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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
Cyprus |
"I have plenty of guys messaging me but not girls? where am i going wrong?? any help would be gratfuly apreciated. many thanks  "
Why would any woman want to message you?
Your profile is pathetic, your pictures blurred and there is nothing about either that stand out.
Look at your profile logically.
Would YOU message YOU or reply to YOU? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"You will be waiting till hell freezes over for woman to message you...they dont need to initiate contact.
I do! 
ahh but you are exceptional in every way  "
Only cos hell would freeze over if I had to wait for guys to message me. Its like tumbles, I'm telling ya! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You will be waiting till hell freezes over for woman to message you...they dont need to initiate contact.
I do! "
Good for you girl no need to pick from only the ones who mail you you pick the ones you really want. |
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"You will be waiting till hell freezes over for woman to message you...they dont need to initiate contact.
I do!
ahh but you are exceptional in every way
Only cos hell would freeze over if I had to wait for guys to message me. Its like tumbles, I'm telling ya!"
*words like strong intelligent women who know what they want scare most men wander across jems brain* |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i am messaging the ladys, but no response. but proberbly due to the way my profile was. hopfuly that would change now i nearly finished making a few tweeks |
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"You will be waiting till hell freezes over for woman to message you...they dont need to initiate contact.
I do!
Good for you girl no need to pick from only the ones who mail you you pick the ones you really want. "
Which is fair comment...but then what is the op doing to get noticed and stand out? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"You will be waiting till hell freezes over for woman to message you...they dont need to initiate contact.
I do!
ahh but you are exceptional in every way
Only cos hell would freeze over if I had to wait for guys to message me. Its like tumbles, I'm telling ya!
*words like strong intelligent women who know what they want scare most men wander across jems brain*"
LOL you're making me blush.  |
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"i am messaging the ladys, but no response. but proberbly due to the way my profile was. hopfuly that would change now i nearly finished making a few tweeks "
look at Rons profile...then look at yours...you say you will only message people who have read your profile...how could you tell? |
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"You will be waiting till hell freezes over for woman to message you...they dont need to initiate contact.
I do!
ahh but you are exceptional in every way
Only cos hell would freeze over if I had to wait for guys to message me. Its like tumbles, I'm telling ya!
*words like strong intelligent women who know what they want scare most men wander across jems brain*
LOL you're making me blush. "
mmmm i quite like the idea of making you flushed 
But seriously you know the amount of slut shaming and misogyny that lurks on here... |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"i am messaging the ladys, but no response. but proberbly due to the way my profile was. hopfuly that would change now i nearly finished making a few tweeks
look at Rons profile...then look at yours...you say you will only message people who have read your profile...how could you tell?"
Got to agree with this. To the OP, maybe have a look at other guys profiles and get some hints. But don't copy and paste the whole lot as thats just mean. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You will be waiting till hell freezes over for woman to message you...they dont need to initiate contact.
I do!
Good for you girl no need to pick from only the ones who mail you you pick the ones you really want.
Which is fair comment...but then what is the op doing to get noticed and stand out?"
Never got the bit that some women only pick from what on offer. Bit like going shopping and only looking at stuff in primark when there are lots of other shops. Nothing so queer as folk but what do i know.  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"You will be waiting till hell freezes over for woman to message you...they dont need to initiate contact.
I do!
ahh but you are exceptional in every way
Only cos hell would freeze over if I had to wait for guys to message me. Its like tumbles, I'm telling ya!
*words like strong intelligent women who know what they want scare most men wander across jems brain*
LOL you're making me blush.
mmmm i quite like the idea of making you flushed
But seriously you know the amount of slut shaming and misogyny that lurks on here..."
Saddenly far too much for a site like this. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"You will be waiting till hell freezes over for woman to message you...they dont need to initiate contact.
I do!
Good for you girl no need to pick from only the ones who mail you you pick the ones you really want.
Which is fair comment...but then what is the op doing to get noticed and stand out?
Never got the bit that some women only pick from what on offer. Bit like going shopping and only looking at stuff in primark when there are lots of other shops. Nothing so queer as folk but what do i know. "
Well I can't afford Gucci on my wages. |
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"You will be waiting till hell freezes over for woman to message you...they dont need to initiate contact.
