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By (user no longer on site)
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Get to talking about fantasies, if she mentions threesomes etc drop it in or if you think the mood's right mention that you would like to try one or have enjoyed one in the past. If she's not interested, drop it and that's your lot!
If she's not interested, don't try to convince her it would be fun - if it's not for her it's not for her. If that's the case, you might want to consider deleting your profile...or not but that's for you and your conscience to decide. |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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"Hi what's the best way to introduce my girlfriend to the swinging scene?"
Tell her you have a single guy profile on here.......... if she doesn't knee you in the nuts and call you a bastard, ya in! |
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"Hi what's the best way to introduce my girlfriend to the swinging scene?
Tell her you have a single guy profile on here.......... if she doesn't knee you in the nuts and call you a bastard, ya in!"
Just spat my out lol |
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"Hi what's the best way to introduce my girlfriend to the swinging scene?
Tell her you have a single guy profile on here.......... if she doesn't knee you in the nuts and call you a bastard, ya in!"
You said it first 
OP say i try to shag women behind your back...you are free to pick up men too  |
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I agree with the general consensus, mention it in fantasies and talk about it - if she looks interested then you can fantasise mOre and more - that's how we started!
Key thing is do it together - even if you do the foot work ie looking on the web ( like you are) etc then you can talk to her more informed.
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Hi what's the best way to introduce my girlfriend to the swinging scene?"
I would say the same as Poisonivy.
I would also say we all had to start somewhere when first discussing this with the OH, I find it sad that swingers can't give advice of how they started.
Good luck anyway and let us know how you got on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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well as I wanted to start my new realtionship on an honest footing I told her what my little hobby was lol.
And she was very very interested !!!!! so I told her everything and she then confessed her little fantasy !!!!!
We are now in the process of seeing if we can turn her fantasy into a reality lol.
So in my case honesty was most definitely the best policy lol.
So try it you may be pleasantly surprised.....
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