Seems to be quite commonn."
I just don't like the idea of being with men who've had sex with other men. I don't have anything against bi men personally, it's just a turn off for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes definitely. And as another lady mentioned if all the veris from size 8 women, I run a mile as don't see why they would have any interest in me. Have had issue with another female talking about me to potential meets so if a guy starts chatting and she has verified him. I avoid. Don't need the grief. |
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Yep. We do. Mainly to see what their standards are. If they like having sex with people we think are unattractive then we can't see the point of thinking about having sex with them. Any hole isn't a goal unless you're 15. Or unattractive, obviously.
And yes, if their friends/veris are from TVs or bi men, I'm sure that's lovely for them. It's not for us.
And..sit and wait for bi men to call us 'passive aggressive,' which seems to be newspeak for daring not to want to have sex with bi men and TVs. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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I can see why people think there's a benefit to browsing through veris but don't forget - not every meet leaves one, not every sexual encounter will happen via Fab and not every 'straight' guy has never dabbled with another guy.
Use them how you wish but if it's a major factor in decision making you could easily be meeting people you wouldn't want to.
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"I can see why people think there's a benefit to browsing through veris but don't forget - not every meet leaves one, not every sexual encounter will happen via Fab and not every 'straight' guy has never dabbled with another guy.
Use them how you wish but if it's a major factor in decision making you could easily be meeting people you wouldn't want to.
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Stop talking sense and let the poor delusioned live in their Fab verification bubble. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always look at verifications but equally will ignore them. Yes if they have been with the whole site then I'd avoid them but equally because someone has said they are great in bed , doesn't make it so. This totally depends on the physical attraction and vibe between people and everyone is different. People only show you what they want you to see. We all judge a book by its cover. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Yes but more as I’m a nosey mare and I’m happy when I see my friends on the veris as I trust their opinion"
The one thing I like about the veri system is that. If someone I know well has met somebody whose profile I stumble across then I can pretty much 100% be certain they're genuine.
As opposed to taking the word of a complete stranger.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ok so you get a message and you think mmmm ok looks good .. look at there profile and then read there veri's and then think no chance ie will you turn down a meet based on who the person has been with ??
asking for a friend "
Yes most definitely. I had one potential meet but unfortunately he met a lady I'd heard rumours about as in she takes it bare-back. I believe the rumours to be true as it came from a good fab friend of mine who had met her & he made a quick escape 
Also this lady had harassed me in the past on here & also when I'd display a new verification she would endlessly mail my new meets  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ok so you get a message and you think mmmm ok looks good .. look at there profile and then read there veri's and then think no chance ie will you turn down a meet based on who the person has been with ??
asking for a friend
Yes most definitely. I had one potential meet but unfortunately he met a lady I'd heard rumours about as in she takes it bare-back. I believe the rumours to be true as it came from a good fab friend of mine who had met her & he made a quick escape
Also this lady had harassed me in the past on here & also when I'd display a new verification she would endlessly mail my new meets "
noooooo....... really  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ok so you get a message and you think mmmm ok looks good .. look at there profile and then read there veri's and then think no chance ie will you turn down a meet based on who the person has been with ??
asking for a friend
Yes most definitely. I had one potential meet but unfortunately he met a lady I'd heard rumours about as in she takes it bare-back. I believe the rumours to be true as it came from a good fab friend of mine who had met her & he made a quick escape
Also this lady had harassed me in the past on here & also when I'd display a new verification she would endlessly mail my new meets
noooooo....... really "
Yes Very True, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ok so you get a message and you think mmmm ok looks good .. look at there profile and then read there veri's and then think no chance ie will you turn down a meet based on who the person has been with ??
asking for a friend
Yes most definitely. I had one potential meet but unfortunately he met a lady I'd heard rumours about as in she takes it bare-back. I believe the rumours to be true as it came from a good fab friend of mine who had met her & he made a quick escape
Also this lady had harassed me in the past on here & also when I'd display a new verification she would endlessly mail my new meets
noooooo....... really
Yes Very True, "
well to be fair i have heard this a few times myself  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. I have in the past. But purely because every woman was roughly a size 8.
I cant compete with that hahah"
Haha I do this!! Who they play with is their business but I have Small size issues I wanna feel comfortable that they will fancy me.
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"ok so you get a message and you think mmmm ok looks good .. look at there profile and then read there veri's and then think no chance ie will you turn down a meet based on who the person has been with ??
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Absolutely! One of the first things I check! |
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"We always read the veris carefully and invariably they swing our decision one way or the another. It happens in real life, too. At a club we had our eyes on someone until we spotted them playing with a person we thought was a tad unclean. Put us right off. Shallow as fuck we are "
It's not shallow at all, it's your choice. "Better no play in a club, than regretting fucking a minger next day" was great advice I was given once |
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"ok so you get a message and you think mmmm ok looks good .. look at there profile and then read there veri's and then think no chance ie will you turn down a meet based on who the person has been with ??
asking for a friend "
No, but... It's sometimes worth checking their verifications for other potential victims though.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ok so you get a message and you think mmmm ok looks good .. look at there profile and then read there veri's and then think no chance ie will you turn down a meet based on who the person has been with ??
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No, but... It's sometimes worth checking their verifications for other potential victims though. "
victims.... omg.... what do you do to them? |
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