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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all
Just a question for the ladies.
Why after being friends on here and chatting for a while and get on well do I not hear from them again or get blocked? This has happened too many times to me"
naming and shaming is clever it makes u seem bitter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having read your status, I wouldn't be suprised if you appear on a lot more block lists from now on.
If someone blocks you, just accept it as one of those things, but to put it on your status is just plain wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not mean to name n shame, put it up invade she did it by accident.
As far as I know I've not asked any stupid question
Was going allow a she want ready to meet yet"
As you are blocked she can't see your profile anyway so the status will only do you harm when others read it and instantly block you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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sometimes i block people if they are beinig a bit annoying and if i am in bad mood, then i unblock them the next day. some men start of all polite and nice, then they start getting a bit cheeky or rude. they might just say something then i think they arent really my type after all. i prefer not to chat with men for too long before meeting them, do you think maybe you were being just a bit too keen because that could put someone off. |
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"sometimes i block people if they are beinig a bit annoying and if i am in bad mood, then i unblock them the next day. some men start of all polite and nice, then they start getting a bit cheeky or rude. they might just say something then i think they arent really my type after all. i prefer not to chat with men for too long before meeting them, do you think maybe you were being just a bit too keen because that could put someone off. "
I imagine one message tonight wasnt too keen!
I asked for a meet she wasnt ready, i respected that and we chatted a fair bit.
Hopefully she may have been in a mood as you say and unblock me tomorrow. Fingers crossed! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"sometimes i block people if they are beinig a bit annoying and if i am in bad mood, then i unblock them the next day. some men start of all polite and nice, then they start getting a bit cheeky or rude. they might just say something then i think they arent really my type after all. i prefer not to chat with men for too long before meeting them, do you think maybe you were being just a bit too keen because that could put someone off.
I imagine one message tonight wasnt too keen!
I asked for a meet she wasnt ready, i respected that and we chatted a fair bit.
Hopefully she may have been in a mood as you say and unblock me tomorrow. Fingers crossed!"
after your status mmmmm  |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
Cyprus |
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Nevermind, im used to it now  just don't like getting my hopes up then broken"
So because someone spoke to you and you got your hopes up, she should have met you?
Do you have any idea what swinging is about? Or do you think that just because someone shows an interest, she must be 'up for it' and an easy lay? |
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No I dont think just because we spoke we would meet. What I am saying is after a good chat she just blocked me, no warning no ifs buts or goodbye - no manners.
Im not posting anymore as its just gonna provoke bitching and Im being stereotyped as a 'Just because we chatted we have to meet' guy |
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Nevermind, im used to it now just don't like getting my hopes up then broken
So because someone spoke to you and you got your hopes up, she should have met you?
Do you have any idea what swinging is about? Or do you think that just because someone shows an interest, she must be 'up for it' and an easy lay?"
Did he say anything remotely like that - we have no idea what they said to eachother or how well that were getting on - he said he had asked to meet and she said no - so he was happy to chat. But if she's blocked him then he just has to accept that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the problem is. its only one side of the story
i'm not bothered i think u are wasting far too much time thinking about why she blocked you etc, maybe she decided you didn't fit her criteria s anymore!
someone else posted shit happens! and it does
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
Cyprus |
"No I dont think just because we spoke we would meet. What I am saying is after a good chat she just blocked me, no warning no ifs buts or goodbye - no manners.
Im not posting anymore as its just gonna provoke bitching and Im being stereotyped as a 'Just because we chatted we have to meet' guy"
I'm not bitching, actually asking a question.
So what if she blocked you. Its HER choice and, annoying to you it might be but the fact that you are talking about it on here is probably an indication as to why she did.
As for my comment about you 'expecting' a meet. YOU mentioned getting your hopes up........ there's an answer to that.
Until someone actually arranges to meet you, date, time, place etc,.... don't get your hopes up. If it goes wrong after that, then yes... I would expect you to be disappointed.
however, swinging isn't like dating, there's lots of ifs, buts, wrong timings, crap days etc to take into consideration. Meets don't materialise for whatever reason or speaking never gets futher than just that....... speaking.
With dating you can near enough guarantee that regardless of what goes wrong, you will speak on the phone or see each other....... because sex isn't on the top of the menu.
Seriously, if you get disappointed enough to start a thread about it, you need to change your mindset where swinging is concerned.
And I say that to all the single men who have too many high hopes about these sites. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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High hopes!! I hate relationships but still want sex... Only so much u can do with urself..... Yes i know i could go out and get some but then im at risk of them thinking its gonna be a relationship... Sites like this are useful as sex is whats on offer with hopefully friendship and not much else.....heaven |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
there are "two sides" but the side you put up doesn't really do you any favours...no offence... the way you have reacted to being blocked is to put up a thread.. then put up the update that you reomved....doesn't help any case you had for any sympathy....
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By *obletonMan
over a year ago
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""And I say that to all the single men who have too many high hopes about these sites."
maybe this needs to be on terms and conditions on the site  "
I put it far better:
The chances are you will NEVER get a meet |
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By *obletonMan
over a year ago
A Home Among The Woodland Creatures |
One other point - this one for the OP specifically.
You probably don't actually know if you've been blocked or not.
If I recall correctly, the page you are taken to if you attempt to view the profile of someone who has blocked you looks exactly the same as the page you would see if that user has had their profile suspended. |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
Rushden |
"High hopes!! I hate relationships but still want sex... Only so much u can do with urself..... Yes i know i could go out and get some but then im at risk of them thinking its gonna be a relationship... Sites like this are useful as sex is whats on offer with hopefully friendship and not much else.....heaven "
And you are just the kind of single guy who we were talking about on another thread! You are NOT a swinger! Yours and the OP's mindset is all wrong!  |
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Nevermind, im used to it now just don't like getting my hopes up then broken
So because someone spoke to you and you got your hopes up, she should have met you?
Do you have any idea what swinging is about? Or do you think that just because someone shows an interest, she must be 'up for it' and an easy lay?"
male entitlement again on here...Op maybe she blocked u because of your attitude. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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I block people because they are either too persistent, have said something of mind shattering stupidity, it is obvious the conversation has reached a natural end (and they are 300 miles away) or if I stray onto a profile that says something like 'under NO circumstances would we entertain meeting a CD and if we knew that one was within 500 miles of us, we would sell up and move home.'
Getting blocked isn't the end of the world. Standing on a plug in barefeet then stubbing your toe as you dance about the room is probably worse. Maybe.
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"No I dont think just because we spoke we would meet. What I am saying is after a good chat she just blocked me, no warning no ifs buts or goodbye - no manners.
Im not posting anymore as its just gonna provoke bitching and Im being stereotyped as a 'Just because we chatted we have to meet' guy"
Could just be that you're not very good at taking a hint? |
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