I do!
ahh but you are exceptional in every way
Only cos hell would freeze over if I had to wait for guys to message me. Its like tumbles, I'm telling ya!
*words like strong intelligent women who know what they want scare most men wander across jems brain*
LOL you're making me blush.
mmmm i quite like the idea of making you flushed
But seriously you know the amount of slut shaming and misogyny that lurks on here...
Saddenly far too much for a site like this. "
its the old princess by day slut by night meme (which i hate), we both make it clear we are not going to flutter our eyelashes to get a meet...thankfully there are so many bi men on the site i dont have too, i wave kevs cock at them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You will be waiting till hell freezes over for woman to message you...they dont need to initiate contact.
I do!
Good for you girl no need to pick from only the ones who mail you you pick the ones you really want.
Which is fair comment...but then what is the op doing to get noticed and stand out?
Never got the bit that some women only pick from what on offer. Bit like going shopping and only looking at stuff in primark when there are lots of other shops. Nothing so queer as folk but what do i know.
Well I can't afford Gucci on my wages. "
Primark for the pair of us then Do Gucci do boxers? |
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"You will be waiting till hell freezes over for woman to message you...they dont need to initiate contact.
I do!
Good for you girl no need to pick from only the ones who mail you you pick the ones you really want.
Which is fair comment...but then what is the op doing to get noticed and stand out?
Never got the bit that some women only pick from what on offer. Bit like going shopping and only looking at stuff in primark when there are lots of other shops. Nothing so queer as folk but what do i know. "
its a time thing for many...here is an example from friday...we were at a house party, 5 couples and 2 single men...except they prooved to be duds...penrith hospital was having a busy night of sick relatives 
So i put up a meet today, waited to see what came in and got 2 lovely young men...i was even good and shared them 
i could have done a search but this was easier. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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perhaps your right, maybe i should put some more personality into my profile like others have done. now that hopfuly i have made it less clueless lol. but5 do people evere really read them? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"You will be waiting till hell freezes over for woman to message you...they dont need to initiate contact.
I do!
ahh but you are exceptional in every way
Only cos hell would freeze over if I had to wait for guys to message me. Its like tumbles, I'm telling ya!
*words like strong intelligent women who know what they want scare most men wander across jems brain*
LOL you're making me blush.
mmmm i quite like the idea of making you flushed
But seriously you know the amount of slut shaming and misogyny that lurks on here...
Saddenly far too much for a site like this.
its the old princess by day slut by night meme (which i hate), we both make it clear we are not going to flutter our eyelashes to get a meet...thankfully there are so many bi men on the site i dont have too, i wave kevs cock at them "
Its true - I always have more luck when I hook up with some poor unsuspecting male and pretend to be a couple. When they start asking his permission to shag me I may have to have words though! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"perhaps your right, maybe i should put some more personality into my profile like others have done. now that hopfuly i have made it less clueless lol. but5 do people evere really read them? "
I always read them. I even read the words before looking at pics(shocking I know). |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"You will be waiting till hell freezes over for woman to message you...they dont need to initiate contact.
I do!
Good for you girl no need to pick from only the ones who mail you you pick the ones you really want.
Which is fair comment...but then what is the op doing to get noticed and stand out?
Never got the bit that some women only pick from what on offer. Bit like going shopping and only looking at stuff in primark when there are lots of other shops. Nothing so queer as folk but what do i know.
Well I can't afford Gucci on my wages.
Primark for the pair of us then Do Gucci do boxers? "
No point in paying over the odds for something that won't be staying on that long. |
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"perhaps your right, maybe i should put some more personality into my profile like others have done. now that hopfuly i have made it less clueless lol. but5 do people evere really read them? "
women have been known to meet men on the strength of their profile alone
Remember its your advert |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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fair comment,will work more on my profile aswell then see where that gets me. but i thinks thats a task for tomorow. early start in the morning. but again thanks for the hints and tips all |
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By *AR1987Man
over a year ago
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"perhaps your right, maybe i should put some more personality into my profile like others have done. now that hopfuly i have made it less clueless lol. but5 do people evere really read them?
I always read them. I even read the words before looking at pics(shocking I know). "
Reading? What the deuce is this brand new concept?  |
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